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  1. 1. Male USC and Female Alien

    • USC older by more than 20 years
      19
    • USC older by 10 to 20 years
      44
    • USC older by 5 to 10 years
      33
    • USC older by 0 to 5 years
      49
    • Alien older by 0 to 5 years
      17
    • Alien older by 5 to 10 years
      8
    • Alien older by 10 to 20 years
      2
    • Alien older by more than 20 years
      0
    • I am a female USC or male alien
      134
  2. 2. Female USC and Male Alien

    • USC older by more than 20 years
      8
    • USC older by 10 to 20 years
      19
    • USC older by 5 to 10 years
      21
    • USC older by 0 to 5 years
      34
    • Alien older by 0 to 5 years
      44
    • Alien older by 5 to 10 years
      20
    • Alien older by 10 to 20 years
      6
    • Alien older by more than 20 years
      2
    • I am a male USC or female alien
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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Brazil
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i fail the half + 7 rule :crying:

"Boy Toy" alert!

"A number of slang terms exist to describe pairings in which one individual is much older than the other:

  • Boy toy or toy boy– a much younger boyfriend or husband of an older woman. In male-male relationships, a toy boy (sometimes toy boi) characterizes the one who is (and usually enjoys being) used for sexual gratification.
  • Cradle robber or cradle snatcher – a man (primarily, but could refer to a woman) involved with a much younger individual.
  • Chickenhawk – an older gay man who sexually pursues younger males, i.e. "twinks"/"chickens" or underage boys.
  • Cougar – an older woman, usually 35+, who sexually pursues men at least 10 years their junior. The term has been used in (American) TV series, advertising and film. The 2007 film Cougar Club was dedicated to the subject.
  • MILF (an acronym of "Mother [or 'Mom'] I'd Like [to] F**k", widely-used idiom that appeared in the 1999 film American Pie) – a sexually desirable older woman, though not necessarily one who has children. The term is used frequently as a descriptor of pornography featuring older women. By 2008, the term was familiar enough to be used on the television series 30 Rock (episode "MILF Island") without necessitating its definition (which would have violated Federal Communications Commission rules). The 'M' is replaced by 'G' (for 'Grandmother') in the case of women who are in their mid-50s or older, and/or are actual grandmothers; thus, GILF. The male counterpart terms are DILF–for Dad–within the gay community and FILF–for Father–in the straight community.
  • Jailbait – a sexually attractive person (primarily female but could refer to a male) who is below the legal age of consent. This designation connotes enticement to endanger oneself of being prosecuted for statutory rape.
  • Lolita – a sexually precocious young girl who is the object of desire of a significantly older man. As used in the English language, the term refers to the title character of Vladimir Nabokov's novel Lolita, who is referred to by the book's narrator, Humbert Humbert, as a nymphet. While "nymphet" is still used to refer to younger children, "Lolita" has come to be applied to older adolescents and young women in the context of pornography.
  • May-December romance – a relationship in which the age differential between the two adults (mainly an older man and a younger woman, but could refer to either) is wide enough to risk social disapproval.
  • Sugar daddy – a rich, usually older man who offers money or gifts to a less rich, usually younger person in return for companionship or sexual favors. This differs from prostitution in that the older man is usually the sole financial provider to the younger person. In Japan, there is a loosely similar practice known as enjō kosai.
  • Sugar momma – the reverse of a sugar daddy - a rich older woman that spends lavishly on younger men for companionship and sex.
  • Chihuahua – a younger woman who dates men 50 years and older."

you forgot "puma." it's like a cougar, but for women under 35.

So I guess I'm a Puma :) though my husband is only 19 months younger than me.

11/2004 - Met in Brazil

09/2006 - Apply for K1

03/2007 - K1 approved

04/2007 - Apply for AOS & EAD

07/2007 - EAD approved

01/2008 - Conditional Residency approved

11/2009 - Apply to remove conditions

02/2010 - Permanent Residency approved

11/2010 - Apply for Citizenship

03/2011 - Citizenship approved

07/2011 - Moved back to Brazil

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I'm Bosnian :yes: , and I'm 3 months older :) B)

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NOA date for I-485, AP and EAD 12/21/2009

RFE date 01/06/2010 ...RFE response recieved 01/27/2010

Biometrics date 01/19/2010

Transfer Date (CSC) 02/04/2010

AP/EAD Approved Date 02/05/2010

AP Received Date 02/11/2010

EAD Received Date 02/16/2010

I-485 - Last touch 02/24/2010

Service Request -06/21/2010

06/24/2010 - touch

07/10/10..07/28/10..07/29/10...touch

07/29/2010 - GC approved

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more than 15 years is sick?? mmm... biological age doesn`t always say everything. our difference is 27 years. i`m a female alien.

Sometime in 11/2006 --- Met online

09/26/2008 --- Got married

04/03/2009 --- AOS package sent

07/13/2009 --- Interview in Detroit,MI. Approved!!!

07/25/2009 --- GC received! Total: 3 months 12 days from NOA1 to GC mailboxhappy.gif

05/17/2011 --- ROC package sent

05/25/2011 --- NOA1 received

06/27/2011 --- Biometrics

10/17/2011 --- Approved! confetti.gif

10/21/2011 --- Received Permanent GC

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Kenya
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Actual Age

USC - 35

Alien (me) - 27

Real Age through Behavior

USC - 18

Alien - 52

:lol:

Boys will be giddy boys when they are in love! :blush:

I'm sure I fit that sometimes?

