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To circumcise or not to circumcise...that is the question

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  1. 1. Are you going to/did you circumcise your son?

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    • No
      52
  2. 2. Is your husband/boyfriend/fiance circumcised? Or guys - are you?

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    • No
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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Guatemala
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Sorry for the randomness :ot: I don't have any kids yet, this is just a discussion I had with my fiance and am curious to see the VJ international answer instead of just US vs. Guatemala

MR. & MRS. CACEREZ

K-1 Process

10.23.08 - sent K1 packet

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02.19.09 - NOA2 113 days, Igor's #226

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04.19.09 - POE Atlanta

04.20.09 - Married!

AOS Process

06.09.09 - sent AOS,EAD,AP packet

06.17.09 - NOAs issued

06.24.09 - Biometrics done (3 weeks earlier than appt date)

07.03.09 - received RFE for I-693 (dated 6.29, responded 7.07)

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12.03.09 - GC arrived in mail

Removal of Conditions Process

07.28.11 - received reminder letter from USCIS to remove conditions before 11.18.11

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10.03.11 - NOA

10.05.11 - check cashed

11.25.11 - Biometrics

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Citizenship Process

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Canada
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My ex and current husband are circumcised and my two adult sons are circumcised. It was never an option NOT to circumcise my sons. I had way too many friends that had a lot of problems with their uncircumcised sons, plus their father was circumcised, so it was decided way before I even ever had sons.

"THE SHORT STORY"

KURT & RAYMA (K-1 Visa)

Oct. 9/03... I-129F sent to NSC

June 10/04... K-1 Interview - APPROVED!!!!

July 31/04... Entered U.S.

Aug. 28/04... WEDDING DAY!!!!

Aug. 30/04... I-485, I-765 & I-131 sent to Seattle

Dec. 10/04... AOS Interview - APPROVED!!!!! (Passport stamped)

Sept. 9/06... I-751 sent to NSC

May 15/07... 10-Yr. PR Card arrives in the mail

Sept. 13/07... N-400 sent to NSC

Aug. 21/08... Interview - PASSED!!!!

Sept. 2/08... Oath Ceremony

Sept. 5/08... Sent in Voter Registration Card

Sept. 9/08... SSA office to change status to "U.S. citizen"

Oct. 8/08... Applied in person for U.S. Passport

Oct. 22/08... U.S. Passport received

DONE!!! DONE!!! DONE!!! DONE!!!

KAELY (K-2 Visa)

Apr. 6/05... DS-230, Part I faxed to Vancouver Consulate

May 26/05... K-2 Interview - APPROVED!!!!

Sept. 5/05... Entered U.S.

Sept. 7/05... I-485 & I-131 sent to CLB

Feb. 22/06... AOS Interview - APPROVED!!!!! (Passport NOT stamped)

Dec. 4/07... I-751 sent to NSC

May 23/08... 10-Yr. PR Card arrives in the mail

Mar. 22/11.... N-400 sent to AZ

June 27/11..... Interview - PASSED!!!

July 12/11..... Oath Ceremony

We're NOT lawyers.... just your average folks who had to find their own way!!!!! Anything we post here is simply our own opinions/suggestions/experiences and should not be taken as LAW!!!!

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I dont think any adult has the right to cut off any part of a child.

There are millions of men and boys in the world who have never been circumcised and they do not have any ill effects. Some doctors tell horor stories about not having your sons done, claiming they will have lots of infections and could get cancer. There are also many doctor that say there is no risk to the male from not being circumcised and as long as they have good hygine there is no problems.

If there is a medical reason for it to be done, as in the foreskin is to tight and they cant pee then fair enough, but to have someone cut off the skin that protects the end of the ####### just because your culture says it should be done is not in the best interests of the child. They banned female circumcision so that people dont go cutting off the skin covering the colitiris, maybe we should do the same for boys.

but each to their own.

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Filed: Country: Indonesia
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The decision is for the parents to make.

