hi there everyone

[Loolie 56]

i dont understand why you need to edit your name CLYN to @@@@@...its so useless..hehehehehe..4 years of relationship and not having met in person because of his health condition is a bit unbelievable..after 100 plus replies to your topic you will then answer he has cancer??? what took you a long time to answer all the things we have said here? and your asking now if your first petition will be granted even you didnt meet in person? its like your just waiting for the petitions to be approved..then what? you will be with the man who has approve petition? you know what? you are such a big fat liar and user!

maybe you just love your old bf because of being pity on his situation? let me ask you something... are you gonna be with a person who has that condition if he lives in the pi? the kind of woman you are...i dont think so..youre just trying to be with that person coz you think he petition you.

shame on you.

God bless you.

[steveee 0]

Hi.....i need your advice friends in here.... or im about curious about the K-1 visa

ok heres the situation, i have a bf from USA....he been filed as a being petitioner since august 2008 till now yet havent heard from approval from his side and im waiting too.... and now i found a new man which they both same country but different state .....then who is also willing to petition as same petition with my old bf.... but the question that really bothered me is that, is it okay two petitioner do petition on me? though both sides on them havent know the real situation and i dont have plan to tell to them coz its very complicated and i dont want to hurt one of them.....does the NVC or USAID or USCIS, wont trace up for my side? that i have a two petitioner?

some friends told me it wont trace up my side coz it just trace up for there own each profile of the men, is it true?

please help me .........or do send me a private message

thank you

hope i can hear alots of opinion or advices

clyn

I guess it will be traced up. I guess there's a question in a form if the beneciary, had someone file for them or something. I used to know someone who got petitioned from 2 guys and she was caught up. But what she did was marry a foreigner in Philippines and they just process K3. If you aren't after with visa thing so why in a hurry? If you want to have a good record, so I guess you better go for someone whom you love. Just an advice also, if you found a new man and if you love him or whatsoever, why not just tell and be honest to the old guy? If you want the old bf, so be patient. What makes it complicated? And you said that you don't want to hurt any one of them? I guess the case is you are hurting them. It sounds like you go with the flow and whoever succeed with the petition, thats it (may the best man win). Is this some kinda having a back up plan? If the one won't work, there's someone waiting on you who will catch you? There's nothing wrong about it as long as no one will be hurt or you are not stepping on someone's shoes. ANd before you do things, put your self in there shoes. And see how is it gonna be like. There are few I've known using foreigners to satisfy there own needs or ambitions, and this kind of people are giving bad impressions to a FIlipina, the fact that there are good ones whose intentions are pure and genuine but because of someone giving bad reputations they wont be able to find good one, there are but its rare. And sometimes we questioned? Why some people granted with visa whose intention are for there self interest while people who got good intentions is not granted???I know that people should be practical but I guess being practical is case to case basis. BUt I believe that material things or money can't buy happiness, if so its just temporary, any time you will lose those things. SO its better to live life with happiness that comes from within...GO for something on not what you see, but go for something what you see inside. If you believe in karma, then good if not, its still good but just know that God is watching us. I hope that you will make a right decision. I am sure, if you did it then 100% you will achieve complete happiness. God bless

All i want to say is be honest, listen to your heart and move on... good luck my dear....

[morocco4ever 63]

I can't wait to hear Chapter 3.

[Sinergy 3]

i cant believe ppl are retarded enough to continue to feed the troll

[shang 0]

i dont understand why you need to edit your name CLYN to @@@@@...its so useless..hehehehehe..4 years of relationship and not having met in person because of his health condition is a bit unbelievable..after 100 plus replies to your topic you will then answer he has cancer??? what took you a long time to answer all the things we have said here? and your asking now if your first petition will be granted even you didnt meet in person? its like your just waiting for the petitions to be approved..then what? you will be with the man who has approve petition? you know what? you are such a big fat liar and user!

maybe you just love your old bf because of being pity on his situation? let me ask you something... are you gonna be with a person who has that condition if he lives in the pi? the kind of woman you are...i dont think so..youre just trying to be with that person coz you think he petition you.

shame on you.

