How would you react?

[jom 4]

Who is HE anyway? Why is HE so angry with you? How are you related to him? Any reason why he is so pissed off?

[JSVP08 3]

duplicating threads?

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=176081

thanks for pointing that out....while reading from the 2nd page to the end...i was thinking..hey i responded to this....so i went up and couldn't find mine ..........then got into ur post- that did it.

[koltrone 0]

Who is HE anyway? Why is HE so angry with you? How are you related to him? Any reason why he is so pissed off?

he is some "so called friend" of my husband. i dont really have the clue why he is angry with me, we havent meet in person yet.

[koltrone 0]

thats an easy one to take care of.

just prepay a subsciption to a gay magazine in their name w/ their neighbors address on it.

hahaha thats funny. anyways he apologize to my husband, my husband told me he will not hang out with this guy anymore.

[koltrone 0]

Tell her that she has to get a life and start acting her age.

I have a neighbor here and she was once so good to me. I even treated her as a sister,She act as if she is so happy for me and my hubby.But at the end, her true colors came out. She was full of envy to me. She doesn't talk to me anymore.

I bet she's the same. FULL of Insecurities and envy towards you.

Don't mind her. At the end of the day, your husband's sleeping beside you.

Sis, the thing is HE is HE. If he is SHE I would understand because women are more jealous than men. When I had my son CRBA and was requested for DNA test, he was like "I cant wait to know the result" he always have something to say. First time in my life I encounter na merong guy na ganito. Grabe talaga!

I got carried away sis. pasensya. sabi kasi ni sis eve She eh. so naki she na din ako. haha

But anyway, you can take it against him and you can file a complaint against hir for threatening you.

I won't be able to function well if I know in myself that there is someone bombing me with these words. Esp a man. Men can take their words so seriously than women. So talk to your husband and discuss what is the best thing to do with this psycho.

Ay hehehhehe sorry..ang alam ko kasi na ganun ang ugali usually babae lang kaya ay assume sya ay she at hindi he. Anyways baka bading sya hehehe.

naku sis, whenever they tease him na gay sya, nag wawala daw at gustong manuntok.. e di ba if you are real man tapos pag tinukso ka na gay ka di ba nag babading badingan ka pa, pero sya daw super affected ... un nga ung na si-sense ko, and of all his friends hindi lang ung husband ko ung married, most of them are with gf pero ako lang ang inaatake nya, i dont understand kase we havent meet pa in person, we do not know each other personally. haynaku ... he should not mess with a pinay! hehehehe

[koltrone 0]

Tell her that she has to get a life and start acting her age.

I have a neighbor here and she was once so good to me. I even treated her as a sister,She act as if she is so happy for me and my hubby.But at the end, her true colors came out. She was full of envy to me. She doesn't talk to me anymore.

I bet she's the same. FULL of Insecurities and envy towards you.

Don't mind her. At the end of the day, your husband's sleeping beside you.

Sis, the thing is HE is HE. If he is SHE I would understand because women are more jealous than men. When I had my son CRBA and was requested for DNA test, he was like "I cant wait to know the result" he always have something to say. First time in my life I encounter na merong guy na ganito. Grabe talaga!

I got carried away sis. pasensya. sabi kasi ni sis eve She eh. so naki she na din ako. haha

But anyway, you can take it against him and you can file a complaint against hir for threatening you.

I won't be able to function well if I know in myself that there is someone bombing me with these words. Esp a man. Men can take their words so seriously than women. So talk to your husband and discuss what is the best thing to do with this psycho.

I think my husband sort it out already kase even my husband's family e nagpanic, his sister na nasa NC galit na galit din. Pasalamat na lang ung kumag na un at nasa Pinas pa ako.. kung nandun lang talaga ako I will confront him in person and ask him kung ano ba talaga motive nya... pasensya sya married na asawa ko, hanap na lang sya ng iba. as of now e medyo tahimik na ung online life ko

[koltrone 0]

"I will kill you and your slope eyed b**** you mother f****. I hope you die. Your a f****g b**** and I can't wait til she leaves you after her green card is permanent"

This person wrote this message sent to my husband facebook. I can't say they are friends but they do get together once in a while. He's been a hater and trying to pissed me off after he knew I am with my husband. I have been married for almost 5 years and my husband and I knew each other for 7 years.

If you were on my husband shoes, how would you feel getting the same comment from the person?

Please, Please, Please!!!!

