Yardies at home and Farrin (part13)

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

Roxie...have you ever seen any of those African movies? We watched a couple, there was one called "I Hate Woman" that had me cracking up!

Dillion, yes I have seen the Africian movies. My best friend is Haitian, and she watches these so she gives them to me to watch too.

[*JG* 2]

Tre........empty your stupid mail box so I can answer you!!!!!!!!!!!!

[^KK^ 3]

Long time no see JG!!!

How is it going?

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Tre........empty your stupid mail box so I can answer you!!!!!!!!!!!!

lolllllllllllllll....I didn't know I had so many unanswered PMs...mi a clean dem out now.

[DaDa 1]

Thank you for taking the time to talk to me!! It's hard for me because all of my family and friends with the exception of one think that I'm NUTTS!! I know that it was and still is hard for them to believe that I could go to JA for a few days and fall in love with a man that I barely know but to be honest that is exactly how it happened. We met through a friend of my brothers and communicated via emails, IM's and phone calls for moths and I decided to go visit him. I had no expectations of anything but having a good time. I knew that he was a fun loving guy but I had no idea that he was going to be the way that he is. He is truly amazing!! He made me believe in myself again and learn how to trust again. I'm not saying that I don't question things from time to time but that's only human nature, RIGHT?? I'm mean what 34 year old woman would question a man 10 years younger's intentions. I think a lot of that has to do with mi past and I pray that time will heal all of these issues because I don't want to run him away with all of my paranoia.. I know that this is not going to be an easy process and it's going to be a rough 2 years but I'm willing to make it work out by any means necessary just have to ward off that little voice in my head that appears from time to time that makes me doubt or want to give up. I'm learning to call him or text him when I'm having one of my episodes because he always knows how to bring me back to where I need to be. I know that it's hard but at the end of the day the one thing that remains the same is the love that we have for one another.

I look forward to talking to you ladies and hopefully getting to meet some of you one day!!

I know I'm late but I had to reapply. You really can't blame your family or friends I mean put yourself in their shoes. If one of them came back from JA saying they met a younger man for a couple of days and now they are smitten with them would you really believe them?? I mean really you would think they too a have gone mad.. I tell people all the time and I'm a FIRM believer in it. If you have not experienced it yourself you won't believe it. Its one of them things where you have to walk the walk to talk the talk. If not its all insane to you. When people t thought I was crazy for going back to see my SO shoot I did too I couldn’t believe them but I was getting on the plane so there was nothing they could do. That is why I said find a supportive friends or family member. Leave the non believers alone because they will only add to your headache. Now trusting a man that is a million miles away is not no easy feat. Shoot I'm still struggling with it but it is what it is just like he has to trust me wayyyyy over here. I think if the two of you go through obstacles that is good. A perfect relationship would be a suspect relationship to me.

One thing that I love about my SO is I can be having the WORST possible day and just the sound of his voice makes everything better. Crazy I tell ya...

[DaDa 1]

On my last visit to Jamaica, my husband decided that we were going to watch a movie together. Now I am a big fan of forgein films, so I asked him if it was a foregin film. He was like yeah, but it was a war movie film. So I settled down to watch this film that he had choosen for me. The movie starts off with it's introduction roll. and i see that it takes place in China. So I say oh okay, the chinese producers makes some good film this might be good. The movies starts and everyone is speaking chinese, so I say to Joel, where is the subtitles, he looks at me and says, baby their is no subtitles. I looks at him and I ask, do you know what they are saying, he says nah. I waited awhile to see how far into this film he was going to go before he relaized that we could not enjoy this film this way. I asked him how do you watch a movie and not know what they are saying. He says, I just watch the action.

I was too thru with him.

I am so glad I was not drinking something when I read this or it would be on my computer screen!!!! Oh my goodness I am laughing so hard I have tears in my eyes because I can imagine the way you were looking at him when you were talking and how he looked back at you. Oh my goodness I'm still laughing this is too much. No offense but this reminds me of something Brother man would say....

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

Hey KK, how are you doing?

[^KK^ 3]

Thank you for taking the time to talk to me!! It's hard for me because all of my family and friends with the exception of one think that I'm NUTTS!! I know that it was and still is hard for them to believe that I could go to JA for a few days and fall in love with a man that I barely know but to be honest that is exactly how it happened. We met through a friend of my brothers and communicated via emails, IM's and phone calls for moths and I decided to go visit him. I had no expectations of anything but having a good time. I knew that he was a fun loving guy but I had no idea that he was going to be the way that he is. He is truly amazing!! He made me believe in myself again and learn how to trust again. I'm not saying that I don't question things from time to time but that's only human nature, RIGHT?? I'm mean what 34 year old woman would question a man 10 years younger's intentions. I think a lot of that has to do with mi past and I pray that time will heal all of these issues because I don't want to run him away with all of my paranoia.. I know that this is not going to be an easy process and it's going to be a rough 2 years but I'm willing to make it work out by any means necessary just have to ward off that little voice in my head that appears from time to time that makes me doubt or want to give up. I'm learning to call him or text him when I'm having one of my episodes because he always knows how to bring me back to where I need to be. I know that it's hard but at the end of the day the one thing that remains the same is the love that we have for one another.

