Being Paranoid....

[AFQuaid 18]

Ok guys,

I'm freaking out cos I just realised when I made my email account I put the first letter of my fiance's surname as my last name rather than the letter of my current surname. I use his surname for "non official" things like some couples due through the strain of this process. Stupid thing to do now I realise that London Embassy might have looked at that funny and think we're married! Because I've been using that account to send emails to the embassy. Plus I go and print out an email and send it to them as confirmation of the medical and interview being on the same day (they gave permission via email) so I just popped that in with the checklist so they'd see they'd agreed just incase. But now I'm really worried because of the letter of the surname thing i.e Fiona S instead of Fiona A on the sender info of the emails. Do you think they'll spot that and a red flag will pop up? I know I've done this to myself, I'd die if thats the reason they turn us down thinking we're married. Has anybody else done this? I didn't realise till I was looking at old emails and realised it comes up as Fiona S. Doesn't say the whole last name ever just the first initial.

[hahuhobrad 0]

Hello,

I think your over-thinking this thing. my e-mail addy is hahuobrad....do you think they will think that that is a rather stupid name and raise a flag? hehe.....I hope not!!!

Seriously, the people at the embassies have personal e-mail addresses too. I don't think they will over-rule the official paperwork you turned in because your e-mail address conflicts.

Have a good day!!!

-B

[irishgirl73 0]

Ok guys,

I'm freaking out cos I just realised when I made my email account I put the first letter of my fiance's surname as my last name rather than the letter of my current surname. I use his surname for "non official" things like some couples due through the strain of this process. Stupid thing to do now I realise that London Embassy might have looked at that funny and think we're married! Because I've been using that account to send emails to the embassy. Plus I go and print out an email and send it to them as confirmation of the medical and interview being on the same day (they gave permission via email) so I just popped that in with the checklist so they'd see they'd agreed just incase. But now I'm really worried because of the letter of the surname thing i.e Fiona S instead of Fiona A on the sender info of the emails. Do you think they'll spot that and a red flag will pop up? I know I've done this to myself, I'd die if thats the reason they turn us down thinking we're married. Has anybody else done this? I didn't realise till I was looking at old emails and realised it comes up as Fiona S. Doesn't say the whole last name ever just the first initial.

I don't even know if they would put 2 & 2 together & notice that. I think you are giving them too much credit Maybe someone else will have a better answer for you. I wouldn't worry about it.

[AFQuaid 18]

Sorry *breathes*, having a bad day Thank you for your advice, that eases my mind a little.

[Sinergy 3]

Dont worry, i did the same on my yahoo msger, my name on there is Tara Ionescu, and his on there is "my hubby", i really doubt they care since its just a yahoo msger screen name. We had no probs with it through CSC, and my lawyer said not to even think about it.

hugs,

Tara

[Jaylen Brit 0]

I have an email account that has my new married name - for when i get married - and Ive used it to email the Embassy with - and no-one's quiereid it - also its an EMAIL ACCOUNT - not an officialy document - if your email name was Mrs.bigboobs@whatever do you think they'd suspect you of a career in the adult industry?

C'mon..email addy means nothing - chill, no-one will notice it.

[AFQuaid 18]

thank you all for you great advice and experiances. I guess I think they look at everyones case with a magnifing glass... But if you guys have done the same thing and they didn't notice then thats that. Nothing to worry about Perhaps I should listen to Andy when he says it's alright more often, he tells me often enough...I'm sure you can imagine why I'm so anxious over this whole thing, I don't want to make it even harder on us even if it is accidently, I have a hard time forgiving myself especially if it *could* cause us to be apart longer. *sigh* phew, brief moment of visa insanity over.. now back to looking down that straight road to that sunset

[Sinergy 3]

I have an email account that has my new married name - for when i get married - and Ive used it to email the Embassy with - and no-one's quiereid it - also its an EMAIL ACCOUNT - not an officialy document - if your email name was Mrs.bigboobs@whatever do you think they'd suspect you of a career in the adult industry?

C'mon..email addy means nothing - chill, no-one will notice it.

Same here, my email address says Tara Ionescu, and i emailed the embassy ALOT, always signing with Tara Miller, and they never gave a hoot about it.

[aussiewench 9]

All is cool Fiona BIG deep breaths and yes listen to Andrew hehehehe I was always ignoring my hubby when he'd tell me all the time to chill

BTW...love your signature

Lorelle