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~Laura and Nick~   5

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Last night at around midnight, my parents back in Canada had to put down my Sam. (L)

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He has a urinary tract infection and had been very lethargic, not eating or drinking for the past two days. He was down in my old room, laying on the floor where my bed was....

They took him in at around 7pm, stayed for 2 hours and were asked to leave him there for testing, got a call around midnight saying that he couldn't urinate so they would have had to put a catheter in, he was in pain, etc. etc. with a very expensive surgery to follow.....he was suffering.

My parents are heartbroken and they gave me the call this morning.

I'm just writing this cause I feel so.......heart broken....I didn't get to say bye, he was all alone and he was my boy. I love him so so much.

So here's to my sammy bo....you were the best cat.

I'll miss your sweet face, the lazy summer days on the back deck and your kisses....always your kisses. RIP. (F)

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Flames9_RN   358

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Verry sorry! I think pet deaths hurt me more than human ones!!

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Awwww sweetie so sorry for your loss.... I feel the pain, I had to put my Maddy down 2 years ago and it hurt so much.... It took awhile to get over the sadness. Stay strong (L)

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~Laura and Nick~   5

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He was only 8 years old.

He was a bigger cat, a few pounds over weight and he loved to hunt outside. Birds and stuff. So he probably got a parasite or something.

It would have cost my parents a few thousand dollars for something that could return a week after the surgery.

Plus the fact, just knowing he was in pain....it's for the best.

My only regret is that I wasn't there in his final minutes...he must have been so scared.

Thank you for all your support, animals really do become one of the family. He was a huge part of my heart.

Let's Keep the Song Going!!!

CANADA.GIFUS1.GIF

~Laura and Nicholas~

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Met online November 2005 playing City of Heroes

First met in Canada, Sept 22, 2006 <3

September 2006 to March 2008, 11 visits, 5 in Canada, 6 in NJ

Officially Engaged December 24th, 2007!!!

Moved to the U.S. to be with my baby on July 19th, 2008 on a K1 visa!!!!

***10 year green card in hand as of 2/2/2012, loving and living life***

Hmmm maybe we should move back to Canada! lol smile.png

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it hurts, I'm sorry for your loss

He was only 8 years old.

He was a bigger cat, a few pounds over weight and he loved to hunt outside. Birds and stuff. So he probably got a parasite or something.

It would have cost my parents a few thousand dollars for something that could return a week after the surgery.

Plus the fact, just knowing he was in pain....it's for the best.

My only regret is that I wasn't there in his final minutes...he must have been so scared.

Thank you for all your support, animals really do become one of the family. He was a huge part of my heart.

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Oh dear Laura.. how sad.. (F)

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2007-03-28: Transferred to CSC

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Poor baby... M so sorry. *hugs*

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I'm so sorry Laura :(

I too lost two of my kitties after I moved down here (In the span of 3 months) and didn't get to say goodbye. One of them, Russell, looks much like your Sam.

I just hope that they are waiting over there for us to see them again.

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~Laura and Nick~   5

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I'm so sorry Laura :(

I too lost two of my kitties after I moved down here (In the span of 3 months) and didn't get to say goodbye. One of them, Russell, looks much like your Sam.

I just hope that they are waiting over there for us to see them again.

I'm so sorry about your loss....

We will see them again.

Let's Keep the Song Going!!!

CANADA.GIFUS1.GIF

~Laura and Nicholas~

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Met online November 2005 playing City of Heroes

First met in Canada, Sept 22, 2006 <3

September 2006 to March 2008, 11 visits, 5 in Canada, 6 in NJ

Officially Engaged December 24th, 2007!!!

Moved to the U.S. to be with my baby on July 19th, 2008 on a K1 visa!!!!

***10 year green card in hand as of 2/2/2012, loving and living life***

Hmmm maybe we should move back to Canada! lol smile.png

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I'm sorry Laura:(

Timeline

7/11/2007 - I-130 NO1A Hard Copy

8/13/2007 - Son Drayson born in Sudbury, Ontario.

9/6/2007 - I-129F NO1

10/15/2007 - Trip to Toronto for Dray's Consular Birth Abroad, SS application, and US passport

3/18/2008 - NOA2 for both I-129 and I-130!! No touches or email notifications at all!

4/2/2008 - estimated that NVC received

4/9/2008 - estimated that K-3 was sent from NVC to USEMontreal

4/16/2008 - Received hardcopy from NVC

4/16/2008 - Packet 3 Received

4/24/2008 - Packet 3 Sent to USEMontreal

7/14/2008 Interview in Montreal!!!!

7/17/2008 Visa received

7/18/2008 POE Sault Ste Marie Michigan

8/21/2008 moving day...back to Anchorage, Alaska!

4/20/2009 AOS granted, 10 year Green Card arrives, Social Security # given :)

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I'm so sorry for your loss, Laura.

K1

10/02/2007 ~ Sent I-129F to CSC

2/27/2008 ~ NOA2!!! (148 days)

5/27/2008 ~ Interview --- APPROVED!!

5/28/2008 ~ Visa in hand (239 days)

7/17/2008 ~ POE Portal, North Dakota

7/26/2008 ~ Marriage

AOS

8/26/2008 ~ Sent AOS/AP/EAD to Chicago lockbox

9/18/2008 ~ Biometrics in St Louis

9/22/2008 ~ Transferred to CSC

11/05/2008 ~ AP/EAD approved (71 days)

1/20/2009 ~ AOS approved!!! (147 days)

1/29/2009 ~ 2-year GC arrived (156 days)

Removing Conditions

11/18/2010 ~ Sent I-751 to CSC

11/19/2010 ~ I-751 delivered to CSC

11/19/2010 ~ NOA1

12/10/2010 ~ Received biometrics letter

12/21/2010 ~ Biometrics in St Louis

12/29/2010 ~ Touch

1/04/2011 ~ Case status finally available online

2/16/2011 ~ Approved!! (89 days)

2/22/2011 ~ 10-year GC arrived (95 days)

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