HUGE age differences!!!

[Marilyn. 340]

I am so glad my husband is with me for more then just my assets...

[Nessa 23]

I was out in the Trafford Centre last night (big shopping mall in Manchester, UK) having drinks with friends when we saw a couple...he was at least 65 & she was easily 20 years old! She was from the far east..

To say they didnt attract a lot of attention is an understatement! She was all over him.

What I'm trying to say is...I believe in whatever makes you happy! ...y'know, just go for it & be happy! BUT I couldn't help but think..this guy is being taken for a mug! She can't possibly find him attractive!! ..Seriously though I've read lots on her about age differences & I can believe that yeh 10, 20 years is believable but 40 years???? Nahhhh

Is she hoping he dies soon so he leaves all of his money to her? I'm sure everyone was thinking the same thing.

Wot do you thin? Should this guy enjoy his senior years being conned? Or is it really lurve??

Young ladies trade their beauty,and older men trade their money..

when that's really the case, it's not a trade, it's prostitution. what you're saying is that is a good thing in being or marrying one.

I think it is a good trade off. He gets a sweet girlfriend for his last days, and she gets security and comfortable living in her young days. In the RP my girlfriend told me about something called the 3 m's. Some thing to do with old rich and dyeing.

[mailman2 0]

I am married to an Asian lady that is half my age and we are both happy, an 8 year relationship. You expect me to feel guilty about that?

Lets see, I seem to recall that around 50% of marriages in the US end in divorce (the ones that don't have a huge age difference). So, why not marry a young lady if you find a good one. I know, some would rather be with older spouses.

As long as you take the time to get to know a younger lady, understand her culture and way of thinking (it's much different then western ladies) then why not? Who cares what other people think as long as you are both happy. There are a fair number of western women that pick their husband based on the money factor! So either way, be careful and get a pre -nup.

Another thing, some of these younger Asian women married to older gents are not considered beautiful in their home countries but are appreciated in the west.

[sj5 4]

So far, I'm not tempted to ####### around

So far?

Do you want me to say "I never attempted to.."

There are a lot people saying "I will never cheat" but they didn't mean what they said.

[ProudWife 0]

Middle eastern? In no particular order, Philippine, Brazilian, Russian, Vietnamese and Korean young ladies take the market on seeking green cards by old farts. But these old farts know this, come on. The old farts look to these countries for their little girl token brides. Viagra baby!

[sj5 4]

So far, I'm not tempted to ####### around

So far?

I don't make promises then fail.

[Mags 112]

I am so glad my husband is with me for more then just my assets...

But I'm sure he's rather fond of your, *ahem* assets!

[Marilyn. 340]

I am so glad my husband is with me for more then just my assets...

But I'm sure he's rather fond of your, *ahem* assets!

well of course, that is a given ...lol...

[Danno 1,228]

And then on the other side.....

It';s been my observation, it's not only old guys going after young ladies.

How many times have we seen a very middle-aged american woman hooked up with a much younger middle eastern or African guy?

Do woman have a mid-life crisis too?

[jundp 191]

It's not my thing and I certainly don't get it, but it's not my business. Some people don't understand why I'd marry a guy from another country....

Yeah, really. What kind of idiot marries someone from another country? Must have failed with all of the Americans first. Must be a total loser. How much did you pay for him/her? Did they ship him/her via Fed Ex?

I see a lot of chopf##ks in this thread.....

Exactly. I think there are insincere relationships everywhere and within all age groups. Again, I do not understand the desire to be with someone 2x or more older/younger than you, but it's not my business.

Just like I didn't seek out a husband from another country (or a husband for that matter). But, our separate journeys led us to each other and he is the person I want to spend the rest of my life with and vice versa.

Why such judgment in this thread?!

[maritoni 3]

I was out in the Trafford Centre last night (big shopping mall in Manchester, UK) having drinks with friends when we saw a couple...he was at least 65 & she was easily 20 years old! She was from the far east..

To say they didnt attract a lot of attention is an understatement! She was all over him.

