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  1. 1. 18-26

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  2. 2. 26-35

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  3. 3. 36-40+

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bahaha I love ur sig pic!

mine is 38 and I'm 29 (gonna be 30 this year :crying: )

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Egypt
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My pooky boo is 24, will be 25 in Sept. I just turned 27. I always said I would ~never~ marry a younger guy bcz they are immature.... :whistle: anyways... Adam was raised by his grandmother and surrounded by his mother and sister. No brothers. I on the other hand was raised around bad brothers, and guy friends. Adam and I are sooooo different in personalities.

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Filed: AOS (pnd) Country: Iran
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Maybe birth order would have something to do with it? (He's the youngest son and the fifth out of six kids.) His mom's also pretty self-sufficient and physically active (has climbed trees and killed snakes as an adult -- I love this woman), and I get the impression she taught her sons to pitch in around the house when needed, or at least to clean up after themselves in the bathroom, etc. The women did wait on the men a good bit there, but when he arrived here, he didn't seem to expect that from me (except in the sense that he waits on me and enjoys it when I do the same).

ya maybe so. Yazied is the oldest of 5.

His mom works and she is constantly telling him "when you get there, you remember she works and is a mother..help her!" :luv: I love my MIL!

All of his aunts pin him down when they get the chance and give him "pointers" too lol

:thumbs:

Pandora and Hesam

K-3 Visa

Service Center : Vermont Service Center

Consulate : Montreal, Canada

Marriage : 2008-08-29 in Canada

I-130 Sent : 2008-10-14

I-130 NOA1 : 2008-10-20

I-130F NOA2 : 2009-05-04

I-129F Sent : 2008-11-25

I-129F NOA1 : 2008-11-28

I-129F NOA2 : 2009-05-04

NVC Received : 2009-05-12

Packet 3 Received : 2009-05-19

Packet 3 Sent : 2009-06-10

Interview: 2009-09-10 APPROVED

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Visa Received : 2009-09-16

US Entry : 2009-09-27

EAD received: 2009-12-21

AOS interview: 2010-02-05 (medical exam missing from documents)

Recieved RFE for missing medical exam that they lost. Submitted new exam March 10, 2010.

Notified that he is in background checks after submitting three service requests: July, 2010

Filed: Other Country: Israel
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The poll's not working for me.

Hubby will soon be 35, I'll soon be 56. I've known him since he was barely 28. He was mature then. He's the youngest of 3 boys and two girls, with a loveable mom who's a pistol. His parents raised him well. :)

Edited by Virtual wife
Filed: AOS (pnd) Country: Iran
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Wow a lot of big families here! lol. Mine only has one younger sister and has lived on his own for the last five years in Canada.

Pandora and Hesam

K-3 Visa

Service Center : Vermont Service Center

Consulate : Montreal, Canada

Marriage : 2008-08-29 in Canada

I-130 Sent : 2008-10-14

I-130 NOA1 : 2008-10-20

I-130F NOA2 : 2009-05-04

I-129F Sent : 2008-11-25

I-129F NOA1 : 2008-11-28

I-129F NOA2 : 2009-05-04

NVC Received : 2009-05-12

Packet 3 Received : 2009-05-19

Packet 3 Sent : 2009-06-10

Interview: 2009-09-10 APPROVED

See my interview experience here: http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...=217544&hl=

Visa Received : 2009-09-16

US Entry : 2009-09-27

EAD received: 2009-12-21

AOS interview: 2010-02-05 (medical exam missing from documents)

Recieved RFE for missing medical exam that they lost. Submitted new exam March 10, 2010.

Notified that he is in background checks after submitting three service requests: July, 2010

Filed: AOS (pnd) Country: Iran
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The poll's not working for me.

Hubby will soon be 35, I'll soon be 56. I've known him since he was barely 28. He was mature then. He's the youngest of 3 boys and two girls, with a loveable mom who's a pistol. His parents raised him well. :)

You and I have the same age gap with our husbands. What do his parents think about your age? We have told my in laws I'm a few years younger than I really am. :-P

Pandora and Hesam

K-3 Visa

Service Center : Vermont Service Center

Consulate : Montreal, Canada

Marriage : 2008-08-29 in Canada

I-130 Sent : 2008-10-14

I-130 NOA1 : 2008-10-20

I-130F NOA2 : 2009-05-04

I-129F Sent : 2008-11-25

I-129F NOA1 : 2008-11-28

I-129F NOA2 : 2009-05-04

NVC Received : 2009-05-12

Packet 3 Received : 2009-05-19

Packet 3 Sent : 2009-06-10

Interview: 2009-09-10 APPROVED

See my interview experience here: http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...=217544&hl=

Visa Received : 2009-09-16

US Entry : 2009-09-27

EAD received: 2009-12-21

AOS interview: 2010-02-05 (medical exam missing from documents)

Recieved RFE for missing medical exam that they lost. Submitted new exam March 10, 2010.

