March 2009 k-1 people

[melanne 0]

I filed from NC and my fiance is in Denmark. We filed March 12th and got NOA on March 17th.

I wish the VSC would speed this up, we were hoping to get married in October but our lawyer didn't tell us till March that the back log is 6 months now... so frustrating...

Hey All,

We just filed on the 11th of March at the Vermont Center, still waiting for NOA1. Best of luck to everyone. Anyone else from Denmark/Atlanta?

Jon and AK

[missmissy 38]

THREE Danish couples, all in March?? I think that is incredible! I hope we can all meet sometime!

[evanscholly 1]

I also filed on March 12th. I received NOA1 on March 16th. I pray we all get speedy answers to our petitions. God is good.

[Jon&Ak 0]

THREE Danish couples, all in March?? I think that is incredible! I hope we can all meet sometime!

Agreed! I hope all is going well with you, we received NOA1(with a typo), and are just playing the waiting game now.

Jon

[missmissy 38]

THREE Danish couples, all in March?? I think that is incredible! I hope we can all meet sometime!

Agreed! I hope all is going well with you, we received NOA1(with a typo), and are just playing the waiting game now.

Jon

Waiting.....just finished talking on Skype tonight. I will probably go to Copenhagen for a few weeks in May. Our NOA1 is expected this week - I just hope it goes fast for all of us. Lars and I had lived together for a few years, here and in Europe. Back in October he was denied entry to the U.S. because he had been too many times last year. This forced separation has been tough! We are staying positive but some days are tougher than others.

[Jon&Ak 0]

THREE Danish couples, all in March?? I think that is incredible! I hope we can all meet sometime!

Agreed! I hope all is going well with you, we received NOA1(with a typo), and are just playing the waiting game now.

Jon

Waiting.....just finished talking on Skype tonight. I will probably go to Copenhagen for a few weeks in May. Our NOA1 is expected this week - I just hope it goes fast for all of us. Lars and I had lived together for a few years, here and in Europe. Back in October he was denied entry to the U.S. because he had been too many times last year. This forced separation has been tough! We are staying positive but some days are tougher than others.

Did he get denied because he did not stay in Denmark for twice as long as in the US during a given year? Or did he just visit too often for the CBP officer's liking? Did they explain anything at all about it?

Thanks, Jon

[Richard-Joanna 1]

Welcome y'all

3 from Denmark that is pretty cool...

The time lines at the CSC are getting me down... another in 54 days... *grumble*

[melanne 0]

Wow, yes 3 US/Denmark couples in March- let's hope that makes us lucky somehow!

Is anyone else using an immigration lawyer? Ours has been beyond frustrated.

Also, not to be too intrusive, but would you mind sharing when you think you will realistically be getting married? I was planning for our October wedding until our lawyer casually told us the back log is longer than the 4 months (that's what he'd told us in December

Blessings to every couple who are going through this process.

THREE Danish couples, all in March?? I think that is incredible! I hope we can all meet sometime!

Agreed! I hope all is going well with you, we received NOA1(with a typo), and are just playing the waiting game now.

Jon

Waiting.....just finished talking on Skype tonight. I will probably go to Copenhagen for a few weeks in May. Our NOA1 is expected this week - I just hope it goes fast for all of us. Lars and I had lived together for a few years, here and in Europe. Back in October he was denied entry to the U.S. because he had been too many times last year. This forced separation has been tough! We are staying positive but some days are tougher than others.

Did he get denied because he did not stay in Denmark for twice as long as in the US during a given year? Or did he just visit too often for the CBP officer's liking? Did they explain anything at all about it?

Thanks, Jon

[missmissy 38]

Wow, yes 3 US/Denmark couples in March- let's hope that makes us lucky somehow!

Is anyone else using an immigration lawyer? Ours has been beyond frustrated.

Also, not to be too intrusive, but would you mind sharing when you think you will realistically be getting married? I was planning for our October wedding until our lawyer casually told us the back log is longer than the 4 months (that's what he'd told us in December

Blessings to every couple who are going through this process.

THREE Danish couples, all in March?? I think that is incredible! I hope we can all meet sometime!

Agreed! I hope all is going well with you, we received NOA1(with a typo), and are just playing the waiting game now.

