Yardies at home and Farrin (part13)

[dancehallquana 5]

yes honey.. don't trip so hard girl.. i mean i would hate for RG to get mad at me if I was in the middle of something or was on a call already when he called to get mad and and accuse me.. i love him to death but life don't revolve around him no matter how far away he is.. would be the same if he was here.. "oh baby, let me get soandso off and call me back in 5 min" we both do this all the time.. no big deal

but i guess everybody's situation is different, u know when something slick is going on.. i just don;t want us to let misunderstanings ruin communication.. and start fostering resentment, frustration and fear in our SO's.

use ur wisdom and understanding my gyal..

alright bye girl.. and yes i got that evil eye cuz i will def be outta this camp shortlY

[dancehallquana 5]

i hope this works.. i have such a hard time w/ pics..honey remember mi sey i usually just think of my hair ideas, but these are some pics that come kind of close to what i was telling u about..

the first 3 are just ideas of different designs u can use instead of the TRADITIONAL cornrow pattern.. with my head shape.. i find that patterns that make the braid go toward the SIDE of my head instead of straight back compliment me..

the 4th one is to show how they can cornrow into rows and u have more versatility.. u can do 2 or 3 rows.. the top row could be worn back or tied up into a ponytail

the last is just to show the bun design.. i don't like the big cornrows but u use ur own design and just pin up the excess braid.. on the side,or straight back..

u could even do like the first pic and get a cornrow and then sew in a curly weave or put on a fake pony (curly or afro puff even)

aww man, they are out of order, hopefully u get the jist.

[ShaNette 4]

Okay yall I'm really unmotivated. I only have two more files to complete today and they each take about 45 secs to complete, so I'm trying to spread it out.

Tomorrow is my daughter's birthday. She'll be two! I just can't believe how quickly time flies. She is so cute with her lil ways. She loves putting on "make-up" (not real but if I fake like I'm putting blush on her with one of my brushes, she gets so tickled), she is a pro at walking in high-heels and has to carry a purse when we live the house! She acts like she'll be twenty-two!! Yea, her and her dad just called me and she was just a talking. I couldn't make out 60% of what she was saying. O gosh I think I'm going to cry. That girl is my heart.

Okay well thats all the rambling I'm going to do for now.....

[dillon 6]

Okay yall I'm really unmotivated. I only have two more files to complete today and they each take about 45 secs to complete, so I'm trying to spread it out.

Tomorrow is my daughter's birthday. She'll be two! I just can't believe how quickly time flies. She is so cute with her lil ways. She loves putting on "make-up" (not real but if I fake like I'm putting blush on her with one of my brushes, she gets so tickled), she is a pro at walking in high-heels and has to carry a purse when we live the house! She acts like she'll be twenty-two!! Yea, her and her dad just called me and she was just a talking. I couldn't make out 60% of what she was saying. O gosh I think I'm going to cry. That girl is my heart.

Okay well thats all the rambling I'm going to do for now.....

Awww Shanette....know just how you feel.

[dancehallquana 5]

Unless its on FB we never got the story of the surprise visit to JA this past weekend...

So when I visited Steven in February, we made a plan for me to go there one time before his interview, then again for the interview. He suggested that my next trip be a surprise. I LOVE surprises, so I was like, Sure!

I booked a trip for May 16, but then decided that was too long to wait, so I booked another trip for March 26. I didn't tell him that I'm actually going twice b4 his interview, though.

So last Wednesday night he called me from Alfreds, where he was with his friends drinking. I hoped that he'd have a hangover Thursday morning (Mar 26) so that he wouldn't be awake to call me in the morning. We usually chat several times through out the day, so I knew he'd get suspicious if I didn't answer or call him back.

Unfortunately, he did NOT drink enough to be passed out (Am I awful for wishing that?), and he tried calling me at home, work, & on cell all morning Thursday. He could tell that my cell was off, which was a first, and that worried him. After not reaching me for hours, he called my cousin to ask if I was okay. She knew I was heading that way and told him that I'd call him later. That didn't reassure him.

The plane landed around 12:15 & I finished going through immigration & having my bags searched at customs by 12:45... but I still didn't want to call him cause he would've heard the airport sounds/reggae music in the background. Instead, I let the calls go to voicemail (and he left PLENTY).

