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  1. 1. Male USC and Female Alien

    • USC older by more than 20 years
      19
    • USC older by 10 to 20 years
      44
    • USC older by 5 to 10 years
      33
    • USC older by 0 to 5 years
      49
    • Alien older by 0 to 5 years
      17
    • Alien older by 5 to 10 years
      8
    • Alien older by 10 to 20 years
      2
    • Alien older by more than 20 years
      0
    • I am a female USC or male alien
      134
  2. 2. Female USC and Male Alien

    • USC older by more than 20 years
      8
    • USC older by 10 to 20 years
      19
    • USC older by 5 to 10 years
      21
    • USC older by 0 to 5 years
      34
    • Alien older by 0 to 5 years
      44
    • Alien older by 5 to 10 years
      20
    • Alien older by 10 to 20 years
      6
    • Alien older by more than 20 years
      2
    • I am a male USC or female alien
      152


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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Russia
Timeline

11 years difference

34 Me

23 Her

But it goes down to 10 years for almost a month. ;)

11/13/2009 -- Mailed I-129F

11/17/2009 -- Received NOA 1

02/10/2010 -- NOA 2 Mailed

02/16/2010 -- NOA 2 Received (via email)

02/19/2010 -- Petition forwarded to Moscow

04/23/2010 -- Scheduled Interview - SUCCESS

07/20/2010 -- Entrance to USA POE Anchorage

08/21/2010 -- Wedding

11/04/2010 -- Mailed AOS

01/25/2011 -- AOS Interview - SUCCESS

Member of the RUB group, where high horses meet low brows.

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Egypt
Timeline

Me - Female USC: 33

Him - Male Alien: 34

He's 4 months older...

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Me (female USC) - 24

Him (foreigner) - 24

Although I am one month and one day older...and yet he still calls me a cradle robber haha

08-21-2004: We met in Lund, Sweden. Basically been together ever since!

02-08-2009: We met up in Australia to be together during the K1 process.

04-25-2009: I-129F mailed to CSC

05-04-2009: I-129F delivered to CSC

05-13-2009: NOA1

05-14-2009: Check cashed

08-21-2009: NOA2 - Exactly 5 years from the day we first met!

08-24-2009: We returned to our respective countries.

09-01-2009: Packet 3 received

10-09-2009: Packet 3 sent

10-22-2009: Interview - Passed!

11-05-2009: Arrival! POE: Los Angeles, CA.

01-02-2010: Wedding in Santa Barbara, CA.

02-12-2010: Sent in AOS/EAD/AP

02-15-2010: Received by USCIS

02-19-2010: Check cashed

02-19-2010: NOA1

03-01-2010: Biometrics letter received (Appt: March 22)

03-02-2010: Walk-in biometrics - 4 hour wait but completed!

03-03-2010: Touched

03-19-2010: Interview appt letter received (notice date - March 16th)

04-20-2010: AOS Interview - Passed!

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Filed: Citizen (pnd) Country: France
Timeline

Me (alien): 24

Him (USC): 27

Three years. :)

AOS Approved on 10-17-08 (details in profile)

Removal of Conditions on 07-19-10

In this tedious process, we tend to forget that this is all worth it.

I love my hubby beyond anything in this world.

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Italy
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im the usc im 9 mths older than my husband...he sure acts like a baby!!! hahah

Married:10-04-2008

USCIS

I-130 Sent : 12-12-2008

I-130 NOA1 : 12-18-2008

APPROVED: 03-05-2009

NVC

Case Entered Into NVC: 03-18-2009

NVC Sent DS-3032/I-864 Bill: 03-25-2009

E-mailed DS-3032: 03-26-2009

Received DS-3032 / I-864 Bill: 03-30-3009

Paid I-864 Bill: 03-30-2009

I-864 Bill Shows as PAID: 04-01-2009/printed the document cover sheet

Sent I-864 Package: 04-02-2009

NVC put the I-864 in system: 04-07-2009

Mailed Ds-3032 after not hearing anything about the e-mail overnight thru usps: 04-08-2009

(Same Day) got e-mail from nvc approving Ds-3032/ IV Bill (hahah)

