Yardies at home and Farrin (part12)

[SupportOAFJF 0]

Honey..U have to file a report..there are time limits on some of these things..remember HR is not really for the employees..the company u work for is her/his boss too...they will give u guidance but will not TELL u what to do..they have to just make sure they are within the law guidelines..

[JaHoney 3]

Thanks Kimmy,

Honestly i have never worked anywhere where certain things are so BLATANT and people just kind of turn there head!! of course, i have the be the " angry black girl" who cant take a joke, when i raise any type of hell ...LOL

[SupportOAFJF 0]

If something is offensive to u it's not a joke.that's how ALOT of ppl get caught up in SEXUAL HARASSMENT cases..they think it's a joke..u don't need "proof" to file a report

[MSNELLY 0]

Wonder where is Jakeswife i havent seen her on in a few days

[JaHoney 3]

I am so freaking cold, i refuse to turn up my heat any higher.. good lord!!! it is -4!!! i want winter to be over already

[MSNELLY 0]

I am so freaking cold, i refuse to turn up my heat any higher.. good lord!!! it is -4!!! i want winter to be over already

what is your heat on honey

[JaHoney 3]

71, Nelly thats the best i can do...LOL.. too expensive

[MSNELLY 0]

71, Nelly thats the best i can do...LOL.. too expensive

my daughter would never stay at your house girl one day i came on mines was on 89 i keep mines when no one is home at 69-70 and when we get in in the evening its set at 74

[JaHoney 3]

Nells trust me i want to turn it up, but my dang 16 yr old walking around in a tee shirt and basketball shorts and my youngest is in a hoodie and some pajama bottoms so i just got out a blanket, some socks and my fuzzy house coat...

and when i get in bed i will turn on the electric blanket

[MSNELLY 0]

Nells trust me i want to turn it up, but my dang 16 yr old walking around in a tee shirt and basketball shorts and my youngest is in a hoodie and some pajama bottoms so i just got out a blanket, some socks and my fuzzy house coat...

and when i get in bed i will turn on the electric blanket

i feel you honey

[MSNELLY 0]

honey what about space heater

[Lovesponge 0]

I posted in the "How you met your SO" thread

I'm out now...

I was inspired and I posted my story too.

[JaHoney 3]

Nelly, i thought about getting one, for the most part the house stays pretty warm at 70 or 71, but the temps have dropped so low tonight, i swear i cant wait till spring!!

[MSNELLY 0]

Nelly, i thought about getting one, for the most part the house stays pretty warm at 70 or 71, but the temps have dropped so low tonight, i swear i cant wait till spring!!

thats good it stay warm at 70-71, me and you both cant wait until spring

[Lovesponge 0]

Lovesponge, Believe me they are aware, they just laugh it off and say " Oh mike is so funny" or just ignore him, he is stupid and the thing about it is, he is not just an Ahole to me, he is an AHOLE most of the time, one of my coworkers is a red head with fair skin, well she has cystic (?) acne and when she is stressed it gets bad, he calls her pizza faCE and all types of ish.. he has been there 10 years so of course no one is saying anything to him.. shoot maybe i will compile a binder of all the crapola so when its time to file my lawsuit,,,LOL.. i will be prepared. Now you know i work for community mental health right?? well we have some people who are "peers" or who have a mental illness who are employed in the office, to work with our clients and make them feel more comfortable per se, anyway they are kind of held to different standards than us " normal" folks, meaning when one of them does something stupid it is kind of overlooked, cause of the mental illness...

well one day one of the peers, who is a little nutty but who i thought was overall harmless, was kind of off kilter, though i honestly cant tell the difference most days, anyway i speak to him everyday, just being friendly.. well one day i said hello to him, he hemmed me up against the wall , told me i smelled good, said give me a hug and then proceeded to put his lips on my neck so he could kiss my neck!!!! all this in the office hallway... i was so freaked out, i couldnt move, and part of me wanted to bust him in the head, but that woulda been me fired( trust me) so i went to his direct supervisor and told her what happened they called him and talked to him, basically gave him a slap on the wrist and said you cant be doing that.. he told them he had stopped taking his meds and hadnt seen his psychiatrist in 3 months so he was a little manic!!! Its sexual harassment all day long and if anyone of us had done something like that , we would be collecting unemployment now!!!...LOL.. they told me they were writing him up on formal sexual harassment in the workplace charges and it would go in his file, did they.. I honestly dont think so!!! and now i still have to face this man everyday in the workplace, no matter how uncomfortable i feel, i go out of my way to avoid him and i shouldnt have to feel that way.. ah so it goes.. but obviously i have bills to pay, kids to feed and need my job ( SIGH)

SORRY ABOUT THE BOOK!!

I hear what your saying, but honestly that sounds like a hostile work environment to me. If I were you I would go over someones head and make a formal complaint. They Absolutely, Positively cannot fire you for that, there are state and federal laws that protect you against sexual harassment in the workplace. But I do understand your resistance because although they cannot fire you for complaining, they might think that you are not a team player and fire you for somthing else or make you life a living Hell so you quit. Its a tough decision and we all have bills to pay but we also have our dignity and no Job is worth that.

Is it somthing that bothers you on a daily basis or just now and then? Remember no matter where you go every job has THOSE people that just get on our last d@m nerves but we just deal with it and move on. But if its affecting your work it may be a big problem.