Yardies at home and Farrin (part13)

[Rick Ross 0]

Thank you for taking the time to talk to me!! It's hard for me because all of my family and friends with the exception of one think that I'm NUTTS!! I know that it was and still is hard for them to believe that I could go to JA for a few days and fall in love with a man that I barely know but to be honest that is exactly how it happened. We met through a friend of my brothers and communicated via emails, IM's and phone calls for moths and I decided to go visit him. I had no expectations of anything but having a good time. I knew that he was a fun loving guy but I had no idea that he was going to be the way that he is. He is truly amazing!! He made me believe in myself again and learn how to trust again. I'm not saying that I don't question things from time to time but that's only human nature, RIGHT?? I'm mean what 34 year old woman would question a man 10 years younger's intentions. I think a lot of that has to do with mi past and I pray that time will heal all of these issues because I don't want to run him away with all of my paranoia.. I know that this is not going to be an easy process and it's going to be a rough 2 years but I'm willing to make it work out by any means necessary just have to ward off that little voice in my head that appears from time to time that makes me doubt or want to give up. I'm learning to call him or text him when I'm having one of my episodes because he always knows how to bring me back to where I need to be. I know that it's hard but at the end of the day the one thing that remains the same is the love that we have for one another.

I look forward to talking to you ladies and hopefully getting to meet some of you one day!!

[^KK^ 3]

We have started the waiver process as he was convicted of a felony in Ft. Lauderdale when he was 16.

Shanette - CONGRATS!!!!

JaHoney - I guess a C-section is not so bad. Can you breast feed if you have a C-Section?

DaDa - Have you filed for your SO yet?

RickRoss - Have you started the process yet?

I usually pop in and out of the Yardie thread and never really know where everyone is in the process.

No worries. I think I read on here (another thread) about people getting approved for them. I wish you the best.

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

On my last visit to Jamaica, my husband decided that we were going to watch a movie together. Now I am a big fan of forgein films, so I asked him if it was a foregin film. He was like yeah, but it was a war movie film. So I settled down to watch this film that he had choosen for me. The movie starts off with it's introduction roll. and i see that it takes place in China. So I say oh okay, the chinese producers makes some good film this might be good. The movies starts and everyone is speaking chinese, so I say to Joel, where is the subtitles, he looks at me and says, baby their is no subtitles. I looks at him and I ask, do you know what they are saying, he says nah. I waited awhile to see how far into this film he was going to go before he relaized that we could not enjoy this film this way. I asked him how do you watch a movie and not know what they are saying. He says, I just watch the action.

I was too thru with him.

[phillyfashionista 8]

Hey Quanna! I hope you had a good weekend

See now you know why Shemmy and I are hooked! so tell me who was your favorite? What did your girls think? My oldest son watched a few episodes then disappeared LOL Poor boy has to put up with me and the Logo channel!

Girl you never lied about Stella I surely needed "The cooler" at times LOL

KK did the link for the flick work fi ya?

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Thank you for taking the time to talk to me!! It's hard for me because all of my family and friends with the exception of one think that I'm NUTTS!! I know that it was and still is hard for them to believe that I could go to JA for a few days and fall in love with a man that I barely know but to be honest that is exactly how it happened. We met through a friend of my brothers and communicated via emails, IM's and phone calls for moths and I decided to go visit him. I had no expectations of anything but having a good time. I knew that he was a fun loving guy but I had no idea that he was going to be the way that he is. He is truly amazing!! He made me believe in myself again and learn how to trust again. I'm not saying that I don't question things from time to time but that's only human nature, RIGHT?? I'm mean what 34 year old woman would question a man 10 years younger's intentions. I think a lot of that has to do with mi past and I pray that time will heal all of these issues because I don't want to run him away with all of my paranoia.. I know that this is not going to be an easy process and it's going to be a rough 2 years but I'm willing to make it work out by any means necessary just have to ward off that little voice in my head that appears from time to time that makes me doubt or want to give up. I'm learning to call him or text him when I'm having one of my episodes because he always knows how to bring me back to where I need to be. I know that it's hard but at the end of the day the one thing that remains the same is the love that we have for one another.

I look forward to talking to you ladies and hopefully getting to meet some of you one day!!

Just take your time.

[^KK^ 3]

thats funny @ Dada. Quana, knows i have issues as well...LOL.. when i went to JA for the first time alone my friends were all like OMG< its so dangerous, blah blah, im like WHA??? i knew i was taking a risk, but i prayed about it, asked god for traveling grace and never looked back. Now a year later, we are still going strong, yes he works my nerves and i work HIS im sure of that, but i wouldnt trade this experience for anything as of yet!!! of course i have my days when i wake up and SAY DAMMIT i absolutely cannot do this one more day, its funny how you say about staying in the yard, i had my concerns initially as well, but hell now i can take a cold shower with the best of em, one limb at a time, i soap up one part, stick it under the water, rinse it, do the other limb, until all limbs are cleaned and then i jump in full torso, scream until the soap comes off and then jump out...LOL

Only issues we have is im a bit OCD, like i dont like people drinking behind me, and vice versa, me and mr were out eating and i had a champagne cola, my fav well i must have set it down and he picked it up and took a swig, i was like what the hell he do that for??? he was like you dont want anymore soda, im like i havent told him im OCD like that yet...LOL...

