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YAYYYYY..party at wakey's house.EXCITING

jgay.. u stay encouraged girl.. u are right, hubby can't be trying to look for a job and doing that kind of stuff.. but what does gill say "those that cyaan hear, mus FEEL" (I love that saying lol) if he chooses not to heed to ur warning, maybe that first missed job opportunity will show him.. I pray that he LISTENS tho b4 it comes to that..

men rarely listen to their women unfortunately, wish their was some male friend or elder that could RANDOMLY mention the danger...hmmmm

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I wished the mister could meet some friends, he hangs out with my friend husband but he doesn't understand when he talks and always asking him what he says, and he is so shy. I wish he would meet some friends. Just now he was using my #### to bounce his tennis balls (I was going to say to bounce his balls but I just realized that some may get the wrong idea so let me spell out what kinda balls)

~9/8/08 - I-129F sent VSC

~9/17/08 - NOA1 received[/color]

~9/22/08 - I29F approved

~9/26/08 - NOA 2 received

~10-01-08 - NVC processed petition

~10-03-08 - Packet 3 mailed

~10-15-08 - Packet 3 dropped off at embassy

~11-21-08 - Interview!

~11-21-2008- VISA APPROVED!!!

~12-9-08 - arrived-POE JFK

married on ~2-27-09-

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~4-21-09 Biometrics appt

~3-31-09 Biometics Done!

~5/1/09 AP Received

~4/27/09 EAD order for production

~7/24/09 =AOS interview

~7/24/09 = GC approved pending completed vaccination record.

~8/27/09 = provided an updated vaccination record (hubby had to get another shot)

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GREAT ADVICE everyone! I didn't want to comment because without having been in that situation, I don't think I have the authority to advise on it....I won't know how I'll react to that situation until it happens to me but your answers are well thought and make sense. I worry about whether my mister will be bored and will be without friends and how I'm going to cope because I also have a pretty wide social circle (except lately I've been kind of a hermit) and if I'm off doing something, he might feel lonely....unless of course I drag him around with me everywhere which he may or may not appreciate.

i might be underestimating him, but that is more of my worry too ells.. i have my friends and my social scenes.. also as a mother so of course there is always SOMETHING going on.. i get worried about RG getting lost in all of it.. and feeling "not apart"..i hope he does find a good group of friends here and finds "RG's place" in Dallas

Quan, the mister told me that on Sunday that some days he feels so lost, I know its hard on him not having a job and not doing anything and not having no friends.

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GREAT ADVICE everyone! I didn't want to comment because without having been in that situation, I don't think I have the authority to advise on it....I won't know how I'll react to that situation until it happens to me but your answers are well thought and make sense. I worry about whether my mister will be bored and will be without friends and how I'm going to cope because I also have a pretty wide social circle (except lately I've been kind of a hermit) and if I'm off doing something, he might feel lonely....unless of course I drag him around with me everywhere which he may or may not appreciate.

i might be underestimating him, but that is more of my worry too ells.. i have my friends and my social scenes.. also as a mother so of course there is always SOMETHING going on.. i get worried about RG getting lost in all of it.. and feeling "not apart"..i hope he does find a good group of friends here and finds "RG's place" in Dallas

Quan, the mister told me that on Sunday that some days he feels so lost, I know its hard on him not having a job and not doing anything and not having no friends.

:crying:

I know I started crying got him crying and I don't know what to do, I ask him if he wants to go home he said No he just wants a job.

~9/8/08 - I-129F sent VSC

~9/17/08 - NOA1 received[/color]

~9/22/08 - I29F approved

~9/26/08 - NOA 2 received

~10-01-08 - NVC processed petition

~10-03-08 - Packet 3 mailed

~10-15-08 - Packet 3 dropped off at embassy

~11-21-08 - Interview!

~11-21-2008- VISA APPROVED!!!

~12-9-08 - arrived-POE JFK

married on ~2-27-09-

===========================================

AOS

~3-13-09 Mailed AOS

~3-16-09 AOS received

~3-23-09 NOA1 received

~4-21-09 Biometrics appt

~3-31-09 Biometics Done!

~5/1/09 AP Received

~4/27/09 EAD order for production

~7/24/09 =AOS interview

~7/24/09 = GC approved pending completed vaccination record.

~8/27/09 = provided an updated vaccination record (hubby had to get another shot)

~9/08/09 = GC in Hand (360 days from filing k1)

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I wished the mister could meet some friends, he hangs out with my friend husband but he doesn't understand when he talks and always asking him what he says, and he is so shy. I wish he would meet some friends. Just now he was using my #### to bounce his tennis balls (I was going to say to bounce his balls but I just realized that some may get the wrong idea so let me spell out what kinda balls)

LMAO.. that is cute.. I'm sure he loves the bounce back the balls are getting when he throws them :rofl:

A job soon come.

