HUGE age differences!!!

[almaty 19]

i hate noobs.....

and spot on, mr. platy

[Ban Hammer 13,334]

i hate noobs.....

and spot on, mr. platy

[Chica Yeyé 41]

Oh, you know that you're just using Charles for a green card....

The more I read the sh!t posted in here (even though I know I shouldn't), the madder I get. What a bunch of judgemental, bitter, self-righteous, STUPID f##ktards there are, even here on VJ. Almost everyone on this forum has gone against tradition in one way or another, whether it's race, language, religion, culture, age, or all of the above. "Dirty Old Men" are easy prey, I guess. What about the women who are 20 years older than their husbands? Why aren't people outraged about that? Why aren't the husbands "little boy token grooms"? And the anger about American men picking out a foreign bride based upon her age and looks..... Hello? American culture isn't the only culture on the planet, and that IS how some brides are chosen. Men who want a "wife" in the traditional sense rather than a partner are certainly free to search for such overseas. And they'll find what they're looking for. "Our" ideas of marriage aren't universal, ya know. You'd think people on a visa message board would understand that.

So, all of you people judging others' marriages based on their age difference, go f##k yourselves. Seriously.

Thanks brother Platy for saying that.

and yes, we all know Nessa married charles for a greencard, duh! same reason I married the redhead for. Why else would we, really?????

[Zee Bee 61]

Who is anyone to judge someone else's relationship?

How does it affect you?

[JODO 2]

Live and let live. As long as there are two consenting adults, to each his or her own.

[MonkeyJuice 3]

I was out in the Trafford Centre last night (big shopping mall in Manchester, UK) having drinks with friends when we saw a couple...he was at least 65 & she was easily 20 years old! She was from the far east..

To say they didnt attract a lot of attention is an understatement! She was all over him.

What I'm trying to say is...I believe in whatever makes you happy! ...y'know, just go for it & be happy! BUT I couldn't help but think..this guy is being taken for a mug! She can't possibly find him attractive!! ..Seriously though I've read lots on her about age differences & I can believe that yeh 10, 20 years is believable but 40 years???? Nahhhh

Is she hoping he dies soon so he leaves all of his money to her? I'm sure everyone was thinking the same thing.

Wot do you thin? Should this guy enjoy his senior years being conned? Or is it really lurve??

I have read this thread a few times and the blood is about squirting from my eyes, so I will answer. How do I do this?

See, some men prefer younger women, some women prefer older men. If they are both over 18 I make no judgement, in fact as an American, I DEMAND my right to be seduced and swindled by sexy hot foreign babes! If I am so silly to do so then let me die with a smile on my face and young Russian sweetie on my lap. (and I say this in the knowledge my wife has input on this, but not YOU and NOT the government). And for the record, my wife is 12 years younger and I really don't care if anyone, except her, approves.

Were I to post the same drivel and make judgements about couples on this site that are of mixed race, the woman older than men, expressed a preference for a religious belief I can be assured I would get a TOS warning at minimum. But because you bash an old man for choosing a young wifey, all is OK.

Where I come from there is such a thing called freedom of speech? Can't I express an opinion if I so wish?

I should be 'warned' for expressing my views? Ridiculous!! Where are MY rights? There'll be a point one day when no one will be allowed to comment on issues for fear of beind politcally incorrect!

Newspapers & magazines are full of topics which are considered to be no-ones business such as this & they sell millions every day.

To say that this particular couple were consenting adults is also a matter of opinion, She was very young indeed & that was my point!

But then I suppose its not just far eastern & western marriages that have huge age gaps. I seem to remember one particular young lady called Anna Nicole Smith who was married to a very old & very rich tycoon. This was no-ones business either but I don't remember the American press being'warned' about their media coverage..and of course that WAS true love! But then I daren't comment on that either!

[Nessa 23]

Who is anyone to judge someone else's relationship?

How does it affect you?

i agree with the first sentence, now for the second, yes it affects us immigrants if there were half the people applying would be way faster, we wouldn;t have to be away from our SO for so long.

