American Woman Bitter and Lonely?!

[morocco4ever 63]

I dont prefer to marry filipina women. I prefer to marry the women I love who happens to be a filipina. And there is no critizism by me of American women.

Now this is a statement that I can respect. I am always happy to see someone who finds happiness and love, no matter where or who.

It really is a shame that others can't seem to let go of the past enough to really truly enjoy what they have now. I could say a lot of nasty things about american men, but I choose to admit that I made a bad choice the first time around. My dad was american, and he was a wonderful man. My mom was american, and she was a wonderful woman. I guess these men that are trashing american women have forgotten who they are including in their hate fest. Oh well....I don't have to live with them, thank God.

I have found the promise land, and now i share it with my friends.

:blink: :blink: :blink:

I figured that you would catch that one too.

[Sprailenes 47]

This is really stupid.

Nuff said.

[faryan 4]

After being married to my Filipina wife, and having other friends and family whom are married to Pinays.

There is no way in hell I would marry another woman from America.

I have found the promise land, and now i share it with my friends.

I am happy and she has been the best thing to ever happen to me, and this seems to be a common theme from others whom marry Filipinas...

I am sure that many here are happy to hear this.

M4E, my point exactly

[geezer 1]

The Phillipines have the most beautiful women in the world and not only are they the most beautiful they are very abundant so much so that lots of old ugly guys like me end up being married to them. Supply and demand ... to many beautiful woman to few handsome men so us ugly guys get more than our share

All comes down to supply and demand..nothing to do with submissiveness or anything else

[PhiLandShiR 18]

The Phillipines have the most beautiful women in the world and not only are they the most beautiful they are very abundant so much so that lots of old ugly guys like me end up being married to them. Supply and demand ... to many beautiful woman to few handsome men so us ugly guys get more than our share

All comes down to supply and demand..nothing to do with submissiveness or anything else

I 2nd this!!

[DanielParul 50]

The Phillipines have the most beautiful women in the world and not only are they the most beautiful they are very abundant so much so that lots of old ugly guys like me end up being married to them. Supply and demand ... to many beautiful woman to few handsome men so us ugly guys get more than our share

All comes down to supply and demand..nothing to do with submissiveness or anything else

Good for you! Hope they can keep up the supply to meet the demand and the price doesn't go up.

[missmissy 38]

Now, I HAVE to get some work done! People are buying houses today and I have closings this week. Have a great one!

That's good news for the economy. Are house sales picking up lately?

Yes, things here are picking up. But, in Mississippi, we didn't suffer the really awful drop that most of the rest of the nation did. 2008 was a good year for me.

[almaty 19]

touche and pwned..

[Rocky_nBullwinkle 6]

http://newsgroups.derkeiler.com/Archive/So...6/msg00026.html

Brutal Truth Dating Advice to Asian American Men (by my consultant)

* From: "Eclectic007@xxxxxxxxx" <Eclectic007@xxxxxxxxx>

* Date: Tue, 26 Jun 2007 07:49:00 -0700

www.happierabroad.com/Advice_Asian_Men.htm

Brutal Truth Dating Advice to Asian American Men (by my consultant)

It is no secret now that Asian men in America have

problems dating. There have been several programs on

TV already describing the fact that as an Asian man,

you have harder time finding a mate than your

Caucasian, African-American or Hispanic counterparts.

There have been articles in magazines and newspapers

addressing the same problem and describing its causes

(and effects). Few such programs or articles, however,

offer solutions to such men, and many still find

themselves lonely and bitter, although sometimes

pitied. However, more often than not, they simply end

up lonesome and dateless.

The deal seems to be this: Many Caucasian women in the

US do not find Asian American men manly enough to

consider them dating material. Many Asian women also

prefer Caucasian men, and the ones who prefer Asian

men, are apparently not enough to go around.

The US media often portrays Asian men as dorky

buffoons, skinny and freaky martial arts experts,

mathematics nerds, clumsy immigrants with mangled

English of the 'flied lice' variety", noodle shop

cooks or laundry managers, and not as being as

powerful and confident as White or African American

males, or as romantic as Hispanic men. Plus,

throughout the history of the US, Asian countries were

enemies whose males were to be killed on the

battlefield, and whose women were to be taken home to

mom as war brides after their men lie dead in the

jungle or at the bottom of the sea.

