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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Russia
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Thank you all for your warm welcome!!!!!! This is the first site I've been on that I feel like all the people on board are in the same trench together. (yes, I tend to use miltary terms alot - habit). I feel a great unity and brotherhood (and sisterhood) here. I feel very much at home here.

Everyone knows that when people are in the same "trench" together, alot is understood by all.

As far as the letters go......Ekaterina and I have pretty much split the 500 emails ( 250 and 250 )......I can honestly say the out of my 250......225 have been minimum of 4 pages each. What do I find to talk about? Well, when she sends me a response to my previous letter, ( I initiated the letter number system....so that we can tell if one of our letters has been lost within cyberspace) ie, we will write, " I have recieved your letter number 225, I shall answer it now".......when we do this over and over again.....we just type like we are talking in a conversation. Yes, I have repeated some things about a hundred times but she doesn't care....she tells me that she will always love to hear my thoughts and desires.

Are there sexual fantasies?........of course there are.....but at around the 400th email we both decided to not continue to speak about all of our desires......this way we can still have the sense of "surprise" on our wedding night. The benefit that we both received from telling to each other what some of our desires are, gives us both a foundation to know where to start. Trust me, we aren't going to waste time to get to know each other from square one the first night.............we uhmmm,,, kinda of past that hurdle already!!!!!!! (L)

While the high temperature in Russia was 0 degrees!!!!!!!!!! which reminds me......I was astounded at the way the Russians regulated the temp in their apartments.....In my hotel the heat was on 24/7......after a couple of rounds of ........wrestling yah.......lets call it that..........championship wrestling between the American champ and the Russian champ (LOL) :whistle: .........all the Russian people do to cool off the room was to open the windows!!!!!!!!!!! This blew my mind. I would look out the window at the hundred or so floors of apartments, and I would see many windows open with the temp at zero!!!!!!!!!!!!! Boy, those Russians sure love their wrestling!!!!!!!!!!! (lol) :innocent:

Anyway.........I never run out of things to say. She wants to know all about America, my family, the kids, my childhood, and on and on and on and on....... I hate :angry: this computer with a passion. :crying:

I am so tired of typing letters to her while only able to look at her photos........But when I get home, the first thing I do is run to my computer and read her letters and then I respond with mine. :) Hey, I'm a guy.....guys need visual stimulation.....with lots of hugging and touching......remember!!!!! I will not admit to ever kissing the computer screen!!!!! Nobody can prove it either!!!!! :blush:

Anyway.........it's good to talk with people who completely understand what frustration and heartache means.....I look forward to reading all the posts.......

03-21-06 - Petition received at TSC

03-27-06 - NOA1 Transferred to CSC

08-02-06 - TOUCHED

08-03-06 - TOUCHED

08-07-06 - TOUCHED

09-11-06 - 1st meeting with Congressional aid

09-14-06 - 1st letter sent from Congressional aid to CSC.

09-21-06 - 1st generic response from CSC to aid.

09-22-06 - 2nd letter from Congressional aid to CSC.

09-22-06 - touched

09-23-06 - touched

09-25-06 - touched

09-26-06 - touched

09-26-06 - 2nd meeting with Congressional aid

09-27-06 - 3rd meeting with Congressional aid

10-02-06 - 5 emails stating that an RFE was sent out on Sept 30th....

10-03-06 - touched

10-10-06 - received IMBRA RFE

10-11-06 - sent IMBRA RFE to CSC

10-12-06 - CSC receives IMBRA RFE

10-17-06 - touched

10-19-06 - touched

10-20-06 - touched

10-21-06 - touched

10-24-06 - APPROVED

10-26-06 - touched

10-27-06 - touched

11-03-06 - NVC notifies w/letter - receipt of case

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There is a website called lovingyou.com that has a section just for long distance relationships and gives good ideas about how to keep a spark going.... :yes:

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Welcome to vj! You'll find lots of good info. here and make some friends along the way. Go to "off topic" there are always some good topics there to discuss with your fiancee.

Karen

Didn't he post this in OT or am I missing something?

Lisa, it might have been moved! :)

It was originally posted in K1 Visa...guess it got moved :) .

Karen ( USA ) and Tony ( UK ) now both residing in USA!!

2/28/05- I-129F sent to TSC

7/29/05- Interview date- Approved!!!!!!!!!!!!!

10/06/05-Tony comes home to Tennessee!!!

10/08/05-WE'RE MARRIED!!! I love this man!

AOS/EAD/AP

11/26/05-filed for emergency AP

11/29/05-filed for AOS/EAD

03/07/06-online EAD approval

03/10/06-received EAD in post and passed driving test (Wow what a day)

07/26/06-AOS Interview---APPROVED!!!!!!

07/31/06-received 'Welcome to America' Letter

08/07/06-received Green card in post wooooooooohoooooooo

03/30/09-received approval to remove conditions!

