March 2009 K1 Filer

[CF&CZ 0]

Frostymist, it's good that you can see your fiance again. Cherish the moment, and soon enough, the NOA2 will come. Hopefully everyone here as well.

I'm just waiting for my fiancee to arrive today. Her plane is supposed to arrive at 1:50 p.m., but it's been delayed by 3.5 hours! Now, she's supposed to arrive at 5:30 p.m. Grrr..... Oh well, I'll be happy when she gets out of customs. Hopefully, when she's here, the NOA2 will arrive in the mail!

Hang in there everyone!

[naima&negrito 0]

thanks for the info emmaline q! you definitely helped me feel a lot more relieved (knowing there's hope). I truly appreciate the advice on getting my transcripts and an adviser to sign vouching that I'm a full-time student... i was freaking out, breaking down, and worrying so much...it's nice to hear that I'm not the first person to attempt this while still in college

gtb-michael and rainschild2007, thanks for the re-assurance on the co-sponsor and warm welcomes

frostymist I'm so sorry to hear about your dog... but I'm glad you will get to see your sweetie soon. who knows, maybe in the one hour wait time, he'll pick up some flowers for you

[FrostyMist 1]

Thank you for the encouragement everyone. I just keep thinking of the moment when I get to see him again, and I just want to cry with the relief and happiness of knowing I'll be able to be with him.

And your words, Gemmie, were especially comforting. I know I'm going to feel a whole lot different about things when visa is in hand and we actually know that we have some control over our relationship again. It's just the uncertainty. Perhaps if I were a bit happier in my current home life situation, I would be coping better, but the sad truth is that I desperately, desperately want and need to get out of here. But with immigration on the horizon, I'm sort of in limbo.

How will I feel in three or four years, when this is all done with and we are together? I think it will take me at least that long to actually trust that some nasty government system is not going to seperate us. Trips are wonderful things, but I can't even begin to imagine how I'm going to feel the day I see him at the airport and know we can at last be together for the rest of our lives.

If we are lucky, my guy will be with me until the September, and maybe we will have a nice NOA2 waiting for us when he goes back. Or if not straight away, pretty soon afterwards. Then my time will be taken up with gathering immigration stuff, and I think (and hope!) the time will go faster when I have something to do.

Next week, I'm going to phone my doctor and sort out my vaccination records. But aside from that, there's not much I can do at this point but wait.

[Gemmie 142]

I think you're right, it must be extra stressful when you have things going on at home too.

It will be so great to have him there with you while you wait, and don't forget to prepare as much as you can for packet 3 in the meantime while together. Get him to bring his financial info for instance, and then you might be able to whiz through the embassy stage (medical/interview) which is a piece of cake. You'll feel so good once you have your visa.

[FrostyMist 1]

The embassy stage is a piece of cake? Honestly, that's the part we're dreading the most!

I think we're both very fortunate, because his mum is a total whizz at sorting things out and getting together information. As far as I know, much of the financial stuff has already been taken care of. Since many of the forms can be filled out online, I've been able to look over everything that's been sent off (or due to be sent off in the future) so I'm content that we've put together a good case.

So far.

The interview/medical part scares me, but only because I have a disability + medical condition that we're concerned could give them cause to deny our petition, and also because currently he hasn't managed to earn enough money to be able to support me on his own (his mum and dad, however, are both acting as sponsors and should quite easily be able to meet the USCIS' guidelines)

[laura819 0]

The embassy stage is a piece of cake? Honestly, that's the part we're dreading the most!

I think we're both very fortunate, because his mum is a total whizz at sorting things out and getting together information. As far as I know, much of the financial stuff has already been taken care of. Since many of the forms can be filled out online, I've been able to look over everything that's been sent off (or due to be sent off in the future) so I'm content that we've put together a good case.

So far.

The interview/medical part scares me, but only because I have a disability + medical condition that we're concerned could give them cause to deny our petition, and also because currently he hasn't managed to earn enough money to be able to support me on his own (his mum and dad, however, are both acting as sponsors and should quite easily be able to meet the USCIS' guidelines)

Frosty, I am actually a January filer, but I was reading this thread and I just wanted to tell you I am so sorry about your dog, and I completely understand! My family has a 13 year old dog that got reallllly sick on thursday and we thought we were gonna lose her...thankfully i think she has pulled through...but I was a complete mess at the thought..crying all the time, etc...so don't feel silly!

[Gemmie 142]

The embassy stage is a piece of cake? Honestly, that's the part we're dreading the most!

