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Age difference b/w you and your partner

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  1. 1. Male USC and Female Alien

    • USC older by more than 20 years
      19
    • USC older by 10 to 20 years
      44
    • USC older by 5 to 10 years
      33
    • USC older by 0 to 5 years
      49
    • Alien older by 0 to 5 years
      17
    • Alien older by 5 to 10 years
      8
    • Alien older by 10 to 20 years
      2
    • Alien older by more than 20 years
      0
    • I am a female USC or male alien
      134

  2. 2. Female USC and Male Alien

    • USC older by more than 20 years
      8
    • USC older by 10 to 20 years
      19
    • USC older by 5 to 10 years
      21
    • USC older by 0 to 5 years
      34
    • Alien older by 0 to 5 years
      44
    • Alien older by 5 to 10 years
      20
    • Alien older by 10 to 20 years
      6
    • Alien older by more than 20 years
      2
    • I am a male USC or female alien
      152

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Kevin&Leilei Collaborator

Kevin&Leilei   1

Posted
Filed: Citizen (pnd) Country: China
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Male USC older by 5 years 1 month 1 day.

10-28-2008 - I-129F petition in the mail

11-03-2008 - NOA1

03-26-2009 - NOA2

04-23-2009 - P3

06-11-2009 - P4

07-16-2009 - interview - APPROVED

07-22-2009 - visa in hand

08-05-2009 - US entry

09-13-2009 - wedding

10-20-2009 - AOS application in the mail

10-28-2009 - NOA

11-25-2009 - biometrics appointment

12-18-2009 - EAD approved

12-22-2009 - EAD card received

01-28-2010 - interview - APPROVED

02-12-2010 - green card received

11-07-2011 - I-751 petition in the mail

11-10-2011 - NOA

12-30-2011 - biometrics appointment

08-13-2012 - approval

03-28-2013 - N-400 application in the mail

04-02-2013 - NOA

04-30-2013 - biometrics appointment

06-13-2013 - interview - APPROVED

08-26-2013 - oath

Cacerez Proficient

Cacerez   19

Posted
Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Guatemala
 Timeline
Posted

I am the female USC and am 13 months older than my fiance :luv:

MR. & MRS. CACEREZ

K-1 Process

10.23.08 - sent K1 packet

10.29.08 - NOA1

02.19.09 - NOA2 113 days, Igor's #226

04.13.09 - Interview, Visa in hand next day

04.19.09 - POE Atlanta

04.20.09 - Married!

AOS Process

06.09.09 - sent AOS,EAD,AP packet

06.17.09 - NOAs issued

06.24.09 - Biometrics done (3 weeks earlier than appt date)

07.03.09 - received RFE for I-693 (dated 6.29, responded 7.07)

07.23.09 - transferred to CSC (received letter 7.27)

07.29.09 - EAD Card Production Ordered & AP Approved

11.23.09 - AOS touched - card production ordered & welcome letter sent - 13 months exactly after initially applying for K-1!

12.03.09 - GC arrived in mail

Removal of Conditions Process

07.28.11 - received reminder letter from USCIS to remove conditions before 11.18.11

09.28.11 - mailed I-751 packet

10.03.11 - NOA

10.05.11 - check cashed

11.25.11 - Biometrics

07.24.12 - GC approved!

08.01.12 - GC arrived in mail

Citizenship Process

12.16.16 - sent N400 packet

12.23.16 - NOA issued

01.27.17 - Biometrics done

02.01.17 - put in line for interview

03.15.17 - scheduled for an interview on 04.21.17, had to write a letter asking for a reschedule because we will be out of the country

03.31.17 - scheduled for an interview again

05.09.17 - Interview!

 

adiiann Proficient

adiiann   163

Posted
Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Philippines
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Posted

Opsssssssssssssss... My fiance which is the USC, 2 years older than me..

