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  1. 1. Male USC and Female Alien

    • USC older by more than 20 years
      19
    • USC older by 10 to 20 years
      44
    • USC older by 5 to 10 years
      33
    • USC older by 0 to 5 years
      49
    • Alien older by 0 to 5 years
      17
    • Alien older by 5 to 10 years
      8
    • Alien older by 10 to 20 years
      2
    • Alien older by more than 20 years
      0
    • I am a female USC or male alien
      134
  2. 2. Female USC and Male Alien

    • USC older by more than 20 years
      8
    • USC older by 10 to 20 years
      19
    • USC older by 5 to 10 years
      21
    • USC older by 0 to 5 years
      34
    • Alien older by 0 to 5 years
      44
    • Alien older by 5 to 10 years
      20
    • Alien older by 10 to 20 years
      6
    • Alien older by more than 20 years
      2
    • I am a male USC or female alien
      152


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IF OVER 15 IS SICK, I NEED INTENSIVE CARE

I hear the formula is half your age plus 5 years. I am 47 years old so 47 divided by 2 =23.5 + 5 years =28.5.

So I would be allowed to have a wife of 28.5 years old and I still wouldnt be sick.JEEEZZZZEE she would still be a baby OMG!! that is sick lol

My wife is 33 we are 14 years apart

Saw this on "wikipedia", so it must be right!

The "half-your-age-plus-seven" rule

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"The "half-your-age-plus-seven rule" is one rule of thumb defining a mathematical formula to judge whether the age difference in an intimate relationship is socially acceptable. Mathematically speaking, the rule is:

age of younger individual >= (age of older individual / 2) + 7"

Works for me. When Rin and I married, I was 42, she was 28. B)

Couldn't find a graph on "weight appropriate" relationships....

i fail the half + 7 rule :crying:

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Filed: Country: Philippines
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I think its sick & nasty when the guy is like in his 60s, and he's got pics with his Filipina bride barely in her 20s. It looks like an old perv fondling his granddaughter. NASTY! While we are on the pic subject, I also find disgusting to see the African relationships where the guy is like 25, and his XXXL size bride is in her 40s. Have you ever taken a look in the gallery? No wonder these visa's take so long, in VJ alone you can see some fraudster relationships. Yuk.

Only young, fit and beautiful people should be allowed to post their pics on VJ.

Why do you want to take our fun away brother??? :crying::jest:

Here I am with my last girlfriend. She used to carry me on her shoulders.

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Filed: AOS (pnd) Country: Iran
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Awwww....such a cute couple!

Pandora and Hesam

K-3 Visa

Service Center : Vermont Service Center

Consulate : Montreal, Canada

Marriage : 2008-08-29 in Canada

I-130 Sent : 2008-10-14

I-130 NOA1 : 2008-10-20

I-130F NOA2 : 2009-05-04

I-129F Sent : 2008-11-25

I-129F NOA1 : 2008-11-28

I-129F NOA2 : 2009-05-04

NVC Received : 2009-05-12

Packet 3 Received : 2009-05-19

Packet 3 Sent : 2009-06-10

Interview: 2009-09-10 APPROVED

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Visa Received : 2009-09-16

US Entry : 2009-09-27

EAD received: 2009-12-21

AOS interview: 2010-02-05 (medical exam missing from documents)

Recieved RFE for missing medical exam that they lost. Submitted new exam March 10, 2010.

Notified that he is in background checks after submitting three service requests: July, 2010

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Romania
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Why r u stealing Ken's pics man?? That is very uncool :lol:

:rofl::rofl::rofl:

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Aruba
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My Husband (USC) is 8 years, 10 months, 21 days older then me

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03/02 Received NVC

04/02 Case Number

05/02 DS-3032 Gen

06/02 DS-3032 email

09/02 Received DS-3032&I-864 Bill

10/02 Pay I-864

11/02 AOS bill PAID

11/02 IV Bill Gen

11/02 Pay IV

11/02 IV Bill PAID

26/02 Mail AOS&IV Package

Stuck at NVC :-(

10/3 Medical PASSED!

