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I was out in the Trafford Centre last night (big shopping mall in Manchester, UK) having drinks with friends when we saw a couple...he was at least 65 & she was easily 20 years old! She was from the far east..

To say they didnt attract a lot of attention is an understatement! She was all over him.

What I'm trying to say is...I believe in whatever makes you happy! ...y'know, just go for it & be happy! BUT I couldn't help but think..this guy is being taken for a mug! She can't possibly find him attractive!! ..Seriously though I've read lots on her about age differences & I can believe that yeh 10, 20 years is believable but 40 years???? Nahhhh

Is she hoping he dies soon so he leaves all of his money to her? I'm sure everyone was thinking the same thing.

Wot do you thin? Should this guy enjoy his senior years being conned? Or is it really lurve??

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I think it's their business and their life and only they can live it.

Don't just open your mouth and prove yourself a fool....put it in writing.

It gets harder the more you know. Because the more you find out, the uglier everything seems.

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I was out in the Trafford Centre last night (big shopping mall in Manchester, UK) having drinks with friends when we saw a couple...he was at least 65 & she was easily 20 years old! She was from the far east..

To say they didnt attract a lot of attention is an understatement! She was all over him.

What I'm trying to say is...I believe in whatever makes you happy! ...y'know, just go for it & be happy! BUT I couldn't help but think..this guy is being taken for a mug! She can't possibly find him attractive!! ..Seriously though I've read lots on her about age differences & I can believe that yeh 10, 20 years is believable but 40 years???? Nahhhh

Is she hoping he dies soon so he leaves all of his money to her? I'm sure everyone was thinking the same thing.

Wot do you thin? Should this guy enjoy his senior years being conned? Or is it really lurve??

i am sure he is older than her PArents , hahaha.

Let him enjoy his senior yrs. i am sure he was warned from his family memebers/friends.

I agree with u on age difference . 40, is just way TOO MUCH.

But Its His n Her Life...

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I was out in the Trafford Centre last night (big shopping mall in Manchester, UK) having drinks with friends when we saw a couple...he was at least 65 & she was easily 20 years old! She was from the far east..

To say they didnt attract a lot of attention is an understatement! She was all over him.

What I'm trying to say is...I believe in whatever makes you happy! ...y'know, just go for it & be happy! BUT I couldn't help but think..this guy is being taken for a mug! She can't possibly find him attractive!! ..Seriously though I've read lots on her about age differences & I can believe that yeh 10, 20 years is believable but 40 years???? Nahhhh

Is she hoping he dies soon so he leaves all of his money to her? I'm sure everyone was thinking the same thing.

Wot do you thin? Should this guy enjoy his senior years being conned? Or is it really lurve??

Im not big on the HUGE age differences either ... but at the same time whose to say who is using who? He is more then likely very aware that the attraction is (most likely) purely for the money ors ome other agenda and his more then likely very happy with the setup ... his got a young pretty wife to keep him company and pay him attention etc and all its going to cost him is his money when he passes on, no skin of his nose, he cant take it with him anyway ...

.... like Anna Nicole and her ailing hubby, the only people bothered by the setup was the media and the general public, he didnt care, he loved getting the attention ...

One of my friends parents had a 30 year gap give or take a year or two ... the wife wanted to leave and start a new life she was in her mid 30s ... her husband begged her to stay, he was happy to keep paying the bills and pay for her expenses etc so long as she stayed with him ... he was even prepared to turn a blind eye to her indiscretions .... I personally dont want to live my life like that but others are perfectly happy with such arrangements...

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I was out in the Trafford Centre last night (big shopping mall in Manchester, UK) having drinks with friends when we saw a couple...he was at least 65 & she was easily 20 years old! She was from the far east..

To say they didnt attract a lot of attention is an understatement! She was all over him.

What I'm trying to say is...I believe in whatever makes you happy! ...y'know, just go for it & be happy! BUT I couldn't help but think..this guy is being taken for a mug! She can't possibly find him attractive!! ..Seriously though I've read lots on her about age differences & I can believe that yeh 10, 20 years is believable but 40 years???? Nahhhh

Is she hoping he dies soon so he leaves all of his money to her? I'm sure everyone was thinking the same thing.

Wot do you thin? Should this guy enjoy his senior years being conned? Or is it really lurve??

Beauty (and love) is in the eye of the beholder.

good on them for finding each other...

My Advice is usually based on "Worst Case Scenario" and what is written in the rules/laws/instructions. That is the way I roll... -Protect your Status - file before your I-94 expires.