Show this to the police!!!

This is a death threat!! Its against the law and should be taken very seriously. This man is not sane to make this type of threat. You and your husband could be in very serious danger.

Even if this clown claims its just a 'joke' its still against the law. Any time someone threatens to hurt you, its very important to involve the police.

Don't just blow it off!!!

Phil

I think they sort it out already, he should be thankful i am still here in the PH. I have been very quiet since they attacked me on myspace which i am not connected with the fanclub they created for my husband. yeah it is a normal fan club but it involves attacking me and my personal relationship, my husband requested to shut down the fan club as it is not pertains to a real "fan club" but it is still visible online.

http://groups.myspace.com/gurpsbvrrrp

they have not seen the philippines and yet they are saying alot of bad things about filipina and I do not think if they ever meet a filipina that they sooo hate us.

[koltrone 0]

Please, Please, Please!!!!

Show this to the police!!!

This is a death threat!! Its against the law and should be taken very seriously. This man is not sane to make this type of threat. You and your husband could be in very serious danger.

Even if this clown claims its just a 'joke' its still against the law. Any time someone threatens to hurt you, its very important to involve the police.

Don't just blow it off!!!

Phil

I'm seconding that, not only is he making death threats but he's apparently cyber stalking you gathering documents about you (like the marriage certificate). There may not be anything illegal about him getting a copy like that, but it's damn sure creepy. Honestly your husband shouldn't be hanging out with this dude based on that one post alone.

I'm sick of hearing about how foreigners just want green cards, people who met me once and don't know me at all (ie, friends of family members) even think they are somehow qualified to judge my relationship as being used for a green card... luckily since I'm fairly anti-social I don't have to meet a lot of opinionated a-holes and nut jobs... hopefully anyone I see on a regular basis will have enough tact to not make those kind of statements around my fiancee (SOON TO BE WIFE!) as I'm willing to introduce them to another stereotype that is well known... the violent american man!!!!

ETA: Oops, the question was if I was your husband what would I think... and the first thought that'd enter my head is where to bury his body... the second thought (that I'd go with) would be to report it as a death threat so that it is documented, nothing is likely to come of it but I'd be worried about your safety so I'd be talking to police to see what can be done to help insure it.

I do not know how they understood about greencard. I think he dont want to see my husband happy because he is so selfish. how I am going to stay with my husband if I do not have greencard? and i do not think I have to wait for almost 5 years being married just for a greencard lol

My sister in law already talked to my husband because she was very very angry, i think he sort it out with that id*** and he told me he will never hangout with him anymore.

[Completely 3]

I wouldnt worry what other people say, family, friends, neighbor, anybody.. When you married, you should have get yourself ready for any speculation from different people, because you choose someone from different country.

You are already married to your husband and that is all that matters.. People can say everything they want to say, and you can never control them.. Sabi nga you can not please everybody.. so think that you are better than them.. If pinatulan mo meaning, they won as they were trying to pick on to get the real information about you.

Simple solution, tell him to close his account to myspace, so any comments you will see it will not bother you...Or dont read his my space.. Ikaw na lang umiwas... Or you can either file a police report.

I had been treated badly from the past, received comments from different people from my husband family, but I did totally ignore them, I still remain cordial and civil to them.. People will get tired and will realized they are wrong so, just dont worry about it.. Worrying will affect your relationship with your husband.

Edited February 3, 2009 by Completely

[koltrone 0]

I wouldnt worry what other people say, family, friends, neighbor, anybody.. When you married, you should have get yourself ready for any speculation from different people, because you choose someone from different country.

You are already married to your husband and that is all that matters.. People can say everything they want to say, and you can never control them.. Sabi nga you can not please everybody.. so think that you are better than them.. If pinatulan mo meaning, they won as they were trying to pick on to get the real information about you.

Simple solution, tell him to close his account to myspace, so any comments you will see it will not bother you...Or dont read his my space.. Ikaw na lang umiwas... Or you can either file a police report.

I had been treated badly from the past, received comments from different people from my husband family, but I did totally ignore them, I still remain cordial and civil to them.. People will get tired and will realized they are wrong so, just dont worry about it.. Worrying will affect your relationship with your husband.

You have a point there. they havent been to the philippines or they havent been fool by filipina to hate us so much like that. my husband's family didnt say bad anything about me they are actually the one working on getting me to the US because they cant wait to be with their grandson. they probably stop talking by now.. i hope.