lucky FEBRUARY 2009 FILERS

[MumtazG38 1]

oh no! My condolences to you Whidbey.....inna lilahe wa inna ilahe raje'oon (The gift of life comes from god, and we must all return to him once again, may we all return to our heaven one day.) I am really very sorry for your loss honey. Please hang in there ok.

[WhidbeyGirl 1]

So frustrated with my family!!! My dad and uncle have decided NOT to have any kind of memorial service or funeral for my grandmother. They are cremating her today and my uncle and his wife are spreading her ashes in a park. I'm hurt and upset and feel so left out. I was too young to attend my mom's parents funerals and when my dad's father passed away (I was closest to him) I lived too far away to attend (my dad didn't even go). My mom says we need to respect the way my father and his brother do things, she doesn't agree either.

[carlish 1]

So frustrated with my family!!! My dad and uncle have decided NOT to have any kind of memorial service or funeral for my grandmother. They are cremating her today and my uncle and his wife are spreading her ashes in a park. I'm hurt and upset and feel so left out. I was too young to attend my mom's parents funerals and when my dad's father passed away (I was closest to him) I lived too far away to attend (my dad didn't even go). My mom says we need to respect the way my father and his brother do things, she doesn't agree either.

I'm really sorry. I hope you can find a way to have a proper closure and say goodbye to your grandma.

[Chris Me lil D 17]

Wohooo Ds-3032 and AOS bill generated - Kool

WooHoo, that's great :dance:

Taj, you're next, girl :thumbs:

[WhidbeyGirl 1]

Taj - tryin' to send you an email but it says your inbox is full.

So frustrated with my family!!! My dad and uncle have decided NOT to have any kind of memorial service or funeral for my grandmother. They are cremating her today and my uncle and his wife are spreading her ashes in a park. I'm hurt and upset and feel so left out. I was too young to attend my mom's parents funerals and when my dad's father passed away (I was closest to him) I lived too far away to attend (my dad didn't even go). My mom says we need to respect the way my father and his brother do things, she doesn't agree either.

I'm really sorry. I hope you can find a way to have a proper closure and say goodbye to your grandma.

I sent an email requesting that my uncle save some of her ashes for me. I pray he will do so.

Edited May 22, 2009 by WhidbeyGirl

[Rehan 0]

hi all!

When you sent the IV packet, did you write the case# on all originals docs?? Do we have to do that?? And how many pictures we have to send?? Plesae Reply!!

Also, I confirmed with two NVC operators that we can send the AOS and IV packet to the new address even though the cover sheet has the old address, but the new address where we have to send the docs is slightly different, so you wanna be careful. Again, I confirmed this address with two operators but you should double check before mailing anything

National Visa Center

Attn: CMR

31 Rochester Ave, Suite 100

Portsmouth, NH 03801-2914

Good luck to all!!!!

[WhidbeyGirl 1]

hi all!

When you sent the IV packet, did you write the case# on all originals docs?? Do we have to do that?? And how many pictures we have to send?? Plesae Reply!!

Also, I confirmed with two NVC operators that we can send the AOS and IV packet to the new address even though the cover sheet has the old address, but the new address where we have to send the docs is slightly different, so you wanna be careful. Again, I confirmed this address with two operators but you should double check before mailing anything

National Visa Center

Attn: CMR

31 Rochester Ave, Suite 100

Portsmouth, NH 03801-2914

Good luck to all!!!!

I wrote the number on every single page original or not. And send 4 pics.

[carlish 1]

hi all!

When you sent the IV packet, did you write the case# on all originals docs?? Do we have to do that?? And how many pictures we have to send?? Plesae Reply!!

Also, I confirmed with two NVC operators that we can send the AOS and IV packet to the new address even though the cover sheet has the old address, but the new address where we have to send the docs is slightly different, so you wanna be careful. Again, I confirmed this address with two operators but you should double check before mailing anything

National Visa Center

Attn: CMR

31 Rochester Ave, Suite 100

Portsmouth, NH 03801-2914

Good luck to all!!!!

I wrote the number on every single page original or not. And send 4 pics.

Same here, but we only sent 2 passport size photos.

[MumtazG38 1]

I've got some awful news that is really upsetting me......although I'm not sure this is the place for sharing it....I basically have no where else to go at the moment, and with Whidbey's terrible news....I feel even more awkward but I can't help myself as I am seriously very very sad at the moment and really need to share!

