Marriage interview for ethnic couples is worse? YES OR NO?

[NickD 203]

Racism can be good, both my wife and daughter experienced some of that when the first came here, wife at work, daughter at school. Needed encouragement at home, and tried a bit harder, wife got the employee of the year award in her department, daughter made the high honor roll. Screw those ignorant bastards.

[mrsjeffs 0]

The USA is racist period.

Huh?

Well, it is.Racism still exists in the USA !

It always will, but considering recent events I'd say we've came a very long way.

That's funny, just as usual the first thing people do when racism and bigotry is talked about, they DEFEND the racism and they make excuses for the bigots. That's why America and other countries have a problem treating everyone like a human being, because there are too many fools in this world that keep racism alive. And then as usual, even with KKK still marching and skinheads all over the place the white people respond and say it is the black people that are responsible for the racism in america. So i guess my grandfather injected himself with syphillis as a tuskegee airman? Racism exists because there are people who keep it in existence it does not grow off of a tree and it is not something you are born with. It is systemically taught and then kept alive by the sheep of a country, people who will listen to anything with no mind of their own. And they say "oh its natural," because the racists, like white supremacists who believe they own America, need an excuse for racism and hatred. And the silly comments about vodka...Typical of what people think of america, small-minded bigot. My point is, if they claim to be treating all cases professionally then why would the ethnic background of a person be brought up? iTS THE SAME AS RACIAL PROFILING. The agency is saying they only want mainly europeans coming in this country because europeans are white and "pure" in the mind of America. I see there are complaints about black people being racist, because blacks are always called racists whenever they point out bigotry and prejudice. I'm sure no one would have a problem saying "All black people steal" but if i said "All white people steal" then there would be a conflict. This is a sad world we live in, its ok to label all non-white "impure" people, but if the "pure" white community is labeled than there is a problem. I saw a silly comment about how i should go to russia if i don't like it here, WHY DON'T THE REST OF YOU GO TO THE COUNTRY YOUR SPOUSE COMES FROM AS WELL? You are going through this process to stay here with your spouse because you say you love them, but you really just want to be here because you think america is better. America is the same bigoted hate monger it has always been, making sure the white people are treated better first and foremost and then trying to compensate for everybody else with special programs and handouts, still evil. That's why France or Ireland or Canada will have no problems getting a visa because they are very white, but of course the "high fraud" rates have to be in sub-saharan africa because that's where black people come from. Racists are defended by freeodm of speech laws, to protect white supremacy and keep white privelege alive. That's why the kkk is allowed to make death threats to blacks and non-whites on their website on a daily basis. Mainly my husband gets comments like "why are you with that black girl?" because white people truly believe they are special and better than anyone else and they believe black and ethnic people are sub-human. As a couple, we are considered "abnormal" by people because most whites believe that my husband who is white is supposed to hate me and marry a white girl. My husband does not hate me and strangely he was not raised with the typical white social beliefs of superiority that most whites are. Our uphill battle is dealing with people who can't understand why my husband would mate with a sub-humanoid. So everything we do is "questioned" because i am not white (white is considered normal). This country could be a paradise for everyone if everyone were considered human, but we are called white and black not human or equal, and the majority in this country do not want to give up their white privelege.

Oh girlfriend, you are sooooooooo wrong on this account. People in Russia ask that question of him not because they believe that he is ethnically superior to you, nooooooo - but because you are a rarity in Russia. How many black people have you seen in Russia??? Not too damn many. I know in my husband's country of Argentina, it is considered the whitest country in the world - 98% caucasian. So, when they see a black person in that country, he or she is an anomaly - stared at, gawked at, you name it - they aren't used to it. Now, go just to the north of Argentina and you're in Brazil, where there are Pardos (browns) and Blacks - probably equaling out to about 52% of the population. There, color isn't an anomaly - it is everywhere.

You keep trucking along, taking your hate and insane reasoning with you...you never know, at the end of the day, they might deny you based on some crazy thing - like your hubby has TB (because it is so common in Russia and Eastern Europe) or he has a criminal record somewhere that you don't know about...but you'll still think it was because you were an interracial couple and I've never seen a denial based on that one.

