Yardies at home and Farrin (part12)

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

Claire, it amazing the number of people that is on the Mall, the crowd is huge. P.S, isn't it time for Steve Wonder to cut those braid, his hairline has receeded alsomt to the back od his head.

Loved Buno

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Claire, it amazing the number of people that is on the Mall, the crowd is huge. P.S, isn't it time for Steve Wonder to cut those braid, his hairline has receeded alsomt to the back od his head.

Loved Buno

me and you are thinking the same thing about stevie

[Ryon4life 0]

Hey ladies! How are you all. I haven't caught up so forgive me. I have a quick question. My girlfriend of over 15 years was telling me that she could never marry a man that wasn't the bread winner in the household. She wants a man that makes more money than her, regardless of love.

I know that a lot of us deal with the fact that our SO make less money than we do, at least in the beginning. How do you deal/cope with the fact that you will have to be the primary bread winner in the family? How does your SO cope with the fact that he makes less money? I have heard that alot of Jamaican men tell stories of coming to farrin, only to find themselves being manipulated, controlled, and made sex slaves all because they do not make the same or more money. Did your SO have those types of doubts? If so, how did you overcome it? Do you think it will become a source of contention in your marriage? Why or why not?

With my first husband, he made less than me starting out as an apprentice for heating & air. But, he quickly began to match my salary. I tried to teach him how to manage his money...how to budget...how to write checks...how to manage paying bills. He was a procrastinator, and started paying bills late. So after me losing it a couple of times, he was happier just putting his entire check on the dresser for me to sort out. I HATED it because I wanted some of the daily pressure off of me. With me being a smart #######...I began to spend the entire amount...barely leaving enough for his lunch and gas money. I told him, you will figure it out the easy way with my help, or you will learn the hard way. Now, after so many years, he thanks me for teaching him how to manage his money.

hello, this is a good topic b/c it's one of the things we all may have in common on VJ.

mi still trying to deal....

How so Rayon? Are you arguing? Is is causing strife on your side or his side or both?

both

this topic makes me sad b/c i love and respect him so much

i recently found out that the reason why i did not go visit his home and his mother came to the hotel on my last visit was b/c the current/electric was off.

we are currently in disagreement about why he did not just tell me.

he said that i have enough worry b/c of my son (special needs) and he will never add to my stress

i do not agree

[scubapam 0]

Jawi....I like your post on money and potential issues regarding who makes mroe and who makes less.

Aeon and I have not broached that topic and I can only hope that it will never be a challenge. I knew many years ago that I would likely never marry a man that made more money that me and have never had an issue with that. Due to my profession and career level it is unlikely that Aeon would ever make more money than me and I am completely fine with that. I would never make it an issue in our relationship and Aeon knows that. At this stage in our lives we married for much more that monetary stature. Our relationship is built on things that have nothing to do with money.

[scubapam 0]

Good evening ladies....I'm catching up since last night.

Nice day today....tried out a new church this morning and took a nice walk on the beach. Made BBQ chicken tonight on the grill that impressed hubby.

scubapam

i wanted to tell you last week that i love your pic. i ate lunch over the phone with my SO today - it is not the same as grilling. trying sharing your food over the phone - i had pizza and he had chicken and rice...

Thank you!

We've done the food over the phone thing briefly. I hear you!

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Regarding the boots topic, i got every boot you can imagine, glow in the dark, flavored, ribbed, feathered, flower scented, vibrating boots, womens boots, mens boots, whatever you need i got. i got two boys to raise and they need there mom, no hood/wood/####### is worth me dying for.

I know... I was rolling at your recount of buying the vibrating ones. I could see you looking all nervous and sweaty just from buying vibrating condoms.

Hey all!

Jawi you brought up a good point. This goes with LDR or not

Me and Lance always strap up. If he doesnt have a condom I send him to buy one at a shop. I don't play when it comes to my sexual health because I do NOT want to end up a statistic. No offense to anyone but I don't believe in the whole pulling out thing. When I was 15 one of my friends got pregnant and she said "but he pulled out!" I learned in health class that the ####### produces pre-ejaculation which contains semen...the exact reason for how my friend got pregnant. I know everyone is different and there is a "whatever floats your boat" ideal that is very popular on the thread but this is just my 2 cents.