[nurse1967 287]

Well the bottom line is that there are always going to be dirty old men looking for some 20 year old to make them still feel virile. If there are women willing to play into that then so be it. I am aware there is plenty of fraud out of Egypt. I make be a newbie but I am far from uneducated. While you do some some older women with younger men on here it doesn't happen nearly as often. And, be sure that older women with younger men are talked about in a far more demeaning fashion than older men with younger women. Double standards are great. If men date or marry younger girls they are studs. If women date or marry younger men they are "COUGARS" who are trying to hold onto their youth. I don't care who marries who it's their business. But come on let's call a spade a spade.

[Mrs.J06 4]

I was out in the Trafford Centre last night (big shopping mall in Manchester, UK) having drinks with friends when we saw a couple...he was at least 65 & she was easily 20 years old! She was from the far east..

To say they didnt attract a lot of attention is an understatement! She was all over him.

What I'm trying to say is...I believe in whatever makes you happy! ...y'know, just go for it & be happy! BUT I couldn't help but think..this guy is being taken for a mug! She can't possibly find him attractive!! ..Seriously though I've read lots on her about age differences & I can believe that yeh 10, 20 years is believable but 40 years???? Nahhhh

Is she hoping he dies soon so he leaves all of his money to her? I'm sure everyone was thinking the same thing.

Wot do you thin? Should this guy enjoy his senior years being conned? Or is it really lurve??

I have read this thread a few times and the blood is about squirting from my eyes, so I will answer. How do I do this?

See, some men prefer younger women, some women prefer older men. If they are both over 18 I make no judgement, in fact as an American, I DEMAND my right to be seduced and swindled by sexy hot foreign babes! If I am so silly to do so then let me die with a smile on my face and young Russian sweetie on my lap. (and I say this in the knowledge my wife has input on this, but not YOU and NOT the government). And for the record, my wife is 12 years younger and I really don't care if anyone, except her, approves.

Were I to post the same drivel and make judgements about couples on this site that are of mixed race, the woman older than men, expressed a preference for a religious belief I can be assured I would get a TOS warning at minimum. But because you bash an old man for choosing a young wifey, all is OK.

Where I come from there is such a thing called freedom of speech? Can't I express an opinion if I so wish?

I should be 'warned' for expressing my views? Ridiculous!! Where are MY rights? There'll be a point one day when no one will be allowed to comment on issues for fear of beind politcally incorrect!

Newspapers & magazines are full of topics which are considered to be no-ones business such as this & they sell millions every day.

To say that this particular couple were consenting adults is also a matter of opinion, She was very young indeed & that was my point!

But then I suppose its not just far eastern & western marriages that have huge age gaps. I seem to remember one particular young lady called Anna Nicole Smith who was married to a very old & very rich tycoon. This was no-ones business either but I don't remember the American press being'warned' about their media coverage..and of course that WAS true love! But then I daren't comment on that either!

A lot of bullc**p has been said in this thread but hey, yes, let's call it freedom of speech.

But the highlighted part of your comment really insulted me. I'm in a bigger age gap relationship myself (16 years) and the one thing I worry about quite frequently is how to keep my husband healthy enough to be able to grow old with me, have some good time after retirement together etc.

If somebody would say something as utterly insensitive and plain old stupid as what you said above into my face I'd be deported for a felony - but it would be worth it!

[MonkeyJuice 3]

I was out in the Trafford Centre last night (big shopping mall in Manchester, UK) having drinks with friends when we saw a couple...he was at least 65 & she was easily 20 years old! She was from the far east..

To say they didnt attract a lot of attention is an understatement! She was all over him.

What I'm trying to say is...I believe in whatever makes you happy! ...y'know, just go for it & be happy! BUT I couldn't help but think..this guy is being taken for a mug! She can't possibly find him attractive!! ..Seriously though I've read lots on her about age differences & I can believe that yeh 10, 20 years is believable but 40 years???? Nahhhh

Is she hoping he dies soon so he leaves all of his money to her? I'm sure everyone was thinking the same thing.

Wot do you thin? Should this guy enjoy his senior years being conned? Or is it really lurve??

I have read this thread a few times and the blood is about squirting from my eyes, so I will answer. How do I do this?

See, some men prefer younger women, some women prefer older men. If they are both over 18 I make no judgement, in fact as an American, I DEMAND my right to be seduced and swindled by sexy hot foreign babes! If I am so silly to do so then let me die with a smile on my face and young Russian sweetie on my lap. (and I say this in the knowledge my wife has input on this, but not YOU and NOT the government). And for the record, my wife is 12 years younger and I really don't care if anyone, except her, approves.