Notified that he is in background checks after submitting three service requests: July, 2010

Filed: Other Country: Israel
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The poll's not working for me.

Hubby will soon be 35, I'll soon be 56. I've known him since he was barely 28. He was mature then. He's the youngest of 3 boys and two girls, with a loveable mom who's a pistol. His parents raised him well. :)

You and I have the same age gap with our husbands. What do his parents think about your age? We have told my in laws I'm a few years younger than I really am. :-P

They know how old I am, and they're fine with it. I'm only 5 years younger than his mother, and that gives us a special bond coz I understand her needs so well. Although I'm in great shape, I have a great deal of empathy for the limitations of age that they have, having lived a harder life, so I tend to pamper them and support my husband when he wants to help make their lives easier. They deserve it and don't take advantage.

Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Egypt
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My hubby is 38 and I am 33.

I am 38 and he's 27 ( the other way around - I do look MUCH younger than my age, I am lucky no wrinkles yet )

comeon...NO WRINKLES??

I would say you are lucky!

I mean everyone says I look way younger than I am and I have 3 kids too. 1 just turned 16 but still I can see the darn crowfeet's and the frown lines

these last 2 years have aged me tremendously

I am 36 and hubby is 27

they sell a solution to that problem now... :whistle:

Is it wrong to wish my husband had a starter wife?

I can not imagine what my husband was like when he married his ex wife. He was the only son!!! Oh well, at least I didn't have all of the breaking in to do like I would have.....

NO i wish mine had one! :lol:

It's not wrong but let me tell you the ex wife is a pain in the bootayyyyyyyyy!!! I keep trying to marry her off...anybody know someone? :whistle: I asked my husband don't you know somebody that would take her? He said uh, well I'd have to lie when they came and asked me why I divorced her. LOL.

There are pros and cons of it....

Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Jordan
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The poll's not working for me.

Hubby will soon be 35, I'll soon be 56. I've known him since he was barely 28. He was mature then. He's the youngest of 3 boys and two girls, with a loveable mom who's a pistol. His parents raised him well. :)

You and I have the same age gap with our husbands. What do his parents think about your age? We have told my in laws I'm a few years younger than I really am. :-P

before we got married, my husband told his mom about me, told her i was 28...she said "she could be my mother!" :lol:

then she met me, she kept saying i looked no more than 24 and a like a baby.. heee

it suprised me that meeting me and SEEING me made such a difference from her original thinking.

Were your in laws ok with it, childress?

I just wanted to add that I think no matter the age difference "we" as american girls have more life experience than the men who were never married before..agree?

Edited by Lisa wa Yazied

"you fondle my trigger then you blame my gun"

Timeline: 13 month long journey from filing to visa in hand

If you were lucky and got an approval and reunion with your loved one rather quickly; Please refrain from telling people who waited 6+ months just to get out of a service center to "chill out" or to "stop whining" It's insensitive,and unecessary. Once you walk a mile in their shoes you will understand and be heard.

Thanks!

Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Egypt
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i'm 27, my hubby is 29 but our minds 20.

06/29/2006-Met online(skype), start talking every day(5-6 hours a day)

07/01/2006 became bf & gf.

12/29/2006-flew to Egypt, met for the first time(happy time

01/06/2007-got married

01/15/2007- Flew back to Chicago(sad)

02/?/2007- hubby applied for Egyptian military

06/04/2007-2nd trip to see my love

06/07/2007-our honey moon in Sharm(7 amazing days)

06/19/2007-supposed to go back to USA, but call sick at work and got 12 more extra days.

08/?/2007- my honey went to serve for 2 years & 2 months(very-very sad)

01/30/2008-3rd trip to Egypt

02/20/2008-flew back

12/03/2008-4th trip to see my love

12/20/2008-found out than i'm pregnant(hubby is so happy,i'm surprised)

01/09/2009-left my love

02/10/2009-sent CR-1/IR-1

02/11/2009-reseived at Chicago

02/17/2009-moved to California Service Center

02/17/2009-check cashed

02/19/2009-NOA1 resived my mail

02/19/2009-touched

03/04/2009-touched

03/19/2009-approved

03/24/2009-received approval letter

04/27/2009-paid fee $70.00 on line

Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Jordan
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i'm 27, my hubby is 29 but our minds 20.

i love the name tetyana btw :)

"you fondle my trigger then you blame my gun"

Timeline: 13 month long journey from filing to visa in hand

If you were lucky and got an approval and reunion with your loved one rather quickly; Please refrain from telling people who waited 6+ months just to get out of a service center to "chill out" or to "stop whining" It's insensitive,and unecessary. Once you walk a mile in their shoes you will understand and be heard.