I had a miscarriage! I haven't told my inlaws yet, just my husband....we are both really upset because we were both so very excited about my being pregnant and this is the worst news for me!!! I don't know how or why it even happened...even the nurses at the hospital didn't say anything and my doctor doesnt have a clue other than...try again...thats all she said. All that happened was that I was feeling really lethargic and fatigued all morning and after checking our forum here and giving my condolences to whidbey for her recent loss I decided to take a nap for a bit. When I woke up I felt really odd and was having really strong stomach cramps....like menstrual cramps but about 10 times worse and I looked at my clothes and everything, even the bed and my shirt and pants had blood stains on them...I miscarried in my pants for no apparent reason at all and I'm really upset and want to know how come even though we were doing so much to care and were seeing my doctor regularly and everything seemed really good and normal......so why???

I'm so upset I don't know what to do. I can't talk to anyone yet.....just my husband.....but still I just don't know what to do. I feel like the worst thing in my world has gone and happened without any warning signs so that I could have at least tried to prevent it. We were stupid to have gotten so excited about my being pregnant...even though my husband says not to think like that.....thats how i feel. Of course he says to keep trying and nothing is lost......but how would he know....I'm the one that lost something, and even though it was way too early I was beginning to feel so mother-like...so...pregnant.

I just had to rant!!! I'm sorry......this just sucks really badly for me. I'll probably feel better in a day or two......since this is new for me it hurts more. I'm just really confused is all....why cant my stupid doctor tell me anything!!!! JEEZ!

[MumtazG38 1]

and on top of all that...just got the checklist in my email and it's not only requesting the finacial docs...it also says that since my husbands police certificate has a30 day expiration on it they require that he will need to take another police certificate with him to interview...I also just called and spoke to an operator who confirmed this. So I'm a bit upset about it too......but thank god I dont have to mail anything to anyone......phew.

[dvrjwh 0]

Dear Whidbeygirl,

Just checked in this morning to VJ and I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Times like this are never easy - I hope it helps to know that your FFFF friends are thinking about you and supporting you at this difficult time.

And to Mumtaz,

I read your message with tears in my eyes. I am so sorry that this had to happen. Sometimes miscarriages have no explanation and it certainly is nothing you did, so please don't blame yourself. I wish you a speedy recovery and much love.

[MumtazG38 1]

Dear Whidbeygirl,

Just checked in this morning to VJ and I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Times like this are never easy - I hope it helps to know that your FFFF friends are thinking about you and supporting you at this difficult time.

And to Mumtaz,

I read your message with tears in my eyes. I am so sorry that this had to happen. Sometimes miscarriages have no explanation and it certainly is nothing you did, so please don't blame yourself. I wish you a speedy recovery and much love.

Thanks dvrjwh for your kind words and support. It is really nice to know that I have such a wonderful support system here with our FFFF's! I hope that Whidbey feels the same way because we all feel for her and hope that she is able to get the closure she deserves.

[nurse1967 287]

Dear Whidbeygirl,

Just checked in this morning to VJ and I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Times like this are never easy - I hope it helps to know that your FFFF friends are thinking about you and supporting you at this difficult time.

And to Mumtaz,

I read your message with tears in my eyes. I am so sorry that this had to happen. Sometimes miscarriages have no explanation and it certainly is nothing you did, so please don't blame yourself. I wish you a speedy recovery and much love.

Thanks dvrjwh for your kind words and support. It is really nice to know that I have such a wonderful support system here with our FFFF's! I hope that Whidbey feels the same way because we all feel for her and hope that she is able to get the closure she deserves.

So sorry for you loss. I too miscarried my first pregnancy without warning. The doctors said that it is God's way of taking care of a problem early on. He also told me there is nothing you could do to prevent it. It if is going to happen it will happen. Keep your chin up and please know that now I have two wonderful children so things WILL get better.

[No-Where-Man 147]

Dear Whidbeygirl,

Just checked in this morning to VJ and I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Times like this are never easy - I hope it helps to know that your FFFF friends are thinking about you and supporting you at this difficult time.

And to Mumtaz,

I read your message with tears in my eyes. I am so sorry that this had to happen. Sometimes miscarriages have no explanation and it certainly is nothing you did, so please don't blame yourself. I wish you a speedy recovery and much love.

Thanks dvrjwh for your kind words and support. It is really nice to know that I have such a wonderful support system here with our FFFF's! I hope that Whidbey feels the same way because we all feel for her and hope that she is able to get the closure she deserves.

So sorry for you loss. I too miscarried my first pregnancy without warning. The doctors said that it is God's way of taking care of a problem early on. He also told me there is nothing you could do to prevent it. It if is going to happen it will happen. Keep your chin up and please know that now I have two wonderful children so things WILL get better.

sorry for all who went through such events ...whts meant to be will always be no doubt ..

have faith to get the better next time in sha ALAH

[estrella 14]

Mumtaz,

I'm sorry for what happened to you, remember even when sometimes it doesn't seems like it, it is gonna be okand we are here if you need anything, even if is just to talk, rant vent or whatever.