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Is there someone in your SO's family that you have decided that you just don't like?

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Do you dislike someone in your SO's family?  

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  1. 1. Who is the family member you dislike?

    • Mother in law
      10
    • Father in Law
      4
    • Sister in Law
      9
    • Brother in law
      5
    • other-child
      2
    • Grandparent
      1
    • cousin
      3
    • family friend etc
      7

  2. 2. Do you have a valid reason not to like this person?

    • I have a valid reason not to like this person
      40
    • I do not have a valid reason, but I just do not like this person
      1
    • 0

  3. 3. How do you deal with this person?

    • I ignore them
      9
    • I refuse to be around them
      4
    • I have expressed my concerns to this person and my SO
      8
    • I grin and bear it on family occasions
      16
    • I have not expressed my concerns to my SO or the disliked person
      4

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I AM NOT THAT GUY Grand Master

I AM NOT THAT GUY   5,715

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My wife's family has several "characters", even she would freely admit. It is not an issue of like, or dislike. It is not like we are openly hostile. It's just they can't be trusted with money, since we know them so well!

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Marilyn. Grand Master

Marilyn.   340

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my BIL is an a$$... he is nice to everyone but his family.. totally puts them down in front of people...

his kids are all afraid of him.. the whole mood in the house changes when he walks in the door...

I just grin and bear it when I have to be around him...

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pedroh Grand Master

pedroh   21

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Julia's family rocks.. her mom and grandma are the bomb

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regalame una sonrisita con sabor a viento

tu eres mi vitamina del pecho mi fibra

tu eres todo lo que me equilibra,

un balance, lo que me conplementa

un masajito con sabor a menta,

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Wis-Can   0

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I haven't quite meet everyone on my honey's side of the family, and he comes from a big family, but everyone so far has been super nice to me. I think they are just overly happy to see that he's found someone. I count myself very lucky. I love his parents...which is going to be nice once I finally do get moved.

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Jasman0717 Grand Master

Jasman0717   9

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I don't like any of Claudeth's family, they are all mooches :P

Actually, everyone that I have met has been really nice!

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"Life is hard; it's harder if you're stupid." John Wayne

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BowieChick   0

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I have yet to meet him but I am not fond of my fiance's father. But... neither is he. We have valid reasons. His dad just treats him like #######. I might not ever meet him though so it's all good. ;)

Timeline:

February 12, 2009 - K1 petition sent.

February 18, 2009 - Petition recieved at CSC.

February 24, 2009 - Received NOA1.

April 6, 2009 - Received NOA2!

April 24, 2009 - Packet 3 in the mail.

September 7, 2009 - Medical

September 16, 2009 - Interview date at London Embassy

Forgot to have letter of intent notarized, stalling time for a bit.

October 28, 2009 - Visa in his hands!!

March 19, 2010 - First time seeing each other since Oct. '08!!

May 9, 2010 - Married!

June, 2010 - Preparing AoS packet

June 23, 2010 - Sent off AoS and EAD!

June 25, 2010 - Package arrived in Chicago

July 2, 2010 - Check cashed

July 5, 2010 - NOA1 for both AoS and EAD

July 15, 2010 - Biometrics scheduled for August 6th

July 27, 2010 - RFE :(

August 6, 2010 - Biometrics in Portland, Oregon

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veronicavonn Enthusiast

veronicavonn   7

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My MIL, FIL, and 6 out of 7 bro/sis-in-law's are absolutely awesome.

It's unfortunate that the only Sis-in-law that I absolutely despise is the sister that he has been closest with his entire life.

I have told my husband my concerns/issues about her and he completely understands and does not make me visit her with him. But I do just put on a smile and deal with it most of the time.

I am the USC, my husband is German.

I resided in Germany from July 2008-October 2013.

I have two stepsons who are staying in Germany.

Our son was born 3/3/2012 and our daughter was born 4/4/2015.

DCF STARTED!MAY 14, 2013: I-130 Petition sent to Frankfurt as registered mail w/ return receipt!

MAY 15, 2013: Mail signed for in Frankfurt. NOA1

MAY 21, 2013: Return receipt came back in the mail.

MAY 25, 2013: $420 Petition fee was charged to our credit card.

MAY 25, 2013: NOA1 paperwork received in the mail.

JULY 12, 2013: NOA2 received.

JULY 13, 2013: NOA2 sent back.

AUG 15, 2013: Packet 3 sent in.

AUG 30, 2013: Husband's medical in Berlin.

SEPT 12, 2013: Received letter with husband's interview date!

SEPT 19, 2013: INTERVIEW. APPROVED!!

SEPT 21, 2013: Visa received.

OCT 5, 2013: POE in Newark, NJ (layover).

DEC 17, 2013: SSN Card finally arrived!

DEC 19, 2013: Husband (beneficiary) got his first job in the USA! And he loves it!

DEC 28, 2013: Green card arrived!

FUTURE: Visas for my stepsons!

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almaty Grand Master

almaty   19

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sanita has no family,,so no issues with in-laws

my family well, when we get together..somone goes to the Er and someone goes to jail..

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Emancipation   2

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my family well, when we get together..somone goes to the Er and someone goes to jail..

:lol:

No one in hubby's family.. although hubby has a loudmouthed friend I Can't STAND...

AOS:

2007-02-22: Sent AOS /EAD

2007-03-06 : NOA1 AOS /EAD

2007-03-28: Transferred to CSC

2007-05-17: EAD Card Production Ordered

2007-05-21: I485 Approved

2007-05-24: EAD Card Received

2007-06-01: Green Card Received!!

Removal of Conditions:

2009-02-27: Sent I-751

2009-03-07: NOA I-751

2009-03-31: Biometrics Appt. Hartford

2009-07-21: Touched (first time since biometrics) Perhaps address change?

2009-07-28: Approved at VSC

2009-08-25: Received card in the mail

Naturalization

2012-08-20: Submitted N-400

2013-01-18: Became Citizen

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AbsentMindedKat Rookie

AbsentMindedKat   1

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I could never love another man after watching my fiancé flawlessly navigate his way through the unrational chaos that is my mother.

My hero! :wub:

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I-129F
02-09-2009 - Sent I-129F package
02-11-2009 - NOA1
06-15-2009 - NOA2
06-22-2009 - NVC received petition
07-09-2009 - Consulate received petition
08-27-2009 - Packet 3
10-03-2009 - Packet 4
10-08-2009 - Interview - Approved!
10-16-2009 - Received visa
02-03-2010 - U.S. entry
04-01-2010 - Married! (No joke!)

AOS/AP/EAD
04-26-2010 - Sent I-485/I-131/I-765 package
05-03-2010 - NOA1
05-18-2010 - RFE (Resolved)
06-14-2010 - Biometrics
06-21-2010 - Transferred to CSC
07-06-2010 - AP (I-131) and EAD (I-765) Approved
10-13-2010 - AOS (I-485) Approved!

I-751
09-11-2012 - Sent I-751 package
09-13-2012 - NOA1
10-11-2012 - Biometrics

04-08-2013 - Approved!

All mine. <3

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trinket Experienced

trinket   30

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My MIL, talked to her once and not talking to her ever again, husband doesn't care, he doesn't have any relationship with her, so it works out well.

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