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  1. 1. Are you going to/did you circumcise your son?

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  2. 2. Is your husband/boyfriend/fiance circumcised? Or guys - are you?

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Argentina
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I have yet to hear one woman ever say they find an uncircumcised ####### more attractive.

I find uncircumcised ####### more attractive. Nothing attracting about a mutilated body part, at least for me.

And parents: Don't do it!!!!!!! let the kid decide or better yet decide with their partners once they find the one. Once cut, there is no going back, but he can always choose to have it if he wants to later in life.

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Hahahaha. Funny Topic! Im shocked to see it in VJ. I just couldnt resist responding. As a circumcised male myself I think I can speak to this. First off, every guy should get snipped. U ppl who make it a religious deal kill me!! Dude...not everything is abo religion!! Man...its a ####### for crying out loud. It has extra skin that needs to be cut. For one reason, it looks funny with it, its not sanitary and its not as easy to "operate" with all that extra skin.

Btw, i love how all the women comment like they would know! Hahaha STFU unless u got a d**k! :bonk:

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Hahahaha. Funny Topic! Im shocked to see it in VJ. I just couldnt resist responding. As a circumcised male myself I think I can speak to this. First off, every guy should get snipped. U ppl who make it a religious deal kill me!! Dude...not everything is abo religion!! Man...its a ####### for crying out loud. It has extra skin that needs to be cut. For one reason, it looks funny with it, its not sanitary and its not as easy to "operate" with all that extra skin.

Btw, i love how all the women comment like they would know! Hahaha STFU unless u got a d**k! :bonk:

u experienced life as an adult both circumcised and uncircumcised? is not about having a d**k. is about facts. without the foreskin, the skin on the head gets thicker, less sensitive and more abrasive. the role of that skin is to protect the head of the #######, keep the skin thin and sensitive and offer natural lubrication. is not a myth, is a fact. I've experienced uncircumcised and circumcised partners. and first thing i've noticed was how rough the circumcised was versus the uncircumcised.

circumcision not only takes from man's pleasure, but is also felt in sex too. the foreskin provides a gentle gliding mechanism that minimizes friction to the #######. During uncircumcised sex, both the ####### and ####### ride on a cushion of skin, and the ####### experiences only pleasure, without the soreness that can often accompany circumcised sex. A woman is much more likely to experience abrasive rubbing, friction irritation, and vaginal soreness from a circumcised #######. During circumcised intercourse, the constant rubbing of the tight ####### skin against the #######'s delicate interior creates friction burn soreness.

here men r not circumcised by default-in fact i dont know anyone who's circumcised- and yet, i didn't find any dirty disgusting cancerous penises when i checked. and btw, i've never heard guys here mentioning lube.

there r men who r doing foreskin re-grow. it is a long, tireing and not pleasant process and at the end will not be as good as the initial lost one. but men who have done it, they all say it worths, because they experience more pleasure. they say difference is like having sex with 3-4 condoms once, then remove them and have sex without condom.

I would never chose for my sons to be mutilated for nothing more than a fear they might not know to clean properly.

enjoy life,

Andreea

P.S. now i go shave my head, i might not wash or comb my hair because humans r naturaly lazy and therefore is a high lice risk.

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I'm curious what women think in terms of any difference in feeling between having sex with uncircumcised vs. circumcised man?

start a poll... i have never slept with an uncircumcised man. I guess it's the norm n brazil to be circumcised or i just never found one.

nvm i'll start

Actually I've heard the opposite....

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If we have boys, will we will circumcise them no question about it! First for health reasons..................then for my background Jewish we cricumcise the boys and also my husband is Pilipino they circumcise their boys too. Although Pilipinos wait till the boy is 12 or 13, LOL however we will do when they are newborns

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I never gave it much thought. I assumed I would just because I really didn't know any men who weren't cut and I had this idea that it was pretty gross and weird. Well, let's just say my mind has been changed. Unless there is a true medical need to do it, I wouldn't.

