Yardies at home and Farrin (part13)

[DaDa 1]

Unless its on FB we never got the story of the surprise visit to JA this past weekend...

[JaHoney 3]

KK< fun is not the word i would use. My kids get on my nerves, so i know initially they are all gonna be standoffish from one another and then i know D is so stern with his and mine are trifling spoiled american kids, but im hoping after a day, and everyone being able to have fun in the pool, with me playing lifeguard, that they will loosen up, my 10 year old always makes friends at the pool, and then I dont know a kid on the planet who doesnt know how or like to play video games, and im going to bring microwave popcorn so if nothing else i just want them to enjoy themselves.

[DaDa 1]

yep quana, im trying to be as realistic as possible about this relationship...lawd knows that i have my days,but i also know that his kids are gonna be out of school for break.. and i want my kids to meet them and know them as well, we have a two bedroom villa with a master bedroom and then another bedroom with twin beds and then the living room has a pullout sofa so i figured why not. They can all chill in the pool, i can feed them snacks, we are bringing the playstation, movies and videos so im hoping that we can all get comfortable with one another and this will be the first time that D isnt working, so we get to be up in each others faces all day every day for a week!!!

Well child if what Quana says is true and me an you are alike whoo that is going to be one heck of a week anent it Quana?? The thinss me and my SO do when we are around eachother too long. One minute we playing UNO the next we in different rooms pouting. The next were at eachother throats then he's making me dinner and feeding it to me then of course there is the best thing about arguing the make up %^&. Next were wathching movies and then we go out to see his friends and he gets made cause i chat wid dem too much so now were fussing and oh my goodness what a week....

Now everytime I go my SO is always able to squeeze off. In May it wont be that easy since he started a new job and can't get off. That is another reason why I'm not sure if I want to go what will I do while he's at work??

[JaHoney 3]

ok DaDA your right, cause as we speak im slightly perturbed at D, but i know i can be a peace of work. I am trying to learn to pick my battles but it aint easy, cause i can be a pain in the azz some days. Last night i text D, and said im heading to bed, well he didnt call right back and so i called him, he chats with me for like 2 straight minutes and said baby, can i call you back, im talking to a friend of mine... i said call WHO? ME? cause your talking to who? and im calling you from WHERE? and you cant call your friend back? so then i said ok well who are you talking too, and then he said baby i told you my fri___ ( CLICK) was my response to that... Ok so that was probably wrong but whatever, so then he called back a few minutes later but i didnt answer cause i knew i was gonna be ugly...

Hell.. i tell him who im talking too, cause its not that big a deal, so i felt like what its a big deal cause i asked!!!! hell you know all my dang business and last time i checked we were engaged..so it pissed me off...

But im working on it.....LOL

[^KK^ 3]

KK< fun is not the word i would use. My kids get on my nerves, so i know initially they are all gonna be standoffish from one another and then i know D is so stern with his and mine are trifling spoiled american kids, but im hoping after a day, and everyone being able to have fun in the pool, with me playing lifeguard, that they will loosen up, my 10 year old always makes friends at the pool, and then I dont know a kid on the planet who doesnt know how or like to play video games, and im going to bring microwave popcorn so if nothing else i just want them to enjoy themselves.

sounds like a plan.

Does D want more kids?

ok DaDA your right, cause as we speak im slightly perturbed at D, but i know i can be a peace of work. I am trying to learn to pick my battles but it aint easy, cause i can be a pain in the azz some days. Last night i text D, and said im heading to bed, well he didnt call right back and so i called him, he chats with me for like 2 straight minutes and said baby, can i call you back, im talking to a friend of mine... i said call WHO? ME? cause your talking to who? and im calling you from WHERE? and you cant call your friend back? so then i said ok well who are you talking too, and then he said baby i told you my fri___ ( CLICK) was my response to that... Ok so that was probably wrong but whatever, so then he called back a few minutes later but i didnt answer cause i knew i was gonna be ugly...

Hell.. i tell him who im talking too, cause its not that big a deal, so i felt like what its a big deal cause i asked!!!! hell you know all my dang business and last time i checked we were engaged..so it pissed me off...

But im working on it.....LOL

Relax yourself Honey!!!

[Rick Ross 0]

You Ladies have really developed a wonderful friendship!

Can't wait to become one of the FAMILY!!

[NatPatBen 3]

Unless its on FB we never got the story of the surprise visit to JA this past weekend...

