Yardies at home and Farrin (part12)

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Sorry Jakeswife, I hit the wrong buttons.

[jakeswife 0]

I heard them speaking different to each other. No one ever clarified that it was called patois (thanx Hotlegz). I just thought it was called Jamaican. I don't know anything about the Jamaican culture. I'm sorry for not knowing. GForce just laughs at most of my questions. He said he will teach me when he gets home to me.

I guess I'll sign off now. Thanks for all your help. Leila

this is serious it's no joke..the rest of ur lives..tell him he needs to stop laughing

Is this a real poster? Seriously? I went back to catch up after I calmed down about my situation. Do you think it is the other girl that ran off...the one with the sister? Timeline fits...I think.

ok so i did my home work i check the link to catch up with unnu gossip and i see that someone is overly oblivious to what they are getting into. am i on board here or far off?

I was lost too.

I will withhold my opinion because I don't have the freedom to chat like the rest of you. I think she is serious though.

BeautifulBaby...Leila...BB...just stay in prayer. Ask your fiance' to be real and answer all your questions. You have a huge cultural gap. It is not impossible...even if others make you feel it is. There are some that were just as lost when they started...welcome to VJ and the yardie forum.

ok..mi glad u no lost more wid jake

ok mi neva mean eidiat in the literal term cuz mi no knoa har..mi just hope she get wid di culture soon..mi deh fi ansa anybody question if mi can..if not mi forward dem to Jawi !!

kimmy u neva hear mi tell you not to answa the lost part

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Nells, you need to put him on dontdatehimgirl.com

HUh?

[jakeswife 0]

Nells, you need to put him on dontdatehimgirl.com

HUh?

huh again

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ok..mi glad u no lost more wid jake

ok mi neva mean eidiat in the literal term cuz mi no knoa har..mi just hope she get wid di culture soon..mi deh fi ansa anybody question if mi can..if not mi forward dem to Jawi !!

kimmy u neva hear mi tell you not to answa the lost part

[jakeswife 0]

ok..mi glad u no lost more wid jake

ok mi neva mean eidiat in the literal term cuz mi no knoa har..mi just hope she get wid di culture soon..mi deh fi ansa anybody question if mi can..if not mi forward dem to Jawi !!

kimmy u neva hear mi tell you not to answa the lost part

so kimmy you ask you duaghters permission fi tun dem inna celebrity. u see how tahlia look like she a sey"" oh bwoy mi feel violated"" mine she sue you in the future fi expose har to the public

[jawi876 2]

I heard them speaking different to each other. No one ever clarified that it was called patois (thanx Hotlegz). I just thought it was called Jamaican. I don't know anything about the Jamaican culture. I'm sorry for not knowing. GForce just laughs at most of my questions. He said he will teach me when he gets home to me.

I guess I'll sign off now. Thanks for all your help. Leila

this is serious it's no joke..the rest of ur lives..tell him he needs to stop laughing

Is this a real poster? Seriously? I went back to catch up after I calmed down about my situation. Do you think it is the other girl that ran off...the one with the sister? Timeline fits...I think.

ok so i did my home work i check the link to catch up with unnu gossip and i see that someone is overly oblivious to what they are getting into. am i on board here or far off?

I was lost too.

I will withhold my opinion because I don't have the freedom to chat like the rest of you. I think she is serious though.

BeautifulBaby...Leila...BB...just stay in prayer. Ask your fiance' to be real and answer all your questions. You have a huge cultural gap. It is not impossible...even if others make you feel it is. There are some that were just as lost when they started...welcome to VJ and the yardie forum.

ok..mi glad u no lost more wid jake

ok mi neva mean eidiat in the literal term cuz mi no knoa har..mi just hope she get wid di culture soon..mi deh fi ansa anybody question if mi can..if not mi forward dem to Jawi !!

Eeehhhnnn. I'm a little shocked at all the people making fun of her though. How many of us on here can say after the first or second trip, you really knew all about Jamaican culture and patois? Not, including our Jamaican residents. Heck, some of you still don't know it.

When I posted to the other woman to take her time...it was too harsh...it wasn't welcoming. We ran her off. But, you guys feel okay to talk about her and make jokes...sounds a little hypocritical to me. *shrug* I guess.

Again, me nuh beg friend...but oonu need fe check yuhselves.

[sus 70]

Eeehhhnnn. I'm a little shocked at all the people making fun of her though. How many of us on here can say after the first or second trip, you really knew all about Jamaican culture and patois? Not, including our Jamaican residents. Heck, some of you still don't know it.

When I posted to the other woman to take her time...it was too harsh...it wasn't welcoming. We ran her off. But, you guys feel okay to talk about her and make jokes...sounds a little hypocritical to me. *shrug* I guess.

Again, me nuh beg friend...but oonu need fe check yuhselves.

