HUGE age differences!!!

[nurse1967 287]

These men who date and marry girls young enough to be their daughters are only fooling themselves. I am sure if there were statistics about this phenomenon you wouldn't find many 20 something girls dating or marrying men two or three times their age if the checking balance was zero. With that said, I wouldn't be surprised if this comes to light eventually. But some people have to learn life's lessons the hard way

[maritoni 3]

I was out in the Trafford Centre last night (big shopping mall in Manchester, UK) having drinks with friends when we saw a couple...he was at least 65 & she was easily 20 years old! She was from the far east..

To say they didnt attract a lot of attention is an understatement! She was all over him.

What I'm trying to say is...I believe in whatever makes you happy! ...y'know, just go for it & be happy! BUT I couldn't help but think..this guy is being taken for a mug! She can't possibly find him attractive!! ..Seriously though I've read lots on her about age differences & I can believe that yeh 10, 20 years is believable but 40 years???? Nahhhh

Is she hoping he dies soon so he leaves all of his money to her? I'm sure everyone was thinking the same thing.

Wot do you thin? Should this guy enjoy his senior years being conned? Or is it really lurve??

Young ladies trade their beauty,and older men trade their money..

What if he doesn't have enough money, but rich in debt.

YOu know what happens next dont you?

[sj5 4]

What if he doesn't have enough money, but rich in debt.

YOu know what happens next dont you?

Only stupid people doesn't know what's next.

Edited March 8, 2009 by sj5

[Ban Hammer 13,333]

These men who date and marry girls young enough to be their daughters are only fooling themselves. I am sure if there were statistics about this phenomenon you wouldn't find many 20 something girls dating or marrying men two or three times their age if the checking balance was zero. With that said, I wouldn't be surprised if this comes to light eventually. But some people have to learn life's lessons the hard way

you need to wander over to mena and try the flip side of that

and moved from K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & Procedures General Discussion to ot.

Edited March 8, 2009 by charles!

[AnnexoxShay 1]

I'm not really making big deal on age differences, but if too much then this prompt would cross my mind "how she gets turn on for him?" Anyway, I get used to this issues. Concerning age difference isn't bother me, but I wouldn't date a guy that is older than my father.

Then you might be missing out on something ... like fine wine....

gets better with age...

Yes, but all fine wine has a peak. Then they go flat, like old men.

we need a high 5 icon... That was a good one ...

I tried older (bleh) and several years younger (double bleh) ... and I have to say, my baby being the same age (1 year older) is sweeter then any wine could ever be ... for once I can talk to someone about something and they have a clue what Im talking about .... Omg they actually got the 80's! now thats enough to make you fall head over heels

And when the time comes for wrinkling and drooping bits, least they be wrinkling and drooping together!

[bhajishah 4]

Well hypothetical. how would you like to spend your retirement years In nursing home with big old mean nurses, or welll.. and how would you like to die. slow death or quick aortic dissection (heart blow up) after big sexy time...Let thier old fools have thier happiness however they find, life is hard enough. I just hope they all make amends with Thier maker ALLAH and have peaceful happiness with whoever (kids, grand kids brothers sisters) and whtever they do end of life. Let pay pay nay nay have the money if she can make the old man happy for awhile.

[S and S 12]

These men who date and marry girls young enough to be their daughters are only fooling themselves. I am sure if there were statistics about this phenomenon you wouldn't find many 20 something girls dating or marrying men two or three times their age if the checking balance was zero. With that said, I wouldn't be surprised if this comes to light eventually. But some people have to learn life's lessons the hard way

you need to wander over to mena and try the flip side of that

and moved from K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & Procedures General Discussion to ot.

Hey, I fall under the MENA category and my husband is older than me, but only by two years. I guess to each his own, though I like that I don't have the huge age gap. The main thing is that the one who is much older keeps their eyes open to possible realities and outcomes. If their happy though, you can't begrudge them that. I just hate it when they think there isn't a possible chance their being used. Even then, it is just that I will feel bad when their heart is broken later because they had refused to consider what they were getting into.

[DanielParul 50]

Its like marrying your own father. Ewwwwwww!!

Sorry, no offence, just gross to me

[sj5 4]

Its like marrying your own father. Ewwwwwww!!

Sorry, no offence, just gross to me

Not for them and to me.

When I dated a guy same age as me, I feel like dating my brother .

[GaryC 7]

"Judge not lest ye be judged". Words to live by. Luz is friends with a couple that we socialize with. She is 28 and he is 74. They have been married for 5 years now and Luz is 100% sure that not only is she faithful to him she also is obviously very much in love with him. He isn't rich, she has a very good job and can take care of herself. She is a nurse and could have come here without marrying an American. Don't judge others based on age difference.

[Hilarious Clinton 452]

My last girlfriend called me a pedophile.... I told her that was a mighty big word for a 12 year old.

[S and S 12]

My last girlfriend called me a pedophile.... I told her that was a mighty big word for a 12 year old.

[sj5 4]

My last girlfriend called me a pedophile.... I told her that was a mighty big word for a 12 year old.

You can't win if you live for others sake.

[trinket 30]

Its like marrying your own father. Ewwwwwww!!

Sorry, no offence, just gross to me

Not for them and to me.

When I dated a guy same age as me, I feel like dating my brother .

Huh??

Why can't someone around your own age be your friend? your best friend may be. I don't get the brotherly connection.......too gross.

FYI- my bro is 6 years younger than me and my husband is 1.5 years older than I am; I see no connection.

And to the OP, whatever floats their boat, I am not living their life, so why should I really even care? Everyone has their own definite view of how and what they want in life, so let it be like that.

[elkfarmer 4]

I have to say something here. I went to Colombia in search of a decent wife. I was sick and tired of the same old bats, in America. We all know exactly what I am talking about. I was lined up, with every possible age. from 16 to 50. I am 62 now. I came ever so close to selecting a wonderful young woman 22 years of age. No hanky panky. Honest serious relationship. I then met my wife and she was 38. For you people who have a closed mind on age differences, I feel sorry for you. It must be an American thing.