Anyone do a prenuptial?

[Ricca711 1]

Unless he wants to split my student loan bills with me

See...thats what I am talking about....LOL! Get that EAD stamp baby.

[Ricca711 1]

You go to school, work and you got a new husband....GO HEAD superwoman!!! Im with you...I dont have much but my brains for anyone to take. And at the end of this journey...I might not have that left.

I've been a student forever (even if I end up on the streets...my degrees will keep me warm )! Just joking. But on a serious note, I do have some serious loans and because I am a career student (still in school now ) I can't say that I have anything of real worth...accept for myself .

So basically I am still just starting out, really. As a matter of fact there was a point in February that I was thinking of buying a home (coop) and I decided against it because I felt like maybe that is something I should wait until we can do together. And besides why buy a coop when you can get a condo or a house. All of which I would need assistance to purchase.

SOOOOO, pre-nup? . My particular circumstances would not call for it.

[Asante Maroon 0]

LOL! I know. And as soon as he gets his papers straight, he will be going too. He is dying right now! He is a real braniac!

And trust me when I say that I know this process can drive you stright to the crazy house. Because I was not able to go to Ghana to travel with him back to the US, I was panicking the whole time. I just needed for him to get on that plane!!!

Sorry I know I am off topic

You go to school, work and you got a new husband....GO HEAD superwoman!!! Im with you...I dont have much but my brains for anyone to take. And at the end of this journey...I might not have that left.

[LovinLiberia 0]

Unless he wants to split my student loan bills with me

See...thats what I am talking about....LOL! Get that EAD stamp baby.

[chispas 0]

A woman I work with husband is an immigration lawyer here in San Francisco and when they got married they had a prenup. Their reasoning for getting one is that they both have children and wanted to make sure that if anything were to happen to either of them their children would be protected. They also have a living will so that family members would know what their wishes were in case of their deaths and also protect their children. When I got married, he was really upset that I didn't get one and couldn't beieve I would naively not get a prenup since I have children and my SO also has children. Right now, I wished I would have gotten one

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

I have no money, he has no money = no pre-nup.....

However, had he had money, I would have suggested he got one, just so he would have no doubts whatsoever that I loved him and not his money....

[Simply_Uno 1]

I've been a student forever (even if I end up on the streets...my degrees will keep me warm )! Just joking. But on a serious note, I do have some serious loans and because I am a career student (still in school now ) I can't say that I have anything of real worth...accept for myself .

So basically I am still just starting out, really. As a matter of fact there was a point in February that I was thinking of buying a home (coop) and I decided against it because I felt like maybe that is something I should wait until we can do together. And besides why buy a coop when you can get a condo or a house. All of which I would need assistance to purchase.

SOOOOO, pre-nup? . My particular circumstances would not call for it.

I see we listen to that same music..hahahaha

[Whippy 0]

I don't see anything wrong with discussing this with your spouse. My wife and I discussed it and decided against it.