5/15/09 Picked up Visa

6/06/09 POE (IAD-Washington Dulles)

7/31/09 Civil Wedding

9/02/09 Mailed AOS-fired lawyer

9/16/09 Check Cashed

9/16/09 AOS NOAs issued

10/12/09 Biometrics Appointment -Baltimore

10/16/09 Received RFE

10/17/09 Mailed documents for RFE

11/04/09 AOS Transfered to CA

11/17/09 AP issued

11/20/09 Work Permit issued

12/09/09 Application APPROVED

12/10/09 Green Card production ordered

12/17/09 Green Card received

Child visa

11/17/09 Received email from Consulate to come in to process daughter's visa

12/30/09 Sharon arrives in Nairobi

01/15/10 Submitted Medicals and paperwork to Consulate

03/10/10 informed to pick-up visa 3/18/10

03/18/10 BLOWN OFF BY CONSULATE AFTER WAITING ALL DAY

03/19/10 Returned to Consulate-handed visa immediately upon arrival

04/17/10 Return flight via JFK --ON-HOLD

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I am the alien wife and hubby is the usc,he is older 6 years and 10 months than me..

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"Our Wedding Prayer"

Lord,help us to remember when we first met,and the strong love that grew between us.

To work the love into practical things so nothing can divide us

Grant us a Love that grows stronger with each passing year.

We ask for words both kind and loving

and for hearts always ready to ask forgiveness as well as to forgive.

Guide us to overcome every challenge

and keep our dreams pure to each other always.

Dear Lord,we put our marriage into Your hands.Amen

If your heart acquires strength, you will be able to remove blemishes from others without thinking evil of them.
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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Jamaica
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I'm 6 years older than my future husband.

But if you'd hear my family's take on it, may as well be 30 years.

November 19, 2007 - Met

November 25, 2008 - Engaged

November 25, 2009 - Married

November 24, 2011 - Baby due!

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Serbia
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I (alien fiancee) am 33,5

he (USC) - 54

and it works for us (L)

N-400: filled online on May 8th, 2021

Biometric Reuse Notice: May 8th, 2021
Interview: May 10th, 2022 - Interview De-Scheduled

Interview rescheduled on May 11th, 2022

New Interview: Jun 27th, 2022 - Approved 🥳

Oath Ceremony: July 14th, 2022

 

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male usc 28

female alien 34

female 6yrs older... works great coz i can always demand to my guy.. hehehe

08.08.08 : Got married in the Philippines

09.08.08 : My hubby returned to USA =(

USCIS

12.08 : I-130 sent to USCIS

12.11.08 : NOA1

02.23.09 : NOA2 approved!!!

NVC

03.03.09 : NVC Received/assigned MNL case no.

03.17.09 : Received AOR IV/AOS FEE by email

03.23.09 : Paid AOS and IV fee ($470)

03.25.09 : NVC received payment

04.02.09 : Received instruction packet lawyer I-130

04.29.09 : NVC received DS-230, & I-864 (Case in progress)

05.08.09 : NVC case completed

06.02.09 : Medical (passed!)

06.15.09 : Interview Date (denied) =(

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I'm Bosnian :yes: , and I'm 3 months older :) B)

3 months older and she thinks she's the boss!!! :P

And thank God you're not an alien!!! I don't know what I would do if you had suction cups at the end of your tentacles and all that. Although it would be cool to take a ride on your spaceship!

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My heart belongs to you!

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Brazil
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I am the female foreigner and am 3 1/2 years older than my husband.

(Puerto Rico) Luis & Laura (Brazil) K1 JOURNEY
04/11/2006 - Filed I-129F.
09/29/2006 - Visa in hand!

10/15/2006 - POE San Juan
11/15/2006 - MARRIAGE

AOS JOURNEY
01/05/2007 - AOS sent to Chicago.
03/26/2007 - Green Card in hand!

REMOVAL OF CONDITIONS JOURNEY
01/26/2009 - Filed I-751.
06/22/2009 - Green Card in hand!

NATURALIZATION JOURNEY
06/26/2014 - N-400 sent to Nebraska
07/02/2014 - NOA
07/24/2014 - Biometrics
10/24/2014 - Interview (approved)

01/16/2015 - Oath Ceremony


*View Complete Timeline

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Kenya
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Age is just a number?

5/15/09 Picked up Visa

6/06/09 POE (IAD-Washington Dulles)

7/31/09 Civil Wedding

9/02/09 Mailed AOS-fired lawyer

9/16/09 Check Cashed

9/16/09 AOS NOAs issued

10/12/09 Biometrics Appointment -Baltimore

10/16/09 Received RFE

10/17/09 Mailed documents for RFE

11/04/09 AOS Transfered to CA

11/17/09 AP issued

11/20/09 Work Permit issued

12/09/09 Application APPROVED

12/10/09 Green Card production ordered

12/17/09 Green Card received

Child visa

11/17/09 Received email from Consulate to come in to process daughter's visa

12/30/09 Sharon arrives in Nairobi

01/15/10 Submitted Medicals and paperwork to Consulate

03/10/10 informed to pick-up visa 3/18/10

03/18/10 BLOWN OFF BY CONSULATE AFTER WAITING ALL DAY

03/19/10 Returned to Consulate-handed visa immediately upon arrival

04/17/10 Return flight via JFK --ON-HOLD

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Germany
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Female USC Male Alien

He's older by 21 years, 3 months, & 24 days

Cassi & Benny's Important Dates


4/19/07 - Met Online ***** 8/12/08 - K1 Visa Received (191 days between NOA1 & receipt)
11/9/08 - MARRIED *****
2/9/09 - EAD Received (78 days between NOA1 & receipt)

4/11/09 - Green Card Received (139 days between NOA1 & receipt)
5/21/11 - 10Y Green Card Received (127 days between NOA1 & receipt)

5/16/13 - Bought our house

9/26/13 Oath (114 days between NOA1 & ceremony)

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