March 2009 k-1 people

[AmyStan 0]

Hey TomLyn!!!

Alguien con quién hablar español!!!!!!!! jajajajajajaja!!!!! Welcome to the forum and thanks for adding me to your friends list.... Hey everyone! Ive added to you too.

I am having a really hard time with my SO too. He is so stressed out and we had this huge fight last week, apparently everything is over... I hope it is just the stress that finally caught up on him.

Im really sad....

There is a lot of stress. I find myself going through mood swings quite a bit. I've caught myself about to say, or actually saying the dumbest things to Amy at times. She brings me back to reality by staying positive, even thought it's equally difficult for her. By the time this is over, she'll have all the requirements to be a shrink. A shrink with the cutest little......... accent.

Then again, this really is all her fault. She was born in the wrong country. Luckily, I've set that straight and she won't make that mistake again.

Hang in there Kata&Freddy. Like Richard says, we're heading down the home-stretch. You've been through a lot, and I have to believe things will work out.

[Richard-Joanna 1]

Hey TomLyn!!!

Alguien con quién hablar español!!!!!!!! jajajajajajaja!!!!! Welcome to the forum and thanks for adding me to your friends list.... Hey everyone! Ive added to you too.

I am having a really hard time with my SO too. He is so stressed out and we had this huge fight last week, apparently everything is over... I hope it is just the stress that finally caught up on him.

Im really sad....

There is a lot of stress. I find myself going through mood swings quite a bit. I've caught myself about to say, or actually saying the dumbest things to Amy at times. She brings me back to reality by staying positive, even thought it's equally difficult for her. By the time this is over, she'll have all the requirements to be a shrink. A shrink with the cutest little......... accent.

Then again, this really is all her fault. She was born in the wrong country. Luckily, I've set that straight and she won't make that mistake again.

Hang in there Kata&Freddy. Like Richard says, we're heading down the home-stretch. You've been through a lot, and I have to believe things will work out.

[sensetarget 0]

There is a lot of stress. I find myself going through mood swings quite a bit. I've caught myself about to say, or actually saying the dumbest things to Amy at times. She brings me back to reality by staying positive, even thought it's equally difficult for her. By the time this is over, she'll have all the requirements to be a shrink. A shrink with the cutest little......... accent.

Then again, this really is all her fault. She was born in the wrong country. Luckily, I've set that straight and she won't make that mistake again.

Hang in there Kata&Freddy. Like Richard says, we're heading down the home-stretch. You've been through a lot, and I have to believe things will work out.

this man speaks the truth, + life stress adds in and takes a toll on everyone. I'm just glad my so stuck with me even through those dumb moments that we as people tend to have.

[Richard-Joanna 1]

There is a lot of stress. I find myself going through mood swings quite a bit. I've caught myself about to say, or actually saying the dumbest things to Amy at times. She brings me back to reality by staying positive, even thought it's equally difficult for her. By the time this is over, she'll have all the requirements to be a shrink. A shrink with the cutest little......... accent.

Then again, this really is all her fault. She was born in the wrong country. Luckily, I've set that straight and she won't make that mistake again.

Hang in there Kata&Freddy. Like Richard says, we're heading down the home-stretch. You've been through a lot, and I have to believe things will work out.

this man speaks the truth, + life stress adds in and takes a toll on everyone. I'm just glad my so stuck with me even through those dumb moments that we as people tend to have.

AMEN!

[katraska78 6]

Thank you guys, this really means a lot to me. I have not talked to my SO in a week, we broke up and right now Im really devastated I do not know what is going to happen and at this point of my life I sold everything I owned and since we decided I was going to focus on the papers and selling my stuff and getting everything ready to leave my life behind to be with him.... I feel it really sucks!!!

Sorry for venting here, I know this is a visa - related forum, it is just you guys probably now exactly how I feel.

[Richard-Joanna 1]

Thank you guys, this really means a lot to me. I have not talked to my SO in a week, we broke up and right now Im really devastated I do not know what is going to happen and at this point of my life I sold everything I owned and since we decided I was going to focus on the papers and selling my stuff and getting everything ready to leave my life behind to be with him.... I feel it really sucks!!!