In other cases, Asian countries were often suppliers

of poor workers or indigent immigrants of all kinds to

provide cheap labors in developed, most often

Caucasian countries. Also, in the past, Asian

Americans, period, were victims of serious

discrimination coming from the government, a practice

which has since been abolished but whose residues

still haunt Asian men even today as they are not seen

as fully American by the US society. None of the above

has helped to create an image of a virile and

dependable Asian male, a potentially desirable mate

for American women to date and marry.

With the great improvements in Civil Rights, and the

general feeling of guilt coming from mainstream

population groups (whoever they may be) the situation

of the Asian minority has improved significantly, for

sure. The pejorative word "Oriental" has been stricken

down from printed materials and is avoided in daily

speech. The proud term "Asian American" has been born.

Asian men are in the government and politics, they run

successful businesses, they are achievers in the field

of science and technology, law and medicine However,

as far as American women of all colors seeing an Asian

American man as a preferred dating and marriage

partner goes, the state of affairs still leaves a lot

to be desired. In short, if you are an Asian man in

America, citizen or not, native-born or not, fluent in

English or not, rich or poor, you will have problems

dating ladies there.

Those Asian men, who feel that they are being

discriminated against on the US love market, resort to

several ways of dealing with the problem:

1) Ignoring it and playing the numbers game. If one

goes through enough dating ads, attends enough parties

and invites enough women out, there will be a number

of women who will want to date, and possibly have a

serious relationship with you. The men who go down the

path of copious dating and selection will disregard

any flak that comes their way in the process, and come

out winners in the end. That is a good strategy except

that it is not very likely that one could end up with

a high quality female partner in the end if one stops

his search too early. If one still continues dating,

ignores numerous rejections, and sieves through any

unreliable partners that appear in the process, one

will end up with a prize- a good and honest woman to

be one's companion in life. But boy, it is going to

take a really long time, believe me!

It is a rather daunting course of action, and is

not suitable for every Asian man, especially not for

those who come from a background that emphasizes

modesty and non-aggressiveness.

2) Developing a complex and hatred of American men of

other races, particularly those of the Caucasian race,

and writing articles and posts on the Internet

newsgroups and bulletin boards complaining about lack

of dates and the prejudice against Asian American men.

Interviews with commiserating media and videos on

youtube.com also become a vent for the frustrations of

such men. The hope is that the US society will change

and they will suddenly become accepted and welcomed as

romantic companions and more. This approach, while a

good therapy for one's psychological state, is still

not very effective in procuring potential dates any

time in the near future. In the end, one is either

angry and militaristically racist, and supported only

by other frustrated Asian men, or one is felt sorry

for. In both cases, one still often remains dateless.

3) Bringing a female partner from the Old Country.

For some reason, this approach is seen as un-cool by a

big number of Asian American men. They see it as a

step back, and feel that a woman from the Old Country

will become a burden on the already Americanized

husband, what with her old-fashioned customs and

behavior which will interfere with the further

acceptance of the couple and their children into the

American society. Only very traditional, mature in

age, or religious Asian men seem to opt for that

route; not the majority of the Asian male population

of the country.

4) Finally, there has recently been a trend among US

citizens of Asian extraction to date internationally.

One can call this trend Romantic

Multi-Nationalization. What happens is that after

having discovered the US love market to be of

unsatisfactory performance in the area of providing

them with dating opportunities, such men have decided

to cross oceans and date in other countries. They have

finally had the courage to claim a very important

truth: It is not their fault that the US society has

such stereotypes of them. It is not their fault that

Hollywood often portrays them as emasculated persons

who are not worthy of being admired by the opposite

sex. It is really the fault of the modern (and past)

US culture and the media which reflects it. Also,

since the Hollywood culture has infused its

stereotypes into many other countries making things

harder for Asian men all over the English-speaking

world, one needs to find a culture in which such

stereotypes have not yet spoiled things for Asian men.

The trend of Asian Americans traveling to other

nations in search of romantic opportunities is growing

as they are now discovering huge areas on Earth where

they are seen for what most of them truly are:

diligent, intelligent, honest and dependable Americans

with excellent work and business ethics, a great deal

of talent, gentleman-ness, decency and a sense of

responsibility that should make any female proud.

Also, in many countries the stereotypes of Asian men

are very positive to begin with. They are seen as

smart, sexy, brave, adventurous and as excellent

providers, too. They are not viewed as poor

immigrants running noodle shops, but as progressive

and confident modern Alfa-males. Yes, it is true. Go

to such places and see for yourself.