...though honestly, considering he has seen all the nooks and crannies i shouldnt trip, but i dont even drink behind my kids and dont want them drinking behind me

The cold shower part had me screaming!!!!! Ugh do I memba dat!!! He was like sweetie yuh know I don’t have hot water I was like what!!! I think I hung up the phone like he has go to be out his mind!! So the first time I did the same thing soap up and I was talking to myself like just do it just do it. I think he called in the bathroom like are you o.k. who yuh chatting to?? I was like no one.. So then I just went under the wata and man did I scream. He was laughing so hard but you know what's funny its like pool water after you have been in it so long it starts to feel good its that initial shock. Now when I go in the summer months its easy cause its so darn hot but in Oct- Feb its a little more harder to bear. But mi too I'm a cold shower taking pro but every time I step in his bathroom I look at the shower like yep I' back its me and you again...

Den the crickets. The first time at his yaad the crickets almost drove me batty and then his neighbor woke up extra early playing her music and then the workers outside working on the houses I wanted to scream, ”Does anyone sleep around here??” But then I would open that door and look at the country and just think man this is so beautiful.

Me and my SO argue all the time and we have has some challenges but at the end of the day Were still together…

DaDa you crack me up. I know what you mean about music playing at all hours of the night. But I kinda liked the idea that someone is always awake. If I'm sleepy, I'll sleep through it. We sleep with the TV on the music channel.

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

thats funny @ Dada. Quana, knows i have issues as well...LOL.. when i went to JA for the first time alone my friends were all like OMG< its so dangerous, blah blah, im like WHA??? i knew i was taking a risk, but i prayed about it, asked god for traveling grace and never looked back. Now a year later, we are still going strong, yes he works my nerves and i work HIS im sure of that, but i wouldnt trade this experience for anything as of yet!!! of course i have my days when i wake up and SAY DAMMIT i absolutely cannot do this one more day, its funny how you say about staying in the yard, i had my concerns initially as well, but hell now i can take a cold shower with the best of em, one limb at a time, i soap up one part, stick it under the water, rinse it, do the other limb, until all limbs are cleaned and then i jump in full torso, scream until the soap comes off and then jump out...LOL

Only issues we have is im a bit OCD, like i dont like people drinking behind me, and vice versa, me and mr were out eating and i had a champagne cola, my fav well i must have set it down and he picked it up and took a swig, i was like what the hell he do that for??? he was like you dont want anymore soda, im like i havent told him im OCD like that yet...LOL...

...though honestly, considering he has seen all the nooks and crannies i shouldnt trip, but i dont even drink behind my kids and dont want them drinking behind me

The cold shower part had me screaming!!!!! Ugh do I memba dat!!! He was like sweetie yuh know I don't have hot water I was like what!!! I think I hung up the phone like he has go to be out his mind!! So the first time I did the same thing soap up and I was talking to myself like just do it just do it. I think he called in the bathroom like are you o.k. who yuh chatting to?? I was like no one.. So then I just went under the wata and man did I scream. He was laughing so hard but you know what's funny its like pool water after you have been in it so long it starts to feel good its that initial shock. Now when I go in the summer months its easy cause its so darn hot but in Oct- Feb its a little more harder to bear. But mi too I'm a cold shower taking pro but every time I step in his bathroom I look at the shower like yep I' back its me and you again...

Den the crickets. The first time at his yaad the crickets almost drove me batty and then his neighbor woke up extra early playing her music and then the workers outside working on the houses I wanted to scream, "Does anyone sleep around here??" But then I would open that door and look at the country and just think man this is so beautiful.

Me and my SO argue all the time and we have has some challenges but at the end of the day Were still together…

too funny, why don't ya'll have your SO boil some water for you then take a bath out of a wash basin ...the cold water don't bother me, but that's what I suggest to my friends that can't deal with it...just soap up every where then wash it off. If you can fit into one of the wash basins even bettah.

[ShaNette 4]

I'm finally caught up. Whoo yall be talking. Mrs. Buggy I'm so happy that your husband is finally here!! I can't really remember what I wanted to comment on so I will just wait until my memory comes back.

Philly: Did you watch Friday's episode of Y & R? I hope Ms. Chancellor throws Jill out on her sluie a**. Shes nothing without Katherine.

Hey Shanette,

You know I did! girllllllll I hope Kay throws her and Caine right on out on the streets! I am so happy it came back they are not related but you know it may bring up some issues about Caine though because she stole him and he is crazy and may want to press charges or some foolnish! I want to know why we haven't seen Neila and Tyra there is some Drama. I loved how Marge came back from the dead that was a good episode. the whole Kevin Amber storyline is DUMB! I can't stand Phyliss and waiting for her and Sharon too rumble LOL. How I keep up with these stories plus my Spanish novellas is beyond me but to be honest the Y& R has nothing on the Novellas they are muy Caliente! Do you have Telefutura or Telemundo?