I look forward to talking to you ladies and hopefully getting to meet some of you one day!!

I know I'm late but I had to reapply. You really can't blame your family or friends I mean put yourself in their shoes. If one of them came back from JA saying they met a younger man for a couple of days and now they are smitten with them would you really believe them?? I mean really you would think they too a have gone mad.. I tell people all the time and I'm a FIRM believer in it. If you have not experienced it yourself you won't believe it. Its one of them things where you have to walk the walk to talk the talk. If not its all insane to you. When people t thought I was crazy for going back to see my SO shoot I did too I couldn’t believe them but I was getting on the plane so there was nothing they could do. That is why I said find a supportive friends or family member. Leave the non believers alone because they will only add to your headache. Now trusting a man that is a million miles away is not no easy feat. Shoot I'm still struggling with it but it is what it is just like he has to trust me wayyyyy over here. I think if the two of you go through obstacles that is good. A perfect relationship would be a suspect relationship to me.

One thing that I love about my SO is I can be having the WORST possible day and just the sound of his voice makes everything better. Crazy I tell ya...

Very well put DaDa.

Hey DaDA your real nickname? Just curious the logic behind it.

[DaDa 1]

Lawny cant no part of me fit in a wash basin, he offered to do that for me, but that is to much work and i dont want him thinking im so high maintenance....LOL

girl, please, it's not too much wurk...the first time I stayed at my SO's house when told him I'm going to take a shower he like, the water is too cold, I'm like please, I'm from the country...I was sitting at the table eating breakfast and watching tv and by the time I was done he filled the tub with water then added two large pots of boiling water...u know, I'm crazy...I just let the water out and took my cold shower, it was too damn HOT! at it was only 9:30 in the morning.

Umph i'm not sure if he has a basin?? But if he does I'm sure I would not fit. I guess I can do a standing shower.

[*JG* 2]

Long time no see JG!!!

How is it going?

Hey KK. It's all good.

How about yourself?

[DaDa 1]

Roxie - That was sooo cute. What a moment.

Philly - I didn't get a chance to check it. I'll check it out tonight.

Lawny- I agree..nothing like a cold shower in the morning. It's like it cooled me off from the heat.

Don't get me wrong..I like a warm bath too. I didn't have a problem with the cold shower.

Okay..first off my first shower my husband's house...No one told me there was no hot water. The bathroom and shower looked just the one here. Had a hot knob and a cold knob. Man o man. I jumped out of that tub so fast almost ripping the shower curtain. I find myself taking a cold (with just a little hot) shower during the summer here. I wish I knew this growing up in Florida.

KK

LOL I agree with u. When I got to my SO house I was like he is such a liad when I seen the two knobs but I quickly found out he was telling the truth... Did your SO laugh at yuh??

[*JG* 2]

Tre........empty your stupid mail box so I can answer you!!!!!!!!!!!!

lolllllllllllllll....I didn't know I had so many unanswered PMs...mi a clean dem out now.

You chat too much!

[^KK^ 3]

Hey Roxie,

I'm glad to here you had a wonderful time in Jamaica.

My husband and I was just talking about going back to Jamaica to visit. I mentioned to him that I want to stay at a resort..but then I told him that I'm afraid that I'll be spending a lot time by myself. He will be doing all of this catching up with family and friends. If I stay with him parents, I'll still be left with them but not alone. His suggestion is that we go somewhere else.

I only know Jamaica. What other islands would be a nice getaway. Then he can visit jamaica by himself.

Roxie - That was sooo cute. What a moment.

Philly - I didn't get a chance to check it. I'll check it out tonight.

Lawny- I agree..nothing like a cold shower in the morning. It's like it cooled me off from the heat.

Don't get me wrong..I like a warm bath too. I didn't have a problem with the cold shower.

Okay..first off my first shower my husband's house...No one told me there was no hot water. The bathroom and shower looked just the one here. Had a hot knob and a cold knob. Man o man. I jumped out of that tub so fast almost ripping the shower curtain. I find myself taking a cold (with just a little hot) shower during the summer here. I wish I knew this growing up in Florida.

KK

LOL I agree with u. When I got to my SO house I was like he is such a liad when I seen the two knobs but I quickly found out he was telling the truth... Did your SO laugh at yuh??

We never had the shower conversation. So he only knew after I told him. He was impressed that I could handle it. LOL.

Long time no see JG!!!

How is it going?

Hey KK. It's all good.

How about yourself?

Everything is good on my end. I can't wait for some real warm weather. Although I'm going to Orlando and Atlanta in May.