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I'm curious what women think in terms of any difference in feeling between having sex with uncircumcised vs. circumcised man?

start a poll... i have never slept with an uncircumcised man. I guess it's the norm n brazil to be circumcised or i just never found one.

nvm i'll start

Actually I've heard the opposite....

you probably heard wrong... how many brazilian men have u slept with?



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I never gave it much thought. I assumed I would just because I really didn't know any men who weren't cut and I had this idea that it was pretty gross and weird. Well, let's just say my mind has been changed. Unless there is a true medical need to do it, I wouldn't.

I agree. Yet, my son is circumcised becaue I didn't inform myself. If I had to do it over again, I'd leave him intact.

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although my SO is not circumcised, he wants to circumcise our future son because it is the 'norm' here. weird. i'm fine without doing it. his religion doesn't, and i don't have a religion.

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Quite the norm in western culture. Not some religious thing. Every doctor recommends it. I trust them more than ppl from india or pakistan.

I finally got rid of the never ending money drain. I called the plumber, and got the problem fixed. I wish her the best.

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So far, from what I've read, there's no 'pros' from getting circumsiced. It's not so much a hygenic factor here than it is in some 3rd world country, you can teach a 5year old how to clean himself down there.

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I wish I had not chosed to circumcise my son. I consider it the worst decision of my life, even if I was married to an idiot for 11 years. I sat on the fence forever and finally said "yes" only because his father is. Big friggin' deal!

My husband now is Italian and they do not practice circumcision in Italy. In Italy, hygiene is very important, to include frequent bidet use after bathroom visits and obligatory bidet washing after sex. It was slightly akward to use at first but not I love it! It is just a sink placed low to sit on where you can wash your junk with nice warm water and a little soap. Perfectly sensible! Hygiene is something EASILY taught and I hate to hear that lazy reply that the circumcision was done for hygiene.

The benefits: a real live #######. Sensitive in a natural way. protected when "sleeping". Besides, when it is ready to be used, the foreskin disappears with enlargement. At that point, there is no visual difference. I had an Italian boyfriend before I met my husband, and I noticed a very different, more frank and natural approach to making love in comparison to American men. Sensitivity heightened equals better sex.

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Hahahaha. Funny Topic! Im shocked to see it in VJ. I just couldnt resist responding. As a circumcised male myself I think I can speak to this. First off, every guy should get snipped. U ppl who make it a religious deal kill me!! Dude...not everything is abo religion!! Man...its a ####### for crying out loud. It has extra skin that needs to be cut. For one reason, it looks funny with it, its not sanitary and its not as easy to "operate" with all that extra skin.

Btw, i love how all the women comment like they would know! Hahaha STFU unless u got a d**k! :bonk:

how do YOU know its not easy to operate if you dont have foreskin? My fiance has NO issues with being clean down there along with operating it quite nicely. It is THERE for a reason just like the hood or aka extra skin on the female #######.

The foreskin has three known functions: protective, sensory, and sexual.

During infancy, the foreskin is attached to the glans and protects it from urine, feces, and abrasions from diapers. Throughout life, the foreskin keeps the glans soft and moist and protects it from trauma and injury. Without this protection, the glans becomes dry, calloused, and desensitized from exposure and chafing.

Specialized nerve endings in the foreskin enhance sexual pleasure.

Trust me I have had both and I would take a man with foreskin over a circumsized one. I like how it feels with the extra skin and let me tell you he has some intense orgasms compared the man I was with who did not have foreskin.

Some of us women find it VERY sexy:)

The reason why our culture in the USA does it all stems from a Doctor if I remember right in the 1920s somewhere around there that said it would lead to cancer so MILLIONS of men and women cut it off without truly knowing the facts.

Some folks are very naive

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I will NOT be circumsizing my future children.

I am a USC and have had experience but cut and uncut PRIOR to meeting my German husband..

I can definitely agree with the statement that when it IS cut, the ####### feels more "rough" or "thick" at the tip, rather than how it feels with it is UNcut.

I just asked my German husband what he thinks about it... If someone in my family were to recommend us to circumsize our children when living in California, and he is completely against it.

He made me explain why American's think it is necessary to circumsize their children.

Anyways, I voted NO and NO.

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