I caught the shuttle to Negril, then caught a taxi to his place. He wasn't there, but his parents and others were around. His mother suggested that I walk to his game shop. I did, but he wasn't there. I called him and could tell that he was driving. He was worried/upset that I was just calling him. I wouldn't tell him where I was and got off the phone with him quickly. I walked back to his place and sat with his mother & her friend for a while. Then he called again and asked me all kinds of questions. I never want to lie, so I answered truthfully that I wasn't at work. He asked if I was by a man's house and I was (his!) so I told him that, but I wouldn't tell him whose house. He was getting SO MAD and I kept calmly saying "I won't tell you now, but I'll tell you later." Eventually he hung up on me! (a first). When he did, his mother, her friend, and I all laughed. A few minutes later, his mother called and told him that she had something for him. Less than 5 minutes later, he appeared. He drove up, saw me, paused... then parked the car, got out, and just stared. Then he started laughing as did the rest of us. I was like, "Told you I'd tell you later where I was!" From that moment on, we were inseparable until I left Sunday morning.

Wonderful surprise nat!! i love it!!!!

[Rick Ross 0]

Thanks Quana!!

I'm so worried about EVERYting right now!! All of the costs that are associated with getting him here. Me traveling back and forth to see him and the possibilty of him not getting appoved to even come.

Just a tad bit stressed

[dancehallquana 5]

shanette..toooo cute!!

[ShaNette 4]

Awww Shanette....know just how you feel.

How old is your daughter? I saw the cute lil dress that shes going to wear at your wedding.

[Rick Ross 0]

I love the last one Quana

[MSNELLY 0]

Hey ladies i see you guys been chatting it up. lol

Hey Ells i'm good, just got done cooking my daughter was working my nerves about cooking.... How are you doing?

[MSNELLY 0]

Hey ladies i see you guys been chatting it up. lol

Yes ma'am.

How are you doing?

yep quana, im trying to be as realistic as possible about this relationship...lawd knows that i have my days,but i also know that his kids are gonna be out of school for break.. and i want my kids to meet them and know them as well, we have a two bedroom villa with a master bedroom and then another bedroom with twin beds and then the living room has a pullout sofa so i figured why not. They can all chill in the pool, i can feed them snacks, we are bringing the playstation, movies and videos so im hoping that we can all get comfortable with one another and this will be the first time that D isnt working, so we get to be up in each others faces all day every day for a week!!!

Sounds like fun!!!

KK everything is going good on my end, how are things going over there with you?

Edited March 30, 2009 by MSNELLY

[ShaNette 4]

Thanks Quana!!

I'm so worried about EVERYting right now!! All of the costs that are associated with getting him here. Me traveling back and forth to see him and the possibilty of him not getting appoved to even come.

Just a tad bit stressed

Try not to stress over everything at once. I know thats easier said then done but just try. Just tackle one issue at time. I'm not sure about the waivers and all but it doesn't sound like its not impossible; just takes some researching. As long as he has been a law-abiding Jamaican citizen thus far then that should work in his favor. Breath, pray and trust that everything will work out for the best.

[SuperDuper! 230]

Thanks Quana!!

I'm so worried about EVERYting right now!! All of the costs that are associated with getting him here. Me traveling back and forth to see him and the possibilty of him not getting appoved to even come.

Just a tad bit stressed

When you get there girl, just have some good Jamaican Rum, and you will be feeling no pain!

[NatPatBen 3]

I do find it suspicious how sometimes these guys can be so VAGUE. Why can't you just tell me who or what so I can leave you alone after that? It's strange....is it a guy thing or a cultural thing??

I would say a guy thing more than a cultural thing. My best friend Cece and I have had conversations about how men seem to enjoy being difficult/contrary.

It's one thing I LOOOOOVE about my Steven. He lets me do stuff that most men wouldn't... like pluck all his facial hair. I LOVE using tweezers to pull out thick hair, and men have so much thick facial hair that you can pluck forever. My last bf let me try ONE time, then complained that it hurt and never let me pluck another. Steven even presents me with random thick hairs on his body that he knows I'll want to pluck. Hmm. Maybe this was TMI.

[dancehallquana 5]

I love the last one Quana

jahoney is scared of doing cornrows and i was just trying to show her the versatility that she nuh affi fear dem LOL

i totally feel her cuz my big ole forehead be looking a mess if i don't have the right pattern, but then i just have to play w/ it and find the sexy in it.. LOL