11/3 AVR states IV paid (1 month after it got paid)

K-3:

04/02 At NVC

05/02 Left NVC

At Embassy, DHL 9 FEB

19/02 Embassy gave me apt for K-3

31/03 Interview Date

K-3 In HAND!!!!!

04/04/09 POE: ARUBA

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Germany
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USC = 25 female

Alien = 31 male......

Our age difference is 5.5 years...

Service Center : Vermont Service Center

Consulate : Frankfurt, Germany

01-04-2008 - I-129F Sent

01-09-2008 - I-129F NOA1

03-05-2008 - I-129F NOA2

04-08-2008 - Medical Exam

04-17-2008 - Interview!!!

04-22-2008 - VISA IN HAND!

05-02-2008 - U.S. Entrance

06-14-2008 - MARRIAGE!

Phase 2....

06-19-2008 - Sent AOS/EAD/AP

06-26-2008 - AOS/EAD/AP NOA1

07-19-2008 - Biometrics

07-22-2008 - Transferred to CSC!

07-28-2008 - Email from CRIS confirming CSC received case

08-25-2008 - Received AP in the mail (NO STATUS CHANGE OR CRIS EMAIL)

08-29-2008 - Received EAD card in the mail (NO STATUS CHANGE OR CRIS EMAIL)

09-22-2008 - Received Email from CRIS for I-485 "CARD PRODUCTION ORDERED!"

09-27-2008 - Received Green Card in the mail!

Phase 3....

06-29-2010 - Sent I-751 and package to Remove Conditions

07-06-2010 - NOA1

08-24-2010 - Biometrics

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Why r u stealing Ken's pics man?? That is very uncool :lol:

lol..that was good little chiquita

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I think its sick & nasty when the guy is like in his 60s, and he's got pics with his Filipina bride barely in her 20s. It looks like an old perv fondling his granddaughter. NASTY! While we are on the pic subject, I also find disgusting to see the African relationships where the guy is like 25, and his XXXL size bride is in her 40s. Have you ever taken a look in the gallery? No wonder these visa's take so long, in VJ alone you can see some fraudster relationships. Yuk.

Only young, fit and beautiful people should be allowed to post their pics on VJ.

Opps I should better remove all of mine pics :unsure:

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Thailand
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i fail the half + 7 rule :crying:

"Boy Toy" alert!

"A number of slang terms exist to describe pairings in which one individual is much older than the other:

  • Boy toy or toy boy– a much younger boyfriend or husband of an older woman. In male-male relationships, a toy boy (sometimes toy boi) characterizes the one who is (and usually enjoys being) used for sexual gratification.
  • Cradle robber or cradle snatcher – a man (primarily, but could refer to a woman) involved with a much younger individual.
  • Chickenhawk – an older gay man who sexually pursues younger males, i.e. "twinks"/"chickens" or underage boys.
  • Cougar – an older woman, usually 35+, who sexually pursues men at least 10 years their junior. The term has been used in (American) TV series, advertising and film. The 2007 film Cougar Club was dedicated to the subject.
  • MILF (an acronym of "Mother [or 'Mom'] I'd Like [to] F**k", widely-used idiom that appeared in the 1999 film American Pie) – a sexually desirable older woman, though not necessarily one who has children. The term is used frequently as a descriptor of pornography featuring older women. By 2008, the term was familiar enough to be used on the television series 30 Rock (episode "MILF Island") without necessitating its definition (which would have violated Federal Communications Commission rules). The 'M' is replaced by 'G' (for 'Grandmother') in the case of women who are in their mid-50s or older, and/or are actual grandmothers; thus, GILF. The male counterpart terms are DILF–for Dad–within the gay community and FILF–for Father–in the straight community.
  • Jailbait – a sexually attractive person (primarily female but could refer to a male) who is below the legal age of consent. This designation connotes enticement to endanger oneself of being prosecuted for statutory rape.
  • Lolita – a sexually precocious young girl who is the object of desire of a significantly older man. As used in the English language, the term refers to the title character of Vladimir Nabokov's novel Lolita, who is referred to by the book's narrator, Humbert Humbert, as a nymphet. While "nymphet" is still used to refer to younger children, "Lolita" has come to be applied to older adolescents and young women in the context of pornography.
  • May-December romance – a relationship in which the age differential between the two adults (mainly an older man and a younger woman, but could refer to either) is wide enough to risk social disapproval.
  • Sugar daddy – a rich, usually older man who offers money or gifts to a less rich, usually younger person in return for companionship or sexual favors. This differs from prostitution in that the older man is usually the sole financial provider to the younger person. In Japan, there is a loosely similar practice known as enjō kosai.
  • Sugar momma – the reverse of a sugar daddy - a rich older woman that spends lavishly on younger men for companionship and sex.
  • Chihuahua – a younger woman who dates men 50 years and older."