So when I visited Steven in February, we made a plan for me to go there one time before his interview, then again for the interview. He suggested that my next trip be a surprise. I LOVE surprises, so I was like, Sure!

I booked a trip for May 16, but then decided that was too long to wait, so I booked another trip for March 26. I didn't tell him that I'm actually going twice b4 his interview, though.

So last Wednesday night he called me from Alfreds, where he was with his friends drinking. I hoped that he'd have a hangover Thursday morning (Mar 26) so that he wouldn't be awake to call me in the morning. We usually chat several times through out the day, so I knew he'd get suspicious if I didn't answer or call him back.

Unfortunately, he did NOT drink enough to be passed out (Am I awful for wishing that?), and he tried calling me at home, work, & on cell all morning Thursday. He could tell that my cell was off, which was a first, and that worried him. After not reaching me for hours, he called my cousin to ask if I was okay. She knew I was heading that way and told him that I'd call him later. That didn't reassure him.

The plane landed around 12:15 & I finished going through immigration & having my bags searched at customs by 12:45... but I still didn't want to call him cause he would've heard the airport sounds/reggae music in the background. Instead, I let the calls go to voicemail (and he left PLENTY).

I caught the shuttle to Negril, then caught a taxi to his place. He wasn't there, but his parents and others were around. His mother suggested that I walk to his game shop. I did, but he wasn't there. I called him and could tell that he was driving. He was worried/upset that I was just calling him. I wouldn't tell him where I was and got off the phone with him quickly. I walked back to his place and sat with his mother & her friend for a while. Then he called again and asked me all kinds of questions. I never want to lie, so I answered truthfully that I wasn't at work. He asked if I was by a man's house and I was (his!) so I told him that, but I wouldn't tell him whose house. He was getting SO MAD and I kept calmly saying "I won't tell you now, but I'll tell you later." Eventually he hung up on me! (a first). When he did, his mother, her friend, and I all laughed. A few minutes later, his mother called and told him that she had something for him. Less than 5 minutes later, he appeared. He drove up, saw me, paused... then parked the car, got out, and just stared. Then he started laughing as did the rest of us. I was like, "Told you I'd tell you later where I was!" From that moment on, we were inseparable until I left Sunday morning.

[JaHoney 3]

He said one more but um i dont know, my bio clock is ticking but then i have to be realistic, im not as young as i used to be, the thought of a baby is great but also as my kids get older, i become more selfish with my time and start thinking when they get older the things i will do with my life, once im not committed to running the two of them to all there practices and meetings and ish, every fricking day...

[dancehallquana 5]

lawd help di men wid di one HONEY and di one DADA!!!

kk.. mi cyann believe dem block ya from FB.. BABYLON free kk!!!!

honey, its sounds like it will be fun, swimming pools and video games will calm all tension.. but i am glad u are going into it w/ an open mind.. u know what obstacles u face.. blending families is not easy i am sure, but preparation and strong love will get u thru it..

LUCKILY or UNLUCKILY??? RG is the softer one so he wont be taken back by di two spoiled americans gyal child i have at the house.. but i may have to give him the eye if tell me to "ease up on them" LOL

[Ellsinlove 2]

I do find it suspicious how sometimes these guys can be so VAGUE. Why can't you just tell me who or what so I can leave you alone after that? It's strange....is it a guy thing or a cultural thing??

[^KK^ 3]

I do find it suspicious how sometimes these guys can be so VAGUE. Why can't you just tell me who or what so I can leave you alone after that? It's strange....is it a guy thing or a cultural thing??

huh????

[JaHoney 3]

Ells its a PISS HONEY off thang...LOL

That is the kind of mess that can lead to assumptions and you know with a person a trillion light years away, it is easy to take assumptions in the wrong direction, so even though it was quite rude on my part, i admit, it was better for me to just end the convo or we would probably still be fighting, with me doing the majority of the fussing.

[^KK^ 3]

Thanks for shout out..Quana

[JaHoney 3]

Shoot i get mad all ova again thinking about it, hell im calling yo azz from round the damn world and whoever the hell you talking too, THEY Cant call you back....but of course i know the sun doesnt rise and set on my azz so i gotta quite tripping but i still get HEATED thinking about it.

Ok, the day is over and im heading home.

watch by the time i get home VJ will be empty.....( giving the evil eye to yall_)

[dancehallquana 5]

hey nells.. how are tings?? u keeping busy??

rick ross. u already in di fam my gyal!! wha ya chat bout??