I agree Jawi - we all know how easy it is to get caught up in the island romance - this is a great place to learn the good and the bad, the ups and the downs and become more informed -

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Eeehhhnnn. I'm a little shocked at all the people making fun of her though. How many of us on here can say after the first or second trip, you really knew all about Jamaican culture and patois? Not, including our Jamaican residents. Heck, some of you still don't know it.

When I posted to the other woman to take her time...it was too harsh...it wasn't welcoming. We ran her off. But, you guys feel okay to talk about her and make jokes...sounds a little hypocritical to me. *shrug* I guess.

Again, me nuh beg friend...but oonu need fe check yuhselves.

larks!!!...u want mi call yuh r u in too much pain..

WHO DA CAP FITS..LET THEM WEAR IT...

Eeehhhnnn. I'm a little shocked at all the people making fun of her though. How many of us on here can say after the first or second trip, you really knew all about Jamaican culture and patois? Not, including our Jamaican residents. Heck, some of you still don't know it.

When I posted to the other woman to take her time...it was too harsh...it wasn't welcoming. We ran her off. But, you guys feel okay to talk about her and make jokes...sounds a little hypocritical to me. *shrug* I guess.

Again, me nuh beg friend...but oonu need fe check yuhselves.

I agree Jawi - we all know how easy it is to get caught up in the island romance - this is a great place to learn the good and the bad, the ups and the downs and become more informed -

OF COURSE..

and 1st laugh at the ignorance...

Jake dem a go pay mi..fi mi hard work getting these pics done..heheee

[jakeswife 0]

I heard them speaking different to each other. No one ever clarified that it was called patois (thanx Hotlegz). I just thought it was called Jamaican. I don't know anything about the Jamaican culture. I'm sorry for not knowing. GForce just laughs at most of my questions. He said he will teach me when he gets home to me.

I guess I'll sign off now. Thanks for all your help. Leila

this is serious it's no joke..the rest of ur lives..tell him he needs to stop laughing

Is this a real poster? Seriously? I went back to catch up after I calmed down about my situation. Do you think it is the other girl that ran off...the one with the sister? Timeline fits...I think.

ok so i did my home work i check the link to catch up with unnu gossip and i see that someone is overly oblivious to what they are getting into. am i on board here or far off?

I was lost too.

I will withhold my opinion because I don't have the freedom to chat like the rest of you. I think she is serious though.

BeautifulBaby...Leila...BB...just stay in prayer. Ask your fiance' to be real and answer all your questions. You have a huge cultural gap. It is not impossible...even if others make you feel it is. There are some that were just as lost when they started...welcome to VJ and the yardie forum.

ok mi neva mean eidiat in the literal term cuz mi no knoa har..mi just hope she get wid di culture soon..mi deh fi ansa anybody question if mi can..if not mi forward dem to Jawi !!

Eeehhhnnn. I'm a little shocked at all the people making fun of her though. How many of us on here can say after the first or second trip, you really knew all about Jamaican culture and patois? Not, including our Jamaican residents. Heck, some of you still don't know it.

When I posted to the other woman to take her time...it was too harsh...it wasn't welcoming. We ran her off. But, you guys feel okay to talk about her and make jokes...sounds a little hypocritical to me. *shrug* I guess.

Again, me nuh beg friend...but oonu need fe check yuhselves.

ok here is my take. jawi it's one thing to find a site just to get a little insight but it's a whole different thing when u know absolutley nothing but still doing something that will no doubt affect your life. mind u i agree that a lot of us on here should empathize cause they were in that situation a while ago but to be honest what she knows now is sooooooooo miniscule for her to be taking on whatever she will be taking on and to have the perspective that she holds of him carrying his weight is so contrary to what she is doing because when the filing is over she will be carrying his weight for a minute and that seems to be a problem for her already even though she did acknowledge it.

Edited January 19, 2009 by jakeswife

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ok..mi get so pissed at mi co-worker today..short story.she know har son a cheap on do girl him get pregnant..di girl find out..starts going crazy..seh she nah mek him si him chil when it born!! den mi co-worker a chat bout di gyal a start things..if she can't just be pregnant..ok #######!! see a women like she mek dem bwoy pickney act like dem ###### no stink and can treat women all sort a ways...she seh him don't want him baby modda him just want di baby ..ok wow...she knew he has been cheating on the girl.mi just affi remind her she is a woman !

[Marlita 0]

Eeehhhnnn. I'm a little shocked at all the people making fun of her though. How many of us on here can say after the first or second trip, you really knew all about Jamaican culture and patois? Not, including our Jamaican residents. Heck, some of you still don't know it.

When I posted to the other woman to take her time...it was too harsh...it wasn't welcoming. We ran her off. But, you guys feel okay to talk about her and make jokes...sounds a little hypocritical to me. *shrug* I guess.

Again, me nuh beg friend...but oonu need fe check yuhselves.