I-130

Jun 28 2004 : Received at NSC

Oct 25 2004 : Transferred to CSC

Oct 29 2004 : Received at CSC

Nov 8 2004 : Received response from CSC that my file is being requested & review will be done

Nov 10 2004 : Email & online status Approved

Nov 15 2004 : NOA 2 in mail

Dec 16 2004 : NVC assigns case number

Dec 20 2004 : NVC sent DS 3032 to beneficiary, copy of DS 3032 & I-864 fee bill to petitioner

Jan 3 2005 : Petitioner received copy of DS 3032 and I-864 fee bill. Post-marked Dec 23rd.

Jan 11 2005 : Beneficiary received DS 3032 in Indonesia

Jan 31 2005 : Sent DS 3032 to NVC

Feb 8, 2005 : NVC received DS 3032

Feb 21, 2005 : IV fee generated

Feb 25, 2005 : Sent I-864 fee bill

Feb 28, 2005 : I-864 fee bill delivered to St Louis

Mar 3, 2005 : IV fee bill received

Mar 7, 2005 : Sent IV fee bill

Mar 9, 2005 : IV fee bill delivered to St Louis

Mar 28, 2005 : I-864 fee credited against case.

April 6, 2005 : Received I-864 package

April 7, 2005 : Immigrant Visa fee credited against case.

April 11, 2005 : DS 230 is generated

Aug 12, 2005 : I-864 & DS 230 received by NVC

Sep 14, 2005 : RFE on I-864

Nov 3, 2005 : Checklist response received at NVC

Nov 25, 2005 : Case completion

Dec 9, 2005 : Police Cert requested from the Netherlands

Jan 12 2006 : Interview success - Approved !!

Jan 19 2006 : Visa & brown envelope picked up

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Brazil
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most definitely yes



* K1 Timeline *
* 04/07/06: I-129F Sent to NSC
* 10/02/06: Interview date - APPROVED!
* 10/10/06: POE Houston
* 11/25/06: Wedding day!!!

* AOS/EAD/AP Timeline *
*01/05/07: AOS/EAD/AP sent
*02/19/08: AOS approved
*02/27/08: Permanent Resident Card received

* LOC Timeline *
*12/31/09: Applied Lifting of Condition
*01/04/10: NOA
*02/12/10: Biometrics
*03/03/10: LOC approved
*03/11/10: 10 years green card received

* Naturalization Timeline *
*12/17/10: package sent
*12/29/10: NOA date
*01/19/11: biometrics
*04/12/11: interview
*04/15/11: approval letter
*05/13/11: Oath Ceremony - Officially done with Immigration.

Complete Timeline

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Brazil
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oh, and if my husband didn't agree, i'd probably do like i think it was desperate housewifes where her husband was against and she tried to convince the doctor to do so behind his back and the doctor said no so she pretended to be jewish and did it.

this is one of those things that if we disagreed, he'd have to live with it because no way my son would not be circumcised.



* K1 Timeline *
* 04/07/06: I-129F Sent to NSC
* 10/02/06: Interview date - APPROVED!
* 10/10/06: POE Houston
* 11/25/06: Wedding day!!!

* AOS/EAD/AP Timeline *
*01/05/07: AOS/EAD/AP sent
*02/19/08: AOS approved
*02/27/08: Permanent Resident Card received

* LOC Timeline *
*12/31/09: Applied Lifting of Condition
*01/04/10: NOA
*02/12/10: Biometrics
*03/03/10: LOC approved
*03/11/10: 10 years green card received

* Naturalization Timeline *
*12/17/10: package sent
*12/29/10: NOA date
*01/19/11: biometrics
*04/12/11: interview
*04/15/11: approval letter
*05/13/11: Oath Ceremony - Officially done with Immigration.

Complete Timeline

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Japan
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My boy is gonna keep his sleeve.

The only way I'd sanction his circumcision would be if it's performed by means of metzitzah b'peh.

Go listen to some free beats:

http://beatbasement.com/bb.htm

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Argentina
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If we have a boy, he will not be circumcised. I feel very strongly against it.

Saludos,

Caro

***Justin And Caro***
Happily married and enjoying our life together!

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