My Husband cancel my adjustment of status

[Loolie 56]

it's called "the white elephant in the room", and everyone is ignoring it.

too many of you fools are marrying people from other countries and expecting them to think like you do and have compatible logic and behaviour. truth is, most 2nd and 3rd worlders have very different conceptions of dignity and respectable behaviour. they come here and don't fit in, and their US spouse either educates them, isolates them, or kicks them to the curb. the high number of quick divorces in the K1-USC process is indicative of the number of "green carder seekers", immature immigrants unwilling to be socialised, and USC unwilling to invest years of effort in acclimating their new partner.

i understand your point but not all people are green card seekers like you think...well good for you that you lived in china for 2 years...other people cant do that....heller.

God bless you.

Friend, I didn't say that all imigrants are green card seekers. I listed 3 reasons why a marriage to a foreigner could fail. Many internet marriages turn out OK, but if the two cultures involved are dramatically different, it takes a lot of sincerity, sacrifice, work, and patience. I'm sure you understand that, and wish you the best of luck with your fillipina.

hehehhehehe...i am the filipina...thats all. friend? hehehehe

[Chica Yeyé 41]

Oh dear this is a shocking assumption!!!! I am asking with all sincerity, do you know this person personally and you are therefore enlightening us? Your statement suggests that you do based on the "she is planning to..." and all the other statements I am reading.

it's called "the white elephant in the room", and everyone is ignoring it.

too many of you fools are marrying people from other countries and expecting them to think like you do and have compatible logic and behaviour. truth is, most 2nd and 3rd worlders have very different conceptions of dignity and respectable behaviour. they come here and don't fit in, and their US spouse either educates them, isolates them, or kicks them to the curb. the high number of quick divorces in the K1-USC process is indicative of the number of "green carder seekers", immature immigrants unwilling to be socialised, and USC unwilling to invest years of effort in acclimating their new partner. our country would be less burdened by unsocialised people if it weren't for the high number of fantasy based marriages that go awry.

and yes, i lived with my wife in china for 2 years before we married, so i knew what i was getting into. i have no respect at all for people who claim a "relationship" that consists merely of a 1 week vacation and a bunch of e-mails.

#######? you are quite the disgusting generalizing character. talk about your wife, and start stfu'ing about everyone else's spouse.