VERMONT K-3 Any APPROVALS week of FEB 23, 2009.

[Y's_habibitk 2]

I finally got through to NVC after the 390215789076th call today.

I was told that we are still in AP, but if I "call back in a week or so, maybe we can tell you something different" <---this is a new one. Maybe they wanted to try handing out hope today instead of their normal...."there is no timeframe for this process"

seriously guys...im getting frigging pist. In roughly 60 more days, it will have been 1 year since we filed for the k3.

Enough is enough! I just want to be done with this. Even if we got out of AP tomorrow, he still wouldnt have his interview till around april. that will be a year.

ok, i guess it was my turn to vent

im done....for now

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwww here is my hug for you (((((((((((((((((LISA)))))))))))) and

And Aruba, I agree with Queuedup, talking calmly might help. Could he take just one day off to get this done? Explain that the reason you are frustrated is cz u feel so helpless and you miss him

thanks GS.

and i can relate to "passing the blues back n forth" heh we take turns but thank god, when he's down im all positive and vice versa.

[notime4haterz 0]

Lisa, call those SOB's every single day. What about the lady in the congressman's office that helped you? Can she check into it for you? I don't know if you can do the same with NVC or not???

[notime4haterz 0]

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sorry, but had to put my 2 cents in...

[Y's_habibitk 2]

narina, you are so naughty for saying what everyone else is thinking

[Y's_habibitk 2]

Lisa, call those SOB's every single day. What about the lady in the congressman's office that helped you? Can she check into it for you? I don't know if you can do the same with NVC or not???

ya, yazied said the same thing: "call brooke!" heh

i just dont think she can help. this is a completely random thing and everyone is getting out around the same time. If we pass 55 days(march 1st), then I'll start raising hell

ya, when he said "call back in a week or so" i thought..no guy, i'll keep calling everyday until someone tells me its been sent

oh ya, and my new stresser? our approval expiring. ya. i dont think it will happen, but to cover my bases. i emailed amman and asked..they havent answered yet. they ALWAYS answer me so until they do i'll have that little worry in the back of my head (like, one more hurdle, you know?) whew, its ok. eveything will be fine :repeating this helps:

Edited February 24, 2009 by Lisa wa Yazied

[LoveMyTico 999]

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sorry, but had to put my 2 cents in...

Got your back ! Don't worry !!!! I was thinking that when I read it the first time.

[notime4haterz 0]

It offends me when people come up here and say how wonderful USCIS or VSC are...yeah, because they waited such a short time. Or like the people that would go off on Lisa, Chris, Sonia, me, and all of us in our K3 family... remember Lisa? And told us to go throw a pity party if we didn't like it...telling us to be patient (while they only had a 1 month waiting period). So to tell me, "Vermont is so great"... I don't think so chick! Not great for me and my HUSBAND.

[Y's_habibitk 2]

of course i remember..it was like: "how dare you whine..everyone waits long (their timeline tells the story), VSC ppl arent mean, they are doing their jobs!" WTFE

Im sorry, but until you walk a mile in my shoes, dont tell me what i can and cant complain about. and insenitivity is runnig rampant lately

i have some buddies who got approved WAY faster than me, i dont hold it against them..but they are always sensitive and caring about whats going on with our case anyone else who got approved under 6 months...i dont EVER want to hear the word "finally" out of their mouths.

after you rot at a uscis service center for more than 6 months...come talk to me about "finally"

uh oh narina..my alter ego is showing up here now too

[LoveMyTico 999]

We all miss our spouses and we are all sick of waiting.....

on a funny note..... My husband hasn't been able to eat much for the last few days because of his tooth issue. I asked him today what he has eaten and he told me nothing much because he can't really chew... So I said, use the debit card and stop at the Mega Super on your way home and pick up some yogurt and other things you can eat. And pick up a phone card. He says Ok baby, good Idea. I told him not to spend too much because I get paid on Thursday. He says no probllem. Now, usually he spends $30 . At most $50. I just got the debit confirmation. He spent $81.00. I had to laugh.... I don't care about the money ... All I think about is him carrying 80 bucks worth of Groceries straight up a mountain side on a dirt road on a motorcycle. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. He probably looks like Santa Claus with all the bags..... HAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHHA

Edited February 24, 2009 by esposadetucho

[Y's_habibitk 2]

that IS funny! when i spend 80+ at the store i have to make two trips from the car to the house..and thats with bags shoved all the way up my arm poor guy riding up the mt

[Serendipity_ 0]

OMG! I have had one heck of day!!

