Yardies at home and Farrin (part12)

[JaHoney 3]

luv, i called him that cause he peed in the floor of the garage at his group home...

he didnt used to be so bad, but he is decompensating more everyday. so pee pee man, he is for today at least.

[jakeswife 0]

Mi horiginally start fe post wid de quote ting...but mi low ie. Mek mi sey in LOUD and CLEAR so oonu nuh tink mi jump pon wan bloodclatt bandwagon. Mi nuh follower frum mi bawn straight! Hennyting mi have fe say...mi sey ie zeen? OOnu wan fe see war...mi will RASSCLATT bring ie!

Hennybody wid wan rass problem wid mi...

LOW MI and suck hout yuh modda rassclott aizehole!!!!!!!!! CHAT TUH MI BACK!!!! Mi his last ooman STANDING!!!! So lurk and chat mi hup inna PM nuff times still. Mi HIS certainly flattered. Tonks! ****MMMMMUUUUAAAHHHH!!!!****

Jawi...I did not know u had that in you

I did

so this is the FRENCH in the patois. next time jawi do not take so long to let all this stress out . it so happens that i learn something today. patois is very useful when u mad.

Edited January 22, 2009 by jakeswife

[dillon 6]

Mi horiginally start fe post wid de quote ting...but mi low ie. Mek mi sey in LOUD and CLEAR so oonu nuh tink mi jump pon wan bloodclatt bandwagon. Mi nuh follower frum mi bawn straight! Hennyting mi have fe say...mi sey ie zeen? OOnu wan fe see war...mi will RASSCLATT bring ie!

Hennybody wid wan rass problem wid mi...

LOW MI and suck hout yuh modda rassclott aizehole!!!!!!!!! CHAT TUH MI BACK!!!! Mi his last ooman STANDING!!!!

So lurk and chat mi hup inna PM nuff times still. Mi HIS certainly flattered. Tonks! ****MMMMMUUUUAAAHHHH!!!!****

Go on Lady Saw!

[dancehallquana 5]

Okay, I'm off to my "mommy networking" meeting...I hope I don't get stuck with taking minutes again.

I learned a lesson, when you're in a room with a lot of people and someone ask if anyone has any secretarial experience DON'T RAISE YOUR HAND (so, I get the DA) certificate of the year...well, 6 months anyway.

if u are like me, dont raise ur hand at all in the meeting, bettr safe than sorry!!! see u girl!!

[Ellsinlove 2]

Just IGNORE the negative people! Even I have been offended in the last 24 hours with 'shawn' using me as the example of 'fat woman can only get JA man'. Don't let the people with hate and hurt in their heart spread that toxicity to you!

[mrsladyd 0]

This is a conversation I don't have, so I don't know why. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and I leave it at that. BTW-your kids are too cute..the baby is getting so big so fast! I miss those days.

ok, why not...u kinda opened the door IMO..and thnx..she is getting big

I feel like entertaining the conversation keeps the problem alive. You are right I guess about me opening the door, but I didn't want to be the one fielding the comments about me being white, stealing "their" men, stick to my own, he is disgracing his color, blah blah blah....I've heard it all before! That list can go on. I don't come here to offend anyone, and when I do I immediately apologize because it isn't my intention. Again, offending anyone was not my intention. But I have seen post about color, people flaunting, etc. Not naming because I don't really remember who, but it was here!

I've been here a little longer than you, and I missed this one. I don't remember any Black woman on VJ saying anything about a White woman stealing their man or for White women to stick to their own. i have seen us supporting a lot of interracial relationships on VJ...actually they tend to outnumber the Black/Jamaican or Jamaican/Jamaican relationships here. You may have heard it all before...just not on VJ...but you opened this can up tonight. I am a Black woman on VJ and I am offended. I for one am happy that you are with you man...he is not my type...but hey there is someone for everyone right. You need to be sure of who said what before you post that you saw the conversation.

I have never had a problem with inter-racial relationships. I do have a problem with White women thinking Jamaican men are somehow different from other Black men because they are exotic or have an accent. I think those women are fake and into the latest dating fad...has nothing to do with them being White.

If you have a problem...speak it...but don't try to be sarcastic and think noone will respond to the sarcaism. That's tacky.

See I said I was turning over a new leaf this year....there goes that resolution! Bridle my tongue...get thee behind Satan!!!!!

If this happened in PM, it should stay in PM.

