March 2009 k-1 people

[missmissy 38]

Richard, I called again and got a little more information about what may be going on with mine, and possibly yours. I asked the usual questions and I also wanted to know when I would officially be outside of normal processing times. Each letter you receive from the VSC says you will have a response within 60 days. I wanted to know if my 60 day sentences ran consecutively or concurrently.....

The officer told me that they are in the process of verifying Lars' divorce documents which I assume means communicating with Denmark or some third party company that vets these types of documents. The officer asked if any children were involved with my application and she explained that it takes a little longer to verify custody documents, etc....

Now, to quote my good friend Stephen, this may be a load of whooey but.....I know Denmark and the Danes are never in a hurry to do ANYTHING! Poland, I am not so sure about but this may be why you don't have anything just yet.....

What are your thoughts??

[VSCvictim 0]

Richard, I called again and got a little more information about what may be going on with mine, and possibly yours. I asked the usual questions and I also wanted to know when I would officially be outside of normal processing times. Each letter you receive from the VSC says you will have a response within 60 days. I wanted to know if my 60 day sentences ran consecutively or concurrently.....

The officer told me that they are in the process of verifying Lars' divorce documents which I assume means communicating with Denmark or some third party company that vets these types of documents. The officer asked if any children were involved with my application and she explained that it takes a little longer to verify custody documents, etc....

Now, to quote my good friend Stephen, this may be a load of whooey but.....I know Denmark and the Danes are never in a hurry to do ANYTHING! Poland, I am not so sure about but this may be why you don't have anything just yet.....

What are your thoughts??

almost all europeans are never in hurry to do anything. I actually envy them for it. That the way to live life and enjoy it. surprised at Danes since its a northern country but because its socialism there then its totally understandable Guys focus on a nice weekend event thought its sucks to have them without loved ones.

[missmissy 38]

Richard, I called again and got a little more information about what may be going on with mine, and possibly yours. I asked the usual questions and I also wanted to know when I would officially be outside of normal processing times. Each letter you receive from the VSC says you will have a response within 60 days. I wanted to know if my 60 day sentences ran consecutively or concurrently.....

The officer told me that they are in the process of verifying Lars' divorce documents which I assume means communicating with Denmark or some third party company that vets these types of documents. The officer asked if any children were involved with my application and she explained that it takes a little longer to verify custody documents, etc....

Now, to quote my good friend Stephen, this may be a load of whooey but.....I know Denmark and the Danes are never in a hurry to do ANYTHING! Poland, I am not so sure about but this may be why you don't have anything just yet.....

What are your thoughts??

almost all europeans are never in hurry to do anything. I actually envy them for it. That the way to live life and enjoy it. surprised at Danes since its a northern country but because its socialism there then its totally understandable Guys focus on a nice weekend event thought its sucks to have them without loved ones.

If you only knew how long it took to get the divorce you would not believe it. It was the slowest and most agonizing experience......no, wait - THIS is the slowest and most agonizing experience ever. That Danish divorce was the second most....

[Richard-Joanna 1]

Richard, I called again and got a little more information about what may be going on with mine, and possibly yours. I asked the usual questions and I also wanted to know when I would officially be outside of normal processing times. Each letter you receive from the VSC says you will have a response within 60 days. I wanted to know if my 60 day sentences ran consecutively or concurrently.....

The officer told me that they are in the process of verifying Lars' divorce documents which I assume means communicating with Denmark or some third party company that vets these types of documents. The officer asked if any children were involved with my application and she explained that it takes a little longer to verify custody documents, etc....

Now, to quote my good friend Stephen, this may be a load of whooey but.....I know Denmark and the Danes are never in a hurry to do ANYTHING! Poland, I am not so sure about but this may be why you don't have anything just yet.....

What are your thoughts??

I wish I knew...

I have spoke to 9 or 10 different people at the USCIS and they have ALL told me the same thing... they cant see anything on their screens as to what is going on or why things are going the way they are... so with that... how does this one that you spoke with today know that they are looking into Lars' divorce?

As for custody documents... I wrote the US Embassy in Warsaw a while back to see what if anything we needed to bring to the interview for Joanna's children in regards to them getting their K2... I specifically asked if we needed some sort of release from the children's father and they said NO...

I am just as confused as ever... as to why

[LiLMermaid 2]

Richard, I called again and got a little more information about what may be going on with mine, and possibly yours. I asked the usual questions and I also wanted to know when I would officially be outside of normal processing times. Each letter you receive from the VSC says you will have a response within 60 days. I wanted to know if my 60 day sentences ran consecutively or concurrently.....

The officer told me that they are in the process of verifying Lars' divorce documents which I assume means communicating with Denmark or some third party company that vets these types of documents. The officer asked if any children were involved with my application and she explained that it takes a little longer to verify custody documents, etc....

