VAWA

[qwerty07 0]

YOU ----> Filed 16 months ago / 5 prima facie letters / No RFE / In Proceddings

ME ----> Filed 19 months ago / 2 prima facie letters / No RFE / In Proceddings

well, ME ----> filed 10 months ago / NO prima facie / 2 RFE. Weird?

i don't understand it seems to me that they dont have a sequence after all...

[Honest 0]

YOU ----> Filed 16 months ago / 5 prima facie letters / No RFE / In Proceddings

ME ----> Filed 19 months ago / 2 prima facie letters / No RFE / In Proceddings

well, ME ----> filed 10 months ago / NO prima facie / 2 RFE. Weird?

i don't understand it seems to me that they dont have a sequence after all...

I checked with my coalition against domestic violence in my state, catholic charities and also other helping agencies. I don't know how much all the below statements are TRUE but they are saying

1) It depends whether the case is genuine or not and how much serious the person affected both mentally, physically and financially, etc

2) Whether you paid the file fee for VAWA, if you paid process will be quick. (It clearly says if its against Violence, no need for filing fee but i don't know)

3) very few USCIS members are working on VAWA and they work 1 or 2 days in a week not more than that on VAWA cases (Form - I-360)

4) They want to see whether the affected person still wants to stay in USA or going to leave the country because of the violence, pain & sufferings, etc.

5) USCIS also want to check whether we entered into marriage life with good faith/intention and not for immigration purpose.

6) USCIS doesn't want to encourge the Domestic Violence so that more people will file and misuse the VAWA system.

7) As Govt changes every 4 years, the rules and regulations for VAWA also changes and the fund will vary for the victims. They want to discontinue the VAWA system as many of the US citizens are victim of the situation and also many organization against the VAWA system and few organization supports the VAWA

I really don't know how much all the above statements are TRUE but that's how I heared from all the agencies and I am not able to believe any of this. Who knows anything may happen. Anyhow what ever its is, I badly need a WORK PERMIT (EAD) as I married to a PR person but I am not able to get one until this I -360 get approved.

I am not able to get any public benefit unless I leave the family and stay in shelter house. If I come out of the house No one knows about my kids life and how can I stay in the shelter house without job and I don't know how could I bring the kids away from my family. shelter house provide the shelter only for 90 to 120 days and after that who will help me and with a job. I don't know and right now they don't have any vacancies for the shelter house too. what to do. no money to run away from this country too.

I think its my mistake to enter into this country and asking help from them.

Nobody cares about anybody. For everything in this country we need MONEY MONEY MONEY. No values or respect to human life and their emotions.

I knew that we need MONEY but its not everything you know.

No one knows about our suffering whoever formed the rules & regulations because they aren't one of us (suffering/suffered person). they might never go/gone through this kind of hard time because they lead a comfortable life through out their career and never know the real pain.

Edited September 10, 2009 by Honest

[EWTN2009 0]

Honest,

Thank you very much for replaying our postings, searching and keep informing us ... It seems like there is only one way to survive to this VAWA process: KEEP WAITING.

I will keep you posted of any changes.

YOU ----> Filed 16 months ago / 5 prima facie letters / No RFE / In Proceddings

ME ----> Filed 19 months ago / 2 prima facie letters / No RFE / In Proceddings

well, ME ----> filed 10 months ago / NO prima facie / 2 RFE. Weird?

i don't understand it seems to me that they dont have a sequence after all...

I checked with my coalition against domestic violence in my state, catholic charities and also other helping agencies. I don't know how much all the below statements are TRUE but they are saying

1) It depends whether the case is genuine or not and how much serious the person affected both mentally, physically and financially, etc

2) Whether you paid the file fee for VAWA, if you paid process will be quick. (It clearly says if its against Violence, no need for filing fee but i don't know)

3) very few USCIS members are working on VAWA and they work 1 or 2 days in a week not more than that on VAWA cases (Form - I-360)

4) They want to see whether the affected person still wants to stay in USA or going to leave the country because of the violence, pain & sufferings, etc.

5) USCIS also want to check whether we entered into marriage life with good faith/intention and not for immigration purpose.

6) USCIS doesn't want to encourge the Domestic Violence so that more people will file and misuse the VAWA system.

