Yardies at home and Farrin (part12)

[jawi876 2]

Even though Joel and I are married, we are still in a LDR, and I will insist that we use condoms. I can't nor do I want to take the risk, just yet. I love and trust my husband, but shyt does happens.

Absolutely..!

Hey all!

Jawi you brought up a good point. This goes with LDR or not

Me and Lance always strap up. If he doesnt have a condom I send him to buy one at a shop. I don't play when it comes to my sexual health because I do NOT want to end up a statistic. No offense to anyone but I don't believe in the whole pulling out thing. When I was 15 one of my friends got pregnant and she said "but he pulled out!" I learned in health class that the ####### produces pre-ejaculation which contains semen...the exact reason for how my friend got pregnant. I know everyone is different and there is a "whatever floats your boat" ideal that is very popular on the thread but this is just my 2 cents.

oh yes..all it takes is 1 good swimmer..

Luv.. I would say whatever is convenient for u at least 1 mth before the shower

AND IF HE SWIM LIKE NEMO YOU CAN PREPARE FOR A BABY

Unless it swims into deep space and beyond. LOL :rofl:

Jawi, I would like to make this clear to all I am not passing judgement on any one, we all must do what we feel is right, and right for me is condoms while my husband and I are in a LDR at all times.

ditto...please nobody take any offense to my opinions

lawd jeeze..mi figet mi disclaimer!

*THE ABOVE MENTIONED STATEMENTS ARE IN NO WAY JUDGING ANY OF THE MEMBERS HERE, JUST VOICING MY OPINION*

I can give all the disclaimers in the world...and I still come off as public enemy #1. I was typing this sentence and typed pubic instead of public...glad I caught that considering the current topic.

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

Hell, one of jobs one time was that I worked in STAT in HealthCare, well, the numbers for HIV cases around the world, was so mind blogging, that I wanted to never have sex again. But nature didn't allow that, I use to quote to people that the numbers of HIV's cases in your city amount to every 9th person. So let say you were on a bus, if you just start counting, their was the possibility of every 9th person to be infected with HIV.

I use to do that if I was on a bus, subway or even the airplane. I have gotten a little better of not being so #######.

[SupportOAFJF 0]

Like u care if u pubic enemy #1

[jawi876 2]

Regarding the boots topic, i got every boot you can imagine, glow in the dark, flavored, ribbed, feathered, flower scented, vibrating boots, womens boots, mens boots, whatever you need i got. i got two boys to raise and they need there mom, no hood/wood/####### is worth me dying for.

I know... I was rolling at your recount of buying the vibrating ones. I could see you looking all nervous and sweaty just from buying vibrating condoms.

Hey all!

Jawi you brought up a good point. This goes with LDR or not

Me and Lance always strap up. If he doesnt have a condom I send him to buy one at a shop. I don't play when it comes to my sexual health because I do NOT want to end up a statistic. No offense to anyone but I don't believe in the whole pulling out thing. When I was 15 one of my friends got pregnant and she said "but he pulled out!" I learned in health class that the ####### produces pre-ejaculation which contains semen...the exact reason for how my friend got pregnant. I know everyone is different and there is a "whatever floats your boat" ideal that is very popular on the thread but this is just my 2 cents.

Here! Here! Marie. Pre-ejaculation has the most potent sperm count. I know that condoms are not 100% protection (I got pregnant with my first son because the condom popped and the SOB didn't want to stop)...I know that counting on my absetinence is not 100% either...so I will deal with the condoms any day. I always have enough condoms to supply the hotel. LOL...

I also don't think a lot of people will really be honest here...and will give answers that are good PR. But, I'm glad to hear that those of us on here tonight care enough to wear boots.

don't understand how some could not care...Kashi's second daughter came about from a popped condom and she is not the same momma as the 1st and 2nd..yep him bad..heheee

He has to be bad to keep up with you missy do.

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

Honey glad the fish turn out some what okay.

[shrewdgal 0]

Regarding the boots topic, i got every boot you can imagine, glow in the dark, flavored, ribbed, feathered, flower scented, vibrating boots, womens boots, mens boots, whatever you need i got. i got two boys to raise and they need there mom, no hood/wood/####### is worth me dying for.

they make those???? how???

[Marie876 0]

Mi modda would ALWAYS tell mi and mi sis...nuh bodda have sex until you can hangle di responsibility! i would always roll my eyes

but seriously...condoms arent 100%. i was sexually active for a while and it wasnt until last year i went and took my first AIDS test. i dunno why i never took one before...i guess shame or thinking "naw that would never happen to me". but thanks GOD when the result come mi nuh have nuttn. i felt like a huge weight been taken off my shoulder.

honestly..i need to go make Lance take one when I go down...cuz I havent been since October and i trust him with all my heart but...well...like Roxcie said shyt happens

