Hypothetical Question!

[almaty 19]

had that issue at one time..for a brief time..would probably get drunk and end up in my own detox center...

moved to off topics..this is really not a poll, noob

[Ban Hammer 13,340]

had that issue at one time..for a brief time..would probably get drunk and end up in my own detox center...

moved to off topics..this is really not a poll, noob

[Bootylicious!! 2]

Actually considering our circumstances it was a very real possibility he wouldn't have gotten his visa. I would have moved to Mexico.

Good one Bro Dean! :lol:

[sara..... 371]

perviz and i have already had this topic come up if we are not at least with noa2 by june im outta here and on my way to live in india............

sara

[almaty 19]

wow, India is a big change sister sara..can you find work there/ is it hard to immigrate there?

[NickD 202]

Is there anyone that married or wanted to marry an immigrant that did not have this discussion? It was important to us to learn the immigration laws of both countries if you really want to live together. Or find a country that will welcome both of you. Another element is the culture and the families that one or the other would have to leave to be together, one of the two is going to have to give that up. After you do get together, the added expense of making trips so your spouse can see their family, you can't just isolate your spouse from their family or look for an orphan.

If kids are involved in the move, that is yet another problem to deal with especially with teenagers.

It either all works out or it doesn't and after you do work all these minor details out, have to be treated like a criminal with the USCIS. It was worth it though.

[Der Bücherwurm 1]

Well, living in Iran is not something either of us would want to do. That's why we've lived together in Dubai and Turkey. If we can't go stateside then we'd just apply for Canada, Australia or somewhere in Europe...probly Germany since I've already lived there before and still remember much of the lingo. Otherwise, Ireland so he wouldn't have to struggle to learn another language. I love the German language though.

Edited February 20, 2009 by Hoomsfuturewife

[sara..... 371]

wow, India is a big change sister sara..can you find work there/ is it hard to immigrate there?

it really isnt a big leap for me after living over seas most of my years as a teenager, and as far as work i have my own small small graphic company, might not be much money here but over there it would be alot, and most of my work is thru the Internet, immigration to india seems to be pretty easy, but pay for a doctor in india is so so low, was one of the many reasons i wanted him to come here to the usa.

[Laura+Tom 2]

If I was denied a visa it would be a bit of a problem. Tom is military and it would be unlikely he would be stationed in the UK for a while. Maybe he could try and push for another overseas post like Germany then I could go there.

[Nagishkaw 510]

When my husband asks me if I really love him, I give him the answer all men understand and say,"Sure honey. I f##ked you, didn't I ?"

[Jasman0717 9]

Tell her to ** off and marry an American girl.

Done with those

[chri'stina 190]

I would have gone to India....eeks. Yes, it would be very very hard for me. Sujeet knows it would have been very hard for me, he probably would have made me wait in the US longer until we figured something else out rather than move there right away. But to be honest I wouldn't have started the relationship at all only on the terms of "being together in the US or being together nowhere". I knew what I was getting myself into. Thankfully that issue never happened though.

Edited February 20, 2009 by Parivar CSK

[almaty 19]

wow, India is a big change sister sara..can you find work there/ is it hard to immigrate there?

it really isnt a big leap for me after living over seas most of my years as a teenager, and as far as work i have my own small small graphic company, might not be much money here but over there it would be alot, and most of my work is thru the Internet, immigration to india seems to be pretty easy, but pay for a doctor in india is so so low, was one of the many reasons i wanted him to come here to the usa.

sounds like you are ready and have indeed, thought it out

[Ban Hammer 13,340]

When my husband asks me if I really love him, I give him the answer all men understand and say,"Sure honey. I f##ked you, didn't I ?"

[nunyab 0]

we would've moved to Spain... still might