7) As Govt changes every 4 years, the rules and regulations for VAWA also changes and the fund will vary for the victims. They want to discontinue the VAWA system as many of the US citizens are victim of the situation and also many organization against the VAWA system and few organization supports the VAWA

I really don't know how much all the above statements are TRUE but that's how I heared from all the agencies and I am not able to believe any of this. Who knows anything may happen. Anyhow what ever its is, I badly need a WORK PERMIT (EAD) as I married to a PR person but I am not able to get one until this I -360 get approved.

I am not able to get any public benefit unless I leave the family and stay in shelter house. If I come out of the house No one knows about my kids life and how can I stay in the shelter house without job and I don't know how could I bring the kids away from my family. shelter house provide the shelter only for 90 to 120 days and after that who will help me and with a job. I don't know and right now they don't have any vacancies for the shelter house too. what to do. no money to run away from this country too.

I think its my mistake to enter into this country and asking help from them.

Nobody cares about anybody. For everything in this country we need MONEY MONEY MONEY. No values or respect to human life and their emotions.

I knew that we need MONEY but its not everything you know.

No one knows about our suffering whoever formed the rules & regulations because they aren't one of us (suffering/suffered person). they might never go/gone through this kind of hard time because they lead a comfortable life through out their career and never know the real pain.

[Honest 0]

Honest,

Thank you very much for replaying our postings, searching and keep informing us ... It seems like there is only one way to survive to this VAWA process: KEEP WAITING.

I will keep you posted of any changes.

I am going through too much pain & sufferings and desperate to get atleast EAD but no luck.

All I can say is NO ONE SHOULD NEVER EVER GO THROUGH THIS KIND OF PAIN like the way I go through.

WAITING OK but We don't how long we have to wait either. That is too frustrating you know.

Edited September 10, 2009 by Honest

[Yahya54 4]

thank you honst for this post !!!!!!!!!! you semes you did alot of search i usedt do that all the time when i fierst fill vawa but i got tired any way thank you its help i think i agree with number 3 bc/z i heard it befor 3) very few USCIS members are working on VAWA and they work 1 or 2 days in a week not more than that on VAWA cases (Form - I-360) and its only 25 Adjudications Officer handel all vawa case imagin how many case they have recived 45000 vawa pitition last yeare and they say cases are growing up this year maby that

im not sur i could be wrong, but som time i try to convince my self . my pablem is my ex wife keep use my immigration stutes (im under prceeding but i dont have court dat yet) for the custody of my son and she give hard time with vistition i cant relly wiatt any more when i see poeople her have been wiat 16 .19 month i get dispointed but i did do alots of search as well and the average is around 11.13 mounth

thankle all my friend and im sure we talke soon !!!!!1

good night

[Yahya54 4]

hey EWTN2009 did hear from lostnn latley he ustd post her all the time im just wendring what happend to hime or his vawa

i knew his vawa it been 20 month for him to

or lostinn if thier we like to her from you

[Honest 0]

thank you honst for this post !!!!!!!!!! you semes you did alot of search i usedt do that all the time when i fierst fill vawa but i got tired any way thank you its help i think i agree with number 3 bc/z i heard it befor 3) very few USCIS members are working on VAWA and they work 1 or 2 days in a week not more than that on VAWA cases (Form - I-360) and its only 25 Adjudications Officer handel all vawa case imagin how many case they have recived 45000 vawa pitition last yeare and they say cases are growing up this year maby that

im not sur i could be wrong, but som time i try to convince my self . my pablem is my ex wife keep use my immigration stutes (im under prceeding but i dont have court dat yet) for the custody of my son and she give hard time with vistition i cant relly wiatt any more when i see poeople her have been wiat 16 .19 month i get dispointed but i did do alots of search as well and the average is around 11.13 mounth

thankle all my friend and im sure we talke soon !!!!!1

good night

I am not able to get good sleep for couple of years with all this problems and I use to sleep 2 days once or 3 days once but now its better it takes 22 -28 hours once I get sleep for 4 to 5 hrs , I always think about my problems and feel too much pressure on me.

At some point I use to think, its my fate to go through all the NON SENSE happened/happening in my LIFE.