Sorry for venting here, I know this is a visa - related forum, it is just you guys probably now exactly how I feel.

Wow, I am really sorry to hear that... having said that... feel free to vent.. .Personally, I don't mind. I can understand being bummed... but try not to over-react... and see what happens... hopefully it is just stress and stuff and your SO will figure it out... but if not (and I know this sucks) but... better to find out now... I truly hope this is not the case for you!

Hugs

[Jessica Carl 1]

Hi

You are not aone in this.Everyone here has put there life on hold so to speak waiting to be with are loved ones.

I cant remember this much continued stress.She keeps me calm on some days and I keep her focused on others.

Richard is right we are nearing the approvals.God make us have them soon.

Sincerely

[katraska78 6]

Yes, I know his heart... that is why I fell in love with him... right now I just hope he gets to his senses and realize that a mistake was made. And if he doesnt well it is better to find out now.

[missmissy 38]

Yes, I know his heart... that is why I fell in love with him... right now I just hope he gets to his senses and realize that a mistake was made. And if he doesnt well it is better to find out now.

You hang in there and keep trying to communicate. This is all stress related, I swear! We never used to argue or fight about anything but these days just about every little thing grows into something bigger than necessary. You come talk to us anytime you need to.

[AmyStan 0]

Yes, I know his heart... that is why I fell in love with him... right now I just hope he gets to his senses and realize that a mistake was made. And if he doesnt well it is better to find out now.

You hang in there and keep trying to communicate. This is all stress related, I swear! We never used to argue or fight about anything but these days just about every little thing grows into something bigger than necessary. You come talk to us anytime you need to.

I second that. Don't be shy. Just knowing I'm not the only one doing this makes me feel better. Maybe I'm not such a bad guy afterall. Boring, yes; bad guy, no.

[katraska78 6]

You hang in there and keep trying to communicate. This is all stress related, I swear! We never used to argue or fight about anything but these days just about every little thing grows into something bigger than necessary. You come talk to us anytime you need to.

I second that. Don't be shy. Just knowing I'm not the only one doing this makes me feel better. Maybe I'm not such a bad guy afterall. Boring, yes; bad guy, no.

And with a tinsy tiny black humour going on!!!!! You guys are just too much!!!! Thank you!!!

[delci06 0]

Wow, I'm glad to know that my SO and I are not the only ones having huge fights. Like ya'll we hardly ever had arguments when we were together and now it just seems like every other day it's something. I'm just glad that he too said that we were arguing so much b/c of the distance.

Also, I have gained like 15 lbs b/c of all the stress(i'm a stress eater) and he has lost weight

But I just started going to a zumba class and it seems to help me with the stress and frustrations that I have. Not only that but I want to look good when I see him in August

[katraska78 6]

Wow, I'm glad to know that my SO and I are not the only ones having huge fights. Like ya'll we hardly ever had arguments when we were together and now it just seems like every other day it's something. I'm just glad that he too said that we were arguing so much b/c of the distance.

Also, I have gained like 15 lbs b/c of all the stress(i'm a stress eater) and he has lost weight

But I just started going to a zumba class and it seems to help me with the stress and frustrations that I have. Not only that but I want to look good when I see him in August

Welcome to the club... It is very good that you are going to zumba classes, that will help a lot with the stress, and you will look very goooood when you guys get back together!!! I guess in a few weeks we are all going to whole different story to tell..... I am starting my jogging on monday, I really need a physical activitie so I can keep my mind busy.

Let's hope for the best guys...

[Just Linda 0]

Wow, I'm glad to know that my SO and I are not the only ones having huge fights. Like ya'll we hardly ever had arguments when we were together and now it just seems like every other day it's something. I'm just glad that he too said that we were arguing so much b/c of the distance.

Also, I have gained like 15 lbs b/c of all the stress(i'm a stress eater) and he has lost weight

But I just started going to a zumba class and it seems to help me with the stress and frustrations that I have. Not only that but I want to look good when I see him in August

well now everybody think positive, we are getting this, we can do it!!! very soon each one of us will be with the love of his/her life....

Viva Marzo!!!! si senor!!!!

[Saska+Tim 7]

Guys, you are wonderful.