I agree Jawi - we all know how easy it is to get caught up in the island romance - this is a great place to learn the good and the bad, the ups and the downs and become more informed -

Ok, I just wanted to know if this was for real cause it seemed a little crazy to me...thats all I'm saying. I think its seems odd to be marrying a person that you seem to not know much about where they come from thats all. Yes lots of folks learned alot while on here, but they were just dating right, not about to commit to the person forever. I REALLY thought this was a troll.

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Jake, I agree..to not even kow that Jamaicans speak Patois..come on! U have to have some kind of knowledge..I guess i give her props for wanting to learn as babdly as she does. Does hse even understand that Jamaica is a high fraud country?

Eeehhhnnn. I'm a little shocked at all the people making fun of her though. How many of us on here can say after the first or second trip, you really knew all about Jamaican culture and patois? Not, including our Jamaican residents. Heck, some of you still don't know it.

When I posted to the other woman to take her time...it was too harsh...it wasn't welcoming. We ran her off. But, you guys feel okay to talk about her and make jokes...sounds a little hypocritical to me. *shrug* I guess.

Again, me nuh beg friend...but oonu need fe check yuhselves.

I agree Jawi - we all know how easy it is to get caught up in the island romance - this is a great place to learn the good and the bad, the ups and the downs and become more informed -

Ok, I just wanted to know if this was for real cause it seemed a little crazy to me...thats all I'm saying. I think its seems odd to be marrying a person that you seem to not know much about where they come from thats all. Yes lots of folks learned alot while on here, but they were just dating right, not about to commit to the person forever. I REALLY thought this was a troll.

hmmm...we don't know that can only speak for myself

[sus 70]

I heard them speaking different to each other. No one ever clarified that it was called patois (thanx Hotlegz). I just thought it was called Jamaican. I don't know anything about the Jamaican culture. I'm sorry for not knowing. GForce just laughs at most of my questions. He said he will teach me when he gets home to me.

I guess I'll sign off now. Thanks for all your help. Leila

this is serious it's no joke..the rest of ur lives..tell him he needs to stop laughing

Is this a real poster? Seriously? I went back to catch up after I calmed down about my situation. Do you think it is the other girl that ran off...the one with the sister? Timeline fits...I think.

ok so i did my home work i check the link to catch up with unnu gossip and i see that someone is overly oblivious to what they are getting into. am i on board here or far off?

I was lost too.

I will withhold my opinion because I don't have the freedom to chat like the rest of you. I think she is serious though.

BeautifulBaby...Leila...BB...just stay in prayer. Ask your fiance' to be real and answer all your questions. You have a huge cultural gap. It is not impossible...even if others make you feel it is. There are some that were just as lost when they started...welcome to VJ and the yardie forum.

ok mi neva mean eidiat in the literal term cuz mi no knoa har..mi just hope she get wid di culture soon..mi deh fi ansa anybody question if mi can..if not mi forward dem to Jawi !!

Eeehhhnnn. I'm a little shocked at all the people making fun of her though. How many of us on here can say after the first or second trip, you really knew all about Jamaican culture and patois? Not, including our Jamaican residents. Heck, some of you still don't know it.

When I posted to the other woman to take her time...it was too harsh...it wasn't welcoming. We ran her off. But, you guys feel okay to talk about her and make jokes...sounds a little hypocritical to me. *shrug* I guess.

Again, me nuh beg friend...but oonu need fe check yuhselves.

ok here is my take. jawi it's one thing to find a site just to get a little insight but it's a whole different thing when u know absolutley nothing but still doing something that will no doubt affect your life. mind u i agree that a lot of us on here should empathize cause they were in that situation a while ago but to be honest what she knows now is sooooooooo miniscule for her to be taking on whatever she will be taking on and to have the perspective that she holds of him carrying his weight is so contrary to what she is doing because when the filing is over she will be carrying his weight for a minute and that seems to be a problem for her already even though she did acknowledge it.

ok..mi glad u no lost more wid jake

Okay, I am too lazy to delete out some of the posts - I agree with you Jake - but, Only the two people in the relationship and God can judge. I have a friend that dove into a relationship, and moved halfway around the world after 6 weeks of meeting - they have been married ten years and are the happiest couple I know - another couple that has been married 5 years next month after a short courtship - My sister married 18 months to the day she met her hubby - they have been married 17 years.

I think that sometimes we jump to quick to assume someone's a troll - believe it or not, there are many out there who don't know anything about the Jamaican culture - if BB is serious about this relationship, then it's up to her to research and learn - And, as fellow women, I would hope that we can be there to help that.

[Marie876 0]

idk Jawi...If I met a man and was interested in a lifelong relationship with him and he spoke differently than I did, I would have asked him what language he was speaking...but then again mi fass

but I did apologize BB and let her know we're here to help

Edited January 20, 2009 by Marie87