Intimacy, like charity, begins at home. If we cannot be intimate with ourselves, we have no way to bring to intimacy with another person.

Intimacy with ourselves takes time. We need time for rest, time for walks, time for quiet, and time to tune into to ourselves. We cannot completely fill up our lives with activities and become intimate with ourselves. Nor can we just sit quietly indefinitely and become intimate with ourselves. We have to have the time and energy to be our lives and to do our live in order to establish and intimate relationship with ourselves.

Surprisingly, as we become intimate with ourselves, we discover our connection with others

Intimacy....In/to/me/see...

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I wished the mister could meet some friends, he hangs out with my friend husband but he doesn't understand when he talks and always asking him what he says, and he is so shy. I wish he would meet some friends. Just now he was using my #### to bounce his tennis balls (I was going to say to bounce his balls but I just realized that some may get the wrong idea so let me spell out what kinda balls)

LMAO.. that is cute.. I'm sure he loves the bounce back the balls are getting when he throws them :rofl:

A job soon come.

lol, yeah, since it is like throwing on a wall..

~9/8/08 - I-129F sent VSC

~9/17/08 - NOA1 received[/color]

~9/22/08 - I29F approved

~9/26/08 - NOA 2 received

~10-01-08 - NVC processed petition

~10-03-08 - Packet 3 mailed

~10-15-08 - Packet 3 dropped off at embassy

~11-21-08 - Interview!

~11-21-2008- VISA APPROVED!!!

~12-9-08 - arrived-POE JFK

married on ~2-27-09-

===========================================

AOS

~3-13-09 Mailed AOS

~3-16-09 AOS received

~3-23-09 NOA1 received

~4-21-09 Biometrics appt

~3-31-09 Biometics Done!

~5/1/09 AP Received

~4/27/09 EAD order for production

~7/24/09 =AOS interview

~7/24/09 = GC approved pending completed vaccination record.

~8/27/09 = provided an updated vaccination record (hubby had to get another shot)

~9/08/09 = GC in Hand (360 days from filing k1)

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I know I started crying got him crying and I don't know what to do, I ask him if he wants to go home he said No he just wants a job.

oh portland.. i am soooo sorry mami, its not easy.. RG is shy too, even around other Caribbean people.. :blush:

he has his ssn now, maybe things will get better.. maybe volunteering somewhere just to have something to do?? my prayers go out to u guys.. its apart of the process, i dont want it to be a strain on ur relationship.. remind him one day, all this frustration will be a distant memory.. something u guys will smile and talk about when ur old..

I wished the mister could meet some friends, he hangs out with my friend husband but he doesn't understand when he talks and always asking him what he says, and he is so shy. I wish he would meet some friends. Just now he was using my #### to bounce his tennis balls (I was going to say to bounce his balls but I just realized that some may get the wrong idea so let me spell out what kinda balls)

LMAO.. that is cute.. I'm sure he loves the bounce back the balls are getting when he throws them :rofl:

A job soon come.

lol, yeah, since it is like throwing on a wall..

Gone on BRICKHOUSE!!!

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I know I started crying got him crying and I don't know what to do, I ask him if he wants to go home he said No he just wants a job.

oh portland.. i am soooo sorry mami, its not easy.. RG is shy too, even around other Caribbean people.. :blush:

he has his ssn now, maybe things will get better.. maybe volunteering somewhere just to have something to do?? my prayers go out to u guys.. its apart of the process, i dont want it to be a strain on ur relationship.. remind him one day, all this frustration will be a distant memory.. something u guys will smile and talk about when ur old..

I wished the mister could meet some friends, he hangs out with my friend husband but he doesn't understand when he talks and always asking him what he says, and he is so shy. I wish he would meet some friends. Just now he was using my #### to bounce his tennis balls (I was going to say to bounce his balls but I just realized that some may get the wrong idea so let me spell out what kinda balls)

LMAO.. that is cute.. I'm sure he loves the bounce back the balls are getting when he throws them :rofl:

A job soon come.

lol, yeah, since it is like throwing on a wall..

Gone on BRICKHOUSE!!!

It does feel good to know others are making it through the same struggle. I'm praying for a turn around for each of us soon.

I'm going to take my bath..ttyl

Intimacy, like charity, begins at home. If we cannot be intimate with ourselves, we have no way to bring to intimacy with another person.