K-3

11/15/2006 - NOA1 Receipt for 129F

02/12/2007 - I-130 and I-129F approved!

04/17/2007 - Interview - visa approved!

04/18/2007 - POE LAX - Finally in the USA!!!

04/19/2007 - WE ARE FINALLY HOME!!!

09/20/2007 - Sent Packet 3 for K-4 Visas (follow to join for children)

10/02/2007 - K-4 Interviews - approved

10/12/2007 - Everyone back to USA!

AOS

06/20/2008 - Mailed I-485, I-765 (plus I-130 for children)

06/27/2008 - NOA1 for I-485, I-765, and I-130s

07/16/2008 - Biometrics appointment

08/28/2008 - EAD cards received

11/20/2008 - AOS Interviews - approved

Citizenship

08/22/2011 - Mailed N-400

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Canada
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Male USC - 37

Femail Alien - 30

Works for us... :luv:

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USCIS: 175 Days

NVC: 41 Days

NOA1 to Interview: 265 Days

Interview: 20 March 2012 - APPROVED

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: France
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i fail the half + 7 rule :crying:

"Boy Toy" alert!

"A number of slang terms exist to describe pairings in which one individual is much older than the other:

  • Boy toy or toy boy– a much younger boyfriend or husband of an older woman. In male-male relationships, a toy boy (sometimes toy boi) characterizes the one who is (and usually enjoys being) used for sexual gratification.
  • Cradle robber or cradle snatcher – a man (primarily, but could refer to a woman) involved with a much younger individual.
  • Chickenhawk – an older gay man who sexually pursues younger males, i.e. "twinks"/"chickens" or underage boys.
  • Cougar – an older woman, usually 35+, who sexually pursues men at least 10 years their junior. The term has been used in (American) TV series, advertising and film. The 2007 film Cougar Club was dedicated to the subject.
  • MILF (an acronym of "Mother [or 'Mom'] I'd Like [to] F**k", widely-used idiom that appeared in the 1999 film American Pie) – a sexually desirable older woman, though not necessarily one who has children. The term is used frequently as a descriptor of pornography featuring older women. By 2008, the term was familiar enough to be used on the television series 30 Rock (episode "MILF Island") without necessitating its definition (which would have violated Federal Communications Commission rules). The 'M' is replaced by 'G' (for 'Grandmother') in the case of women who are in their mid-50s or older, and/or are actual grandmothers; thus, GILF. The male counterpart terms are DILF–for Dad–within the gay community and FILF–for Father–in the straight community.
  • Jailbait – a sexually attractive person (primarily female but could refer to a male) who is below the legal age of consent. This designation connotes enticement to endanger oneself of being prosecuted for statutory rape.
  • Lolita – a sexually precocious young girl who is the object of desire of a significantly older man. As used in the English language, the term refers to the title character of Vladimir Nabokov's novel Lolita, who is referred to by the book's narrator, Humbert Humbert, as a nymphet. While "nymphet" is still used to refer to younger children, "Lolita" has come to be applied to older adolescents and young women in the context of pornography.
  • May-December romance – a relationship in which the age differential between the two adults (mainly an older man and a younger woman, but could refer to either) is wide enough to risk social disapproval.
  • Sugar daddy – a rich, usually older man who offers money or gifts to a less rich, usually younger person in return for companionship or sexual favors. This differs from prostitution in that the older man is usually the sole financial provider to the younger person. In Japan, there is a loosely similar practice known as enjō kosai.
  • Sugar momma – the reverse of a sugar daddy - a rich older woman that spends lavishly on younger men for companionship and sex.
  • Chihuahua – a younger woman who dates men 50 years and older."