Thanks!

Filed: AOS (pnd) Country: Iran
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The poll's not working for me.

Hubby will soon be 35, I'll soon be 56. I've known him since he was barely 28. He was mature then. He's the youngest of 3 boys and two girls, with a loveable mom who's a pistol. His parents raised him well. :)

You and I have the same age gap with our husbands. What do his parents think about your age? We have told my in laws I'm a few years younger than I really am. :-P

before we got married, my husband told his mom about me, told her i was 28...she said "she could be my mother!" :lol:

then she met me, she kept saying i looked no more than 24 and a like a baby.. heee

it suprised me that meeting me and SEEING me made such a difference from her original thinking.

Were your in laws ok with it, childress?

I just wanted to add that I think no matter the age difference "we" as american girls have more life experience than the men who were never married before..agree?

Well, his mom had him young, so she is actually a couple of years younger than me. :-P His dad is older than me, so that's OK. So, when my husband first told his mom about me, he told her my real age. She was shocked, told him he was crazy, and hung up on him. Then he sent her my picture. She asked him why he told her I was 45 when I looked 36! She was OK with 36, so since then we've let her believe I'm 36. But I'm thinking eventually she might find out the truth? Maybe by then she won't care, because they know me now and they love me. :-)

Pandora and Hesam

K-3 Visa

Service Center : Vermont Service Center

Consulate : Montreal, Canada

Marriage : 2008-08-29 in Canada

I-130 Sent : 2008-10-14

I-130 NOA1 : 2008-10-20

I-130F NOA2 : 2009-05-04

I-129F Sent : 2008-11-25

I-129F NOA1 : 2008-11-28

I-129F NOA2 : 2009-05-04

NVC Received : 2009-05-12

Packet 3 Received : 2009-05-19

Packet 3 Sent : 2009-06-10

Interview: 2009-09-10 APPROVED

See my interview experience here: http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...=217544&hl=

Visa Received : 2009-09-16

US Entry : 2009-09-27

EAD received: 2009-12-21

AOS interview: 2010-02-05 (medical exam missing from documents)

Recieved RFE for missing medical exam that they lost. Submitted new exam March 10, 2010.

Notified that he is in background checks after submitting three service requests: July, 2010

Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Jordan
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Posted
The poll's not working for me.

Hubby will soon be 35, I'll soon be 56. I've known him since he was barely 28. He was mature then. He's the youngest of 3 boys and two girls, with a loveable mom who's a pistol. His parents raised him well. :)

You and I have the same age gap with our husbands. What do his parents think about your age? We have told my in laws I'm a few years younger than I really am. :-P

before we got married, my husband told his mom about me, told her i was 28...she said "she could be my mother!" :lol:

then she met me, she kept saying i looked no more than 24 and a like a baby.. heee

it suprised me that meeting me and SEEING me made such a difference from her original thinking.

Were your in laws ok with it, childress?

I just wanted to add that I think no matter the age difference "we" as american girls have more life experience than the men who were never married before..agree?

Well, his mom had him young, so she is actually a couple of years younger than me. :-P His dad is older than me, so that's OK. So, when my husband first told his mom about me, he told her my real age. She was shocked, told him he was crazy, and hung up on him. Then he sent her my picture. She asked him why he told her I was 45 when I looked 36! She was OK with 36, so since then we've let her believe I'm 36. But I'm thinking eventually she might find out the truth? Maybe by then she won't care, because they know me now and they love me. :-)

isnt that funny? how the appearance makes such a difference (btw, i thot you were like 32-35 fom your pic) :star:

lets just hope she never finds out you guys lied heh but, it helps that she loves ya :)

"you fondle my trigger then you blame my gun"

Timeline: 13 month long journey from filing to visa in hand

If you were lucky and got an approval and reunion with your loved one rather quickly; Please refrain from telling people who waited 6+ months just to get out of a service center to "chill out" or to "stop whining" It's insensitive,and unecessary. Once you walk a mile in their shoes you will understand and be heard.

Thanks!

 
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