Intimacy with ourselves takes time. We need time for rest, time for walks, time for quiet, and time to tune into to ourselves. We cannot completely fill up our lives with activities and become intimate with ourselves. Nor can we just sit quietly indefinitely and become intimate with ourselves. We have to have the time and energy to be our lives and to do our live in order to establish and intimate relationship with ourselves.

Surprisingly, as we become intimate with ourselves, we discover our connection with others

Intimacy....In/to/me/see...

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Yeah, he has filled out several volunteer applications but haven't gotten any call back for that either. He has class twice a week so that gets him out the house a little bit. And we try to go for walks and he goes to the gym. But he has his manly pride about a man should work and take care of business so we watched the news together and he sees how crazy the economy is and knows it will not be easy.

~9/8/08 - I-129F sent VSC

~9/17/08 - NOA1 received[/color]

~9/22/08 - I29F approved

~9/26/08 - NOA 2 received

~10-01-08 - NVC processed petition

~10-03-08 - Packet 3 mailed

~10-15-08 - Packet 3 dropped off at embassy

~11-21-08 - Interview!

~11-21-2008- VISA APPROVED!!!

~12-9-08 - arrived-POE JFK

married on ~2-27-09-

===========================================

AOS

~3-13-09 Mailed AOS

~3-16-09 AOS received

~3-23-09 NOA1 received

~4-21-09 Biometrics appt

~3-31-09 Biometics Done!

~5/1/09 AP Received

~4/27/09 EAD order for production

~7/24/09 =AOS interview

~7/24/09 = GC approved pending completed vaccination record.

~8/27/09 = provided an updated vaccination record (hubby had to get another shot)

~9/08/09 = GC in Hand (360 days from filing k1)

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One of my best friends came here from South Africa through marriage - She volunteered and took classes until she could work - She says to this day that that was her saving grace, because it got her out of the house and meeting people - We met in school, and 10 years later are best of friends. I think volunteering or classes would be a great help - it could also help their career options.

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One of my best friends came here from South Africa through marriage - She volunteered and took classes until she could work - She says to this day that that was her saving grace, because it got her out of the house and meeting people - We met in school, and 10 years later are best of friends. I think volunteering or classes would be a great help - it could also help their career options.

I know, that's what we have been trying to do to build up his network.

~9/8/08 - I-129F sent VSC

~9/17/08 - NOA1 received[/color]

~9/22/08 - I29F approved

~9/26/08 - NOA 2 received

~10-01-08 - NVC processed petition

~10-03-08 - Packet 3 mailed

~10-15-08 - Packet 3 dropped off at embassy

~11-21-08 - Interview!

~11-21-2008- VISA APPROVED!!!

~12-9-08 - arrived-POE JFK

married on ~2-27-09-

===========================================

AOS

~3-13-09 Mailed AOS

~3-16-09 AOS received

~3-23-09 NOA1 received

~4-21-09 Biometrics appt

~3-31-09 Biometics Done!

~5/1/09 AP Received

~4/27/09 EAD order for production

~7/24/09 =AOS interview

~7/24/09 = GC approved pending completed vaccination record.

~8/27/09 = provided an updated vaccination record (hubby had to get another shot)

~9/08/09 = GC in Hand (360 days from filing k1)

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evening ladies, just wanted to pop in and say hello...

Portland, you mention your husband is taking classes, is there a possibility he could take an unpaid internship thru his school, if he is in college, it will give him a feel for what its like and give him something to put on a resume.

Wakey,

I agree with the ladies about not giving dwayne some room but i also know with that said, that as soon as D gets here,if it becomes an issue it will be an issue. My ex, used to run the streets and i hated it. One thing i realize is though is that i too must make sure my own life is fulfilled in many ways while going thru this process cause at times it feels like, yes i must be available cause JA is calling, or figuring out how to stretch my next nickel to get back to JA< usually within a week or two of returning from my last trip. I have found it is very easy to become consumed... i gotta get a hobby....LOL

Quana, i was asking about if you worked for SSA, cause they are getting ready to do mass hiring here and im going to apply, but the application process looks a little stressful, im almost wondering are they gonna ask for a hair sample and blood sample?

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Wakey - great questions and lots of good advice.

My issue is the opposite...hubby rarely leaves the house without me. I move...he moves. In 4 years, he has met lots of friends but won't accept any invitations. I always encourage him to go out. The only true friend he had moved to NY two years ago. He finally met two guys recently who he likes to hang out but I still have to push him outta the door. I have to plan "play dates" sometimes to keep my sanity. Hopefully, he'll go hang with the fellas more.

Sounds crazy :wacko:

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