I think we're both very fortunate, because his mum is a total whizz at sorting things out and getting together information. As far as I know, much of the financial stuff has already been taken care of. Since many of the forms can be filled out online, I've been able to look over everything that's been sent off (or due to be sent off in the future) so I'm content that we've put together a good case.

So far.

The interview/medical part scares me, but only because I have a disability + medical condition that we're concerned could give them cause to deny our petition, and also because currently he hasn't managed to earn enough money to be able to support me on his own (his mum and dad, however, are both acting as sponsors and should quite easily be able to meet the USCIS' guidelines)

The medical and interview are scary to think about on their own, I know that I was dreading it and I have no disorders or anything. But I'm sure everything will go just fine, do you mind saying what medical condition you have? Unless it's something that means a lot of care in the U.S or puts you at risk to others, I don't think they really care. People with all kinds of problems have managed to work around it, either with a doctors note or further evaluation. The medical is over in literally 10-30 minutes.

The interview is also over in about 5 minutes, London is an easy consulate to go through. We didn't make the financial limit either, we got his mum to co-sponsor us and everything was fine, they didn't need anything else except one of her tax returns (but of course you should have more evidence just in case they ask for it). It really is a piece of cake, and there are loads of really helpful people in the UK forum that will answer any questions you have and be there to hold your hand, wish you luck on the day, etc.

[FrostyMist 1]

rosty, I am actually a January filer, but I was reading this thread and I just wanted to tell you I am so sorry about your dog, and I completely understand! My family has a 13 year old dog that got reallllly sick on thursday and we thought we were gonna lose her...thankfully i think she has pulled through...but I was a complete mess at the thought..crying all the time, etc...so don't feel silly!

Thanks for the kind regards. My dog's illness has all been quite sudden and completely unexpected. Her prognosis is not good, but the vet assures me that as long as she's happy in herself, and is eating okay, we might enjoy a few months with her yet. Unfortunately, getting her to eat has become an utter ordeal. She eats less than a mouse-and that's on a good day.

But I'm sure everything will go just fine, do you mind saying what medical condition you have? Unless it's something that means a lot of care in the U.S or puts you at risk to others, I don't think they really care.

I won't give the exact name, because it's a very rare conditoin and most people would probably not understand what it involves.

I have some physical disabilities, including a serious visual impairment as well as dependancy on a wheelchair whenever I am out. My health condition requires I take medication daily, which is necessary in order for me to be able to stay alive and healthy. I could miss a dose or two, and just feel a bit icky, but it's not the sort of thing I can live without.

Yes, I do need some care. I am just hoping that the USCIS will not be concerned too greatly about the level of that care. Unfortunately, I am unable to work, so receive benefits at the moment. It's really that that we're all concerned about, even though we have more than adequate financial resources through sponsorship.

Many people have told me that health insurance is a big, big concern. We've researched extensively into that, have a place lined up, plus costs. It's affordable, so there should be no hidden surprises there.

I've also had a long chat with the specialist I see at the hospital, and he really doesn't see any reason to worry, just as long as I can get the necessary care over in the US, and health insurance coverage. He's already written me up a note to say that my condition is managed well, and that it is not expected to decline.

I've read the USCIS' medical guidelines and I believe that I don't have any problems that will give them cause to deny me on medical grounds alone. I am no danger to myself (other than if I had an accident because I tripped over something and broke my arm, perhaps) and certainly not to others. I do not have anything contagious, nor that affects my behaviour or mental abilities. And whilst I do require care, I do not require nursing care.

Because my case has complications, we are putting together as much evidance as we can possibly gather.

Someone told me that the interview tends to be quite an anti-climax to the whole thing. After all the stress and buildup, it's over quite quickly and is fairly uncomplicated. I hope that's the same for us.

Edited May 25, 2009 by FrostyMist

[FranziskaS 0]

rosty, I am actually a January filer, but I was reading this thread and I just wanted to tell you I am so sorry about your dog, and I completely understand! My family has a 13 year old dog that got reallllly sick on thursday and we thought we were gonna lose her...thankfully i think she has pulled through...but I was a complete mess at the thought..crying all the time, etc...so don't feel silly!

Thanks for the kind regards. My dog's illness has all been quite sudden and completely unexpected. Her prognosis is not good, but the vet assures me that as long as she's happy in herself, and is eating okay, we might enjoy a few months with her yet. Unfortunately, getting her to eat has become an utter ordeal. She eats less than a mouse-and that's on a good day.

But I'm sure everything will go just fine, do you mind saying what medical condition you have? Unless it's something that means a lot of care in the U.S or puts you at risk to others, I don't think they really care.

I won't give the exact name, because it's a very rare conditoin and most people would probably not understand what it involves.