never heard of chihuahua before. funny.

K1

May 2005 - Met in Berkeley, California

July 03, 2008 - Engaged in Paris, France

July 25, 2008 - I129F sent to CSC

July 28, 2008 - Delivery Confirmation @ CSC

July 31, 2008 - NOA1

July 31, 2008 - Check Cashed

Dec 08, 2008 - touch

Dec 08, 2008 - NOA2

Dec 09, 2008 - touch

Dec 12, 2008 - left NVC

Dec 17, 2008 - rec'd at embassy

Dec 31, 2008 - Packet 3 rec'd

Jan 05, 2009 - Packet 3 returned to USEM

Jan 15, 2009 - Packet 4 rec'd :)

Jan 28, 2009 - Medical Scheduled

Jan 29, 2009 - Interview - APPROVED!!!

Feb 02, 2009 - Visa Issued

Feb 04, 2009 - Visa Rec'd :)

May 15, 2009 - US Entry

May 29, 2009 - Civil Ceremony

AOS/EAD/AP

June 16, 2009 - EAD/AP/AOS sent to Chicago

June 18, 2009 - Arrived in Chicago

June 22, 2009 - NOA1s

June 23, 2009 - Check Cashed

June 29, 2009 - Biometrics Letter Rec'd

July 02, 2009 - AP Touch

July 03, 2009 - AP Touch

July 06, 2009 - AP Touch

July 15, 2009 - Biometrics Appointment

July 16, 2009 - AOS & EAD Touch

August 04, 2009 - EAD & AP approved

August 07, 2009 - AOS appt letter rec'd

August 10, 2009 - AP rec'd in mail

August 13, 2009 - EAD rec'd in mail

September 02, 2009 - AOS Interview - Approved!

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Denmark
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My USC fiancée is four days older than me.

It truly must be with the help of divine intervention that after entering into this well-defined bureaucratic process, we were blessed with the expected outcome within the predefined timeline. Praise deities!

I-129F timeline

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02-09-09 - I-129F sent.

02-11-09 - NOA1.

06-15-09 - NOA2.

08-27-09 - Packet 3 received.

10-03-09 - Packet 4 received.

10-08-09 - Interview date - Approved. (Visa in hand 10-16-09)

02-03-10 - Date of entry.

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Germany
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I am a female USC of 38 years old

my husband is 27. so 11 years difference. it bothers my brother. but then get this,

My brother is 43 and his wife is 32 ( 11 years difference too ) and that is ok.

It's ok for a man but not for a woman. *ARGH*

Timeline: I am the USC - my husband is the beneficiary

11-02-05:..........Met online - We are both musicians: him music composer and me vocalist ( visit me at: www.myspace.com/etherealsopranoamethyste )

11-26-08:..........My love comes to see me for a holiday visit.

01-24-09:..........Impromptu Wedding in our little apartment!!! I LOVE you!!!

02-03-09:..........Went to the Civil Surgeon - Enveloppe in hand! Life is good!