International dating also allows an Asian man to

finally meet numerous Caucasian women who look like

Hollywood actresses, and who will be happy to be

involved with the man romantically and look up to him

If you are an Asian American man, I would urge you to

explore this past option. However, you will need to

know where to go. The world is a big place and it

would make little sense to leave the US and go to,

say, England or Australia. Or China for that matter-

what with its huge surplus of men. It would not be

easy for you to compete with an army of several

million bachelors scouting the Chinese countryside in

search of brides.

The best places for Asian men are probably the

following:

Thailand, Philippines, Vietnam, Cambodia and even

Malaysia. Go there will allow such men to discover

their true potential as respected and dignified dating

and marriage partners. Asian guys coming from the US

are highly sought after as husbands and lovers (even

more so than Caucasian guys), and, upon arriving in

those places, they will enjoy high status and be

treated extremely well by the local female population.

In Europe, it seems that the countries whose

ethnicities have had a high admixture of Asian "blood"

(Tat-C chromosome) through past Asian migrations

there, welcome Asian men in ways that the US ( or

British, Australian, Canadian and any other society

founded by British settlers) never has. Large areas in

Eastern Europe, in particular, the Baltic countries of

Estonia and Lithuania (currently EU members), have

shown to be very accepting and friendly to American

Asian males, and is a place where a growing number of

such travelers have been able to find incredible

opportunities for social life and romance. Many Asian

men's previously almost unattainable dream of finding

a "gorgeous blond and blue-eyed girlfriend", has came

true with ease as soon as they started dating in those

countries.

Belarus is another country where Asian men, even those

who are not American, have been able to feel accepted,

and where they have enjoyed good treatment and many

new possibilities for abundant "romancing".

Parts of Russia and other CIS countries (outside of

Moscow and St. Petersburg) have also been described as

very good for such Asian men although the growing

Fascist element in the country is making it more and

more dangerous for foreigners by the year. Still, if

one knows his way around these places, one will do

very well there and be able to avoid trouble in the

process.

Parts of Brazil, according to some sources, have

proven to be excellent, and some Asian men have been

able to mingle freely with the local population and

date beautiful women there.

France is another country in which Asian men (those

who can speak French- a necessity there) have reported

that they have been treated quite well by the local

females. They were finally able to date as normal

human beings should, and, quite possibly, get married

as normal human beings should. Upon arrival in the US,

however, they would more often than not again face

ostracism from the majority of the US women.

Yes, this ostracism seems to be a sad reality for many

an Asian man in the "Anglo Saxon" world, and it is

high time for decisive steps be taken to solve that

insidious problem. Waiting around until the attitudes

and stereotypes of the American society change for the

better (which may take decades) does not seem to be an

effective technique of solving it. Hence, such love

travel appears to be a surgically efficient way of

dealing with it.

So, maybe it is time to do some research, save up some

money and buy that ticket. You will be able to solve

the dateless-ness and gloom that many Asian guys face

in America by living in more than one country. Unless

you look like the Hunchback of Notredame or are the

Elephant Man, the success is virtually guaranteed

because quite a few Asian men are already doing the

same and are reporting excellent results.

It may not be an easy path to take, but the rewards

will be tremendous. You may have to learn new

languages, new rules and customs, and whole new ways

of life. However, your own life will be rewarding

beyond your wildest dreams. The only very important

condition that you need to fulfill is to be able to

support yourself while on the go, which is becoming

more and more possible with the help of the Internet

and the general globalization of the business

environment. Becoming a computer programmer online,

running a money-making website, living off rents, and

doing similar things whereby you are able to create a

cash flow from anywhere in the world, will liberate

you from having to be located in the US all the time

and depending on the unfriendly ( to you) US ( or the

UK, Australian, etc.) love market.

Life in many countries of the world is now very

similar to life in the US. The rest of the world is

now becoming developed and very similar to America in

terms of the variety of products, services and

business opportunities. You may even, one day, wish to

open a business in one of those countries. One only

need to dare to leave one's 9-5 job in the US as one's

romantic future does not seem to bode well for one who

dates there. Also, it would be better if one started

out as young as possible lest one end up a frustrated

middle-aged man who has missed his chance.