My husband was being a real d*ck head and we had a HUGE fight today.....he almost implied that he was doing me a favor Which was reason enough to make me see RED and from there on everything went down a spiral.

I don't understand men. I hate to say this but I am the one who is giving up everything familiar...great Job, Family and Friends to move to the US to be with him and I am ready to make a fresh start.....(I have made it clear on numerous occasions that I would rather live in Canada but my husband does not want to relocate here)

I am ready to throw in the towel and call thie whole f*cking thing quits !

** the only thing that could pis$ me off more would be getting approved this week

[Serendipity_ 0]

Might I add - If we applied today for Canadian PR...he would be here sooner than I would have my IR1 interview!!!

Edited February 24, 2009 by Serendipity_

[Y's_habibitk 2]

OMG! I have had one heck of day!!

My husband was being a real d*ck head and we had a HUGE fight today.....he almost implied that he was doing me a favor Which was reason enough to make me see RED and from there on everything went down a spiral.

I don't understand men. I hate to say this but I am the one who is giving up everything familiar...great Job, Family and Friends to move to the US to be with him and I am ready to make a fresh start.....(I have made it clear on numerous occasions that I would rather live in Canada but my husband does not want to relocate here)

I am ready to throw in the towel and call thie whole f*cking thing quits !

** the only thing that could pis$ me off more would be getting approved this week

Im SO sorry you guys are fighting. Please dont call it quits over this. You know the stress and distance make us all a little wierd and say stupid things.

It doesnt excuse him implying that, but i wqould like to think that its the stress of everything.

If you need an ear..i have two ((((sarita)))

[LoveMyTico 999]

OMG! I have had one heck of day!!

My husband was being a real d*ck head and we had a HUGE fight today.....he almost implied that he was doing me a favor Which was reason enough to make me see RED and from there on everything went down a spiral.

I don't understand men. I hate to say this but I am the one who is giving up everything familiar...great Job, Family and Friends to move to the US to be with him and I am ready to make a fresh start.....(I have made it clear on numerous occasions that I would rather live in Canada but my husband does not want to relocate here)

I am ready to throw in the towel and call thie whole f*cking thing quits !

** the only thing that could pis$ me off more would be getting approved this week

Im SO sorry you guys are fighting. Please dont call it quits over this. You know the stress and distance make us all a little wierd and say stupid things.

It doesnt excuse him implying that, but i wqould like to think that its the stress of everything.

If you need an ear..i have two ((((sarita)))

with my ears it makes 4.... HAHAHAHAHA

you do know....now that you said an approval will piss you off..... guess what sista??? yours is coming !!!

And you know you're gonna like it !!! XX OO XX OO

HAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Funny how a visit from Aunt Flo can change your whole mood.....HEE HEE HEE HEE

[GS4EVER 0]

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sorry, but had to put my 2 cents in...

Got your back ! Don't worry !!!! I was thinking that when I read it the first time.

Is it too late to give up K3 , get a divorce and go back to a K1? I bet we would get our SOs here faster if we did that

Serendipity, I went through the same thing over the weekend and today we were all lovey dovey again, it's the UpAndDown characteristic of VSCH (H for hell rmb? he he ). Tomorrow will be a better day. These things are normal. No two people can see eye to eye all the time.

And Lisa, "after you rot at a uscis service center for more than 6 months...come talk to me about 'finally' "

I AM OFFICIALLY ROTTENNNNNNNNNNNN AND LOVING IT, I COULD BASK IN THIS ROTTEN STATE FOR A WHILE SO VSC DO NOT ABJUDICATE MY PETITION FOR A WHILE