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Did you tell her the one about where she's dressed up as Sailor Moon?

Me -.us Her -.ma

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I-129F NOA1: 8 Dec 2003

Interview Date: 13 July 2004 Approved!

US Arrival: 04 Oct 2004 We're here!

Wedding: 15 November 2004, Maui

AOS & EAD Sent: 23 Dec 2004

AOS approved!: 12 July 2005

Residency card received!: 4 Aug 2005

I-751 NOA1 dated 02 May 2007

I-751 biometrics appt. 29 May 2007

10 year green card received! 11 June 2007

Our son Michael is born!: 18 Aug 2007

Apply for US Citizenship: 14 July 2008

N-400 NOA1: 15 July 2008

Check cashed: 17 July 2008

Our son Michael is one year old!: 18 Aug 2008

N-400 biometrics: 19 Aug 2008

N-400 interview: 18 Nov 2008 Passed!

Our daughter Emmy is born!: 23 Dec 2008

Oath ceremony: 29 Jan 2009 Complete! Woo-hoo no more USCIS!

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odd concept but ... stop talking about fantasies! through our separation, sex was not the main topic of our discussions. why tell your fiance(e) everything or vice versa? wouldn't you rather discover first hand what really sets them on fire?? instead of thinking 'oh yeah, she said she really loves it when someone ....' no offense but no two people are alike in the bedroom ... what a girl has done to you man to be able to be reproduced or what someone has done to her you can't do.

Ditto. My husband and I had a long distance relationship for 4 years. We sure as heck talked about every subject under the sun. Talk about what kind of movies and tv shows you like to watch, your goals for life, where you see yourself in 5, 10, 40 years, what you expect in a life partner, who's going to do what house hold chores, who sleeps on what side of the bed, morning person or night person, favorite sport, favorite weekend activity, favorite food, world politics, what things are like in your neck of the woods, favorite books, childhood memories, asperations for kids, family members, dream vacation, cultural differences, the list is endless.

Discuss things that will be the foundation of your relationship once you're actually together. The sex talk can be fun, but hashing out the details of who does dishes and who scrubs the toilet will solve a lot more headaches that are bound to come in the future.

10/14/05 - married AbuS in the US lovehusband.gif

02/23/08 - Filed for removal of conditions.

Sometime in 2008 - Received 10 year GC. Almost done with USCIS for life inshaAllah! Huzzah!

12/07/08 - Adopted the fuzzy feline love of my life, my Squeaky baby th_catcrazy.gif

02/23/09 - Apply for citizenship

06/15/09 - Citizenship interview

07/15/09 - Citizenship ceremony. Alhamdulilah, the US now has another american muslim!

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The sex talk can be fun, but hashing out the details of who does dishes and who scrubs the toilet will solve a lot more headaches that are bound to come in the future.

What?! Forget this #######.......s@x is the best cure for a headache. It's a medical fact.

12/5/05 Sent I129F Petition to Nebraska via Express Mail

12/6/05 Packaged received at 10:38 am in Nebraska

12/9/05 Check cashed (Never been so happy to have money leave my account)

12/12/05 Receive NOA1 snail mail - 30-60 day processing estimate

01/04/06 Receive NOA2 via e-mail

1/20/06 NVC letter in mail...will ship within a week.

2/1/06 Packet 3 and 4 in the mail

3/15/06 Interview - neither approved nor declined need to send in Migratory Movement Certificate AP

3/20/06 Migratory Movement Certificate for myself and fiancee sent to US Embassy in Lima

3/23/06 Visa Approved

5/19/06 I leave for Peru to pick up mi amor

5/25/06 Lucia and I arrive in Chicago

7/01/06 Legal Marriage

9/09/06 Religious Wedding

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Did you tell her the one about where she's dressed up as Sailor Moon?

ooooohhhhhh.... those are the best... especially if they're chewing gum n snappin bubbles at the same time :whistle:

James & Sara - Aug 12, 05

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First of all welcome to VJ!!! (F)

Discuss things that will be the foundation of your relationship once you're actually together.

I agree, that's what Charles and I did and still do, we talked about every little thing about ourselves. We decided to get married after knowing everything about each other and finding out we have a lot in common and there would be no surprises. I doubt it's the same as marrying someone you had more of a phisical relationship. Of course we don't know every single thing about each other, that's impossible, but most of them, enough to judge if we're getting in a relationship that's going somewhere or if the ship can sink anytime.

Would you like to find out after married that she has a gambling problem for example or that she can't manage money she spends all her money in clothes instead of paying the bill, or she find out that you are a pig that cleans the house twice a year and still it's only superficial? And those are just small examples, there are worse things.

I believe talking is VERY important, i would never agree to marry someone (which is a life commitment, at least for me) if i didn't know his character. :thumbs:

Oh, a question: do you only use e-mail to communicate, don't you use a instant messenger like yim, msn, aol? What about webcams? :P

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* 04/07/06: I-129F Sent to NSC
* 10/02/06: Interview date - APPROVED!
* 10/10/06: POE Houston
* 11/25/06: Wedding day!!!