Jon

Waiting.....just finished talking on Skype tonight. I will probably go to Copenhagen for a few weeks in May. Our NOA1 is expected this week - I just hope it goes fast for all of us. Lars and I had lived together for a few years, here and in Europe. Back in October he was denied entry to the U.S. because he had been too many times last year. This forced separation has been tough! We are staying positive but some days are tougher than others.

Did he get denied because he did not stay in Denmark for twice as long as in the US during a given year? Or did he just visit too often for the CBP officer's liking? Did they explain anything at all about it?

Thanks, Jon

We were hoping for a summer wedding but what we'd like now is September 9th....I really believe that Vermont will pick up soon and that we will move along quickly. Bottom line is we really haven't made any real wedding plans. Of course, we are older than most and aren't having a big event anyway.

[strega 1]

Wow, yes 3 US/Denmark couples in March- let's hope that makes us lucky somehow!

Is anyone else using an immigration lawyer? Ours has been beyond frustrated.

Also, not to be too intrusive, but would you mind sharing when you think you will realistically be getting married? I was planning for our October wedding until our lawyer casually told us the back log is longer than the 4 months (that's what he'd told us in December

Blessings to every couple who are going through this process.

THREE Danish couples, all in March?? I think that is incredible! I hope we can all meet sometime!

Agreed! I hope all is going well with you, we received NOA1(with a typo), and are just playing the waiting game now.

Jon

Waiting.....just finished talking on Skype tonight. I will probably go to Copenhagen for a few weeks in May. Our NOA1 is expected this week - I just hope it goes fast for all of us. Lars and I had lived together for a few years, here and in Europe. Back in October he was denied entry to the U.S. because he had been too many times last year. This forced separation has been tough! We are staying positive but some days are tougher than others.

Did he get denied because he did not stay in Denmark for twice as long as in the US during a given year? Or did he just visit too often for the CBP officer's liking? Did they explain anything at all about it?

Thanks, Jon

We were hoping for a summer wedding but what we'd like now is September 9th....I really believe that Vermont will pick up soon and that we will move along quickly. Bottom line is we really haven't made any real wedding plans. Of course, we are older than most and aren't having a big event anyway.

still here waiting for them to cash the check!!!!!! what are they doing??

[strega 1]

Wow, yes 3 US/Denmark couples in March- let's hope that makes us lucky somehow!

Is anyone else using an immigration lawyer? Ours has been beyond frustrated.

Also, not to be too intrusive, but would you mind sharing when you think you will realistically be getting married? I was planning for our October wedding until our lawyer casually told us the back log is longer than the 4 months (that's what he'd told us in December

Blessings to every couple who are going through this process.

THREE Danish couples, all in March?? I think that is incredible! I hope we can all meet sometime!

Agreed! I hope all is going well with you, we received NOA1(with a typo), and are just playing the waiting game now.

Jon

Waiting.....just finished talking on Skype tonight. I will probably go to Copenhagen for a few weeks in May. Our NOA1 is expected this week - I just hope it goes fast for all of us. Lars and I had lived together for a few years, here and in Europe. Back in October he was denied entry to the U.S. because he had been too many times last year. This forced separation has been tough! We are staying positive but some days are tougher than others.

Did he get denied because he did not stay in Denmark for twice as long as in the US during a given year? Or did he just visit too often for the CBP officer's liking? Did they explain anything at all about it?

Thanks, Jon

We were hoping for a summer wedding but what we'd like now is September 9th....I really believe that Vermont will pick up soon and that we will move along quickly. Bottom line is we really haven't made any real wedding plans. Of course, we are older than most and aren't having a big event anyway.

still here waiting for them to cash the check!!!!!! what are they doing??

seems like i always get here too late, no one around, anyway, good luck everyone

[Jon&Ak 0]

Wow, yes 3 US/Denmark couples in March- let's hope that makes us lucky somehow!

Is anyone else using an immigration lawyer? Ours has been beyond frustrated.

Also, not to be too intrusive, but would you mind sharing when you think you will realistically be getting married? I was planning for our October wedding until our lawyer casually told us the back log is longer than the 4 months (that's what he'd told us in December

Blessings to every couple who are going through this process.

THREE Danish couples, all in March?? I think that is incredible! I hope we can all meet sometime!

Agreed! I hope all is going well with you, we received NOA1(with a typo), and are just playing the waiting game now.