PEOPLE IN RUSSIA SHARE THE SAME WHITE SUPREMACIST BELIEFS AS THE KKK. They believe only whites are good and ethnic people are bad, that's why its an issue fur uscis, because they like europeans and they want more europeans coming into the country to keep it a white majority.

Then why are you with a freakin' Russian if they all share those beliefs???? Hmmmmm???? Is he using you for a greencard???? Chew on that!

I REALLY WANT THIS ABW( ANGRY BLACK WOMAN ) TO ANSWER THIS QUESTION.........WE R ALL WAITING.........

[pedroh 21]

stay black y'all and keep it real

[Teacher Mark 53]

That's funny, just as usual the first thing people do when racism and bigotry is talked about, they DEFEND the racism and they make excuses for the bigots.

What's funny is that you think I'm defending racism and bigotry. Racism will always exist because as long as there is 1 racist in the country it still exists. Are we really naive enough to think we can eliminate it completely?

[Sprailenes 47]

If it wasn't for racism the OP would have nothing else to complain about, she has poured all of her hate and anger into this one topic has now gone off the deep end.

Get a grip lady.

[Nessa 23]

in Brazil, where there are Pardos (browns) and Blacks - probably equaling out to about 52% of the population. There, color isn't an anomaly - it is everywhere.

depends on where u go in brazil. you will hardly see any black or brown in south brazil (close to argentina), it's probably like 90% caucasian, some asians and a few brown/black, so the same happens as in Argentina, they're an ''anomaly''. but if you go noth, you'll see half white, half brown and few black, and there's where people are used to the mix.

[Beautiful_years 0]

Gosh you're bitter! Slow down, yes its there, just like there are black racists too... but its F-A-D-I-N-G gradually plus you cant win all! Some blacks find it offensive too to be with a "white" man! Is that racisim? Why wont you listen, ignore and be nice? Concentrate on proving a bonafide relationship?

i'm more than glad i wont be the next to go in after you re done with your interview, meanwhile since you know a lot of these angry racist websites....

Start one of your own too... bla, blax, blan! With your passion it ll grow like the kkk too!

Cos nothing anyone says makes sense to you, or quenches the gulfing fire!

[Emancipation 2]

Notice how the people that comment on this topic are not going through this bigotry themselves but they claim it is not real or not happening. Of course if you are not being mistreated you are going to say that nothing is wrong, because you have not been mistreated. Especially if you are the recipient of white privelege you are going to say racism is not real, because it is to your advantage to use it against others. If racism is helping you you are not going to say its a problem. Its a benefit for you not a problem.

You're putting words into our mouths and making bullsh!t assumptions on the thoughts in our heads. You have no argument here and apparently lack the common sense and intelligence to recognize that fact and just kill it before it dies. Seriously, just pack it up and leave the thread- you're done here.

Nobody said you've never been mistreated on account of your race. What was said is that no evidence has been shown on this thread, not by you or anyone else, to suggest that a black person is at any sort of greater disadvantage vis-a-vis immigration into the United States- as either the petitioner or the beneficiary- than any other person in any kind of mixed race relationship.

Furthermore, please don't suggest that because I'm white, I've never experienced racism or mistreatment on account of my race. I lived in the backwaters of northern Japan for years and I've been stereotyped, slurred, barred entry, profiled and detained by police, and plain old discriminated against because of my race more times than I can remember.

I don't disagree with you because I'm white and I don't understand, or because you're black and I therefore dislike you.

I disagree with you because you're full of #######.

wow.. what is this world coming to?? I actually agree with Uncle Wally?

[Staashi 371]

in Brazil, where there are Pardos (browns) and Blacks - probably equaling out to about 52% of the population. There, color isn't an anomaly - it is everywhere.

depends on where u go in brazil. you will hardly see any black or brown in south brazil (close to argentina), it's probably like 90% caucasian, some asians and a few brown/black, so the same happens as in Argentina, they're an ''anomaly''. but if you go noth, you'll see half white, half brown and few black, and there's where people are used to the mix.

Yes - forgot to mention that.