Anyhow I don't want to go indepth, as everyone of us go through the same NON SENSE with different people in different situation only the people,location and scene will be different but the pain & suffering will be the same with various levels.

I didn't know about VAWA otherwise I could applied it atleast 2 and half years ago. what to do I am feeling better that atleast now I applied.

Recently I came to know about many organization who help people like us and being there for help but no luck.

AS EWTN said only things is WAITING with your legs and fingers crossed until you get approval.

Nothing is Permanent in the world, EVERYTHING has to change and it will keep changing constantly all the time.

weather change, people behaviour changes, GOVT change, rules changes and soon our waiting time will change to short period pretty soon hopefully.

I wish I could help all the people who suffers for various reason in the world and be like a GOD (who is everwhere according to all the religious in the world.) you know.

[lostinNJ 3]

Hey everyone, sorry I haven't checked in with you guys, I just started school, so I've been really busy with work and school, both full time. Well I sent off my RFE last week, so just waiting for my decision now. I'm very nervous but hoping for the best. Whatever decision is made, I will go by that and just know that everything is for a reason. How is the situation with everyone else?

[GhanaMade88 0]

Hey everyone, sorry I haven't checked in with you guys, I just started school, so I've been really busy with work and school, both full time. Well I sent off my RFE last week, so just waiting for my decision now. I'm very nervous but hoping for the best. Whatever decision is made, I will go by that and just know that everything is for a reason. How is the situation with everyone else?

what was the rfe for?

[lostinNJ 3]

Hey everyone, sorry I haven't checked in with you guys, I just started school, so I've been really busy with work and school, both full time. Well I sent off my RFE last week, so just waiting for my decision now. I'm very nervous but hoping for the best. Whatever decision is made, I will go by that and just know that everything is for a reason. How is the situation with everyone else?

what was the rfe for?

Police clearance and good faith marriage

[GhanaMade88 0]

Hey everyone, sorry I haven't checked in with you guys, I just started school, so I've been really busy with work and school, both full time. Well I sent off my RFE last week, so just waiting for my decision now. I'm very nervous but hoping for the best. Whatever decision is made, I will go by that and just know that everything is for a reason. How is the situation with everyone else?

what was the rfe for?

Police clearance and good faith marriage

wat did u send in?

[Honest 0]

Hey everyone, sorry I haven't checked in with you guys, I just started school, so I've been really busy with work and school, both full time. Well I sent off my RFE last week, so just waiting for my decision now. I'm very nervous but hoping for the best. Whatever decision is made, I will go by that and just know that everything is for a reason. How is the situation with everyone else?

what was the rfe for?

Police clearance and good faith marriage

For everyone in this VAWA forum.

Thank you very much for your information, prayers and blessing.

Finally MY VAWA got approved today. :)

I wish all of you to get approval as soon as possible. Especially LostinNJ, EWTN, qwerty will get the approval soon.

My Best Wishes to all of you.

Let me know what's my next step. I can apply for EAD, how about PR

[GhanaMade88 0]

Hey everyone, sorry I haven't checked in with you guys, I just started school, so I've been really busy with work and school, both full time. Well I sent off my RFE last week, so just waiting for my decision now. I'm very nervous but hoping for the best. Whatever decision is made, I will go by that and just know that everything is for a reason. How is the situation with everyone else?

what was the rfe for?

Police clearance and good faith marriage

For everyone in this VAWA forum.

Thank you very much for your information, prayers and blessing.

Finally MY VAWA got approved today. :)

I wish all of you to get approval as soon as possible. Especially LostinNJ, EWTN, qwerty will get the approval soon.

My Best Wishes to all of you.

Let me know what's my next step. I can apply for EAD, how about PR

:dance: :dance: :dance: yayyyyyyyyyyyyyy

[Honest 0]

Thanks a lot Ghana.

what I have to do next.

I sent my application on 10th March 2009 and got approved on 10th September. Almost 6 months.

Edited September 11, 2009 by Honest

[GhanaMade88 0]

Thanks a lot Ghana.

what I have to do next.

I sent my application on 10th March 2009 and got approved on 10th September. Almost 6 months.

wow that was really quick, im not sure about pr vawa...check the uscis website