Edited January 19, 2009 by Marie87

[JaHoney 3]

im gonna need a VJ member to call 911 and send them to my house cause im bout to bust one of the pinckney in his head, and i need them to get here in order to save him, he just got done eating not even and hour ago, he earlier had chips, and a rice crispie treat, i prepared him and his brother some pork chops and green beans, he ate that as well, then got the nerve to get mad and say why i didnt save him no fish, i said dagnabit can i have anything to myself, then he says can i have some candy i say NO, he says well what you eating, i say a piece of cake, he says can i have some i say NO, it has nuts your allergic, then he says im going and microwave a hot pocket, im like NO< then he says well can i have the last pork chop, i say look i have already washed all dishes and cleaned kitchen, you said you were full, then he says arent there pringles in the cabinet, im LIKE GO THE HELL AWAaY...if i honestly thought he was hungry i would give him more, but he is a boredom eater and is getting chubbier with every passing month, and he isnt getting any taller, guess he took after my side of the family. now he sitting here sniffling and mumbling im hungry.....LAWD someone send help quick!!!!!

[jawi876 2]

Like u care if u pubic enemy #1

HURSH!!!! said with love again.

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

Regarding the boots topic, i got every boot you can imagine, glow in the dark, flavored, ribbed, feathered, flower scented, vibrating boots, womens boots, mens boots, whatever you need i got. i got two boys to raise and they need there mom, no hood/wood/####### is worth me dying for.

they make those???? how???

Don't they advertise these on the TV, you can order them and have them send directly to your house. Just google condoms....

[JaHoney 3]

shrewdie yeah they make them, its a regular condom and it has a ring with a little battery in it that vibrates...LOL

i just took a AIDS test in Nov, when the little heffa at the foster home bit me, so im good, but gotta stay strapped up.

( this boy ova here still mumbling)

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

im gonna need a VJ member to call 911 and send them to my house cause im bout to bust one of the pinckney in his head, and i need them to get here in order to save him, he just got done eating not even and hour ago, he earlier had chips, and a rice crispie treat, i prepared him and his brother some pork chops and green beans, he ate that as well, then got the nerve to get mad and say why i didnt save him no fish, i said dagnabit can i have anything to myself, then he says can i have some candy i say NO, he says well what you eating, i say a piece of cake, he says can i have some i say NO, it has nuts your allergic, then he says im going and microwave a hot pocket, im like NO< then he says well can i have the last pork chop, i say look i have already washed all dishes and cleaned kitchen, you said you were full, then he says arent there pringles in the cabinet, im LIKE GO THE HELL AWAaY...if i honestly thought he was hungry i would give him more, but he is a boredom eater and is getting chubbier with every passing month, and he isnt getting any taller, guess he took after my side of the family. now he sitting here sniffling and mumbling im hungry.....LAWD someone send help quick!!!!!

Honey he is a growing boy, feed that boy. He will be like that until he turns 18, so if it's the 10year old one, you have a long way to go.

[Marie876 0]

I can give all the disclaimers in the world...and I still come off as public enemy #1. I was typing this sentence and typed pubic instead of public...glad I caught that considering the current topic.

A so it go yah....you a goodas...you nuh deh yah fi beg fren B)

[JaHoney 3]

yall this boy gonna make me choke him, should i give him more food, there is no way he can possibly be starving like he is acting, he is 10 and a bit of a drama queen. i wish i had some fruit in the house ( im ashamed) but if i dont get a reign on him he is gonna be a FATTY.

( now he talking about (sigh) was the fish good...( still sniffling)....

[jawi876 2]

Mi modda would ALWAYS tell mi and mi sis...nuh bodda have sex until you can hangle di responsibility! i would always roll my eyes

but seriously...condoms arent 100%. i was sexually active for a while and it wasnt until last year i went and took my first AIDS test. i dunno why i never took one before...i guess shame or thinking "naw that would never happen to me". but thanks GOD when the result come mi nuh have nuttn. i felt like a huge weight been taken off my shoulder.

honestly..i need to go make Lance take one when I go down...cuz I havent been since October and i trust him with all my heart but...well...like Roxcie said shyt happens

Really? I had my first HIV test at age 18, and I have been consistently testing since then. If the doctor has to take blood for any reason, I request an HIV test.

im gonna need a VJ member to call 911 and send them to my house cause im bout to bust one of the pinckney in his head, and i need them to get here in order to save him, he just got done eating not even and hour ago, he earlier had chips, and a rice crispie treat, i prepared him and his brother some pork chops and green beans, he ate that as well, then got the nerve to get mad and say why i didnt save him no fish, i said dagnabit can i have anything to myself, then he says can i have some candy i say NO, he says well what you eating, i say a piece of cake, he says can i have some i say NO, it has nuts your allergic, then he says im going and microwave a hot pocket, im like NO< then he says well can i have the last pork chop, i say look i have already washed all dishes and cleaned kitchen, you said you were full, then he says arent there pringles in the cabinet, im LIKE GO THE HELL AWAaY...if i honestly thought he was hungry i would give him more, but he is a boredom eater and is getting chubbier with every passing month, and he isnt getting any taller, guess he took after my side of the family. now he sitting here sniffling and mumbling im hungry.....LAWD someone send help quick!!!!!

AWWWWWWWW....give that baby a pork chop! What about a piece of fruit?