Yardies at home and Farrin (part13)

[jamerican 2]

OK yall, I am at working graveyard and on the westcoast so on here by myself....but I know yall early risers (sus) will be on shortly so check out my newest delima. I am missing My Hubby like crazy and am debating moving to JA for the next year. We have an option on a rental home that is located in a perfect spot on the lane of my good friend (the photographer) and her man....They are trying to link up work for us both (Mike would have to move)... There are so many more details to the story but just wondering if anyone has ever considered doing so....or know of anyone who has and how that affects the process aside from the obvious... I have to make the decision this week so my head is spinning with so many options/possibilities/problems/experiences....

If you do decide to stay I recommend saving as much as you can now. Staying there long term is not cheap. I stayed with my husband years ago (he was working full time, and since I didn't have a work permit I could not work) but I cashed out my savings and we managed. Times definitely got hard but we worked through them.

Think about how long you want to stay and consider the area you'll be staying in. You'll only be able to do 6 months at a time (legally) unless you get married. Will you be bringing your children? If you are then check out the schools and this will be another expense (uniforms/books/shoes/etc). I don't regret doing it, because he and I really got to know one another while I was there. If you have any questions feel free to pm me also. Good luck in your decision.

Morning all! I am getting ready to head to a training class all day, so I won't be online

Jamerican - I had thought about it - But I know that right now, I can't do it - the things that scare me about living there year round would be

Hurricanes

Medical care

Corruption

Eye for an Eye justice

Not being able to afford to fly home at the drop of a dime if I needed to

Living here, I know that we could fly back to JA in a second if we were needed - we are both close with our families, and discussed this ALOT - and decided that the best option was for us to be in the US.

You also have to factor in your kids, your house here, if at some point you decided to move to the US, you would still need the income requirement to petition for Michael -

Sus when I stayed there I bought a RT ticket and extended it twice at immigration I got a 6 month stamp so it was all good.

Jonesie....I will be getting in touch with you .... I am really wanting to spend that time "not just on vacation" with my husband living day to day before he comes here. I think it will help me understand his adjustment even better and also because my employment situation is that where I can without loosing too much. Thanks for your input also

And what about a job when you come back then? Will there still be one here for you?

I am a jill of all trades so you name it I have done it.....don't feel that I will have a problem gettin a job on the return. I have a friend who runs her own business and she has employeed me in the past and will write a letter for me stating I have a job upon return as not to mess up the Journey......

[phillyfashionista 8]

im taking up a collection for a lace front , any contributors...LOL???

shoot i would be thinking i was beyonce for real...LOL

:rofl: U are roo much haaaaa

OLd Navy is having a 10.00 Bra sale I just ordered 4 Hurry before they are gone!

Ok back to Stella LOL

[DaDa 1]

Trust me DADA your right, hell my son who is 16, catches the bus home and should be home by 430, but yet at least once a week he brings his raggedy tail home late with the bus was late excuse today he gets home at 545 with the bus excuse, when i actually think he is sneaking and trying to see this little girl he is dating, he better be glad i got a 45minute drive home cause if i was home when he walked thru the door he would get a flying drop kick to the forehead with that tired excuse... all i know is im NOT Ready to be a GRANDMA, so we gonna have to get it together. DADA, D says baby why are you so easy to trip, umm cause you went to the bathroom 2 hours ago, THATS WHY!!!!!

i know part of my irritability is PMS< but damn how hard is it to just do what you say your gonna do, cause trust me if i dont answer the phone, he calling house phone , cell phone, work phone, mommas phone etc!!!!

Lovesponge im gonna try that, the bad thing is im a Pisces so first i want to fight but tomorrow i will be crying all damn day,, LAWD help me control the emotions,,

almost finished with the Riesling and still mad, WHOO SAH!

Ooh I love it!! Gyal yuh crazy!!! I can't stop laughing.. Ahh hah your a pieces me too is that what it is?? I'm the same way one minute I'm cussing him out and then the next I'm like I love you... Liek when I'm there one minute I'm cussing him out and the next I'm like hey you want to lay with me? Yeah I need a check...

[DaDa 1]

I agree that was so sweet. So May is a surprise too right? Why do you think customs stopped you too many visits??LOL

Yup! That's the one where I'll throw him a surprise bday party.