God bless you.

this kind of people bring some bad reputation to us FIlipina. she just don't know how hard to get one (visa). doesn't she understand "bona fide relationship". And if she can't be patient why stick to the old one? why give hopes to the old one?

[Loolie 56]

i cant believe ppl are retarded enough to continue to feed the troll

are you one of those people? hehehhehehe..

[Sinergy 3]

i cant believe ppl are retarded enough to continue to feed the troll

are you one of those people? hehehhehehe..

"hehehe" you obviously didnt read the thread, not surprising....i havent given one bit of advice to this lame troll....

Edited February 19, 2009 by Sinergy

[tedjen 0]

^^I think most of the people here aren't advising... but criticizing!

Can't help to post... I was wondering OP, you stayed in a 4-year relationship without love?! Even if you say that you haven't met in person yet, still, can you tell him I LOVE YOU every time you talk where in fact there's no love in your heart?!

Girl, hindi kita hinuhusgahan dito, pero hindi ka ba nakukunsensya?

I still pray that God enlighten your mind... and touch your heart...

[Loolie 56]

i cant believe ppl are retarded enough to continue to feed the troll

are you one of those people? hehehhehehe..

"hehehe" you obviously didnt read the thread, not surprising....i havent given one bit of advice to this lame troll....

whether its troll or not...it doesnt matter...still not good to do that..heller.

thank you.

[Sinergy 3]

i cant believe ppl are retarded enough to continue to feed the troll

are you one of those people? hehehhehehe..

"hehehe" you obviously didnt read the thread, not surprising....i havent given one bit of advice to this lame troll....

whether its troll or not...it doesnt matter...still not good to do that..heller.

thank you.

still not good to do what? you off your meds bc your making no sense.

[Loolie 56]

i cant believe ppl are retarded enough to continue to feed the troll

are you one of those people? hehehhehehe..

"hehehe" you obviously didnt read the thread, not surprising....i havent given one bit of advice to this lame troll....

whether its troll or not...it doesnt matter...still not good to do that..heller.

thank you.

still not good to do what? you off your meds bc your making no sense.

hehehe..be cool.

[sweet_wifey22 0]

Edited March 18, 2009 by sweet_wifey22

[sweet_wifey22 0]

For Gary and Alla :

You are right she should send out that letter now. As soon as USCIC recieves it she will be put on the fraud list and will be barred from ever entering the US. I know one guy has not filed, but when the USCIS see that she has two guys on the line, the petition from the first guy goes right to the fraud unit. Good Luck. And by the way, no one is jealous that she has two fiancess, we are just law abiding citizens that obey the law. Neither guy has met her in person, everyone else is right. She needs to give up the petition and move on

[lovica_l 0]

When you sign that intent to marry paper, you're telling the USCIS that you're engaged. You are engaged to the petitioner. Do you understand what that means? That means you want to marry him, and spend the rest of your life with him. Going to the US is not your goal, spending your life with your fiance is.

So... why in the hell are you trying to get engaged to another guy at the same time? Stop scamming American men. You won't have a better life here, especially if you don't give a ####### about your fiance. My advice: Break it off with both guys, and forget about going to the US. Or better, let both of them petition for you. I honestly hope you get permanently banned from the US for immigration fraud. People like you are why those of us with real relationships have such a hard time.

Well said!

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

i cant believe ppl are retarded enough to continue to feed the troll

are you one of those people? hehehhehehe..

"hehehe" you obviously didnt read the thread, not surprising....i havent given one bit of advice to this lame troll....

Hey, me neither, but I opened the bid a $.05

For Gary and Alla :

You are right she should send out that letter now. As soon as USCIC recieves it she will be put on the fraud list and will be barred from ever entering the US. I know one guy has not filed, but when the USCIS see that she has two guys on the line, the petition from the first guy goes right to the fraud unit. Good Luck. And by the way, no one is jealous that she has two fiancess, we are just law abiding citizens that obey the law. Neither guy has met her in person, everyone else is right. She needs to give up the petition and move on

Hehehhe, really? Hey yeah. I never though of that!

Heck, I'M jealous! I guess I should speak for myself. LOL