February 09 - VSC

[IgorK 0]

Thanks for your support guys. You are right about being here and understanding everything and I totally understand that patience is the key, but I am very worried for her. I keep re-assuring her every time we talk and as you said, there are ups and downs, but not seeing each other since last October doesn't make things easier. At some point she was suspecting that we got rfe and I didn't tell her about it. I am really hoping to hear from USCIS this week!!! Come on VT, step it up! I know it's this time of year, but only if you knew what you are doing to us! I sleep like 3-4 hrs a night and it already bounced back at me.

Edited July 27, 2009 by IgorK

[lee b 2]

Richard since you live in Atlanta I would be remiss if I didn't ask how you feel about Michael Vick being reinstated in the NFL?

[Rich and Bey 1]

richard you go boy!!!

[Richard-Joanna 1]

Thanks for your support guys. You are right about being here and understanding everything and I totally understand that patience is the key, but I am very worried for her. I keep re-assuring her every time we talk and as you said, there are ups and downs, but not seeing each other since last October doesn't make things easier. At some point she was suspecting that we got rfe and I didn't tell her about it. I am really hoping to hear from USCIS this week!!! Come on VT, step it up! I know it's this time of year, but only if you knew what you are doing to us! I sleep like 3-4 hrs a night and it already bounced back at me.

Igor... and forgive me in advance if this gets a little personal... maybe... now would be a good time to talk about trust and loyalty and what love means to you.... To help her understand that you would NEVER keep something like that from her. Maybe by making more about you and her and less about the process... it might help?

I also only sleep 3 or 4 hours (plus my nap) since I get up at 3 am and talk to Joanna... so I know how that wears on ones mind and body...

Hang in there buddy... any day... now...

Richard since you live in Atlanta I would be remiss if I didn't ask how you feel about Michael Vick being reinstated in the NFL?

Lee, I haven't spent anytime around the water cooler... so I honestly don't know... I know that I am disappointed that he is back but that is just a personal/moral thing and not a football thing

richard you go boy!!!

Rich.... you have dropped to 4th after being in 2nd! get your bony a$$ posting

[Rich and Bey 1]

i don't sleep much either..

[IgorK 0]

Thanks for your support guys. You are right about being here and understanding everything and I totally understand that patience is the key, but I am very worried for her. I keep re-assuring her every time we talk and as you said, there are ups and downs, but not seeing each other since last October doesn't make things easier. At some point she was suspecting that we got rfe and I didn't tell her about it. I am really hoping to hear from USCIS this week!!! Come on VT, step it up! I know it's this time of year, but only if you knew what you are doing to us! I sleep like 3-4 hrs a night and it already bounced back at me.

Igor... and forgive me in advance if this gets a little personal... maybe... now would be a good time to talk about trust and loyalty and what love means to you.... To help her understand that you would NEVER keep something like that from her. Maybe by making more about you and her and less about the process... it might help?

I also only sleep 3 or 4 hours (plus my nap) since I get up at 3 am and talk to Joanna... so I know how that wears on ones mind and body...

Hang in there buddy... any day... now...

We've already had that talk obviously, but it's just a sign to me that she is tired of this wait. Argggg, I wish I could do something for her. To make it worse, she is outside of the city now I can't even send flowers to her... I know she loooves when I do that.

[Rich and Bey 1]

catch up richard

[Richard-Joanna 1]

Thanks for your support guys. You are right about being here and understanding everything and I totally understand that patience is the key, but I am very worried for her. I keep re-assuring her every time we talk and as you said, there are ups and downs, but not seeing each other since last October doesn't make things easier. At some point she was suspecting that we got rfe and I didn't tell her about it. I am really hoping to hear from USCIS this week!!! Come on VT, step it up! I know it's this time of year, but only if you knew what you are doing to us! I sleep like 3-4 hrs a night and it already bounced back at me.

Igor... and forgive me in advance if this gets a little personal... maybe... now would be a good time to talk about trust and loyalty and what love means to you.... To help her understand that you would NEVER keep something like that from her. Maybe by making more about you and her and less about the process... it might help?

I also only sleep 3 or 4 hours (plus my nap) since I get up at 3 am and talk to Joanna... so I know how that wears on ones mind and body...

Hang in there buddy... any day... now...

We've already had that talk obviously, but it's just a sign to me that she is tired of this wait. Argggg, I wish I could do something for her. To make it worse, she is outside of the city now I can't even send flowers to her... I know she loooves when I do that.

Yes, flowers work... how long will she be away?

[Rich and Bey 1]

iggy just keep a chin up for her.. talk to her calmly

[Richard-Joanna 1]

catch up richard

I am too busy stuffing my face... the SOS is incredible!

[IgorK 0]

Yes, flowers work... how long will she be away?

She comes back for a few days and it's hard to predict and get the timing right. I'll try though. On the flip side, I'd rather have her stay there, outside of busy and shmelly Moscow

[Rich and Bey 1]

what are you eating?

[Richard-Joanna 1]

what are you eating?

Rich, I made a Steak, Onion and Sauce hoggie... or hoggies as in 2.. and ate them both.. but there is more help yourself.

I can cook... but i DONT clean

[lee b 2]

Igor your SO lives in Moscow? I agree the city has never been my favorite part of the trips to Russia. I have never been very far outside of the airport though. I personally didn't like the vibe of the city. The one good thing is at least she won't have to travel for her interview.

[Richard-Joanna 1]

Yes, flowers work... how long will she be away?

She comes back for a few days and it's hard to predict and get the timing right. I'll try though. On the flip side, I'd rather have her stay there, outside of busy and shmelly Moscow

Yes, I understand... my SO has been away almost a week now.. and although it is tougher on me... i think it is much better for her...