And I guess it's the # of visits. This was visit #7 since Nov 2007. UNlucky #7.

Nat, are you the one who has been to The Gambia?

Yup, spent 3 weeks there and still have the man I met there emailing me a zillion times a week to prove it. Even after I told him I'm engaged, he keeps asking when I'm coming back and professing his undying love. Mind you, I hung out with him for a month FIVE YEARS AGO. A few months ago, I quit responding completely, but that didn't stop the emails from coming.

Uh oh my number 7 will be in May.. Yikes...lol

[dillon 6]

I have never been searched.

[brownnskinn 0]

Ladies - be careful on FB. My friend wrote that she needed help urgently so I wrote on her wall asking what is the problem. I also sent her a message. While I was waiting for a response...she called me. She said she is not logged on the FB. Meanwhile I got a message from her asking me to send money to her in London because she got robbed!!!. Then she got a message from me to call her immediately...mind you...we were on the phone The hackers are out...

[sus 70]

Morning all! I am about to leave for my training class again - it's interesting, but WHAT a long long day!! I have an interview on Thurs afternoon to discuss the other position, so please pray for me!

Hope you all have a good day, and don't chat too much, it's hard to keep up, lol!

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Sus; prayers for you always...

Ladies; if you send me a friend request in Face Book, please write a little note with your VJ names so I know who you are....

Face Book is nice, but ummmmmmm some people trippin...just be careful how much info you put out there, especially in pictures... a'rite mi done chat....

ow my gurl say it Mrs. J' ...unu fi tap pree people

[PortlandAngel 0]

Good Morning All,

We were able to get our BIOMETRICS done this morning, thank God!

Back to bed, lata....

Good Morning All,

We were able to get our BIOMETRICS done this morning, thank God!

Back to bed, lata....

[JaHoney 3]

Morning ladies,

DADA, i am a 3/3 Pisces, what is your date? No wonder we are both crazy...LOL

I am hoping for some productivity today so yall dont chat to much...LOL

i am starting off my day with a bag of Hot Cheetos, and a bottle of coke, so honestly it can only get better right???

also i got called for an interview, for a substance abuse counselor, at first i was excited now im thinking do i want to trade in working with the mentally ill for the drug addicts, ????? ( all these DECISIONS)!!!

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Mawnin Honey and TL;

TL link me when u get a chance.....

HONEY ! I know you're not eating CHEETOS for breakfast

Edited March 31, 2009 by TRELAWNY PARISH

[Islandwoman 0]

Ladies - be careful on FB. My friend wrote that she needed help urgently so I wrote on her wall asking what is the problem. I also sent her a message. While I was waiting for a response...she called me. She said she is not logged on the FB. Meanwhile I got a message from her asking me to send money to her in London because she got robbed!!!. Then she got a message from me to call her immediately...mind you...we were on the phone The hackers are out...

Wow!! They will find a way to everything.

Wow Shemmy exciting. I wonder how many who go to get a visitors visa actually get them.

I have no idea how he got one....someone was in a good mood at the Embassy. A 22 year-old single man with no real ties back to JA got a 10 year visitors visa. I called my friend in visa services to verify...it's true.

Dillon - when is Mr coming? And when is the wedding?

He must have friends in high places - he's a lucky man.

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Ladies - be careful on FB. My friend wrote that she needed help urgently so I wrote on her wall asking what is the problem. I also sent her a message. While I was waiting for a response...she called me. She said she is not logged on the FB. Meanwhile I got a message from her asking me to send money to her in London because she got robbed!!!. Then she got a message from me to call her immediately...mind you...we were on the phone The hackers are out...

Wow!! They will find a way to everything.

Wow Shemmy exciting. I wonder how many who go to get a visitors visa actually get them.

I have no idea how he got one....someone was in a good mood at the Embassy. A 22 year-old single man with no real ties back to JA got a 10 year visitors visa. I called my friend in visa services to verify...it's true.

Dillon - when is Mr coming? And when is the wedding?

He must have friends in high places - he's a lucky man.

or the CO was in a very good mood...it happens...once in a while.

[JaHoney 3]

Lawny, a bag of hot cheetos every now and then, is on point!!!

[*JG* 2]

Lawny, a bag of hot cheetos every now and then, is on point!!!

That's what I had for dinner last night.