the time to file the I-751 has come...

[csoul 0]

I don't know why this user came here with questions... She looks so sure about everything...

And also I don't know why the people (with those rude answers from her like "Excuse me?, Your point?" " it is none of your business") still answer to try to help her.

To be honest... I can't say this time Good luck...

[athena_ny 1]

I don't know why this user came here with questions... She looks so sure about everything...

And also I don't know why the people (with those rude answers from her like "Excuse me?, Your point?" " it is none of your business") still answer to try to help her.

To be honest... I can't say this time Good luck...

I was asking about my evidence, and didn't need USCIS WANTS JOINT CHECKING ACCTS answers. Hi, one month before I adjust, I've got reasons for not having them, that's not a productive answer. Going and adding him to my checking account now would look intentionally dishonest

I've been around VJ a while and I am wary of those who were rude and judgemental when we originally adjusted status and their non-advice advice. There is a reason I left the site after my husband's green card was received.

I will leave it at that.

Your good luck and well-wishes are not necessary for me to feel validated, I know why I got married and if the US government decides I don't have enough proof even after I give them all I have, I'll happily go to Peru to remain with my husband.

[csoul 0]

I'll happily go to Peru to remain with my husband.

I'm pretty sure that a lot of people will be happy of that too...

[athena_ny 1]

I'll happily go to Peru to remain with my husband.

I'm pretty sure that a lot of people will be happy of that too...

Nah, just your sorry ####.

[M. 0]

My husband and I keep our finances separate -- I have debt; he has a clean slate and we want to keep it that way. Also, I was divorced (see also the "I have debt" part) and learned during that process about keeping finances separate.

We still sent 200+ pages of evidence to USCIS. 2 years of phone records showing our cell phones on one account + calls going between the phones; 2 years of statements from our separate accounts showing we resided at the same residence (we lived with my family for 18 months); our lease; everything with each other as beneficiary; every card, invitation, or letter ever jointly addressed; tax returns and economic stimulus payment; trip itineraries and photos; paystubs showing him (well, starting this year, me) as the "spouse" on my "employee & spouse" coverage; and LOTS of photos.

We also printed out every email and IM conversation we were willing to show to the government, and had records of our text messages printed -- most about mundane stuff like "Oh ######, I forgot to get meat out of the fridge! Can you do that when you get home?" and "Nuala [our cat] did the cutest thing while you were out with your friends this afternoon." as well as emails planning parties, discussing who was going to cover what expenses, grocery shopping lists, debating whether to eat out, etc. I'm hoping *cross fingers* that'd be the best proof of a bonafide relationship short of having USCIS come live with us for 2 years.

So far, the application was accepted and we haven't received an RFE yet *crosses fingers and toes*

Just some ideas from someone else who doesn't co-mingle finances.

Good luck!