Now, to quote my good friend Stephen, this may be a load of whooey but.....I know Denmark and the Danes are never in a hurry to do ANYTHING! Poland, I am not so sure about but this may be why you don't have anything just yet.....

What are your thoughts??

Well I don't think verifying a divorce document from Canada would be too difficult, shouldn't really be a problem with most countries I would imagine. As for the custody documents....that isn't even asked for until the interview stage. At the interview stage is when I have to show the court documents stating that I have permission to relocate the children and have custody.

[Richard-Joanna 1]

Well I don't think verifying a divorce document from Canada would be too difficult, shouldn't really be a problem with most countries I would imagine. As for the custody documents....that isn't even asked for until the interview stage. At the interview stage is when I have to show the court documents stating that I have permission to relocate the children and have custody.

This is my understanding also when it comes to the children and custody. Its the interview stage.

I think it is all hooey, Missy.... I dont think the call center has a clue... only the adjudicator knows.

[missmissy 38]

Richard, I called again and got a little more information about what may be going on with mine, and possibly yours. I asked the usual questions and I also wanted to know when I would officially be outside of normal processing times. Each letter you receive from the VSC says you will have a response within 60 days. I wanted to know if my 60 day sentences ran consecutively or concurrently.....

The officer told me that they are in the process of verifying Lars' divorce documents which I assume means communicating with Denmark or some third party company that vets these types of documents. The officer asked if any children were involved with my application and she explained that it takes a little longer to verify custody documents, etc....

Now, to quote my good friend Stephen, this may be a load of whooey but.....I know Denmark and the Danes are never in a hurry to do ANYTHING! Poland, I am not so sure about but this may be why you don't have anything just yet.....

What are your thoughts??

I wish I knew...

I have spoke to 9 or 10 different people at the USCIS and they have ALL told me the same thing... they cant see anything on their screens as to what is going on or why things are going the way they are... so with that... how does this one that you spoke with today know that they are looking into Lars' divorce?

As for custody documents... I wrote the US Embassy in Warsaw a while back to see what if anything we needed to bring to the interview for Joanna's children in regards to them getting their K2... I specifically asked if we needed some sort of release from the children's father and they said NO...

I am just as confused as ever... as to why

Well....she said that they were in the process of verifying the documents requested in the RFE.....you got a point. This may really be "whooey" since I just assumed that they knew what the documents were......

I am not going to call anymore though. And this time, I mean it. It is the worst thing I can do right now. Whatever the hell it is that they are doing - I don't even care anymore. I told Lars this morning that if we don't have the visa by October then when we are together in November we need to go ahead and get married and file CR1. I think that I am angry at the lack of transparency in this process. I sent in a stack of documents that was over 2 inches thick, these forms contain information about me, my family, his family.....everything but my shoe size and blood type. I think that we should be able to know where we are in the process and what information is missing, needs vetting......for instance, if I knew for a fact that they were indeed vetting his divorce documents I would feel okay about it. I would know that it's not sitting somewhere covered in dust and cookie crumbs.

I feel like saying the F word, the mother of all curse words, the F - - - word.

[LiLMermaid 2]

Richard, I called again and got a little more information about what may be going on with mine, and possibly yours. I asked the usual questions and I also wanted to know when I would officially be outside of normal processing times. Each letter you receive from the VSC says you will have a response within 60 days. I wanted to know if my 60 day sentences ran consecutively or concurrently.....

The officer told me that they are in the process of verifying Lars' divorce documents which I assume means communicating with Denmark or some third party company that vets these types of documents. The officer asked if any children were involved with my application and she explained that it takes a little longer to verify custody documents, etc....

Now, to quote my good friend Stephen, this may be a load of whooey but.....I know Denmark and the Danes are never in a hurry to do ANYTHING! Poland, I am not so sure about but this may be why you don't have anything just yet.....

What are your thoughts??

almost all europeans are never in hurry to do anything. I actually envy them for it. That the way to live life and enjoy it. surprised at Danes since its a northern country but because its socialism there then its totally understandable Guys focus on a nice weekend event thought its sucks to have them without loved ones.

If you only knew how long it took to get the divorce you would not believe it. It was the slowest and most agonizing experience......no, wait - THIS is the slowest and most agonizing experience ever. That Danish divorce was the second most....

3 years 8 months before my divorce was finalized after my ex and I split up. All other issues relating to custody and settlement had to be cleared up first. Even if everything else was agreed upon the day we split it still takes 1 year of being separated before you can even start the divorce.

[Stephen + Elisha 92]

Well I don't think verifying a divorce document from Canada would be too difficult, shouldn't really be a problem with most countries I would imagine. As for the custody documents....that isn't even asked for until the interview stage. At the interview stage is when I have to show the court documents stating that I have permission to relocate the children and have custody.

