Pissed off at Husband

[EtherealVocalist 0]

lol nothing easy about me

sister cassi, maybe you could switch off..that is have the car..monday..wednesday and friday one week..and he the other days etc....then he can get his business done on the days he ahs the car..and you could wear Depends on those days

I guess at that point i'd be so annoyed with him that I would say "Gimme your dammmmm car so I can get to work for goodness sakes!" Put your foot down and demand this from him - its way past the point of common sense.

hehe... While he's gone, you can change the locks on the doors - since he seems to love his car so much and wont part with it, he can also sleep in it for that matter lol

[cassi9879 20]

lol can't change the locks; we're in a rental

Darn....

I dare to ask... Is your broken car a German make? hehe

lol nope chevy

[cassi9879 20]

BTW Hardees' floor was sticky and they were low on toilet paper so we went to Taco Bell today.

[childress_london 3]

Sounds like a control issue to me. And BTW, any man I've ever been with that said he didn't want to work for anybody and had the dream to be "self employed" never amounted to anything. Self employed was just another word for too lazy to work.

[cassi9879 20]

Sounds like a control issue to me. And BTW, any man I've ever been with that said he didn't want to work for anybody and had the dream to be "self employed" never amounted to anything. Self employed was just another word for too lazy to work.

For some, yes self employed is to lazy to work. With the tax clients that I've seen, both with myself and with other preparers, that this is not the case for the vast majority.

[Peikko 1,575]

She said "will not work while 'dreaming of being' self employed". Actually getting off one's bum and doing it, creating a business and having to file tax returns as a result is slightly different, don't you think?

Edited March 18, 2009 by Madame Cleo

[cassi9879 20]

He again wouldn't let me take the car. He even tried to turn it off when I was in the driver's seat. I drove away with the door open and closed it after I was away.

[Nagishkaw 510]

Good for you! I agree with childress_london. Sounds very much like a control issue.

[almaty 19]

it is a control issue by a selfish man...who appears to need a lesson in maturity and respect

[cassi9879 20]

Who can teach such a man?

[almaty 19]

dr. dean at your service....

and dr. bosco, my burro assistant, to kick him in the nuts, if the keep up his behavior

[cassi9879 20]

I feel so hurt by it all and find it difficult to hold back tears.

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BTW Hardees' floor was sticky and they were low on toilet paper so we went to Taco Bell today.

taco bell gives u good sh1ts

He again wouldn't let me take the car. He even tried to turn it off when I was in the driver's seat. I drove away with the door open and closed it after I was away.

You missed a chance to run him over.

[almaty 19]

sister cassi, i know you are sadden by his behaviro..try and talk to him..about it....

[EtherealVocalist 0]

I feel so hurt by it all and find it difficult to hold back tears.

I simply could NOT live with a man that acts like that, you are married, its a team effort, he's not being reasonnable and helpful whatsoever! I would seriously put my foot down and communicate how much his behaviour dissapoints me! I know myself and would have probably said "You better knock that sh!t off otherwise you'll get your a$$ on the earliest plane back to Germany!" He's being very childish and unreasonnable.

Now, you are starting to see behavioral traits that will probably re-surface again in the relationship in the future - I hope that you can nip this selfishness and child like behaviour right at the bud cause I can forsee hardships later on...