* AOS/EAD/AP Timeline *
*01/05/07: AOS/EAD/AP sent
*02/19/08: AOS approved
*02/27/08: Permanent Resident Card received

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*12/31/09: Applied Lifting of Condition
*01/04/10: NOA
*02/12/10: Biometrics
*03/03/10: LOC approved
*03/11/10: 10 years green card received

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*12/17/10: package sent
*12/29/10: NOA date
*01/19/11: biometrics
*04/12/11: interview
*04/15/11: approval letter
*05/13/11: Oath Ceremony - Officially done with Immigration.

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Oh, a question: do you only use e-mail to communicate, don't you use a instant messenger like yim, msn, aol? What about webcams? :P

:yes: Emails are nice, but instant messanger programs come closer to mimicing real life conversations. Throw in a webcam and you can learn your partner's body language. Throw in a mic, then you can talk in real time. It's almost like sitting across the table from the other person.

10/14/05 - married AbuS in the US lovehusband.gif

02/23/08 - Filed for removal of conditions.

Sometime in 2008 - Received 10 year GC. Almost done with USCIS for life inshaAllah! Huzzah!

12/07/08 - Adopted the fuzzy feline love of my life, my Squeaky baby th_catcrazy.gif

02/23/09 - Apply for citizenship

06/15/09 - Citizenship interview

07/15/09 - Citizenship ceremony. Alhamdulilah, the US now has another american muslim!

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Oh, a question: do you only use e-mail to communicate, don't you use a instant messenger like yim, msn, aol? What about webcams? :P

:yes: Emails are nice, but instant messanger programs come closer to mimicing real life conversations. Throw in a webcam and you can learn your partner's body language. Throw in a mic, then you can talk in real time. It's almost like sitting across the table from the other person.

Except you can't reach across and touch. It's more like talking to your loved one in jail from across a plexiglass window :P

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damn 500 emails..... :hehe:

maria

Got married in Killeen, Texas on April 27 2004

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Oct 12 2005 - Sent I-130 to NSC

Oct 24 2005 - NOA 1

Nov 7 2005 - Sent I-129F to Chicago

Nov 9 2005 - NOA 1

Dec 5 2005 - NOA 2 - I-129F Approved!!! (28 days)

Dec 13 2005 - Application Forwarded to NVC

Dec 16 2005 - Application received by the Consulate in Italy

Jan 4 2006 - Packet 3

Jan 10 2006 - Sent "Applicant's Statement" to Naples

Jan 27 2006 - Packet 4

Feb 22 2006 - Medical and Interview

Feb 22 2006 - Interview... APPROVED Got the Visa!!!

Mar 2 2006 - I-130 case *touched*

Mar 6 2006 - RFE for the I-130 (Marriage Certificate)

Mar 14 2006 - Sent RFE to CSC

Mar 21 2006 - RFE received by CSC

Mar 30 2006 - Detroit POE - Got the I-94

Mar 31 2006 - I-130 NOA 2 - APPROVED!!! (170 days)

*°AOS°*

Mar 31 2006 - I-765 sent to Chicago

Apr 5 2006 - I-765 NOA1

Apr 7 2006 - Vaccination Supplement appt. in Cleveland

Apr 13 2006 - EAD Biometrics Appointment Letter

Apr 18 2006 - EAD Biometrics in Pittsburg

Apr 22 2006 - I-485 sent to Chicago lockbox

Apr 28 2006 - I-485 NOA1

May 3 2006 - EAD Approved!! (33 days)

May 5 2006 - EAC received (NOA2)

May 5 2006 - AOS Biometrics Appointment Letter

May 8 2006 - Applied for Social Security Number

May 11 2006 - AOS Biometrics Appointment in Pittsburgh

May 18 2006 - Social Security Card arrived in the mail

May 18 2006 - Interview Appointment Letter

May 31 2006 - Flew back to Italy

Jun 24 2006 - I-485 *touched*

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Oh, a question: do you only use e-mail to communicate, don't you use a instant messenger like yim, msn, aol? What about webcams? :P

:yes: Emails are nice, but instant messanger programs come closer to mimicing real life conversations. Throw in a webcam and you can learn your partner's body language. Throw in a mic, then you can talk in real time. It's almost like sitting across the table from the other person.

Except you can't reach across and touch. It's more like talking to your loved one in jail from across a plexiglass window :P

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Except you can't reach across and touch. It's more like talking to your loved one in jail from across a plexiglass window :P

first hand experience???? :innocent:

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Except you can't reach across and touch. It's more like talking to your loved one in jail from across a plexiglass window :P

first hand experience???? :innocent:

yeap...it true for arijit...me aw shoot, i like to get hookers to dress up like little bo peep and i am the black sheep... :whistle: /////////////////////just joking...

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