Paid IV bill: 04-08-2009

IV Bill Shows as PAID: 04-10-2009/printed the document cover sheet

**** waiting for husband to send me police record****

NVC e-mailed Checklist: 04-21-2009/printed that cover sheet too

Sent Ds-230 overnight thru usps: 04-23-2009

AVR-Checklist Received: 04-24-2009

Sign in error to nvc website: 05-04-2009

Final Review: 05-05-2009

Case Complete @ NVC: 05-06-2009 (no Rfe for I-864 or Ds-230 yey)

NVC Scheduled interview: 05-11-2009

Received E-mail from NVC for Interview: 05-12-2009

NVC forwarded case to Naples: 05-12-2009

Embassy @ Naples Received case: 05-14-2009

Medical: 06-22-2009

Interview Date: 06-23-2009@8am 2 days b4 his b-day!! (Got Visa)

POE:06-30-09 JFK

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Germany
Timeline

male USC: 32 years

female alien (me): 38 years

the age difference was never a matter for us and hopefully it´ll never won´t be....

Timeline

11/27/2006 - met in person in NYC
08/17/2008 - got engaged
10/25/2008 - sent Petition I-129
10/28/2008 - NOA 1
03/11/2009 - NOA 2
03/28/2009 - received Pack 3
04/07/2009 - sent Pack 3
04/14/2009 - received Pack 4
04/22/2009 - Medical in Dortmund
05/26/2009 - Interview in Frankfurt (Approved !!!!)
07/22/2009 - flight to US (POE Newark/NJ)
08/21/2009 - marriage in NYC
08/31/2009 - sent AOS/EAD/AP
09/09/2009 - NOA for AOS/EAD/AP
09/28/2009 - case transferred to CSC
10/07/2009 - AP approved
10/09/2009 - AP received
10/13/2009 - Biometrics
10/13/2009 - EAD approved
10/22/2009 - EAD received
11/05/2009 - AOS approved !!!
11/10/2009 - Green Card in mail

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Me - Female USC: 33

Him - Male Alien: 34

He's 4 months older...

My hubs is also 4 months older than me :)

We're both 27

I always thought I'd marry an older guy, but oh well... :lol:

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12/05/11.......................Filed I-751

12/06/11.......................NOA

01/03/12......................BIO

09/10/12..................... Approved

09/21/12..................... Received GC

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Husband USC - 55

Filipina wife - 47

An ideal age gap because in my big family that is the typical age gap for husbands and wives. It works for all of us but I think the age is not the issue after all. It's the attitude.

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Peru
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My husband is the Peruvian "alien" lol... he's 33 and I'm 25. When you figure it out on a maturity scale though we're the same age basically. :thumbs:

I am no one to judge, but I have seen some couples and things on this site that make me wonder :whistle:

But never wanted to say for fear of retaliation in CAPS LOCK hehehe

But seriously, off of VJ I know two men that I used to work with (in retail) that each met their wives on some marriage website. One guy's first wife didn't work out so I don't know what happened to her (she was Latina) and then a year later he found the second wife and she was from Russia. He was at least 55 and both wives were in their early 20's. The other guy brought his wife over from the Ukraine and they lived happily ever after (so far). He was also like 60 and she was in her early 30's. It seemed weird to me, honestly seeing as in they admitted to being set up with them online, their wives were extremely good looking and couldn't speak English, but hey, what can I say I'm no one to judge. These men sure do hate American women though, that's for sure. :wacko: I always find a forum on this site filled with American woman insults, I guess we're so terrible :blink:

But in all seriousness, if people think that this is the right choice for them and it's the risk that they want to take... that's their problem. Like the second guy I told you about, everything worked out for him and he's much happier now than a few years ago, you can see the difference in his face, just in his moods and everything.

And as for the XXL wives I have no experience so I can't say.

... I would like for VJ to be like my gym, Planet Fitness, a judgement-free zone :star:

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I would like for VJ to be like my gym, Planet Fitness, a judgement-free zone

lol....good luck.....with that

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Peru
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I would like for VJ to be like my gym, Planet Fitness, a judgement-free zone

lol....good luck.....with that

Everytime someone says something dumb or insensitive Ewok can sound the lunk alarm lol

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