This is my understanding also when it comes to the children and custody. Its the interview stage.

I think it is all hooey, Missy.... I dont think the call center has a clue... only the adjudicator knows.

The word of the day is bullplop. As in, you can be assured that pretty much anything USCIS or NVC tells you is a big steaming pile of bullplop.

[missmissy 38]

Richard, I called again and got a little more information about what may be going on with mine, and possibly yours. I asked the usual questions and I also wanted to know when I would officially be outside of normal processing times. Each letter you receive from the VSC says you will have a response within 60 days. I wanted to know if my 60 day sentences ran consecutively or concurrently.....

The officer told me that they are in the process of verifying Lars' divorce documents which I assume means communicating with Denmark or some third party company that vets these types of documents. The officer asked if any children were involved with my application and she explained that it takes a little longer to verify custody documents, etc....

Now, to quote my good friend Stephen, this may be a load of whooey but.....I know Denmark and the Danes are never in a hurry to do ANYTHING! Poland, I am not so sure about but this may be why you don't have anything just yet.....

What are your thoughts??

almost all europeans are never in hurry to do anything. I actually envy them for it. That the way to live life and enjoy it. surprised at Danes since its a northern country but because its socialism there then its totally understandable Guys focus on a nice weekend event thought its sucks to have them without loved ones.

If you only knew how long it took to get the divorce you would not believe it. It was the slowest and most agonizing experience......no, wait - THIS is the slowest and most agonizing experience ever. That Danish divorce was the second most....

3 years 8 months before my divorce was finalized after my ex and I split up. All other issues relating to custody and settlement had to be cleared up first. Even if everything else was agreed upon the day we split it still takes 1 year of being separated before you can even start the divorce.

My exhusband and I....we were on the 5 year party plan for our divorce. I filed and he delayed and delayed and delayed until I wanted to hire a hit man. The kids were grown and gone by the time he got tired of the game.

Well I don't think verifying a divorce document from Canada would be too difficult, shouldn't really be a problem with most countries I would imagine. As for the custody documents....that isn't even asked for until the interview stage. At the interview stage is when I have to show the court documents stating that I have permission to relocate the children and have custody.

This is my understanding also when it comes to the children and custody. Its the interview stage.

I think it is all hooey, Missy.... I dont think the call center has a clue... only the adjudicator knows.

The word of the day is bullplop. As in, you can be assured that pretty much anything USCIS or NVC tells you is a big steaming pile of bullplop.

I laughed out loud!! Bullplop, I LOVE IT!

[LiLMermaid 2]

Richard, I called again and got a little more information about what may be going on with mine, and possibly yours. I asked the usual questions and I also wanted to know when I would officially be outside of normal processing times. Each letter you receive from the VSC says you will have a response within 60 days. I wanted to know if my 60 day sentences ran consecutively or concurrently.....

The officer told me that they are in the process of verifying Lars' divorce documents which I assume means communicating with Denmark or some third party company that vets these types of documents. The officer asked if any children were involved with my application and she explained that it takes a little longer to verify custody documents, etc....

Now, to quote my good friend Stephen, this may be a load of whooey but.....I know Denmark and the Danes are never in a hurry to do ANYTHING! Poland, I am not so sure about but this may be why you don't have anything just yet.....

What are your thoughts??

almost all europeans are never in hurry to do anything. I actually envy them for it. That the way to live life and enjoy it. surprised at Danes since its a northern country but because its socialism there then its totally understandable Guys focus on a nice weekend event thought its sucks to have them without loved ones.

If you only knew how long it took to get the divorce you would not believe it. It was the slowest and most agonizing experience......no, wait - THIS is the slowest and most agonizing experience ever. That Danish divorce was the second most....

3 years 8 months before my divorce was finalized after my ex and I split up. All other issues relating to custody and settlement had to be cleared up first. Even if everything else was agreed upon the day we split it still takes 1 year of being separated before you can even start the divorce.

My exhusband and I....we were on the 5 year party plan for our divorce. I filed and he delayed and delayed and delayed until I wanted to hire a hit man. The kids were grown and gone by the time he got tired of the game.

Well I don't think verifying a divorce document from Canada would be too difficult, shouldn't really be a problem with most countries I would imagine. As for the custody documents....that isn't even asked for until the interview stage. At the interview stage is when I have to show the court documents stating that I have permission to relocate the children and have custody.

This is my understanding also when it comes to the children and custody. Its the interview stage.

I think it is all hooey, Missy.... I dont think the call center has a clue... only the adjudicator knows.

The word of the day is bullplop. As in, you can be assured that pretty much anything USCIS or NVC tells you is a big steaming pile of bullplop.

I laughed out loud!! Bullplop, I LOVE IT!