[DaDa 1]

Thank you for taking the time to talk to me!! It's hard for me because all of my family and friends with the exception of one think that I'm NUTTS!! I know that it was and still is hard for them to believe that I could go to JA for a few days and fall in love with a man that I barely know but to be honest that is exactly how it happened. We met through a friend of my brothers and communicated via emails, IM's and phone calls for moths and I decided to go visit him. I had no expectations of anything but having a good time. I knew that he was a fun loving guy but I had no idea that he was going to be the way that he is. He is truly amazing!! He made me believe in myself again and learn how to trust again. I'm not saying that I don't question things from time to time but that's only human nature, RIGHT?? I'm mean what 34 year old woman would question a man 10 years younger's intentions. I think a lot of that has to do with mi past and I pray that time will heal all of these issues because I don't want to run him away with all of my paranoia.. I know that this is not going to be an easy process and it's going to be a rough 2 years but I'm willing to make it work out by any means necessary just have to ward off that little voice in my head that appears from time to time that makes me doubt or want to give up. I'm learning to call him or text him when I'm having one of my episodes because he always knows how to bring me back to where I need to be. I know that it's hard but at the end of the day the one thing that remains the same is the love that we have for one another.

I look forward to talking to you ladies and hopefully getting to meet some of you one day!!

I know I'm late but I had to reapply. You really can't blame your family or friends I mean put yourself in their shoes. If one of them came back from JA saying they met a younger man for a couple of days and now they are smitten with them would you really believe them?? I mean really you would think they too a have gone mad.. I tell people all the time and I'm a FIRM believer in it. If you have not experienced it yourself you won't believe it. Its one of them things where you have to walk the walk to talk the talk. If not its all insane to you. When people t thought I was crazy for going back to see my SO shoot I did too I couldn’t believe them but I was getting on the plane so there was nothing they could do. That is why I said find a supportive friends or family member. Leave the non believers alone because they will only add to your headache. Now trusting a man that is a million miles away is not no easy feat. Shoot I'm still struggling with it but it is what it is just like he has to trust me wayyyyy over here. I think if the two of you go through obstacles that is good. A perfect relationship would be a suspect relationship to me.

One thing that I love about my SO is I can be having the WORST possible day and just the sound of his voice makes everything better. Crazy I tell ya...

Very well put DaDa.

Hey DaDA your real nickname? Just curious the logic behind it.

No my name is actually Dara but when mi SO says mi name he pronounces it Da Da..Not Dada like Mike Epps in Friday Da Da.. I love it... Funny when he vexed with me he cans say Dara but any other time I'm Da Da...

[Shemmy 4]

Thank you for taking the time to talk to me!! It's hard for me because all of my family and friends with the exception of one think that I'm NUTTS!! I know that it was and still is hard for them to believe that I could go to JA for a few days and fall in love with a man that I barely know but to be honest that is exactly how it happened. We met through a friend of my brothers and communicated via emails, IM's and phone calls for moths and I decided to go visit him. I had no expectations of anything but having a good time. I knew that he was a fun loving guy but I had no idea that he was going to be the way that he is. He is truly amazing!! He made me believe in myself again and learn how to trust again. I'm not saying that I don't question things from time to time but that's only human nature, RIGHT?? I'm mean what 34 year old woman would question a man 10 years younger's intentions. I think a lot of that has to do with mi past and I pray that time will heal all of these issues because I don't want to run him away with all of my paranoia.. I know that this is not going to be an easy process and it's going to be a rough 2 years but I'm willing to make it work out by any means necessary just have to ward off that little voice in my head that appears from time to time that makes me doubt or want to give up. I'm learning to call him or text him when I'm having one of my episodes because he always knows how to bring me back to where I need to be. I know that it's hard but at the end of the day the one thing that remains the same is the love that we have for one another.

I look forward to talking to you ladies and hopefully getting to meet some of you one day!!

I know I'm late but I had to reapply. You really can't blame your family or friends I mean put yourself in their shoes. If one of them came back from JA saying they met a younger man for a couple of days and now they are smitten with them would you really believe them?? I mean really you would think they too a have gone mad.. I tell people all the time and I'm a FIRM believer in it. If you have not experienced it yourself you won't believe it. Its one of them things where you have to walk the walk to talk the talk. If not its all insane to you. When people t thought I was crazy for going back to see my SO shoot I did too I couldn’t believe them but I was getting on the plane so there was nothing they could do. That is why I said find a supportive friends or family member. Leave the non believers alone because they will only add to your headache. Now trusting a man that is a million miles away is not no easy feat. Shoot I'm still struggling with it but it is what it is just like he has to trust me wayyyyy over here. I think if the two of you go through obstacles that is good. A perfect relationship would be a suspect relationship to me.

One thing that I love about my SO is I can be having the WORST possible day and just the sound of his voice makes everything better. Crazy I tell ya...

Nicely put.

I'm having one of these days wondering what the h@ll I got myself into