regarding previous post on the flip side

[FaithfulandTrue 6]

Now this thread totally has me ROFLMAO. Good one Oneder

i'm glad you enjoyed it.. salam

Salam? You started it

yes i did and ...

[LaL 418]

God I love this forum. Makes me feel so normal...boring but normal.

aww moody - you are so right

[ya falaha! 0]

Hey Laura! Good to see you!

God I love this forum. Makes me feel so normal...boring but normal.

aww moody - you are so right

[FaithfulandTrue 6]

It was a very interesting topic that i read about this couple on visa journey... about a man not being able to leave the house, money taken from him.. things like that.. very interesting.. but there are 2 sides to a story and then the truth... i recently read a post from person named betrayed or something like that... anyway it was about her husband still talking to other women while he was married to her and even when he was dating her .... in other words she wasn't the only one and put first in his life.. and then there's a feeling of not being appreciated for the things that ARE done, although maybe not good enough for the new husband....men are conquerers by nature.. but somethings should remain undiscovered territory.. i mean to find out that you weren't the only one in his life but you were loyal.. that would be too much for ANYONE to take.. let alone for someone to open their heart and home and not be appreciated... so crazy in egypt... there are 2 sides and then the truth.... me personally, i would NEVER hold anyone prisoner.. but let's be real.. there are some great pretender men out there that use women.. and there are people who just come here for a greencard.. so for whoever the man is, i pray for him if that REALLY happened.. but if it didn't happen that way and the whole story is not being told, shame on whoever made up that lie.. i pity the woman that has to deal with a man from any country not showing any appreciation, no matter how small.. but my motto is to kill with kindness..i could go on and on from PERSONAL experience, but i digress.. to all the true believers in love that are loyal, i pray for you.. but for those who are not real, shukriya / alwida

it is a big price to pay for happiness when you give up all you have to have a chance to love and live with your beloved only to have your dreams shattered by control, insecurity, ungratefulness, lust and greed.

I praying not only for myself but for all of us who took a risk in an unconventional, interracial, intercultural relationship where it seems the stakes are much higher

my friend believe me it works both ways...and it was a heavy price...

[crazyinEgypt 0]

It was a very interesting topic that i read about this couple on visa journey... about a man not being able to leave the house, money taken from him.. things like that.. very interesting.. but there are 2 sides to a story and then the truth... i recently read a post from person named betrayed or something like that... anyway it was about her husband still talking to other women while he was married to her and even when he was dating her .... in other words she wasn't the only one and put first in his life.. and then there's a feeling of not being appreciated for the things that ARE done, although maybe not good enough for the new husband....men are conquerers by nature.. but somethings should remain undiscovered territory.. i mean to find out that you weren't the only one in his life but you were loyal.. that would be too much for ANYONE to take.. let alone for someone to open their heart and home and not be appreciated... so crazy in egypt... there are 2 sides and then the truth.... me personally, i would NEVER hold anyone prisoner.. but let's be real.. there are some great pretender men out there that use women.. and there are people who just come here for a greencard.. so for whoever the man is, i pray for him if that REALLY happened.. but if it didn't happen that way and the whole story is not being told, shame on whoever made up that lie.. i pity the woman that has to deal with a man from any country not showing any appreciation, no matter how small.. but my motto is to kill with kindness..i could go on and on from PERSONAL experience, but i digress.. to all the true believers in love that are loyal, i pray for you.. but for those who are not real, shukriya / alwida

it is a big price to pay for happiness when you give up all you have to have a chance to love and live with your beloved only to have your dreams shattered by control, insecurity, ungratefulness, lust and greed.

I praying not only for myself but for all of us who took a risk in an unconventional, interracial, intercultural relationship where it seems the stakes are much higher

my friend believe me it works both ways...and it was a heavy price...

And that price is? Maybe I'm wrong in saying this, but here I go. I posted what I posted recently because of what my husband's friend has been enduring for quite some time now. You make a topic regarding my recent topic. Is is feasible that you may possibly be the person I was speaking of? Although this is a small world I seriously doubt you are her, then again, maybe you are. So hypothetically, if you are the person I was speaking of, which I don't think you are, why go and make a whole new thread unless you are guilty of what I spoke of? You say you paid a price to get your husband here? What was that may I ask? Is there a price for love? Seems in your eyes there is.

[Jenn! 918]

Is is feasible that you may possibly be the person I was speaking of? Although this is a small world I seriously doubt you are her, then again, maybe you are.

I thought it really was.

You don't know if this is the person you posted about? You said she was a member here.

[ya falaha! 0]

Note to self, don't let the husband become friends with husbands of fellow VJers esp from the MENA forum.

[FaithfulandTrue 6]

It was a very interesting topic that i read about this couple on visa journey... about a man not being able to leave the house, money taken from him.. things like that.. very interesting.. but there are 2 sides to a story and then the truth... i recently read a post from person named betrayed or something like that... anyway it was about her husband still talking to other women while he was married to her and even when he was dating her .... in other words she wasn't the only one and put first in his life.. and then there's a feeling of not being appreciated for the things that ARE done, although maybe not good enough for the new husband....men are conquerers by nature.. but somethings should remain undiscovered territory.. i mean to find out that you weren't the only one in his life but you were loyal.. that would be too much for ANYONE to take.. let alone for someone to open their heart and home and not be appreciated... so crazy in egypt... there are 2 sides and then the truth.... me personally, i would NEVER hold anyone prisoner.. but let's be real.. there are some great pretender men out there that use women.. and there are people who just come here for a greencard.. so for whoever the man is, i pray for him if that REALLY happened.. but if it didn't happen that way and the whole story is not being told, shame on whoever made up that lie.. i pity the woman that has to deal with a man from any country not showing any appreciation, no matter how small.. but my motto is to kill with kindness..i could go on and on from PERSONAL experience, but i digress.. to all the true believers in love that are loyal, i pray for you.. but for those who are not real, shukriya / alwida

it is a big price to pay for happiness when you give up all you have to have a chance to love and live with your beloved only to have your dreams shattered by control, insecurity, ungratefulness, lust and greed.

