Help! He played me....

[almaty 19]

my best to you sister...

[*Robert* 2]

You might not think of it as brave, but you are certainly being strong, which is also very admirable!

Good luck to you with your future, and I hope you have a smoother road ahead.

[bhajishah 4]

Mohamed, shame on you

change your name

may ALLAH ####### in your wheaties every morning

[almaty 19]

Mohamed, shame on you

change your name

may ALLAH ####### in your wheaties every morning

my sister cindi..the man is no Muslim.....a farce of a person

[bhajishah 4]

Yes brother Dean so it seems

ok well in that case

call momma in Egypt, tell them thier play boy not taking care his wife and is trying to be a show irl in Vegas

[almaty 19]

Yes brother Dean so it seems

ok well in that case

call momma in Egypt, tell them thier play boy not taking care his wife and is trying to be a show irl in Vegas

ggod advice as always sister cindi

[Aymerlu 3]

I am so sorry you are going through this. My thoughts and prayers are with you Jen.

Edited June 22, 2006 by Aymerlu

[Boiler 46,322]

The I-864 can only be cancelled:

If he leaves the Country.

If he dies

If he becomes a USC

If he completes 40 quarters of work for SS purposes.

Edited June 22, 2006 by Boiler

[diadromous mermaid 36]

The I-864 can only be cancelled:

If he leaves the Country.

If he dies

If he becomes a USC

If he completes 40 quarters of work for SS purposes.

Not wishing to be pedantic, but an I-864 isn't "cancelled". It is "satisfied" by completing 40 quarters of qualified SSA credits, or naturalisation, it is "invalidated" when an alien dies, or leaves the country and can on occasion "falls" or becomes unnecessary with a denied application to remove conditions, or when an already approved permanent resident status is rescinded.

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

The I-864 can only be cancelled:

If he leaves the Country.

If he dies

If he becomes a USC

If he completes 40 quarters of work for SS purposes.

Not wishing to be pedantic, but an I-864 isn't "cancelled". It is "satisfied" by completing 40 quarters of qualified SSA credits, or naturalisation, it is "invalidated" when an alien dies, or leaves the country and can on occasion "falls" or becomes unnecessary with a denied application to remove conditions, or when an already approved permanent resident status is rescinded.

Not wishing to be pedantic, yeah right

Good info, though Pedantic, but very good

[diadromous mermaid 36]

The I-864 can only be cancelled:

If he leaves the Country.

If he dies

If he becomes a USC

If he completes 40 quarters of work for SS purposes.

Not wishing to be pedantic, but an I-864 isn't "cancelled". It is "satisfied" by completing 40 quarters of qualified SSA credits, or naturalisation, it is "invalidated" when an alien dies, or leaves the country and can on occasion "falls" or becomes unnecessary with a denied application to remove conditions, or when an already approved permanent resident status is rescinded.

Not wishing to be pedantic, yeah right

Good info, though Pedantic, but very good

Sometimes I'm transparent and incorrigible

[*Robert* 2]

Not wishing to be pedantic, yeah right

Good info, though Pedantic, but very good

Sometimes I'm transparent and incorrigible

That doesn't make you a bad person though!

[gimygirl 0]

Sometimes I'm transparent and incorrigible

never admit that to ari!! he may get the idea that he is right about something!!

[jenprincess1 0]

I'd love to call momma in Egypt and tell her all and the truth. He'd be crushed at the thought of his mother being disappointed in him. Problem is.... she doesn't speak english.

His sister is in Sharm El Sheik (working) and is the only other person in the house who speaks english. There's no telling what he will tell her about us divorcing, etc.

Over there, if there's a divorce, it's assumed that the woman is at fault (no matter the circumstances) because she should have done more to make her husband happy and to make the marriage work. For instance, not argue with the husband.

Jen

You guys/gals are great!

Edited June 22, 2006 by jenprincess1

[diadromous mermaid 36]

I'd love to call momma in Egypt and tell her all and the truth. He'd be crushed at the thought of his mother being disappointed in him. Problem is.... she doesn't speak english.

His sister is in Sharm El Sheik (working) and is the only other person in the house who speaks english. There's no telling what he will tell her about us divorcing, etc.

Over there, if there's a divorce, it's assumed that the woman is at fault (no matter the circumstances) because she should have done more to make her husband happy and to make the marriage work. For instance, not argue with the husband.

Jen

You guys/gals are great!

On the slim chance that his mother doesn't already *know* him for the deceitful person that he really is, perhaps you could let her believe whatever she chooses. I have a feeling that anyone heartless enough inside to use you to gain residency has shown his true colours to his family in the past. They might not be a shocked at learning this than you expect.

Please bear in mind that one can look over all that has happened and look for the red flags, or see things now that might have caused you to wonder, but the truth of the matter is similar to an explanation I once heard that goes like this.

An arhitectural firm assured a Prison Warden that security systems and cell design with an eye to enhanced security would be its foremost concern and they'd make sure it was impossible to compromise, when receiving the bid for a new maximum security facility. The Warden said, "Yes, but it won't be possible to make anything that secure". "Oh, we assure you we will" the architect replied. At which point the Warden said, "In all due respect, you and your design team will toil over the plans for 8 hours, possibly more a day to come up with a secure building, while each inmate has already and will continue to be working 24 hours on how to break it".

The point? People who can betray the trust of a spouse and commit fraud are one, two or three steps ahead of the unwitting partner. Think nothing of what you could have should have done differently, chances are there wasn't. People who can stoop to do things like this are smooth operators and have all contingencies planned, and covered. They are professional at it!