Were I to post the same drivel and make judgements about couples on this site that are of mixed race, the woman older than men, expressed a preference for a religious belief I can be assured I would get a TOS warning at minimum. But because you bash an old man for choosing a young wifey, all is OK.

Where I come from there is such a thing called freedom of speech? Can't I express an opinion if I so wish?

I should be 'warned' for expressing my views? Ridiculous!! Where are MY rights? There'll be a point one day when no one will be allowed to comment on issues for fear of beind politcally incorrect!

Newspapers & magazines are full of topics which are considered to be no-ones business such as this & they sell millions every day.

To say that this particular couple were consenting adults is also a matter of opinion, She was very young indeed & that was my point!

But then I suppose its not just far eastern & western marriages that have huge age gaps. I seem to remember one particular young lady called Anna Nicole Smith who was married to a very old & very rich tycoon. This was no-ones business either but I don't remember the American press being'warned' about their media coverage..and of course that WAS true love! But then I daren't comment on that either!

A lot of bullc**p has been said in this thread but hey, yes, let's call it freedom of speech.

But the highlighted part of your comment really insulted me. I'm in a bigger age gap relationship myself (16 years) and the one thing I worry about quite frequently is how to keep my husband healthy enough to be able to grow old with me, have some good time after retirement together etc.

If somebody would say something as utterly insensitive and plain old stupid as what you said above into my face I'd be deported for a felony - but it would be worth it!

16 years in not a huge age gap is it? a young girl isn't going to be able to enjoy her retirement with her 65+ husband is she?

[sara..... 371]

well there has been a lot said on here.....perviz will soon be 34 and im 22 and very honestly i feel we are equal in maturity and intelligence, either that makes him very childish and low intelligence or me highly intelligent and very mature but i do know one thing he said dont u ever call me daddy even in a joke........

and so of course u KNOW what im gonna call him at least once in public

but on the serious side of this not all people age the same, i think it is all in the two people that are in the relationship together.......there maybe some man that is perviz age that would totally make me sick at my stomach to even think about getting married to, and on the other hand most the men close to my age are so childish and immature that i feel it will take them years to ever be mature enough to handle marraige and children and all that goes with it so to each his own.

sara

[SMOKE 1,426]

Well the bottom line is that there are always going to be dirty old men looking for some 20 year old to make them still feel virile. If there are women willing to play into that then so be it. I am aware there is plenty of fraud out of Egypt. I make be a newbie but I am far from uneducated. While you do some some older women with younger men on here it doesn't happen nearly as often. And, be sure that older women with younger men are talked about in a far more demeaning fashion than older men with younger women. Double standards are great. If men date or marry younger girls they are studs. If women date or marry younger men they are "COUGARS" who are trying to hold onto their youth. I don't care who marries who it's their business. But come on let's call a spade a spade.

ok, moron w/ double standards

[nurse1967 287]

Well the bottom line is that there are always going to be dirty old men looking for some 20 year old to make them still feel virile. If there are women willing to play into that then so be it. I am aware there is plenty of fraud out of Egypt. I make be a newbie but I am far from uneducated. While you do some some older women with younger men on here it doesn't happen nearly as often. And, be sure that older women with younger men are talked about in a far more demeaning fashion than older men with younger women. Double standards are great. If men date or marry younger girls they are studs. If women date or marry younger men they are "COUGARS" who are trying to hold onto their youth. I don't care who marries who it's their business. But come on let's call a spade a spade.

ok, moron w/ double standards

OOOOOHHHHH sorry if this hits a little close to home.

[SMOKE 1,426]

Well the bottom line is that there are always going to be dirty old men looking for some 20 year old to make them still feel virile. If there are women willing to play into that then so be it. I am aware there is plenty of fraud out of Egypt. I make be a newbie but I am far from uneducated. While you do some some older women with younger men on here it doesn't happen nearly as often. And, be sure that older women with younger men are talked about in a far more demeaning fashion than older men with younger women. Double standards are great. If men date or marry younger girls they are studs. If women date or marry younger men they are "COUGARS" who are trying to hold onto their youth. I don't care who marries who it's their business. But come on let's call a spade a spade.

ok, moron w/ double standards

OOOOOHHHHH sorry if this hits a little close to home.

nope. but, looks like i did.

[almaty 19]