What I'm trying to say is...I believe in whatever makes you happy! ...y'know, just go for it & be happy! BUT I couldn't help but think..this guy is being taken for a mug! She can't possibly find him attractive!! ..Seriously though I've read lots on her about age differences & I can believe that yeh 10, 20 years is believable but 40 years???? Nahhhh

Is she hoping he dies soon so he leaves all of his money to her? I'm sure everyone was thinking the same thing.

Wot do you thin? Should this guy enjoy his senior years being conned? Or is it really lurve??

Young ladies trade their beauty,and older men trade their money..

I think it is a good trade off. He gets a sweet girlfriend for his last days, and she gets security and comfortable living in her young days. In the RP my girlfriend told me about something called the 3 m's. Some thing to do with old rich and dyeing.

everyone knows that the 65 year old wants a trophy,younger body and the 28 year old wants a sugar daddy.

Your Pinay gf is right about the 3 m's they tend to make very poor decisions as they age..anyho,the entire instution really is a joke, but if they can accept the responsibility for their actions, more power to them..

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

I was out in the Trafford Centre last night (big shopping mall in Manchester, UK) having drinks with friends when we saw a couple...he was at least 65 & she was easily 20 years old! She was from the far east..

To say they didnt attract a lot of attention is an understatement! She was all over him.

What I'm trying to say is...I believe in whatever makes you happy! ...y'know, just go for it & be happy! BUT I couldn't help but think..this guy is being taken for a mug! She can't possibly find him attractive!! ..Seriously though I've read lots on her about age differences & I can believe that yeh 10, 20 years is believable but 40 years???? Nahhhh

Is she hoping he dies soon so he leaves all of his money to her? I'm sure everyone was thinking the same thing.

Wot do you thin? Should this guy enjoy his senior years being conned? Or is it really lurve??

I have read this thread a few times and the blood is about squirting from my eyes, so I will answer. How do I do this?

See, some men prefer younger women, some women prefer older men. If they are both over 18 I make no judgement, in fact as an American, I DEMAND my right to be seduced and swindled by sexy hot foreign babes! If I am so silly to do so then let me die with a smile on my face and young Russian sweetie on my lap. (and I say this in the knowledge my wife has input on this, but not YOU and NOT the government). And for the record, my wife is 12 years younger and I really don't care if anyone, except her, approves.

Were I to post the same drivel and make judgements about couples on this site that are of mixed race, the woman older than men, expressed a preference for a religious belief I can be assured I would get a TOS warning at minimum. But because you bash an old man for choosing a young wifey, all is OK.

[Brad and Vika 129]

I was out in the Trafford Centre last night (big shopping mall in Manchester, UK) having drinks with friends when we saw a couple...he was at least 65 & she was easily 20 years old! She was from the far east..

To say they didnt attract a lot of attention is an understatement! She was all over him.

What I'm trying to say is...I believe in whatever makes you happy! ...y'know, just go for it & be happy! BUT I couldn't help but think..this guy is being taken for a mug! She can't possibly find him attractive!! ..Seriously though I've read lots on her about age differences & I can believe that yeh 10, 20 years is believable but 40 years???? Nahhhh

Is she hoping he dies soon so he leaves all of his money to her? I'm sure everyone was thinking the same thing.

Wot do you thin? Should this guy enjoy his senior years being conned? Or is it really lurve??

I have read this thread a few times and the blood is about squirting from my eyes, so I will answer. How do I do this?

See, some men prefer younger women, some women prefer older men. If they are both over 18 I make no judgement, in fact as an American, I DEMAND my right to be seduced and swindled by sexy hot foreign babes! If I am so silly to do so then let me die with a smile on my face and young Russian sweetie on my lap. (and I say this in the knowledge my wife has input on this, but not YOU and NOT the government). And for the record, my wife is 12 years younger and I really don't care if anyone, except her, approves.

Were I to post the same drivel and make judgements about couples on this site that are of mixed race, the woman older than men, expressed a preference for a religious belief I can be assured I would get a TOS warning at minimum. But because you bash an old man for choosing a young wifey, all is OK.

Well said

[HelloMiffy 1]

When I was 20 something I was attracted to a little older men. But having passed 40 year-old line, all I can see are younger men (like my man)

[Brad and Vika 129]

When I was 20 something I was attracted to a little older men. But having passed 40 year-old line, all I can see are younger men (like my man)

And there you have it.... the other side of the story