[Y's_habibitk 2]

Notice how the people that comment on this topic are not going through this bigotry themselves but they claim it is not real or not happening. Of course if you are not being mistreated you are going to say that nothing is wrong, because you have not been mistreated. Especially if you are the recipient of white privelege you are going to say racism is not real, because it is to your advantage to use it against others. If racism is helping you you are not going to say its a problem. Its a benefit for you not a problem.

you are so right. I am white,blonde and have NEVER experienced racism. Growing up in the bario didnt effect me at all, being the only blonde on the school bus was a BLAST. I was never called horrible names and picked on for being a weda* I have NO experience with racism, because im the epitomy of white. reading on a public forum about how all of "us" whites are racist and think of ethnic people as subhumans is not racist at all.

you are so right...i have NO idea what it feels like to be on the receiving end of racism. there is no way a white person can be affected by it.

btw, have you been mistreated by USCIS? not yet, but if you walk in with this attitude..you are gonna have BIG problems. Good Luck with that

[alienlovechild 75]

btw, have you been mistreated by USCIS?

The OP doesn't have a timeline and doesn't answer any questions. I hate reruns and I expect she'll go over the same old ground again and again. Pretty sad for a poster who has been on this forum for a whopping 6 days and has it all figured out.

[panamania79 2]

The USA is racist period.

Huh?

Well, it is.Racism still exists in the USA !

It always will, but considering recent events I'd say we've came a very long way.

That's funny, just as usual the first thing people do when racism and bigotry is talked about, they DEFEND the racism and they make excuses for the bigots. That's why America and other countries have a problem treating everyone like a human being, because there are too many fools in this world that keep racism alive. And then as usual, even with KKK still marching and skinheads all over the place the white people respond and say it is the black people that are responsible for the racism in america. So i guess my grandfather injected himself with syphillis as a tuskegee airman? Racism exists because there are people who keep it in existence it does not grow off of a tree and it is not something you are born with. It is systemically taught and then kept alive by the sheep of a country, people who will listen to anything with no mind of their own. And they say "oh its natural," because the racists, like white supremacists who believe they own America, need an excuse for racism and hatred. And the silly comments about vodka...Typical of what people think of america, small-minded bigot. My point is, if they claim to be treating all cases professionally then why would the ethnic background of a person be brought up? iTS THE SAME AS RACIAL PROFILING. The agency is saying they only want mainly europeans coming in this country because europeans are white and "pure" in the mind of America. I see there are complaints about black people being racist, because blacks are always called racists whenever they point out bigotry and prejudice. I'm sure no one would have a problem saying "All black people steal" but if i said "All white people steal" then there would be a conflict. This is a sad world we live in, its ok to label all non-white "impure" people, but if the "pure" white community is labeled than there is a problem. I saw a silly comment about how i should go to russia if i don't like it here, WHY DON'T THE REST OF YOU GO TO THE COUNTRY YOUR SPOUSE COMES FROM AS WELL? You are going through this process to stay here with your spouse because you say you love them, but you really just want to be here because you think america is better. America is the same bigoted hate monger it has always been, making sure the white people are treated better first and foremost and then trying to compensate for everybody else with special programs and handouts, still evil. That's why France or Ireland or Canada will have no problems getting a visa because they are very white, but of course the "high fraud" rates have to be in sub-saharan africa because that's where black people come from. Racists are defended by freeodm of speech laws, to protect white supremacy and keep white privelege alive. That's why the kkk is allowed to make death threats to blacks and non-whites on their website on a daily basis. Mainly my husband gets comments like "why are you with that black girl?" because white people truly believe they are special and better than anyone else and they believe black and ethnic people are sub-human. As a couple, we are considered "abnormal" by people because most whites believe that my husband who is white is supposed to hate me and marry a white girl. My husband does not hate me and strangely he was not raised with the typical white social beliefs of superiority that most whites are. Our uphill battle is dealing with people who can't understand why my husband would mate with a sub-humanoid. So everything we do is "questioned" because i am not white (white is considered normal). This country could be a paradise for everyone if everyone were considered human, but we are called white and black not human or equal, and the majority in this country do not want to give up their white privelege.

Oh girlfriend, you are sooooooooo wrong on this account. People in Russia ask that question of him not because they believe that he is ethnically superior to you, nooooooo - but because you are a rarity in Russia. How many black people have you seen in Russia??? Not too damn many. I know in my husband's country of Argentina, it is considered the whitest country in the world - 98% caucasian. So, when they see a black person in that country, he or she is an anomaly - stared at, gawked at, you name it - they aren't used to it. Now, go just to the north of Argentina and you're in Brazil, where there are Pardos (browns) and Blacks - probably equaling out to about 52% of the population. There, color isn't an anomaly - it is everywhere.

