Trying to get Pregnant!

[DanielParul 50]

Honestly, just enjoy each other for now without stressing about it and before you know it you'll be buying baby clothes. Sometimes just wanting it too much or trying too hard can have an adverse effect.

You both are not at an age that its a desparate situation. Talking to a Ob/Gyn will definately help but do not consider going for extreme fertility treatments yet, I've seen my own cousin go for it too early and she messed herself up completely. Right now its probably just about timing and unless one of you has reasons to believe that something might be wrong, just relax and it will happen.

[babynursetobe 0]

We are trying to get pregnant for 3 months now...everytime I have my visitor im so frustrated knowing we are not pregnant yet. I'm 32 and my hubby is 35. To all mommies and pregnant out there..how many months it takes for you guys to get pregnant from the start you start planning it.

We are planning to visit the OB next month if ever we not still pregnant.

Evelyn

Only 3 months? Be patient - that's probably what your OB/Gyn will say. I'd give it at least a year before considering consulting a fertility doc. In the meantime, you both can read up on all that you two can do on your own to increase your chances.

you can start with ovulation prediction kits which are sold over the counter, but you are right that you should give it at least a year before you even start to worry. I work in labor and delivery and have seen many couples that have taken longer to conceive and have absolutely nothing wrong. Good luck!

[jhcruz18 3]

just keep praying and God will do things for you at teh right time. We've been married for 2 year and I haven't' got pregnant yet. I was pregnant right before our wedding but unfortunately I lost my baby. Time will just let things fall into place.

[HenryMaricor 0]

Hi my husband visited me for 2 weeks back in January and within that time I was pregnant. It was unexpected but what a blessing and in Sept. 08 i came here and gave birth a month later.God graced us with a blessing and I'm sure it will happen for you one day. Good luck and God Bless! : )

[EricC 0]

We weren't planning on getting pregnant but it happened a few days after our wedding. I'm getting excited!

[John&Juvy 36]

We been trying for almost 8 months now and still no luck, already went to the OBGYNE they told me there is nothing wrong with my uterus line though there is a time that my lower part of stomach filled with air so that still make me worry until now. But my obgyne told me to come back after 1 year trying and no succeed so we will see.

Good luck to us !

[Donna A 4]

it took me 2.5 years to get pregnant and that was when i was 21 years old. they wouldnt even start testing until we tried a year. i finally gave up and said thats it...im done and it happened. i think when u r trying u put alot of stress on yourself and it makes it harder.

[-B&T- 1]

Hi,

I suggest you buy a fertility monitor it really helped me to get pregnant name is clearblue its very accurate and you may want to start taking prenatal vitamins now even if you are still trying to get pregnant because it will help prevent neural tube defects with the babies.

Good luck!

[John&Juvy 36]

Hi,

I suggest you buy a fertility monitor it really helped me to get pregnant name is clearblue its very accurate and you may want to start taking prenatal vitamins now even if you are still trying to get pregnant because it will help prevent neural tube defects with the babies.

Good luck!

trying to find that kind of vitamins. any suggestion of best brand ?

[-B&T- 1]

I used stuart prenatal vitamins its available without prescription get it @ walgreens or any pharmacy.I'm still taking it because I'm breastfeeding my obgyn even recommended it.

[sweetpink 1]

I'm currently using Expecta and Nature Made (Multi-Prenatal vit.)...

[Nikita2Charles 32]

Don't stress about it, take the time to do things as a couple, getting to know each other, once the kids come you will have less time to do all these things, so enjoy it while you can.

This calendar is very helpful

http://www.babycenter.com/ovulation-calculator

If you are regular you can type in your date and it will give you your ovulation time, but again just try to schedule something around that period, but don't sit down and counting the days, just Chill like many others have said give it some time, wait at least a year or so then maybe you can check with your OB GYN.

Edited January 28, 2009 by Nikita2Charles

[one...two...tree 2,762]

Our plan was to use contraceptives during the first year of our marriage because my husband and I want to be by "ourselves" within that time period. We have the boys ( 6 and 7 ) every other weekend but a newborn is a much bigger responsibility. So far, our plans ( not to get pregnant within a year and me not working within the same period after our wedding) have worked for us as a couple. Our bond is stronger as husband and wife, most of all we now know each other inside and out.

I am beyond the conraceptive stage for 3 months now but I am not worried about not getting pregnant. If it is meant to be then we will have a child. I will be 40 this year and my husband 48. If we will have a child then it is meant for us, if not I know we will still be very happy together. Everything happens for a reason and as for myself, I am passed that stage of worrying if I will get pregnant or not. I have been so blessed all my life and I am so thankful of what I have.

Let nature take its course . You are still very young and I am positive you and your husband will have a baby very soon. Stressing about it is mentally and emotionally exhausting so hang in there. As they say, just keep trying

Goodluck!

Great post!

[foreverlove 0]

Our plan was to use contraceptives during the first year of our marriage because my husband and I want to be by "ourselves" within that time period. We have the boys ( 6 and 7 ) every other weekend but a newborn is a much bigger responsibility. So far, our plans ( not to get pregnant within a year and me not working within the same period after our wedding) have worked for us as a couple. Our bond is stronger as husband and wife, most of all we now know each other inside and out.

I am beyond the conraceptive stage for 3 months now but I am not worried about not getting pregnant. If it is meant to be then we will have a child. I will be 40 this year and my husband 48. If we will have a child then it is meant for us, if not I know we will still be very happy together. Everything happens for a reason and as for myself, I am passed that stage of worrying if I will get pregnant or not. I have been so blessed all my life and I am so thankful of what I have.

Let nature take its course . You are still very young and I am positive you and your husband will have a baby very soon. Stressing about it is mentally and emotionally exhausting so hang in there. As they say, just keep trying

Goodluck!

dont be hurry time will come ..some couples out there thier waiting 5 years before they can have baby ..so i suggest keep praying and dont be stress and always eat a healthy food..avoid rubbish food

God bless

[foreverlove 0]

Our plan was to use contraceptives during the first year of our marriage because my husband and I want to be by "ourselves" within that time period. We have the boys ( 6 and 7 ) every other weekend but a newborn is a much bigger responsibility. So far, our plans ( not to get pregnant within a year and me not working within the same period after our wedding) have worked for us as a couple. Our bond is stronger as husband and wife, most of all we now know each other inside and out.

I am beyond the conraceptive stage for 3 months now but I am not worried about not getting pregnant. If it is meant to be then we will have a child. I will be 40 this year and my husband 48. If we will have a child then it is meant for us, if not I know we will still be very happy together. Everything happens for a reason and as for myself, I am passed that stage of worrying if I will get pregnant or not. I have been so blessed all my life and I am so thankful of what I have.

Let nature take its course . You are still very young and I am positive you and your husband will have a baby very soon. Stressing about it is mentally and emotionally exhausting so hang in there. As they say, just keep trying

Goodluck!

dont be hurry time will come ..some couples out there thier waiting 5 years before they can have baby ..so i suggest keep praying and dont be stress and always eat a healthy food..avoid rubbish food

God bless