Jon

Waiting.....just finished talking on Skype tonight. I will probably go to Copenhagen for a few weeks in May. Our NOA1 is expected this week - I just hope it goes fast for all of us. Lars and I had lived together for a few years, here and in Europe. Back in October he was denied entry to the U.S. because he had been too many times last year. This forced separation has been tough! We are staying positive but some days are tougher than others.

Did he get denied because he did not stay in Denmark for twice as long as in the US during a given year? Or did he just visit too often for the CBP officer's liking? Did they explain anything at all about it?

Thanks, Jon

We were hoping for a summer wedding but what we'd like now is September 9th....I really believe that Vermont will pick up soon and that we will move along quickly. Bottom line is we really haven't made any real wedding plans. Of course, we are older than most and aren't having a big event anyway.

Hi Missmissy

We're worried about how many times and for how many days a year you can be in the US on visa waiver program.

Did your fiance get denied because he did not stay in Denmark for twice as long as in the US during a given year (we were told that for every day you spend in the US you have to be out of the country for two days)? Or did he just visit too often for the CBP officer's liking? Did they explain anything at all about the rules concerning this?

Thanks, Jon

[missmissy 38]

Hi Missmissy

We're worried about how many times and for how many days a year you can be in the US on visa waiver program.

Did your fiance get denied because he did not stay in Denmark for twice as long as in the US during a given year (we were told that for every day you spend in the US you have to be out of the country for two days)? Or did he just visit too often for the CBP officer's liking? Did they explain anything at all about the rules concerning this?

Thanks, Jon

This is what happened to us - and we were not very smart about anything! Before I tell this story - a disclaimer.

I did not do any research about him living here until it was almost too late. We had been waiting for his divorce to be final (for TWO YEARS) and knew we couldn't get married until then. I had assumed that we could come to the U.S., gather my family and get married and then go to some office somewhere and tell someone that I had married him and he was from Denmark....sort of a Just lettin ya'll know kind of thing. I had no idea until October what was involved in marrying someone that isn't from around here! Now I know! We were just busy with other things and I never thought that it was going to be this hard or involve so much paperwork! We just didn't know.

We left the U.S. in the spring of 2007 and had an apartment in Sweden. We traveled a lot that year but in January of 2008 - I wanted to come home. So, we left Sweden, kept our apartment there, and moved back to Jackson, Mississippi and bought a house. We knew we were going to get married as soon as we could but we were waiting on a divorce certificate from Denmark. There have been delays with getting that so, every 90 days Lars would fly home to Denmark, stay a few weeks and then fly back. He did this from January until October. In June, we decided to give up the apartment in Landskrona, Sweden. I couldn't leave my family and it was just money wasted. He went back to CPH in the middle of September and in October when he tried to enter at Newark, he was denied entry. The BPO saw how many trips he had made and started asking questions. He was very honest and answered all of the questions, yes he is engaged to an American, yes he has been back and forth, no he wasn't aware of the actual requirements of the VWP.....Lars' biggest mistake was carrying his library card for here in Jackson, an AARP card, a AAA Club card and a Kroger Plus card. They opened his computer, booted it up and started reading emails and of course we talked about waiting for the divorce, getting married, taking care of our house, my mother's terminal illness......he had a resume on there as well, stating that his home address was our address in Mississippi. According to the Border Patrol Officer - all of this indicated that he had in fact immigrated to the U.S. or that he was intending to immigrate.

So, they put him on a plane that afternoon and sent him back. Totally our fault for not researching any of this BEFORE we did anything. The good news is the only thing that we had to sacrifice that time was the money for the plane ticket.....there was no "note" or flag placed on his passport, the BPO was very nice and told him that he needed to go home and apply for the K1....

Most people that have a job, an apartment and significant ties to Denmark can come and go without a problem. I am 49, Lars is 57 and retired.....we were extremely blessed to be able to take the year that we did and travel, but we had no real significant ties to anywhere for a few years and the lack of a Danish address or a job in Denmark was a big problem for him that day. I don't know what kind of criteria they look for at the POE's....I have read that it is totally at the discretion of the Border Patrol Officer if they will allow entry,accept your documentation or explanations or not. We had been back and forth to the U.S. since 2006 but we usually fly into Memphis or New Orleans.

I proof read what I have written and I didn't really answer your question but I don't have an answer. He was denied entry because it looked exactly like what he was doing.....immigrating to the U.S. Now we are doing it the right way, but paying a price for our ignorance of the law. He cannot come back without a visa, so we wait. I'm going to try to go to Denmark in May - who wants to go with me??