You keep trucking along, taking your hate and insane reasoning with you...you never know, at the end of the day, they might deny you based on some crazy thing - like your hubby has TB (because it is so common in Russia and Eastern Europe) or he has a criminal record somewhere that you don't know about...but you'll still think it was because you were an interracial couple and I've never seen a denial based on that one.

PEOPLE IN RUSSIA SHARE THE SAME WHITE SUPREMACIST BELIEFS AS THE KKK. They believe only whites are good and ethnic people are bad, that's why its an issue fur uscis, because they like europeans and they want more europeans coming into the country to keep it a white majority.

Then why are you with a freakin' Russian if they all share those beliefs???? Hmmmmm???? Is he using you for a greencard???? Chew on that!

Good question !

[panamania79 2]

Notice how the people that comment on this topic are not going through this bigotry themselves but they claim it is not real or not happening. Of course if you are not being mistreated you are going to say that nothing is wrong, because you have not been mistreated. Especially if you are the recipient of white privelege you are going to say racism is not real, because it is to your advantage to use it against others. If racism is helping you you are not going to say its a problem. Its a benefit for you not a problem.

AND THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A RACE CARD. RACISM WAS DESIGNED BY WHITE COLONIAL AMERICA AND THEY STILL PRACTICE IT. ITS A REALITY NOT A CARD. And if you believe we are moving forward, whatever that means, you might want to tell the sweet angels of the ku klux klan, Chimpout.com, niggermania.com, Resistance records, tom shelly, don black, david duke, and the gaede twins that racism is over with. I don't think they got the message. Apparently, they have "freedom of speech" laws that allow them to practice their "beliefs" but if i as a black person point out the hatred and bigotry of these people, I am called a racist. Pretty funny. I guess that's why the govt. made sure to destroy the black panthers, but the police are always there to defend the kkk and protect the ku klux klan whenever they have a "i hate black people" rally in public.

lemme know when you finally get around to mentioning the black panthers, while you're on a rant about racist groups.

Why not throw Al Sharpton in the mix while we're at it,he's a racist old buzzard.

[Ban Hammer 13,352]

Notice how the people that comment on this topic are not going through this bigotry themselves but they claim it is not real or not happening. Of course if you are not being mistreated you are going to say that nothing is wrong, because you have not been mistreated. Especially if you are the recipient of white privelege you are going to say racism is not real, because it is to your advantage to use it against others. If racism is helping you you are not going to say its a problem. Its a benefit for you not a problem.

AND THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A RACE CARD. RACISM WAS DESIGNED BY WHITE COLONIAL AMERICA AND THEY STILL PRACTICE IT. ITS A REALITY NOT A CARD. And if you believe we are moving forward, whatever that means, you might want to tell the sweet angels of the ku klux klan, Chimpout.com, niggermania.com, Resistance records, tom shelly, don black, david duke, and the gaede twins that racism is over with. I don't think they got the message. Apparently, they have "freedom of speech" laws that allow them to practice their "beliefs" but if i as a black person point out the hatred and bigotry of these people, I am called a racist. Pretty funny. I guess that's why the govt. made sure to destroy the black panthers, but the police are always there to defend the kkk and protect the ku klux klan whenever they have a "i hate black people" rally in public.

lemme know when you finally get around to mentioning the black panthers, while you're on a rant about racist groups.

Why not throw Al Sharpton in the mix while we're at it,he's a racist old buzzard.

apparently that one was enough of a curve ball for the op, why add more for her?

[2xHollyx2 3]

PEOPLE IN RUSSIA SHARE THE SAME WHITE SUPREMACIST BELIEFS AS THE KKK. They believe only whites are good and ethnic people are bad, that's why its an issue fur uscis, because they like europeans and they want more europeans coming into the country to keep it a white majority.

Then why are you with a freakin' Russian if they all share those beliefs???? Hmmmmm???? Is he using you for a greencard???? Chew on that! whistling.gif

I REALLY WANT THIS ABW( ANGRY BLACK WOMAN ) TO ANSWER THIS QUESTION.........WE R ALL WAITING.........

I would like to know that, too!