American Woman Bitter and Lonely?!

[missmissy 38]

[mrsartis 10]

another topic of hateration,.,

dont hate just congratulate,, demn, i havent heard this line in a long time.. still the message is clear.. dont hate..

and please stop making topics that are sensitive.. issues that are better left unspoken and need not start an argument about them... seriously..

[missmissy 38]

Now, I HAVE to get some work done! People are buying houses today and I have closings this week. Have a great one!

[Rocky_nBullwinkle 6]

When your girlfriend really needed to talk to you during the game, she'd appear in a little box in the corner of the screen during a time-out.

That is why it was probably a woman that invented TIVO. (Pause live action!) Now, it is up to men to develope a remote to fast-forward through a woman's conversation!

--Bullwinkle

[Amby 490]

First off American Woman are jealous of each other.

Then if they see a Pinay, they tend to be jealous cuz the Pinay has a sexy body and natural beauty that they don't posses.

American Woman is independence, to a point it hurts them. Why are so many on anti depressant drugs?

We have gotten to a point in USA where we are so politcally correct, Woman are put on pedestal in USA, and men are taught to take care of them.

You will see a fat and ugly woman in USA, and there is so man who is willing to kill for her.

Court systems and family court are sided to the Female.

You can hear an American woman get angry and tell her husband, I will Divorce you and take everything you own. How many time has a man told this to a woman, the answer is never.

I know a man that did that to his wife...too bad he got nothing

[Pinay Wife 47]

Now, I HAVE to get some work done! People are buying houses today and I have closings this week. Have a great one!

That's good news for the economy. Are house sales picking up lately?

Im not Pinay, and im not an American woman, but I would say that it is beyond silly to generalise that one set as submissive slave and the other bitter and lonely. If i have much sense, i should just stay away from this thread (but it makes such fun crazy read honestly: and how telling it is to read the way some American men putting down American women, and if my hubby has such a character i wouldnt have married him anyways) but what the h3ll, why not jump in on the fun ehh?

My best friends and ex-colleagues are Pinays, a few even came all the way to my wedding, and these women are no pushovers. They are smart, independent, politically savvy, feminist women. Some of them are awesome mothers with great husbands, some of them are single. Only one married to an American man, and another to an Aussie. If/when they marry, they tend to marry late in the 20s or 30s, rather than when they are giggly 20 year olds. The men they marry (or have relationship with) are compatible with them in terms of values as well as world view.

Reading many threads here, i tend to agree that some American men do indeed think the way Mykuls/Michael said above. Anyways, kudos to these men to find exactly the women suitable for their own temperament and expectation in such a huge archipelago. LOL. I would think also that it helps that the women (or their family) are mostly staunch Catholics, so there's no such thing as divorce and annulment are costly. This definitely forces (or deeply ingrained) in the couples to work harder at the relationship. It takes a lot like abandonment and the likes for them to seek annulment. Either the women comes from very well off families, or the new American fiance pay for it.

I would take issue with the misconception re feminism equates to male hating, but never mind that. In the end, most men and women anywhere in the world want companionship and love. For some it takes longer, farther and less conventional ways. That doesnt diminish the fact that we have faith and hope in love and in life. And that in itself is a very attractive character that has no nationality.

Good post!

[noel_jas 0]

i don't understand why the OP would start sensitive topic such as this. if you prefer to marry filipina women then you can just tell her good qualities and stop criticizing american women in a public forum such as VJ. what if your marriage with a filipina did not work out, are you also going to criticize her the way you criticized your american ex?

[tmma 467]

i don't understand why the OP would start sensitive topic such as this. if you prefer to marry filipina women then you can just tell her good qualities and stop criticizing american women in a public forum such as VJ. what if your marriage with a filipina did not work out, are you also going to criticize her the way you criticized your american ex?

[macutelit 0]

i don't understand why the OP would start sensitive topic such as this. if you prefer to marry filipina women then you can just tell her good qualities and stop criticizing american women in a public forum such as VJ. what if your marriage with a filipina did not work out, are you also going to criticize her the way you criticized your american ex?

You are right!!!

[Y's_habibitk 2]

"american men, not strong enough for american women?" would that be an interesting thread?

[morocco4ever 63]

i don't understand why the OP would start sensitive topic such as this. if you prefer to marry filipina women then you can just tell her good qualities and stop criticizing american women in a public forum such as VJ. what if your marriage with a filipina did not work out, are you also going to criticize her the way you criticized your american ex?

Thank you for pointing this out. There are always 2 sides to every story. I don't mind the teasing comments, such as Charles', it's all in good fun. But this stereotyping is insane. I am glad to see that there are some men and pinay (I hope I am saying that correctly) that can read between the lines.

[morocco4ever 63]

"american men, not strong enough for american women?" would that be an interesting thread?

You and I come from the MENA forum that is filled with women that are married to Arab men. I don't see threads like this, trashing american men, just to justify our choice in a spouse. What would be the point? Have some of us had bad experiences with an american man? You can bet on it. Then why don't we trash them? Mainly because we have been able to move on.

[Laura+Tom 2]

"american men, not strong enough for american women?" would that be an interesting thread?

You and I come from the MENA forum that is filled with women that are married to Arab men. I don't see threads like this, trashing american men, just to justify our choice in a spouse. What would be the point? Have some of us had bad experiences with an american man? You can bet on it. Then why don't we trash them? Mainly because we have been able to move on.

One of the few quotes that makes sense this whole thread

[Ellie-and-David 38]

Gaaaaaaaaaa!!!!

Not another one of these frickin threads.

OP....shaddup. Stop stirring up trouble.

Ladies.....we are allllll beautiful, in our own special and UNIQUE ways. Shocker there and wouldnt you know it, we are all different. So I would thank you OP not to marginalize american, fillipino, brazillian, spanish, british, martian and jupitarian women.

BLA BLA BLA....

[Imua 0]

"american men, not strong enough for american women?" would that be an interesting thread?

You and I come from the MENA forum that is filled with women that are married to Arab men. I don't see threads like this, trashing american men, just to justify our choice in a spouse. What would be the point? Have some of us had bad experiences with an american man? You can bet on it. Then why don't we trash them? Mainly because we have been able to move on.