Let me just say that the "things" I have heard I did not say that I heard them to me from here. They are things that have been said to me in the outside world, not on VJ. I want to clarify that. What was being said on VJ was something along the lines of someone having a problem with the white women flaunting about being with black men like trophy, or something along those lines. I understand what you mean about some thinking, that just because he is JA or whatever, he is "different" that could apply to any inter-cultural/racial relationship. I am also, not that woman. Like I said, the comment was made to me about "once you black, you can't go back," and I was trying to avoid all this. I did not want to be one the fielding any comments that may have come along with it (because I have seen a time or 2 some tension about race). Maybe I will not respond to those sort of things again. Another thing I wanted to clarify is that I did not use any sarcasm.......that is not the conversation for it. I know my boundaries with that. If you felt I was being sarcastic, I apologize you felt that way. I will again, apologize if I offended anyone.

[JaHoney 3]

Ells sometimes its hard to take the high road, when you are feeling attacked the natural instinct is to fight back. I am trying real hard, cause lawd knows i want to type every cuss word i know, shoot i might even create some new ones....LOL.. but at the end of the day it will change nothing... so im trying to walk away.

Ah so it goes...

ok, im out fi real this time

havent snuck out of work early in awhile, so i think today will be the perfect day.

[dancehallquana 5]

honey u a vj celebrity too girl.. ask beyonce how many people call her a B..

be easy my girl and chat w/ u later..

[Ellsinlove 2]

Just IGNORE the negative people! Even I have been offended in the last 24 hours with 'shawn' using me as the example of 'fat woman can only get JA man'. Don't let the people with hate and hurt in their heart spread that toxicity to you!

ADDENDUM TO MY OWN MESSAGE:

So anyone whose name got thrown into this mess today, don't take it personal (even though it's hard not to). The majority knows the TRUTH and YOU know the truth so that's all that matters.

I don't want Jaws' body hurting and being all messed up because something like this upset her and set her recovery back. Release it, let it go! As hard as it is, try!

[sus 70]

B = Babe in total charge of herself -

[JaHoney 3]

LOL.. i havent been called a Bytch in awhile( oops not counting today) umm let me think back, my Ex, ummm who else... nope cant recall any other times of recent, so i guess im doing good, averaging maybe 1 or 2 times a year....LOL

guess no worries huh?

BB, when you learn some new cuss words, PM me ok, i would love to hear them.

okay.....WHOO SAH!!!! im done. gonna let this go... I promise

[Ellsinlove 2]

Ells sometimes its hard to take the high road, when you are feeling attacked the natural instinct is to fight back. I am trying real hard, cause lawd knows i want to type every cuss word i know, shoot i might even create some new ones....LOL.. but at the end of the day it will change nothing... so im trying to walk away.

Ah so it goes...

ok, im out fi real this time

havent snuck out of work early in awhile, so i think today will be the perfect day.

Yes I know! A lot of times it's hard for me to take the high road too....I just don't want everyone feeling so upset over what some insignificant little person spewed out here. Trust me, enough times I've NOT taken the high road.

[jawi876 2]

Though i been called all kind of bytches today ( thanks again BB) just the ish that this person posted has created anger and dissension amongst this thread. i have been on VJ for 10 months now and really enjoyed the days of old. We used to have our friday night laugh fests and i literally raced home to log on, ( as if i wasnt actually logged on at work)

Like Quana said, this aint sesame street and we dont all have to love one another, but we are here because of one commonality... i hate negativity, though at times i can be the queen of negative. The yardie thread seems to be by far one of the most active on VJ, i would hate to see it self implode because of random stupid comments....

Okay im climbing off my soapbox now,... .

Exactly. Will you please let the forum know that we squashed the ish between us? At least I thought we had. Never was anything with me...just a matter of me apologizing for inadvertently hurting your feelings with my OUTSPOKEN azz. It appears that you have a group of women supporters that feel I have wronged you and some other people on the boards.

[dancehallquana 5]

tell me this.. why do ya'll think the kisteet is made to be such a JA thing.. we have been kisteeting my mama since we were old enough to tie our shoes LOL

i still do it..

i've heard rg do it, but not that much more than myself.. what do ya'll think..

wow.. 8 guests?? we are all celebrities now...

[jakeswife 0]

ok don't let mi bring out the banjo and start singing me cuumbaya.it's mean a while since i have sung my platinum number. so unnu nuh tempt me

Edited January 22, 2009 by jakeswife