I SMELL A RAT!

[denali_1963 0]

Has anybody ever had the experienced of being stalked by your x-spouse? I posted sometime ago about my house being broken into to. Now i have had 2 flat tires with in 3 weeks time. One happened yesterday but it has been while i was driving when i reach the destination its flat. So i didn't notice if it was flat when i got into my car. Also at work i went to my car and smoked a cig and noticed someone pulling out of work that looked like my x's car but i am not sure. I don't know what he is gonna do next. I am getting scared. Anybody ever go through this? If so what did they do to you? We have been not living together for over one years time i can't believe he would start this now. Maybe i am being paranoid.

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

Maybe you are being paranoid. Maybe you are not.

If I were you, I'd want to know for sure. Have you given any thought to installing surveillance cameras on the outside of your home?

[Fuzzness 2]

police involved yet? if you get any proof that it is your ex, do not hesitate to get a restraining order

[denali_1963 0]

Yeah maybe i should put camaras outside. I just tried to buy a lock and gas cap for my car but i couldn't find one. I am gonna try napa next.

[Uxorious 0]

I have been stalked by my ex. on the net but not physically though.

Unfortunately, divorces often have their sequelae no matter how amicable you wish and try it to be.

Edited June 14, 2006 by Uxorious

[denali_1963 0]

police involved yet? if you get any proof that it is your ex, do not hesitate to get a restraining order

The police might laugh at me cuss he has my keys to the house and car but i never thought he would do this. He has had my keys for over a year but i never had any problems before. I wonder if this all has to do with asad coming soon ( if he ever gets the visa)

[Fuzzness 2]

and why does he have your keys?

[denali_1963 0]

and why does he have your keys?

It wasn't a hostile divorce and when he moved out of here he just had the keys. I didn't ask for them back. He just always had everything of mine and controlled everything becouse i didn't think it would be a problem then. Plus i didn't want to upset him and get him mad. He had agreed with the divorce and thats all i cared about at the time.

[Kez/JWolf 6]

If I were you I would change the locks ASAP.... why on earth would you give a set of keys to your EX????

Kezzie

[rbhigday 0]

Sounds like time for new lock on the house and the car maybe, house i think will be a lot cheaper

[gimygirl 0]

sounds like it would have been a hostile divorce had you not allowed him to control everything ... just remember that you divorced him for a reason.

i would change your locks (i'm sure he has made copies of the keys) and remind him that you are soon to be married. i'm sure your future husband wouldn't appreciate your ex having "all access" to your belongings.

[babybunny 2]

Has anybody ever had the experienced of being stalked by your x-spouse? I posted sometime ago about my house being broken into to. Now i have had 2 flat tires with in 3 weeks time. One happened yesterday but it has been while i was driving when i reach the destination its flat. So i didn't notice if it was flat when i got into my car. Also at work i went to my car and smoked a cig and noticed someone pulling out of work that looked like my x's car but i am not sure. I don't know what he is gonna do next. I am getting scared. Anybody ever go through this? If so what did they do to you? We have been not living together for over one years time i can't believe he would start this now. Maybe i am being paranoid.

invest in cams. G. dubya uses cams.

you should too. get it on "TAPE" tapes done lie..

and change the locks whats up with that!

Yeah maybe i should put camaras outside. I just tried to buy a lock and gas cap for my car but i couldn't find one. I am gonna try napa next.

PEPBOYs! they have gas cap locks.

NExt stop LOWES - get the house lock

see if they have cams.

then go some place get a survaillence system they are reasonably priced.

[usarandyo 0]

<theme to As the World Turns> The drama... the drama... the drama

[babybunny 2]

and why does he have your keys?

It wasn't a hostile divorce and when he moved out of here he just had the keys. I didn't ask for them back. He just always had everything of mine and controlled everything becouse i didn't think it would be a problem then. Plus i didn't want to upset him and get him mad. He had agreed with the divorce and thats all i cared about at the time.

no never let NO ONE have your house keys. except you and your husband.

if they aint living there-NO key. come on you know this stuff. stop giving him the TOOLS to

make you crazy. I feel like i am talking to a teenager.

[denali_1963 0]

and why does he have your keys?

It wasn't a hostile divorce and when he moved out of here he just had the keys. I didn't ask for them back. He just always had everything of mine and controlled everything becouse i didn't think it would be a problem then. Plus i didn't want to upset him and get him mad. He had agreed with the divorce and thats all i cared about at the time.

no never let NO ONE have your house keys. except you and your husband.

if they aint living there-NO key. come on you know this stuff. stop giving him the TOOLS to

make you crazy. I feel like i am talking to a teenager.

I just made an appointment and the locksmith will be here tomorrow. Thanks guys