I have some physical disabilities, including a serious visual impairment as well as dependancy on a wheelchair whenever I am out. My health condition requires I take medication daily, which is necessary in order for me to be able to stay alive and healthy. I could miss a dose or two, and just feel a bit icky, but it's not the sort of thing I can live without.

Yes, I do need some care. I am just hoping that the USCIS will not be concerned too greatly about the level of that care. Unfortunately, I am unable to work, so receive benefits at the moment. It's really that that we're all concerned about, even though we have more than adequate financial resources through sponsorship.

Many people have told me that health insurance is a big, big concern. We've researched extensively into that, have a place lined up, plus costs. It's affordable, so there should be no hidden surprises there.

I've also had a long chat with the specialist I see at the hospital, and he really doesn't see any reason to worry, just as long as I can get the necessary care over in the US, and health insurance coverage. He's already written me up a note to say that my condition is managed well, and that it is not expected to decline.

I've read the USCIS' medical guidelines and I believe that I don't have any problems that will give them cause to deny me on medical grounds alone. I am no danger to myself (other than if I had an accident because I tripped over something and broke my arm, perhaps) and certainly not to others. I do not have anything contagious, nor that affects my behaviour or mental abilities. And whilst I do require care, I do not require nursing care.

Because my case has complications, we are putting together as much evidance as we can possibly gather.

Someone told me that the interview tends to be quite an anti-climax to the whole thing. After all the stress and buildup, it's over quite quickly and is fairly uncomplicated. I hope that's the same for us.

not sure if this would help at all. but you said you researched health insurance. maybe you can get a letter from that insurance how much it would be and that you would be covered. that way at the interview/medical they can see that it is affordable for you guys. that way they can't say that they are concered that you wouldn't be able to get proper or affordable health insurance due to your existing condition. and they can't say you might become a public charge because of a too expensive insurance. which they probably won't say anyways. just think it is always good to have proof of something.

hope I could help you a bit.

enjoy the time with your sweetheart,

fran

[FrostyMist 1]

maybe you can get a letter from that insurance how much it would be and that you would be covered. that way at the interview/medical they can see that it is affordable for you guys. that way they can't say that they are concered that you wouldn't be able to get proper or affordable health insurance due to your existing condition. and they can't say you might become a public charge because of a too expensive insurance. which they probably won't say anyways. just think it is always good to have proof of something.

hope I could help you a bit.

enjoy the time with your sweetheart,

fran

Forgot to mention in my previous post that we've already started to move towards doing exactly that. It is quite expensive, but still doable for us.

[Cutefemcop 0]

Okay I am getting frustrated....it has almost been 3 months and my application has not even been touched!! When I call USCIS all they say is that I have to wait 6-months and if my application has not been reviewed by then, then they will expedite it, but in the same breath they say that the whole process will only take 6 months!! Now how in the world is that gonna happen....anyone else having issues with process taking longer than 6-months?

[emmaline_g 2]

^^^ It has only been 3 months, there is no need to freak out. All of us filed almost 3 months ago and nobody has received a touch. If you read back in this thread the USCIS is working on a different type of visa right now, which is slowing down the process of our visas. Also, even when times were moving "normally" I would notice that the very lucky people on average got an approval after at least 4 months.

There really is no need to freak out yet.

[Cutefemcop 0]

Okay thanks...didn't see the thread about them working on another type of Visa...

^^^ It has only been 3 months, there is no need to freak out. All of us filed almost 3 months ago and nobody has received a touch. If you read back in this thread the USCIS is working on a different type of visa right now, which is slowing down the process of our visas. Also, even when times were moving "normally" I would notice that the very lucky people on average got an approval after at least 4 months.

There really is no need to freak out yet.

[FrostyMist 1]

Okay I am getting frustrated....it has almost been 3 months and my application has not even been touched!! When I call USCIS all they say is that I have to wait 6-months and if my application has not been reviewed by then, then they will expedite it, but in the same breath they say that the whole process will only take 6 months!! Now how in the world is that gonna happen....anyone else having issues with process taking longer than 6-months?

I know it's difficult, but try to stay patient (easier said than done, of course) 3 months is still fairly early for the USCIS to take action. After six months is when they will consider taking action to speed hte process up for you. Hopefully you will hear something within the next few months.

We sent our I-129F off in March, no touches or anything yet. It's frustrating to see the lack of any action being taken, but it's too soon to panic just yet. Use the time in the meantime to gather together any information in readiness for when your NOA2 arrives.

[Perry/Elena 0]

Letting you guys know as I view it as good news here too....

A CSC file that arrived there on April 10th just got an NOA2....