Yardies at home and Farrin (part12)

[MSNELLY 0]

kids today is off the chain thats all i have to say!!!!!!!!!!!

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

Jakeswife are you saying if you are pregnant you don't want to drive?

[SupportOAFJF 0]

Well Jakeswife, I don't know about other parents but I am not a hitter at all, now I am a yeller, so Brycie knows when I have raised my voice she has gone over-board. She will straighten up. My parents were not hitter, so I don't believe in it. Now I have seen my cousins get beaten with shoes, belts , broom handles.

You can disciple a child to respect you as a parent without hitting. I have a rule in my house no one raises their hand to another person, because I don't want my daughter to think it is okay if a man should want to use her as a punching bag.

Good everning to everyone.....

Bless

See Rox..it's a toally dif way in JA if ur parent slaps u...it is not right man or woman to hit another..I do believe some kids fi get slap every now and then..ir ur a woman and u slap her daughter why would she think that it is ok for a MAN to hit her...the child must separate discipline from torture or abuse..

Jakeswife are you saying if you are pregnant you don't want to drive?

she betta get wid it...wah yuh feel like u ave cheuffer brite !! weh yuh husband # so mi can warn him

kids today is off the chain thats all i have to say!!!!!!!!!!!

they sure r

[jakeswife 0]

Well Jakeswife, I don't know about other parents but I am not a hitter at all, now I am a yeller, so Brycie knows when I have raised my voice she has gone over-board. She will straighten up. My parents were not hitter, so I don't believe in it. Now I have seen my cousins get beaten with shoes, belts , broom handles.

You can disciple a child to respect you as a parent without hitting. I have a rule in my house no one raises their hand to another person, because I don't want my daughter to think it is okay if a man should want to use her as a punching bag.

Good everning to everyone.....

Bless

a little slap to the baxside once in a while won't hurt and i will not make it a habit that it becomes my only means of communicating dsicipline to my children. my mother give me a couple red A##ss when i was growing up and it didn't spell abuse nor did we percieve her actions to be abusive. i am just saying that kids today are very defensive and daring these days and it hurks me that parents are not bothered by the way their kids respond to them. so rox not talking about ""ALEX HALEY ,ROOTS"" treatment just proper disciplinary skills

Edited February 8, 2009 by jakeswife

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

Kimmy, I agree some kids do need some type of discipline, but some people don't know how to seperate discipline from abuse. So, it sometime become a blended action, where has the discpline turns into abuse. Yes, some kids needs to be jacked up in the collar..... I have seen too many young ladies accept abuse from their boyfriends because they have seen there mothers abused by her boyfriend. The lines get blurred....

[jakeswife 0]

And a so the parents dem just play it up infront a di pickney dem..all when nobody no round dem a bawl out " si chu mi no waan yuh call no 911 mek mi lef yuh" oh yea..si di phone yah call dem please !!

One a mi co-worker right now fi har 16 yr stop go a school..just stop brap one day..months now him no go..u tink him coulda stay inna my house a day time yuh mussi mad..and nyam fi mi food...dem him burthday was wah day..u know she lefwuk early fi go pick up cake fi him..plus buy him chain...a wah do dem rass ppl yah...all have CPS a har door and back and forth a school..yuh mussi rass mad !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

well that spells manhood so him and him manhood will have to get out and find a life where it is ok for him to do what him want without my interference and that would be out of my house. if he can make a decision like that well he can deal wid my decision fi fling him out.

[Islanddream 0]

Well Jakeswife, I don't know about other parents but I am not a hitter at all, now I am a yeller, so Brycie knows when I have raised my voice she has gone over-board. She will straighten up. My parents were not hitter, so I don't believe in it. Now I have seen my cousins get beaten with shoes, belts , broom handles.

You can disciple a child to respect you as a parent without hitting. I have a rule in my house no one raises their hand to another person, because I don't want my daughter to think it is okay if a man should want to use her as a punching bag.

Good everning to everyone.....

Bless

See Rox..it's a toally dif way in JA if ur parent slaps u...it is not right man or woman to hit another..I do believe some kids fi get slap every now and then..ir ur a woman and u slap her daughter why would she think that it is ok for a MAN to hit her...the child must separate discipline from torture or abuse..

