nearing the end

[jom 4]

Well, we are nearing the end of the VJ and the stress seems to be mounting. What did you do to relieve the stress? I am blessed because I have been able to be with my wife during the process start to finish but as the end of the process approaches (waiting on case complete from NVC) we seem to be more stressed than at any other time during our filing process. Is this normal and how did others get through it without major disagreements. It seems we are being overly critical of each other in areas that never would have been an issue before. I am thinking this is the stress related to the upcoming medical and interview. Any suggestions would help.

are you stressed because of the domicile issue?

No it's not the domicile issue as much as the medical and interview itself. To be honest we are totally prepared for everything we can be but it is the fear of the unknown that is keeping us stressed. The dreaded "what ifs" I feel like a father pacing the waiting room for my wife to give birth for the first time! LOL just nerves i guess.

I can understand your position. I believe everyone goes thru that process of "fear of the unknown" because it will be entirely a new life for you but be optimistic and positive about everything. Things will work out as they should especially if true love is there. It is just a matter of accepting and working on the changes TOGETHER.

Goodluck to you.