Mine delayed as well. RIght up to the night before the pre-trial at which the judge was going to force him to list our house for sale. His gf didn't like that idea and all he ever wanted was to keep the house so he finally agreed to my proposition of "You keep the house, me and the kids are moving to Florida"

Still took another 5 months before it was all final including the divorce and I was able to file our I129F.

[Richard-Joanna 1]

Well....she said that they were in the process of verifying the documents requested in the RFE.....you got a point. This may really be "whooey" since I just assumed that they knew what the documents were......

I am not going to call anymore though. And this time, I mean it. It is the worst thing I can do right now. Whatever the hell it is that they are doing - I don't even care anymore. I told Lars this morning that if we don't have the visa by October then when we are together in November we need to go ahead and get married and file CR1. I think that I am angry at the lack of transparency in this process. I sent in a stack of documents that was over 2 inches thick, these forms contain information about me, my family, his family.....everything but my shoe size and blood type. I think that we should be able to know where we are in the process and what information is missing, needs vetting......for instance, if I knew for a fact that they were indeed vetting his divorce documents I would feel okay about it. I would know that it's not sitting somewhere covered in dust and cookie crumbs.

I feel like saying the F word, the mother of all curse words, the F - - - word.

Well, the next logical step is for them to resume working on the missing documents... so that is not a stretch in concept... I just find it hard to actually believe that the call center knows anything about that. When you call them about the RFE, they dont know what it is for.... so I am very skeptical that they know they are working on the divorce stuff. And if we have to provide them with certified copies of the document.. complete with the official stamp from the clerks office... what is needed to verify it?

The letter that the Congressional unit sent to me said that they contact outside agencies when necessary... ok... fair enough... and they have to wait on those agencies... ok... again fair enough... I just have a problem believing that 'my' file is actually waiting some 'other' agency information.

But again, who knows... we are all in the blind... and I agree wholeheartedly Missy, there is no transparency whatsoever. The new website, wont make that any better either... since they wont post up where the file is any more than they do know.

I am firmly in the camp that we will see July filers approved before the end of September... and at least for me (NO RFE) I will have to wait until after October 1st. Yours, with the RFE stands a reasonable chance of getting processed before the end of September, IMHO.

[Jessica Carl 1]

Richard, I called again and got a little more information about what may be going on with mine, and possibly yours. I asked the usual questions and I also wanted to know when I would officially be outside of normal processing times. Each letter you receive from the VSC says you will have a response within 60 days. I wanted to know if my 60 day sentences ran consecutively or concurrently.....

The officer told me that they are in the process of verifying Lars' divorce documents which I assume means communicating with Denmark or some third party company that vets these types of documents. The officer asked if any children were involved with my application and she explained that it takes a little longer to verify custody documents, etc....

Now, to quote my good friend Stephen, this may be a load of whooey but.....I know Denmark and the Danes are never in a hurry to do ANYTHING! Poland, I am not so sure about but this may be why you don't have anything just yet.....

What are your thoughts??

Hi all

I guess I will be in the 200 day waiting club.Not where I want to be..

God its Friday again ..

[Richard-Joanna 1]

Hi all

I guess I will be in the 200 day waiting club.Not where I want to be..

God its Friday again ..

Carl any word from the congressional unit?

And as long as I have to soapbox and am ranting up a storm... let me add this little tidbit of silliness!

Remember, the other day, when my last update changed to 09/10/2009 and then reverted back? When I had the supervisor on the phone, I asked her about that... and you know what she said to me? OMG, I cant believe she said this... She said... that is just the adjudicator trying to let you know your case is being worked on!

CAN YOU BELIEVE she had the audacity to say this??

Edited September 18, 2009 by Richard-Joanna

[Jessica Carl 1]

Hi all

I guess I will be in the 200 day waiting club.Not where I want to be..

God its Friday again ..

Carl any word from the congressional unit?

And as long as I have to soapbox and am ranting up a storm... let me add this little tidbit of silliness!

Remember, the other day, when my last update changed to 09/10/2009 and then reverted back? When I had the supervisor on the phone, I asked her about that... and you know what she said to me? OMG, I cant believe she said this... She said... that is just the adjudicator trying to let you know your case is being worked on!

CAN YOU BELIEVE she had the audacity to say this??

Hi Richard

Well .. The unit told me yesterday she was going to phone them and send them an email. I ask her what is the normall time for them to respond.She said 2 days to 2 weeks..

And that she will contact me on when they respond.

So I cant even tell Jessica this.

She has lost her faith in USCIS

And now me too I think. She is not having good days this past week..

I am tring to explain all to her but after all this time she is not listening..

VSC never stops amazing me.

I think I really pissed off someone in life to treat me like this

And all of us still in the March group ..This is a big nitemare.

Please wake me up !!!