[R&AINC 1]

Hi Missmissy

We're worried about how many times and for how many days a year you can be in the US on visa waiver program.

Did your fiance get denied because he did not stay in Denmark for twice as long as in the US during a given year (we were told that for every day you spend in the US you have to be out of the country for two days)? Or did he just visit too often for the CBP officer's liking? Did they explain anything at all about the rules concerning this?

Thanks, Jon

This is what happened to us - and we were not very smart about anything! Before I tell this story - a disclaimer.

I did not do any research about him living here until it was almost too late. We had been waiting for his divorce to be final (for TWO YEARS) and knew we couldn't get married until then. I had assumed that we could come to the U.S., gather my family and get married and then go to some office somewhere and tell someone that I had married him and he was from Denmark....sort of a Just lettin ya'll know kind of thing. I had no idea until October what was involved in marrying someone that isn't from around here! Now I know! We were just busy with other things and I never thought that it was going to be this hard or involve so much paperwork! We just didn't know.

We left the U.S. in the spring of 2007 and had an apartment in Sweden. We traveled a lot that year but in January of 2008 - I wanted to come home. So, we left Sweden, kept our apartment there, and moved back to Jackson, Mississippi and bought a house. We knew we were going to get married as soon as we could but we were waiting on a divorce certificate from Denmark. There have been delays with getting that so, every 90 days Lars would fly home to Denmark, stay a few weeks and then fly back. He did this from January until October. In June, we decided to give up the apartment in Landskrona, Sweden. I couldn't leave my family and it was just money wasted. He went back to CPH in the middle of September and in October when he tried to enter at Newark, he was denied entry. The BPO saw how many trips he had made and started asking questions. He was very honest and answered all of the questions, yes he is engaged to an American, yes he has been back and forth, no he wasn't aware of the actual requirements of the VWP.....Lars' biggest mistake was carrying his library card for here in Jackson, an AARP card, a AAA Club card and a Kroger Plus card. They opened his computer, booted it up and started reading emails and of course we talked about waiting for the divorce, getting married, taking care of our house, my mother's terminal illness......he had a resume on there as well, stating that his home address was our address in Mississippi. According to the Border Patrol Officer - all of this indicated that he had in fact immigrated to the U.S. or that he was intending to immigrate.

So, they put him on a plane that afternoon and sent him back. Totally our fault for not researching any of this BEFORE we did anything. The good news is the only thing that we had to sacrifice that time was the money for the plane ticket.....there was no "note" or flag placed on his passport, the BPO was very nice and told him that he needed to go home and apply for the K1....

Most people that have a job, an apartment and significant ties to Denmark can come and go without a problem. I am 49, Lars is 57 and retired.....we were extremely blessed to be able to take the year that we did and travel, but we had no real significant ties to anywhere for a few years and the lack of a Danish address or a job in Denmark was a big problem for him that day. I don't know what kind of criteria they look for at the POE's....I have read that it is totally at the discretion of the Border Patrol Officer if they will allow entry,accept your documentation or explanations or not. We had been back and forth to the U.S. since 2006 but we usually fly into Memphis or New Orleans.

I proof read what I have written and I didn't really answer your question but I don't have an answer. He was denied entry because it looked exactly like what he was doing.....immigrating to the U.S. Now we are doing it the right way, but paying a price for our ignorance of the law. He cannot come back without a visa, so we wait. I'm going to try to go to Denmark in May - who wants to go with me??

I find the point about them booting his computer to be very bad. Usually you need a search warrant for that to happen. This is why I am avoiding going back during the K1 approval. If something like this would happen to me, I would probably not want to live there anymore. Another thing that seems ridiculous is that you have to pay for the ticket. At every airport, before you fly to the States, they have agents and they ask you all kinds of questions. If they let you in the flight then they should be responsible for the cost of the ticket if you are sent back.

I would just stay in the airport till they kick me out like that movie with Tom Hanks .

Well, I hope all goes fast for the March fillers. But our center is quite slow now.....The california forumists are posting NOA2 within 1 to 2 months.....and we have the 1 year and 6 months clubs....

[Richard-Joanna 1]

still here waiting for them to cash the check!!!!!! what are they doing??

Well, the good news is they WANT your money, so they will cash the check much faster than processing the file

Richard