Lifting Condition (I-751)

09/09/2011 - Sent the package to CSC

09/13/2011 - CSC received the package

09/15/2011 - CSC cashed check and NOA1 Received

09/26/2011 - Biometrics Appointment Notice Date (Sent)

10/13/2011 - Early Biometrics

10/19/2011 - Biometrics Appointment

10/26/2011 - GC expiration

11/25/2011 - Received RFE

11/28/2011 - Sent response to RFE

01/13/2012 - Ordered card production (Approved)

01/19/2012 - 10 yrs GC received

kaffy Proficient

kaffy   2

Posted
Filed: Lift. Cond. (pnd) Country: Australia
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Posted

Male USC is 8 years older than I am

DCF Timeline here

POE Timeline

08/24/2008 POE Seattle

08/29/2008 SSN assigned

09/08/2008 SSN (Card) received

09/29/2008 Green Card received

I-90 Timeline (USCIS error)

11/10/2008 Send I-90 to Texas service center

12/xx/2008 NOA1

01/07/2009 Card production ordered

01/14/2009 Card mailed

01/xx/2009 Card received

I-751 Timeline

06/02/2010 Send I-751 to California service center

06/04/2010 Received at CSC

06/07/2010 NOA1

06/09/2010 Check cashed

07/27/2010 Biometrics

07/28/2010 Touch

09/02/2010 Approved

SteveColo Collaborator

SteveColo   0

Posted
Filed: K-3 Visa Country: Ukraine
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Posted

Me ... male USC ... 45

My love ... 25

Never once been an issue ;)

Steve & Ksenia

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July 23, 2008 - Married my beautiful Ksenia

Oct 11, 2008 - I-130 Sent

Oct 13, 2008 - I-130 Delivered to Chicago Lockbox

Oct 20, 2008 - Checks cashed by USCIS

Oct 24, 2008 - NOA1 (I-130)

Oct 25, 2008 - I-129F Sent to CSC

Oct 29, 2008 - I-129F Received at CSC

Oct 30, 2008 - NOA1 for I-129F mailed to me - received 11/22/08 because of address change

Oct 31, 2008 - I-130 Touched

Nov 3, 2008 - I-130 Touched

Nov 18, 2008 - I-129F Touched

Nov 20, 2008 - I-130 (for step daughter) Touched

Feb 17, 2009 - Case received by the NVC

Feb 25, 2009 - Received letter from NVC dated Feb 20th saying they had received my approved I-129F

Feb 27, 2009 - Received 2 letters from NVC dated Feb 20th - they had received both approved I-130's

Mar 6, 2009 - Medical for Ksenia & Sasha completed in Kiev. Everything is great.

Mar 9, 2009 - Called NVC and found out our K3 is in "administrative processing"

Apr 6, 2009 - OUT OF A.P. !!! File being sent to Kiev !

May 5, 2009 - K3 interview in Kiev! APPROVED !!!

July 12, 2009 - ARRIVAL IN USA !!!

conquest Enthusiast

conquest   0

Posted
Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Peru
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Posted

IF OVER 15 IS SICK, I NEED INTENSIVE CARE

I hear the formula is half your age plus 5 years. I am 47 years old so 47 divided by 2 =23.5 + 5 years =28.5.

So I would be allowed to have a wife of 28.5 years old and I still wouldnt be sick.JEEEZZZZEE she would still be a baby OMG!! that is sick lol

My wife is 33 we are 14 years apart

TBoneTX Grand Master

TBoneTX   46,293

Posted
Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Ecuador
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USC (moi) almost 16 years older, si man, and still a quadragenarian for a few months more, oof man.

Act-our-ages? We have been expending all of our discretionary time dispensing & avoiding wedgies, si man. Mine (the issued ones) are stronger & more precise; hers are more frequent & more surreptitiously planned. Incidentally, it is easier to say "wedgie" than to say "calzoncillo chino," which in Ecuador roughly translates to "effect of the thong underwear of the fat Sumo wrestler," si man.

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

William33 Veteran

William33   110

Posted
Filed: Lift. Cond. (apr) Country: Indonesia
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Posted

Age gaps are inconsequential, if both parties are mature enough for the relationship.

In our case, the age gap is nearly 10 years. This age gap is not an issue at all for us.

People should not pre-judge age gaps on personal opinion alone.

By the way, my wife is 34.

 

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