Jakeswife are you saying if you are pregnant you don't want to drive?

she betta get wid it...wah yuh feel like u ave cheuffer brite !! weh yuh husband # so mi can warn him

kids today is off the chain thats all i have to say!!!!!!!!!!!

they sure r

Hey Everyone Just Dropping by to say hello, sorry i havnt participated much just cant catch up uno really can chat(Smile) My Case has been completed 2 months now, i am getting the shots i need from my local Clinic anyone use Mobay hope? Do i have to get shots there?

Stacey

[jakeswife 0]

Jakeswife are you saying if you are pregnant you don't want to drive?

no i will just fake mornin sickness

[MSNELLY 0]

Jakeswife are you saying if you are pregnant you don't want to drive?

no i will just fake mornin sickness

u mite not have to fake it jakes

[dillon 6]

I got "spanked" as a child. My Dad's saying is if you don't listen with your ears you will listen through your rear. I have the same belief with my daughter and I tell you I don't have spank her much at all. She usually gets the hint with the look of death that I give her.

[SupportOAFJF 0]

Kimmy, I agree some kids do need some type of discipline, but some people don't know how to seperate discipline from abuse. So, it sometime become a blended action, where has the discpline turns into abuse. Yes, some kids needs to be jacked up in the collar..... I have seen too many young ladies accept abuse from their boyfriends because they have seen there mothers abused by her boyfriend. The lines get blurred....

boy i wanna collar some of them myself

see thats a different case..if u accept abuse inront of ur kids then what r they to think...

[jakeswife 0]

I got "spanked" as a child. My Dad's saying is if you don't listen with your ears you will listen through your rear. I have the same belief with my daughter and I tell you I don't have spank her much at all. She usually gets the hint with the look of death that I give her.

dill you ask mi fi start topic and then disappear kimmy him like fi drive mi around but mi know later is a different story. he is more excited mi get mi car than i am. u wait when mi start drive mi ago bun up miles at the mall

[SupportOAFJF 0]

And a so the parents dem just play it up infront a di pickney dem..all when nobody no round dem a bawl out " si chu mi no waan yuh call no 911 mek mi lef yuh" oh yea..si di phone yah call dem please !!

One a mi co-worker right now fi har 16 yr stop go a school..just stop brap one day..months now him no go..u tink him coulda stay inna my house a day time yuh mussi mad..and nyam fi mi food...dem him burthday was wah day..u know she lefwuk early fi go pick up cake fi him..plus buy him chain...a wah do dem rass ppl yah...all have CPS a har door and back and forth a school..yuh mussi rass mad !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

well that spells manhood so him and him manhood will have to get out and find a life where it is ok for him to do what him want without my interference and that would be out of my house. if he can make a decision like that well he can deal wid my decision fi fling him out.

girl..yuh no understand mi pissed fi har..and she chat to him like him an her a big fren...listen mi no yuh frn mi a yuh modda..mi no play dat go chat to yuh cumbolo dem so...

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

Jake and Kimmy I do understand where you'll are coming from, but not all parents know when to stop. I remember when i first met Joel, and I was correcting my Brucie and I was just talking to her, but in a low but stern voice. Joel said to me you know I am going to marry you, because our child will never be hit. I had to ask him to explained to me why he was saying this. He did explain to me how some kids are discplined in JA, but I corrected him and say kids are discplined that way her too, but I realized that I could get a better reaction out of Trouble by lowinf my voice but making it stern. That I didn't need to hit or even yell at her. I know this don't work for every child, and all parent have disciple methods that work for them. The one thinf you must always make the child aware of is, that you as the parent is the one in charge. This being friends with your children is a big crock of shyt. I can be your friend, but I am still the parent and I am in charge.

[SupportOAFJF 0]

I got "spanked" as a child. My Dad's saying is if you don't listen with your ears you will listen through your rear. I have the same belief with my daughter and I tell you I don't have spank her much at all. She usually gets the hint with the look of death that I give her.

dill you ask mi fi start topic and then disappear kimmy him like fi drive mi around but mi know later is a different story. he is more excited mi get mi car than i am. u wait when mi start drive mi ago bun up miles at the mall