I FEEL YOU!! I am so sick of Caine and his tired a** story about how he wants Delia. Come on Dude, get your own baby! Plus he is so fine!! Good Lord, I would consider going to the outback with him Okay I can't be making sluie comments like that anymore. Yea Jill been trailer park trash. Remember she was a freakin manicurist before she got knocked up with Philip (I think or one of Mrs. C's husbands). Yea Tyra and Neil are so freakin hot together. But I really wish Dru was back because a lot sh** wouldn't be flying with her around. Shes straight hood! Now I'm a fan of Amber and Kevin but they are getting played out. You know its new writers, now? Hence, all the bull and the dragging out thats been going on. Yes girl I used to watch the Spanish "Passions" I think. My Spanish is really rusting so it was hard for me to follow. But why is everyone freakin beautiful on those Latin Soaps? Their make-up be heavy but on point. I have Telemundo. Another thing that cracks me up is their commercials, Don't know why but they do. Okay well i could go on and on but thats all I will comment on for now.

Edited March 30, 2009 by ShaNette

[JaHoney 3]

Lawny cant no part of me fit in a wash basin, he offered to do that for me, but that is to much work and i dont want him thinking im so high maintenance....LOL

[Rick Ross 0]

He was charged as a juvenile, served two years and was sent back to MoBay with the conditions that he was not to reenter the US for 5 years. March marked the 5th year so we both thought that it would be okay to file the waiver. I don't know much about the waiver and neither does he. I've talked to several different people and attorney's and they all say the same thing.. IT'S NOT GOING TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE IF AN ATTORNY FILES ON OUR BEHALF OR IF WE WILE ON OUR OWN. I'm scared that they are not going to approve the waiver!! I don't know what I will do if he can't come here!! Don't get me wrong I love JA but my career is in the US not to mention that my children (19,15 and 13) and grandchild are here!!

Just talking about the waiver stresses me out!!

I'm finally caught up. Whoo yall be talking. Mrs. Buggy I'm so happy that your husband is finally here!! I can't really remember what I wanted to comment on so I will just wait until my memory comes back.

Philly: Did you watch Friday's episode of Y & R? I hope Ms. Chancellor throws Jill out on her sluie a**. Shes nothing without Katherine.

Congratulations ShaNette and hubby, on your marriage.

We have started the waiver process as he was convicted of a felony in Ft. Lauderdale when he was 16.

Shanette - CONGRATS!!!!

JaHoney - I guess a C-section is not so bad. Can you breast feed if you have a C-Section?

DaDa - Have you filed for your SO yet?

RickRoss - Have you started the process yet?

I usually pop in and out of the Yardie thread and never really know where everyone is in the process.

Was it a juv charge or an adult charge. This will make a difference.

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Lawny cant no part of me fit in a wash basin, he offered to do that for me, but that is to much work and i dont want him thinking im so high maintenance....LOL

girl, please, it's not too much wurk...the first time I stayed at my SO's house when told him I'm going to take a shower he like, the water is too cold, I'm like please, I'm from the country...I was sitting at the table eating breakfast and watching tv and by the time I was done he filled the tub with water then added two large pots of boiling water...u know, I'm crazy...I just let the water out and took my cold shower, it was too damn HOT! at it was only 9:30 in the morning.

[JaHoney 3]

LMAO at Lawny....

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

LMAO at Lawny....

yeah, I know I was wrong for that he just kissed his teeth and started seasoning up food to cook for dinner...he lucky if he did live near a river that's where I would be taking a bath everyday

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

He was charged as a juvenile, served two years and was sent back to MoBay with the conditions that he was not to reenter the US for 5 years. March marked the 5th year so we both thought that it would be okay to file the waiver. I don't know much about the waiver and neither does he. I've talked to several different people and attorney's and they all say the same thing.. IT'S NOT GOING TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE IF AN ATTORNY FILES ON OUR BEHALF OR IF WE WILE ON OUR OWN. I'm scared that they are not going to approve the waiver!! I don't know what I will do if he can't come here!! Don't get me wrong I love JA but my career is in the US not to mention that my children (19,15 and 13) and grandchild are here!!

Just talking about the waiver stresses me out!!

I'm finally caught up. Whoo yall be talking. Mrs. Buggy I'm so happy that your husband is finally here!! I can't really remember what I wanted to comment on so I will just wait until my memory comes back.

Philly: Did you watch Friday's episode of Y & R? I hope Ms. Chancellor throws Jill out on her sluie a**. Shes nothing without Katherine.

Congratulations ShaNette and hubby, on your marriage.

We have started the waiver process as he was convicted of a felony in Ft. Lauderdale when he was 16.

Shanette - CONGRATS!!!!

JaHoney - I guess a C-section is not so bad. Can you breast feed if you have a C-Section?

DaDa - Have you filed for your SO yet?

RickRoss - Have you started the process yet?

I usually pop in and out of the Yardie thread and never really know where everyone is in the process.

Was it a juv charge or an adult charge. This will make a difference.

If it was a juv charge, isn't his records sealed?

[Rick Ross 0]

Just wondering how you all met your SO.. I'm sure that it's probably out here somewhere but please take the time to tell me.. Trying to catch up!!