I praying not only for myself but for all of us who took a risk in an unconventional, interracial, intercultural relationship where it seems the stakes are much higher

my friend believe me it works both ways...and it was a heavy price...

And that price is? Maybe I'm wrong in saying this, but here I go. I posted what I posted recently because of what my husband's friend has been enduring for quite some time now. You make a topic regarding my recent topic. Is is feasible that you may possibly be the person I was speaking of? Although this is a small world I seriously doubt you are her, then again, maybe you are. So hypothetically, if you are the person I was speaking of, which I don't think you are, why go and make a whole new thread unless you are guilty of what I spoke of? You say you paid a price to get your husband here? What was that may I ask? Is there a price for love? Seems in your eyes there is.

no i am not the one that you spoke of, but from the implications of most people replies it appears that i am.. and no , there isn't a price on love.. all i said is there are 2 side of a story and then the truth if i may quote someone who said that.. when i said price, it has NOTHING to do with money, honey... all of us had to sacrifice.. on both sides, both had to.. but if one did and really meant it and the other did it and wasn't real, what is there to say... there is nothing that can be said.. the entire truth must be told..

[Chica Yeyé 41]

hummm... ok....

[morocco4ever 63]

The previews are quite exciting. When do we get to the main feature?

[crazyinEgypt 0]

Is is feasible that you may possibly be the person I was speaking of? Although this is a small world I seriously doubt you are her, then again, maybe you are.

I thought it really was.

You don't know if this is the person you posted about? You said she was a member here.

My bad

[Y's_habibitk 2]

Note to self, don't let the husband become friends with husbands of fellow VJers esp from the MENA forum.

ha!

[Y's_habibitk 2]

It was a very interesting topic that i read about this couple on visa journey... about a man not being able to leave the house, money taken from him.. things like that.. very interesting.. but there are 2 sides to a story and then the truth... i recently read a post from person named betrayed or something like that... anyway it was about her husband still talking to other women while he was married to her and even when he was dating her .... in other words she wasn't the only one and put first in his life.. and then there's a feeling of not being appreciated for the things that ARE done, although maybe not good enough for the new husband....men are conquerers by nature.. but somethings should remain undiscovered territory.. i mean to find out that you weren't the only one in his life but you were loyal.. that would be too much for ANYONE to take.. let alone for someone to open their heart and home and not be appreciated... so crazy in egypt... there are 2 sides and then the truth.... me personally, i would NEVER hold anyone prisoner.. but let's be real.. there are some great pretender men out there that use women.. and there are people who just come here for a greencard.. so for whoever the man is, i pray for him if that REALLY happened.. but if it didn't happen that way and the whole story is not being told, shame on whoever made up that lie.. i pity the woman that has to deal with a man from any country not showing any appreciation, no matter how small.. but my motto is to kill with kindness..i could go on and on from PERSONAL experience, but i digress.. to all the true believers in love that are loyal, i pray for you.. but for those who are not real, shukriya / alwida

it is a big price to pay for happiness when you give up all you have to have a chance to love and live with your beloved only to have your dreams shattered by control, insecurity, ungratefulness, lust and greed.

I praying not only for myself but for all of us who took a risk in an unconventional, interracial, intercultural relationship where it seems the stakes are much higher

my friend believe me it works both ways...and it was a heavy price...

And that price is? Maybe I'm wrong in saying this, but here I go. I posted what I posted recently because of what my husband's friend has been enduring for quite some time now. You make a topic regarding my recent topic. Is is feasible that you may possibly be the person I was speaking of? Although this is a small world I seriously doubt you are her, then again, maybe you are. So hypothetically, if you are the person I was speaking of, which I don't think you are, why go and make a whole new thread unless you are guilty of what I spoke of? You say you paid a price to get your husband here? What was that may I ask? Is there a price for love? Seems in your eyes there is.

no i am not the one that you spoke of, but from the implications of most people replies it appears that i am.. and no , there isn't a price on love.. all i said is there are 2 side of a story and then the truth if i may quote someone who said that.. when i said price, it has NOTHING to do with money, honey... all of us had to sacrifice.. on both sides, both had to.. but if one did and really meant it and the other did it and wasn't real, what is there to say... there is nothing that can be said.. the entire truth must be told..

so...you arent that person, do you know the wife then? or did that thread just get under your skin so much that you had to give examples of what could be.

do the husband bashing threads get under you skin as well?

see, women come on here all the time and talk about what jerks their husbands turned out to be. I saw crazyinegypts post to be a counter to that. so we are now going in circles, of course ending in the wife being the vitcim

[Sofiyya 1,687]

Maybe, if I wait long enough, something here will make sense to me. At least I got in on this one before it was closed or something, for what little good that does

Hey, moody! Long time, no see!

Edited February 11, 2009 by Virtual wife

[childress_london 3]

So what are you trying to say Oneder? If you go through all that time, money and trouble to get your husband here and he turns out to be an inconsiderate slob of a man, it's OK to abuse him?