So, if you are an Asian American man (or a citizen of

any other immigrant nation such as Australia, Canada,

NZ, or even the UK), and you feel that life and love

are passing you by, do not become despondent.

Internationalize yourself! You will soon be living a

life that you truly deserve to live.

Careful! Some Bruce Lee type might just whip your butt!

[Chica Yeyé 41]

The Phillipines have the most beautiful women in the world and not only are they the most beautiful they are very abundant so much so that lots of old ugly guys like me end up being married to them. Supply and demand ... to many beautiful woman to few handsome men so us ugly guys get more than our share

All comes down to supply and demand..nothing to do with submissiveness or anything else

, but not surprising at all.

Supply and demand.... heard that one before. Where was it? Oh yes, in human trafficking lingo.

[morocco4ever 63]

The Phillipines have the most beautiful women in the world and not only are they the most beautiful they are very abundant so much so that lots of old ugly guys like me end up being married to them. Supply and demand ... to many beautiful woman to few handsome men so us ugly guys get more than our share

All comes down to supply and demand..nothing to do with submissiveness or anything else

Good for you! Hope they can keep up the supply to meet the demand and the price doesn't go up.

I am so glad I wasn't the only person to see the humor in this post. And to think that I was looking for someone to love that I was compatible with. Boy did I have it wrong, silly me.

[sweet_wifey22 0]

Gaaaaaaaaaa!!!!

Not another one of these frickin threads.

OP....shaddup. Stop stirring up trouble.

Ladies.....we are allllll beautiful, in our own special and UNIQUE ways. Shocker there and wouldnt you know it, we are all different. So I would thank you OP not to marginalize american, fillipino, brazillian, spanish, british, martian and jupitarian women.

BLA BLA BLA....

[DEDixon 39]

I thank American women for taking care of the kids even as she has a career just as demanding as her husband.

I thank American women for taking care of the kids after divorcing even as she has a career just as demanding as her ex-husband.

I'm ashamed of American men who say "I want custody of my kids" on the way out the front door only to return to pick up the kids every other weekend. (I advocate joint custody, 1 week with mom and 1 week with dad and no support payments... gives mom a life... gives the kids a real dad.)

I'm ashamed of America men who leave their first family only to start a second family and then fall short with time and financial support because of the second family.

Okay, some American men might jump on me for they didn't do this or haven't done it yet (way to go!!!). I think the statistics concerning this issue are in my favor, however.

There is a lot of negative that could be said about both American men and American women - the above negative is what disturbs me the most about America men or any other man in the world. Even in the face of divorce, kids that you created should always be primary in one's life, put above everything else for they are our future. Kids need more than every other weekend from their father.

Again, thanks to American women and women all over the world for taking care of our children.

[rockhouse 1]

I thank American women for taking care of the kids even as she has a career just as demanding as her husband.

I thank American women for taking care of the kids after divorcing even as she has a career just as demanding as her ex-husband.

I'm ashamed of American men who say "I want custody of my kids" on the way out the front door only to return to pick up the kids every other weekend. (I advocate joint custody, 1 week with mom and 1 week with dad and no support payments... gives mom a life... gives the kids a real dad.)

I'm ashamed of America men who leave their first family only to start a second family and then fall short with time and financial support because of the second family.

Okay, some American men might jump on me for they didn't do this or haven't done it yet (way to go!!!). I think the statistics concerning this issue are in my favor, however.

There is a lot of negative that could be said about both American men and American women - the above negative is what disturbs me the most about America men or any other man in the world. Even in the face of divorce, kids that you created should always be primary in one's life, put above everything else for they are our future. Kids need more than every other weekend from their father.

Again, thanks to American women and women all over the world for taking care of our children.

I honestly have known more women that have run out on their children than men. Either that or wreck the family through cheating....i know it happens with men too, but thats just my 2 cents.

[Y's_habibitk 2]

I have found the promise land, and now i share it with my friends.

:blink: :blink: :blink:

me too

Here's the deal. There are plenty of american men that are perfectly happy with their american women. If you have always found "bad" american women...guess what? YOU are the common denominator.

I would like to know how the wives/finaces feel about their husbands/men saying..."i just love phillipino women,they are the best!", instead of... I love the woman I found, she is from the phillipines.

It would kinda of cheapen the feeling of being special and loved for who you are, instead it sounds like...oh i scored one, like it didnt matter which one. just my opinion