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I am more than 20 years older than my fiance

It runs in my family, here is a picture of my father and his girlfriend

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I'm not really making big deal on age differences, but if too much then this prompt would cross my mind "how she gets turn on for him?" Anyway, I get used to this issues. For myself, I prefer a little bit older than me which isn't bother me, but I wouldn't date a guy that is older than my father. :lol:

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I'm not really making big deal on age differences, but if too much then this prompt would cross my mind "how she gets turn on for him?" Anyway, I get used to this issues. Concerning age difference isn't bother me, but I wouldn't date a guy that is older than my father. :lol:

Then you might be missing out on something ... like fine wine....

gets better with age... :hehe:

My Advice is usually based on "Worst Case Scenario" and what is written in the rules/laws/instructions. That is the way I roll... -Protect your Status - file before your I-94 expires.

WARNING: Phrases in this post may sound meaner than they were intended to be. Read the Adjudicator's Field Manual from USCIS

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I was out in the Trafford Centre last night (big shopping mall in Manchester, UK) having drinks with friends when we saw a couple...he was at least 65 & she was easily 20 years old! She was from the far east..

To say they didnt attract a lot of attention is an understatement! She was all over him.

What I'm trying to say is...I believe in whatever makes you happy! ...y'know, just go for it & be happy! BUT I couldn't help but think..this guy is being taken for a mug! She can't possibly find him attractive!! ..Seriously though I've read lots on her about age differences & I can believe that yeh 10, 20 years is believable but 40 years???? Nahhhh

Is she hoping he dies soon so he leaves all of his money to her? I'm sure everyone was thinking the same thing.

Wot do you thin? Should this guy enjoy his senior years being conned? Or is it really lurve??

Young ladies trade their beauty,and older men trade their money.. :thumbs:

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I'm not really making big deal on age differences, but if too much then this prompt would cross my mind "how she gets turn on for him?" Anyway, I get used to this issues. Concerning age difference isn't bother me, but I wouldn't date a guy that is older than my father. :lol:

Then you might be missing out on something ... like fine wine....

gets better with age... :hehe:

That's what they said. :rofl:

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I'm not really making big deal on age differences, but if too much then this prompt would cross my mind "how she gets turn on for him?" Anyway, I get used to this issues. Concerning age difference isn't bother me, but I wouldn't date a guy that is older than my father. :lol:

Then you might be missing out on something ... like fine wine....

gets better with age... :hehe:

Yes, but all fine wine has a peak. Then they go flat, like old men.

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My heart belongs to you!

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I was out in the Trafford Centre last night (big shopping mall in Manchester, UK) having drinks with friends when we saw a couple...he was at least 65 & she was easily 20 years old! She was from the far east..

To say they didnt attract a lot of attention is an understatement! She was all over him.

What I'm trying to say is...I believe in whatever makes you happy! ...y'know, just go for it & be happy! BUT I couldn't help but think..this guy is being taken for a mug! She can't possibly find him attractive!! ..Seriously though I've read lots on her about age differences & I can believe that yeh 10, 20 years is believable but 40 years???? Nahhhh

Is she hoping he dies soon so he leaves all of his money to her? I'm sure everyone was thinking the same thing.

Wot do you thin? Should this guy enjoy his senior years being conned? Or is it really lurve??

Young ladies trade their beauty,and older men trade their money.. :thumbs:

What if he doesn't have enough money, but rich in debt. :rofl:

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I'm not really making big deal on age differences, but if too much then this prompt would cross my mind "how she gets turn on for him?" Anyway, I get used to this issues. Concerning age difference isn't bother me, but I wouldn't date a guy that is older than my father. :lol:

Then you might be missing out on something ... like fine wine....

gets better with age... :hehe:

Yes, but all fine wine has a peak. Then they go flat, like old men.

A husky and attractive middle age men are very delicious(drooling). Look at George Clooney as an example. :whistle:

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I'm not really making big deal on age differences, but if too much then this prompt would cross my mind "how she gets turn on for him?" Anyway, I get used to this issues. Concerning age difference isn't bother me, but I wouldn't date a guy that is older than my father. :lol:

Then you might be missing out on something ... like fine wine....

gets better with age... :hehe:

Yes, but all fine wine has a peak. Then they go flat, like old men.

A husky and attractive middle age men are very delicious(drooling). Look at George Clooney as an example. :whistle:

You're comparing "middle aged" men on VJ to George Clooney? LOL! George Clooney is a young whippersnapper compared to some of the fossils with 20 year old fiancees around these parts. To each his/her own but lets all be real and honest about what's going on.

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