02-09-09:..........Mailed ( certified ) the AOS package ( I-485, I-130, I-864, I-765, I-131, G-325A + all supporting evidence and more! )

02-11-09:..........Package delivered at Chicago Lockbox

02-20-09:..........Money Orders Cashed!

02-23-09:..........We received today our 4 NOAs ( I-485, I-130, I-765 and I-131 ) - NOAs dated 2-18-09

02-24-09:..........Biometrics apt. Letter: 03-08-09 8AM.

03-09-09:..........Biometrics done - in and out in 10 mins.

03-20-09:..........Received today INTERVIEW LETTER FOR: 04-21-09!!!! ( TOTAL DAYS FROM FILING TO INTERVIEW: 68 DAYS!!! )

04-10-09:..........Received AP in mail!

04-13-09:..........Received EAD in mail! ~~~ WE ARE SO GRATEFUL AND HAPPY!!! ~~~

04-21-09:..........AOS interview in Manchester NH - I-130 approved - I-485 No decision made - Were told to wait for decision letter

04-27-09:.......... ******* WELCOME TO AMERICA LETTER RCD! ******* ~~ adjustment from VWP without a problem! ~~

05-01-09:..........GREENCARD IN HAND!!! WOOO!!!

TOTAL TIME FROM AOS REACHING LOCKBOX TO GREENCARD IN HAND: 79 DAYS!!!!

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i fail the half + 7 rule :crying:

"Boy Toy" alert!

"A number of slang terms exist to describe pairings in which one individual is much older than the other:

  • Boy toy or toy boy– a much younger boyfriend or husband of an older woman. In male-male relationships, a toy boy (sometimes toy boi) characterizes the one who is (and usually enjoys being) used for sexual gratification.
  • Cradle robber or cradle snatcher – a man (primarily, but could refer to a woman) involved with a much younger individual.
  • Chickenhawk – an older gay man who sexually pursues younger males, i.e. "twinks"/"chickens" or underage boys.
  • Cougar – an older woman, usually 35+, who sexually pursues men at least 10 years their junior. The term has been used in (American) TV series, advertising and film. The 2007 film Cougar Club was dedicated to the subject.
  • MILF (an acronym of "Mother [or 'Mom'] I'd Like [to] F**k", widely-used idiom that appeared in the 1999 film American Pie) – a sexually desirable older woman, though not necessarily one who has children. The term is used frequently as a descriptor of pornography featuring older women. By 2008, the term was familiar enough to be used on the television series 30 Rock (episode "MILF Island") without necessitating its definition (which would have violated Federal Communications Commission rules). The 'M' is replaced by 'G' (for 'Grandmother') in the case of women who are in their mid-50s or older, and/or are actual grandmothers; thus, GILF. The male counterpart terms are DILF–for Dad–within the gay community and FILF–for Father–in the straight community.
  • Jailbait – a sexually attractive person (primarily female but could refer to a male) who is below the legal age of consent. This designation connotes enticement to endanger oneself of being prosecuted for statutory rape.
  • Lolita – a sexually precocious young girl who is the object of desire of a significantly older man. As used in the English language, the term refers to the title character of Vladimir Nabokov's novel Lolita, who is referred to by the book's narrator, Humbert Humbert, as a nymphet. While "nymphet" is still used to refer to younger children, "Lolita" has come to be applied to older adolescents and young women in the context of pornography.
  • May-December romance – a relationship in which the age differential between the two adults (mainly an older man and a younger woman, but could refer to either) is wide enough to risk social disapproval.
  • Sugar daddy – a rich, usually older man who offers money or gifts to a less rich, usually younger person in return for companionship or sexual favors. This differs from prostitution in that the older man is usually the sole financial provider to the younger person. In Japan, there is a loosely similar practice known as enjō kosai.
  • Sugar momma – the reverse of a sugar daddy - a rich older woman that spends lavishly on younger men for companionship and sex.
  • Chihuahua – a younger woman who dates men 50 years and older."

you forgot "puma." it's like a cougar, but for women under 35.

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