Here! Here! Marie. Pre-ejaculation has the most potent sperm count. I know that condoms are not 100% protection (I got pregnant with my first son because the condom popped and the SOB didn't want to stop)...I know that counting on my absetinence is not 100% either...so I will deal with the condoms any day. I always have enough condoms to supply the hotel. LOL...

I also don't think a lot of people will really be honest here...and will give answers that are good PR. But, I'm glad to hear that those of us on here tonight care enough to wear boots.

don't understand how some could not care...Kashi's second daughter came about from a popped condom and she is not the same momma as the 1st and 2nd..yep him bad..heheee

He has to be bad to keep up with you missy do.

Like u care if u pubic enemy #1

HURSH!!!! said with love again.

Hail Silassi!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Once again>>>>>>Nite Massive......kimmy how's u hand bag, roxi..u good, jaw and JAhoney me see u, marie me need some lessons.....everybdy else me see u to>>>>

girl..she deh yah..just drop a sleep..mi hand dem tired..so why smaddy neva remind mi seh mi nuffy do Kimora hair cause no school tomorrow...

Lady Riggan!!! Wha yuh deh pon?

me deh yah a watch me husbnd a get excited ova the fooseball game>>>> him team a play ....a come threathen me.....bout watch him an me if him team win.....me a go tek some benadryl yah no wso by d time the game dun me a sleep

a wah u a seh...mi a go call him now and warn him..brite..bout benadryl..mia go tell !!

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Hey All....I FINALLY have a picture for my personal setting, after a year and a half! LOLLLL

Hope everyone had a good weekend. Me & my sister are up here in Jersey rooting for the Steelers like some fools. Dave's in JA watching the playoffs in Ochi. LOLLLL

Go Steelers!!!

[Tosh Love 77]

im gonna need a VJ member to call 911 and send them to my house cause im bout to bust one of the pinckney in his head, and i need them to get here in order to save him, he just got done eating not even and hour ago, he earlier had chips, and a rice crispie treat, i prepared him and his brother some pork chops and green beans, he ate that as well, then got the nerve to get mad and say why i didnt save him no fish, i said dagnabit can i have anything to myself, then he says can i have some candy i say NO, he says well what you eating, i say a piece of cake, he says can i have some i say NO, it has nuts your allergic, then he says im going and microwave a hot pocket, im like NO< then he says well can i have the last pork chop, i say look i have already washed all dishes and cleaned kitchen, you said you were full, then he says arent there pringles in the cabinet, im LIKE GO THE HELL AWAaY...if i honestly thought he was hungry i would give him more, but he is a boredom eater and is getting chubbier with every passing month, and he isnt getting any taller, guess he took after my side of the family. now he sitting here sniffling and mumbling im hungry.....LAWD someone send help quick!!!!!

This reminds me of this 911 call. Check it out!

[dillon 6]

Hey Shaunsgal you ready for your trip tomorrow?

[tnw 0]

Hey Shaunsgal you ready for your trip tomorrow?

Yeah, I know ur excited......

Pittsburgh's going to the Superbowl, Hooray! :dance:

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hey Ton

like the pic...u wear that blond

[Shemmy 4]

Hey Shaunsgal you ready for your trip tomorrow?

Yeah, I know ur excited......

Pittsburgh's going to the Superbowl, Hooray! :dance:

That's good. Damien watched games all day Are you enjoying your birthday weekend?

[Shemmy 4]

The dinner party was nice...lots of good food and dancing. I wore a new pair of boots...everything hurts...feet, legs and knees.

[Shemmy 4]

Jawi - you ask good questions but I was wondered the same thing. We used condoms until we got married. Once we run out and he wouldn't touch me at all (not that I wanted him to) but that told me he really cared about himself.

I met this lady who was visiting her husband in JA years ago. We hung out a few times and exchanged numbers. She learned she had two STDs when she returned...it was so sad. All she kept saying was...he's my husband, I trusted and loved him. I said well you should loved yourself first.

[Shemmy 4]

Regarding the boots topic, i got every boot you can imagine, glow in the dark, flavored, ribbed, feathered, flower scented, vibrating boots, womens boots, mens boots, whatever you need i got. i got two boys to raise and they need there mom, no hood/wood/####### is worth me dying for.

they make those???? how???

Where do you get the virbrating ones from?